Dear Mom,

I hope this letter finds you in good health and spirits. There are some things I've been meaning to
say, and I feel it's time to put them into words. I want to apologize for the way I've acted in the
past, for the times I may have hurt you or disobey you or made you feel like I wasn't appreciative
of everything you've done for me especially what you’ve been through in China.
Looking back, I realize that I've been so caught up in my own world, my own struggles, and
victories, that I haven't always considered how my actions might affect you. I know that I've
been stubborn, often pursuing my goals at the expense of the people who care about me the most
– especially you.
I want you to know that I've been reflecting on our relationship and the dynamics between us.
The game we've played, the unspoken rules that seemed to govern our interactions, have been
like a puzzle that I've been trying to solve. In my pursuit of success and independence, I may
have unintentionally pushed you away, creating distance instead of fostering connection. But I
have to mention that I’m still working hard to achieve what I have always dreamt of even if I see
that the majority are against me including you.
As I've grown and faced challenges, I've come to understand that the rules of the game are not set
in stone. They can be rewritten, and relationships can evolve. I see now that the sacrifices you
made and the guidance you provided were not attempts to control me, but rather expressions of
love and concern. I appreciate your wisdom and the experiences you've shared, and I regret not
acknowledging them sooner.
I want to make amends and work towards a more open and understanding relationship. I know
that I have a lot to learn from you, and I value the lessons you've taught me. I hope we can build
a stronger connection based on mutual respect and support, rather than the tension that has
characterized our interactions in the past. In this vein, you may still see that I’m wrong and
probably not hanging enough to my Chinese origins, but I promise that my achievements will
make you proud.
I understand that change takes time, and I'm committed to being more mindful of our
relationship. I hope we can find a new set of rules that allow us to communicate openly, share
our thoughts and feelings, and, most importantly, appreciate the bond that exists between a
mother and a daughter.
Thank you for your patience and understanding. I love you, and I'm grateful for everything
you've done for me.

Sincerely, Waverly