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WELLNESS

SIGNS YOU'RE
OVERTHINKING
Why you should keep tabs
on your thought patterns
By Isabel Andrew

Have you ever found yourself stuck


in a loop of thinking about the same
thing? Overthinking can be a pesky habit
to break. You might even convince yourself that
ƌƵŵŝŶĂƟŶŐŽǀĞƌƐŽŵĞƚŚŝŶŐĨŽƌĂůŽŶŐƟŵĞŝƐƚŚĞŬĞLJ
ƚŽĚĞǀĞůŽƉŝŶŐƚŚĞďĞƐƚƐŽůƵƟŽŶ͘ƵƚŚŽǁĚŽLJŽƵŬŶŽǁǁŚĞŶ
it has gone too far? Here are four signs you could be overthinking.

#1 #4
YOU CONSTANTLY REPLAY
YOU FIXATE ON UNCONTROLLABLE MATTERS. THE TAPE.
zŽƵĂƌĞĂŶĞǁƌĞĐƌƵŝƚĂŶĚĮŶĚLJŽƵƌƐĞůĨŵĂŬŝŶŐŵŝŶŽƌŵŝƐƚĂŬĞƐ͘zŽƵƚĂŬĞ What may seem like a friendly exchange of texts
ƚŚĞƐĞƐůŝƉͲƵƉƐƉĞƌƐŽŶĂůůLJĂŶĚďĞŐŝŶƚŽǁŽŶĚĞƌŝĨLJŽƵ͛ƌĞŶŽƚĂŐŽŽĚĮƚŽƌŝĨ with your best friend lingers in your mind long
your manager will terminate you. You constantly overthink, isolate yourself ĂŌĞƌŝƚŚĂƐĞŶĚĞĚ͘zŽƵĮŶĚLJŽƵƌƐĞůĨƐĞĐŽŶĚͲ
ĨƌŽŵLJŽƵƌƚĞĂŵ͕ĂŶĚĂǀŽŝĚĐŽůůĂďŽƌĂƟǀĞůĞĂƌŶŝŶŐ͘ǀĞŶƚƵĂůůLJ͕LJŽƵĨŽƐƚĞƌ guessing your friend’s replies. If they used an
self-discontent, envy towards colleagues, and despise your job. The reality ĞŵŽũŝ͕LJŽƵƐĐƌƵƟŶŝƐĞƚŚĞŝƌƚŽŶĞďLJƐĐƌŽůůŝŶŐ
ŝƐƚŚĂƚƚŚĞŽŶůLJƚŚŝŶŐƐǁŝƚŚŝŶLJŽƵƌĐŽŶƚƌŽůĂƌĞLJŽƵƌĞīŽƌƚĂŶĚĂƫƚƵĚĞ͘ through previous messages to see what it could
mean. You try to read between the lines over
#2 and over again.

YOU SHOW PHYSICAL SIGNS. /ƐŶΖƚŝƚĞdžŚĂƵƐƟŶŐũƵƐƚƌĞĂĚŝŶŐƚŚĞƐĞ͍dŚĞŶĞdžƚ


EŝŐŚƫŵĞďĞĐŽŵĞƐĂŶĞŶĚůĞƐƐĐŚĞĐŬůŝƐƚŽĨƚŽŵŽƌƌŽǁΖƐƚĂƐŬƐ͘zŽƵĨĞĞůƚŚĞ ƟŵĞƚŚŽƐĞƚŚŽƵŐŚƚƐƐƚĂƌƚƚŽƐƉŝƌĂů͕ƉĂƵƐĞ͕ƚĂŬĞĂ
urge to make sure that everything is ready for the next day so that you can breath, and remind yourself that you've got this.
ĐŽŶƚƌŽůŚŽǁLJŽƵƌĚĂLJŐŽĞƐ͘dŚŝƐĐŽŶƐƚĂŶƚŵĞŶƚĂůĂŐŝƚĂƟŽŶĐĂŶƚĂŬĞĂƚŽůůŽŶ We care about you, so give yourself a break!
your body, leading to insomnia, headaches, muscle tension, and increased
ƐƚƌĞƐƐůĞǀĞůƐ͘ŽŶƐĞƋƵĞŶƚůLJ͕LJŽƵŚĂǀĞĚŝĸĐƵůƟĞƐĐŽŶĐĞŶƚƌĂƟŶŐĂƚƐĐŚŽŽů
ŽƌǁŽƌŬ͕ƚƌŽƵďůĞƐůĞĞƉŝŶŐ͕ĐŚĂŶŐĞƐŝŶĂƉƉĞƟƚĞĂŶĚŽƚŚĞƌƐĞƌŝŽƵƐŚĞĂůƚŚ
ĐŽŶĚŝƟŽŶƐ͘

#3
YOU FEAR THE UNKNOWN FUTURE.
ĞĨŽƌĞĂƩĞŶĚŝŶŐƐŽĐŝĂůĞǀĞŶƚƐ͕LJŽƵΖƌĞĞŶŐƵůĨĞĚďLJĂŇŽŽĚŽĨŶĞŐĂƟǀĞ
thoughts and worst-case scenarios that may never unfold. You dissect
ĞǀĞƌLJĚĞƚĂŝů͕ĨƌŽŵLJŽƵƌĐŚŽƐĞŶŽƵƞŝƚƚŽƚŚĞƉŽƚĞŶƟĂůŐƵĞƐƚƐLJŽƵ͛ůůďĞ
ŵĞĞƟŶŐ͘,ŽǁƐŚŽƵůĚLJŽƵƌĞĂĐƚŝĨĂƚŽƉŝĐLJŽƵǁĂŶƚƚŽĂǀŽŝĚŝƐďƌŽƵŐŚƚƵƉ͍
At the eleventh hour, you decide to not show up because you’ve convinced
yourself that it’s going to be a disaster. Sources: Very Well Mind, Houston Methodist, Cleveland Clinic

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