Maliyah / mumalah

Maliyah or mumalah refers to the gift or dowry given by the groom to the
bride at the time of marriage in Islamic traditions. This act symbolizes the
man's responsibility to provide for his wife. It also signifies love,
commitment, and mutual respect between the bride and groom. The
amount and form of maliyah vary across different cultures and regions,
but the essence remains the same - a token of affection and
commitment. This tradition holds significant cultural and emotional value
in Islamic matrimonial practices.

by Fajar Nugraha
Pernikahan / munakahat
Pernikahan
Pernikahan is the Indonesian word for marriage.
It encompasses the legal, social, and spiritual
union of two individuals. Marriage is a sacred
institution in Indonesian culture, symbolizing
commitment, mutual support, and the
formation of a family unit.
Munakahat
Munakahat refers to the concept of marriage in
Islamic teachings. It emphasizes love,
compassion, mutual respect, and the fulfillment
of each other's rights and obligations within the
marital relationship. Islamic marriage holds
immense significance, providing a framework
for ethical and loving partnerships.
Islamic Marriage Ceremonies

Components Significance

Islamic marriage ceremonies involve The marriage ceremony holds profound

essential components such as the
solemnization contract (nikah), the
mahr (dowry), and the presence of
witnesses. These components ensure
the legality and sanctity of the marital
union.
significance in Islam, symbolizing love,
commitment, and the establishment of
a family. It also emphasizes the rights
and responsibilities of both partners
within the framework of Islamic
teachings.

Cultural Variations

Islamic marriage ceremonies have unique cultural variations based on regional

customs, adding richness and diversity to the tradition while maintaining the core
principles of love and unity.
Rites of Passage

1 Preparation

Before the marriage, there is a period of preparation involving family consultations,

discussions, and the formal proposal by the groom.

2 Nuptial Ceremony

The nuptial ceremony includes the recitation of wedding vows, the exchange of
maliyah, and the signing of the marriage contract.

3 Celebration

After the marriage is solemnized, there is a joyful celebration with family, friends, food,
and music, marking the beginning of the couple's life together.
Family Support
1 Unity 2 Guidance
Marriage in Islamic
traditions emphasizes
the unity and support of
the extended family,
providing a strong
foundation for the
couple's journey.
3 Blessings
Family members play a Family elders bestow
significant role in blessings and prayers
providing guidance, upon the newlyweds,
wisdom, and marking the beginning of
encouragement to newly their married life with love
married couples, and positivity.
fostering a nurturing
environment.
Gender Equality

Equity

1 Islamic marriage emphasizes the equitable treatment of spouses, with a

mutual obligation to support and respect each other.

Roles

2 Islamic teachings advocate the fair distribution of roles and responsibilities

between spouses, ensuring harmony and equality within the marriage.

Respect

3 Respect for each other's rights and autonomy is a fundamental principle,

promoting mutual understanding and cooperation.
Legal Framework

1.2M 95%

Civil Registrations Prevalence

Marriages in Indonesia are recorded through the Islamic marriages account for approximately
civil registration system, ensuring legal 95% of all marriages in Indonesia, reflecting the
recognition and protection of rights. significant role of Islamic traditions in the
country.
Modern Adaptations

Social Inclusion Education

Modern Islamic marriage practices embrace Islamic educational institutions promote

social inclusion, respect for diversity, and the comprehensive education on marital
empowerment of women within the marital responsibilities, rights, and the ethical principles
framework. of marriage.
Community Celebrations

1 Unity 2 Customs

Islamic wedding celebrations foster The rich traditions and customs

a sense of unity, bringing the during Islamic marriage celebrations
community together to share joy, contribute to a vibrant and culturally
blessings, and support for the significant event.
newlyweds.

3 Memories

Community celebrations create lasting memories and strengthen social bonds,

reflecting the collective happiness and goodwill towards the couple.