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Navigating Touchy Topics: 46 Scripts For Tough Conversations With Your Partner
Navigating Touchy Topics: 46 Scripts For Tough Conversations With Your Partner
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Navigating
Touchy Topics
46 scripts for tough
conversations with your partner
(with less drama and more connection)
These quick tips will allow your partner to let down their guard so
you can have a productive conversation.
Now that you have your rules of engagement, let’s dive into
the scripts!
2. I want to talk with you about something, and I’m feeling pretty
vulnerable about it. Is it OK to start the conversation now, or
would after dinner be better for you?
7. Thanks for sitting down with me. I feel cared for when you make
our relationship a priority.
10. I know we have a lot going on and the last thing you might want
to talk about right now is X. So thanks for sitting down with me.
33. When you’re not even sure where to start the conversation…
Today, I was thinking about that time when we X, and it absolutely
made my day. It got me thinking about how different our lives are
now that we have kids. I feel like something’s off between us
because Y. Do you feel that, too?
34. Thank you for talking with me about this. I feel loved when you
listen to my concerns and help me think through solutions.
35. I’m grateful for this conversation. It wasn’t easy to talk about
these things and I feel closer to you now than I did earlier today.
Thank you.
36. It felt really good to talk with you about this, even though it
wasn’t easy. Thanks for sticking with me in the conversation.
37. I want to take a break from this conversation. I’m not feeling
heard, and I can feel myself getting angrier. Let’s decide on a time to
pick back up.
38. I get the sense you need a break. I could use one, too. Can we
come back together in 30 minutes or so?
Many parents express irritation because they feel like they’re having
hard conversations with their partners over and over and over
again. That’s definitely frustrating. And it’s also…normal. When we’re
trying to develop new habits, we all need reminders (and loads of
grace).
42. I really appreciated how you backed me up when your mom said
something about what the kids were eating for dinner.
43. Thank you so much for running to the grocery store this week. It
was so nice to be able to play with the kids without being distracted
by my to-do list!
44. I saw you take a pause before you responded to our daughter’s
tantrum this morning. Did you notice how much faster she calmed
down when you offered to give her a hug? That was so sweet to
watch!
45. Oh my gosh thank you for taking care of the dishes tonight. I feel
so supported right now.
46. I know you had a tough week and really wanted to just veg out in
front of the TV. It means so much that you kept our date instead.
I love spending time with just you.
@psychedmommy
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