Assume that they’re right

● Treat them with respect

● Most people aren’t stupid
○ If someone believes something, there’s a coherent logic in their mind

Ask them what their stance is

● If there are weaknesses, resist the temptation to debate

○ Don’t point out the contradiction as an attack
● Pretend that you’re the idiot and they’re the expert
○ If you keep asking prodding, they might see the weakness of their argument

Get permission to share your point of view

● Try to agree as much as you can without compromising your point

○ Be non-judgemental
● Ask them what they think of your view
○ If you’ve emotionally mirrored properly, they will treat your view with respect

Set boundaries
Once there’s mutual understanding, even if there’s disagreement, you can set boundaries