How To Seduce Women With Your Voice

Men often change their vocal tonality when talking to an attractive woman. Instead of speaking with
their normal masculine voice, they speak in a higher pitch and use an overly friendly, agreeable
tonality.

Doing this robs the interaction of its charge. Instead of a man-to-woman conversation with sexual
tension, it becomes an emotionally flat, friend-to-friend interaction that would be more likely to end in
a boardroom than a bedroom.

Fortunately, anyone can improve their vocal tonality. But doing so isn't easy.

We don't hear our voice the way other people hear it. We might think we sound "alpha" when we
actually sound timid.

That's a problem because you can't change your vocal tonality until you know what you're doing
wrong.

There's a simple solution to this predicament: record audio of yourself speaking into a microphone.

Even better, you can record yourself interacting with women. That might sound like an awkward
thing to do, but you can actually record audio with almost no risk of anyone noticing.

Simply wear earbuds with a mic and rest them over your shirt (Bluetooth headphones also work
well). Use the voice recorder app on your phone to pick up the audio of your conversations (iPhones
have one pre-installed called voice Memos. On Android, you can search "voice recorder" on the App
Store).

Once you've got some audio of your interactions, listen to it and analyze what you're doing well and
what you could improve on.

Notice how your tonality is coming across: is it overly submissive? Confrontational? Monotone?

Look for anything about your tonality that can be improved. Maybe you could use more pauses,
speak with more emotion, or vary the rhythm more.

Listening to your recorded voice will give you emotional leverage to make a real change. You might,
for example, notice that you're coming across as quiet and shy.
That's actually a good thing. When you know your voice is timid, you will be viscerally motivated to
add more assertiveness and masculinity to your voice.

You might be worried that your voice will sound cringe-worthy, but that is exactly why this exercise is
so powerful. When you hear your mistakes objectively, you will have no choice but to improve.

Once you know what you want to change about your tonality, go out again, record your approaches,
and listen to the new audio. Over time, you will hear a noticeable improvement.

I don't recommend recording your approaches every day, that would be overwhelming. I suggest you
do this exercise once every week or two. However, if you are determined to improve your vocal
tonality, I do recommend that you take two minutes per day to record yourself at home (you can
simply talk about something that happened in your day). Make a point to focus on the qualities of a
powerful voice that I talk about below. Afterward, review the audio and think about what you want to
improve. If you do this exercise regularly, your voice will become increasingly charismatic and
seductive.

The Qualities of A Powerful Voice

Breaking rapport:
Men often speak with a voice that rises in pitch towards the end of sentences when interacting with
attractive women; this is called seeking rapport.

Seeking rapport is unattractive to women: you're making your voice sound submissive to be
unthreatening and likable.

When you speak in this tonality, you're sub-communicating that you see yourself as having lower
status than the person you're interacting with.

The second type of speaking is neutral rapport. In this mode, your pitch remains the same
throughout your sentences, and you sound monotone. Neutral rapport isn't as bad as seeking
rapport, but it does make you seem low energy and bored with yourself.
If your vocal pitch goes down towards the end of your sentences, you're speaking in breaking
rapport. This is attractive to women because it indicates that you're not reacting to the girl: you're
asserting yourself without hesitation.

Tyler Durden in the movie Fight Club is a great example of someone who speaks in breaking
rapport: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=chyRpj-971o

Passion:
A lot of men speak without injecting any emotion into their voice. This makes them sound robotic.

An emotionless voice is like noise, whereas a passionate voice is like music. Attracting women is all

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about sharing emotions, and your voice is one of the most powerful tools you have to do that with.

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Of course, you would seem crazy if you had normal conversations with that level of enthusiasm. A
more reasonable example of a passionate speaker is Elliot Hulse: https://youtu.be/2-W4C5SIAUA
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Pauses:
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Pauses build tension.

If you speak without pausing it will quickly feel like you're trying to bulldoze over the other person
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instead of having a real conversation involving two people which will make the other person feel
uncomfortable. (Did you notice why that sentence was hard to read?)

Pauses can also get the girl to invest more in her interaction with you. If you hold a pause for a few
seconds, she will feel an urge to fill in the silence by asking you a question.

Thirdly, pausing adds rhythm to your speaking, making it more dynamic and interesting.

The best example of using pauses I've ever seen is the spiritual teacher, Osho:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HY9aw5cQRDQ. Of course, he takes pausing to an extreme that
I don't recommend you emulate, but he demonstrates how to create intrigue and tension with
silence.
Varied tonality and rhythm:
When someone speaks with a monotone voice, we tune out because it feels like reading binary.

Speaking with a variety of tones will make you much more engaging. A new tonality perks up our
attention because it's unexpected; it adds variety and richness to your conversation.

Varying the rate of your speaking between slow and fast will also make your voice more interesting
to listen to. Rhythm is especially useful for emphasizing important points (by speaking slower).

Also, if you speak too fast in general, you'll make women feel that you're nervous. If this is the case,
slowing your voice down will make you substantially more attractive.

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A Deep Voice:

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If your voice is deep, everything you say will exude masculine energy. You don't need a deep voice
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to attract women, but it's an advantage (like being good-looking).

Tom Hiddleston and Benedict Cumberbatch are two of the male actors that women find the most
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sexually attractive.

Isn't that strange? Neither of them have the most traditionally attractive facial features, nor are they
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particularly muscular.

But they do both have something in common—powerful, deep voices.

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A deep voice by itself can turn a woman on, so it's definitely worth putting in an effort to deepen your
voice.

To practice deepening your voice, you can follow the advice in this article.

Conclusion
As you improve the quality of your voice with the methods you just learned, the responses you get
from women will become increasingly positive.

What you say matters, but I'd argue that how you say it is even more crucial. If you speak with a
masculine, passionate voice, women will find you significantly more attractive.