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50 Examples...

Turning Common Negative


Thoughts Into Positive Ones...

1
I CAN do this because I've
I can't do this... done things similar to this
before.

2
I always make mistakes... I do many things well.

3 I'm bad at I'm good at some subjects,


math/reading/writing/ but other subjects are more
science, etc... challenging for me.

4
I'm NEVER going to finish I've finished tasks like
this... this before.

5 I don't understand
It's an opportunity to
this...I've never done this
learn something new.
before...

6
My sister/brother is Everybody has different
better at this than I am... strengths &
weaknesses...I'm better
than my sister/brother at
other things

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It's too complicated... I'll tackle it from a different
angle.

8
I don't have the I can figure out a creative
resources/notes/supplies, way to get this done.
etc...

9 I'm too busy to get this I can make a schedule to get


done... this done on time

10 The other kids will laugh My friends probably feel just


at what I wrote in this as weird & uncomfortable
essay/poem/story... with this assignment as I
do.
11 There's NO WAY to solve I can try to make it work
this math problem... using a different
strategy.

12 I can take a break and figure


My brain JUST CAN'T
this out with a fresh
THINK straight!
perspective.

13 I'll give myself a few breaks


I'm too tired to think... so that I have enough energy
to finish.

14
I don't know if my teacher
It's ok to take a chance.
will like this...

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15 I didn't understand how
I'll tackle it from a different
the teacher explained it in angle.
class...

16 If I ask my I never think people are dumb


teacher/parent/friend for help for asking for help, so why
on this, they'll think I'm dumb... would people think that about
me?

17 This homework is so This might be boring, but I


BORING!! will finish it soon.

18 This ALWAYS looks easy


If I keep trying, I'll eventually
in class, but when I get
figure it out.
home it's much harder...

19 The faster I get this


But I DON'T LIKE doing done, the faster I can go
this... do something that I like.

20 I do lots of the same tasks


I get so tired of having to
every day & I can get
do this EVERY DAY...
through this one too.

21 If I slow down or take a


I just KEEP messing up
break, I'll feel better &
on this...
complete this task.

22 It's hard to get things right on


I NEVER do things right... the first try, but after some
practice, things get easier

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23 I didn't understand how
I'll tackle it from a different
the teacher explained it in angle.
class...

24 If I ask my I never think people are dumb


teacher/parent/friend for help for asking for help, so why
on this, they'll think I'm dumb... would people think that about
me?

25 This homework is so This might be boring, but I


BORING!! will finish it soon.

26 This ALWAYS looks easy


If I keep trying, I'll eventually
in class, but when I get
figure it out.
home it's much harder...

27 But I DON'T LIKE doing


The faster I get this
done, the faster I can go
this...
do something that I like.

28 I do lots of the same tasks


I get so tired of having to
every day & I can get
do this EVERY DAY...
through this one too.

29 If I slow down or take a


I just KEEP messing up
break, I'll feel better &
on this...
complete this task.

30 It's hard to get things right on


I NEVER do things right... the first try, but after some
practice, things get easier

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31
The other kids don't like They'll like me as soon as
me... they get to know me.

32
The other kids will Once I get to know the other kids
then we'll find things to laugh at
LAUGH at me... together.

33 I won't know anyone I'll know people as soon as I


there... introduce myself .

34 Maybe my friend is having a


My friend doesn't like me bad day. I'm sure we'll be
anymore... friends tomorrow.

35 The other kids think I'm


Everyone is different and the
other kids don't know me
WEIRD...
well enough yet.

36 In time I'll find out things


These FRIENDS aren't
that I like about these new
like my old friends...
friends.

37 It's ok if I don't get invited to


He/She won't ask me to
their party... this party. I'll be invited to
other parties.

38
I never know what to say I just need to be myself and
to the other kids... the kids will like me.

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39
No one would want to be Once they get to know me,
FRIENDS with me... I'll find a good friend.

40
My brother/sister has It doesn't matter how many
friends I have as long as I
more friends than me... have good friends.

41 I'm a valuable family


No one NOTICES me
around here... member.

42 When I get there, I'll be


I'm afraid I'll get SICK
having so much fun that I'll
when I get there...
forget about being sick.

43 Mom/Dad likes
Everyone is different and
my parents love both of
Brother/Sister better...
us equally.

44 Something bad will Things have been fine in the


happen if I'm not at past and they'll be fine now
HOME... too.

45 Brother/sister always gets It's easy to focus on what y


what he/she wants, but brother/sister gets and
I never do... forget what I get.

46 I don't like the way I look. Even famous people don't


I wish I looked Like look glamorous all the
someone famous... time.

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47 People will make fun of The imperfect things
me because of about me makes me unique
my WEIRD nose... and fun.

48
I can't make baskets in As long as I'm having fun
basketball in PE like the playing the game, that's all
other kids... that counts.

49
I won't get picked to be in It's fun to just try out - I won't
the school play, so know what opportunity will
WHY TRY? come up if I don't put myself
out there.

50
It's fun to just try new things
I'm not good at
out.
anything...

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