Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Joseph A. Devito
Verbal Communication
Skills
Chapter 5
Chapter Objectives
5.1 Culture, words and meaning
5.2 Managing word barries
5.3 Words and relationship with others
5.4 Approaches to relating to others
Words can destroy. What we call
each other ultimately becomes
what we think of each other, and
it matters.
Jeanne J. Kirkpatrick
Verbal Messages–messages
sent by words, both oral and
written.
How Words Work (Continued)
Words are denotative and connotative
Words are concrete and abstract
Disconfirmation Confirmation
Jumps to interpretation or evaluation Demonstrates understanding of what the
rather than working at understanding other person says and means and reflects
what the other person means. understanding in what the other person
says; when in doubt asks questions.
Discourages, interrupts, or otherwise Encourages the other person to express his
makes it difficult for the other person or her thoughts and feelings by showing
to express him- or herself. interest and asking questions.
Avoids responding or responds Responds directly and exclusively to what
tangentially by acknowledging the other person says.
the other person’s comment
but shifts the focus of the message
in another direction.
VIEWPOINTS
Hate Speech (ucapan benci)
VIEWPOINTS
Gay Homophobes
VIEWPOINTS
The Spread of Sexism
Principles of Verbal Messages