TANTRUMS

TRAINING
by Jacinth Liew, Our Little Play Nest

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 Congratulations on taking the first step to understand
your child! By investing time to learn about your child’s
tantrums, you will be in a better position to effectively
respond to their needs and emotions.

I have intentionally squeezed my best tips into 15 minutes,

so no excuse for not taking time to watch! :)

Even though I will be sharing several tips, please don’t do

them all at once. One step at a time, let’s focus on
progression, not perfection!

Enhance your learning experience with these tips:

Schedule 15 minute into your calendar - it can be

now, or anytime within the next 3 days.
Use the workbook to jot down notes or tips you want
to try.
Remove distractions and turn off notifications (put
your phone away!)
Tell a friend/partner/your child (and me!) that you
invested time to learn about tantrums!

Click here to watch the video - it expires in 10 days!

Rooting for you,

Jacinth
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TANTRUMS TRAINING
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

WHAT ARE TANTRUMS, WHY ARE

1 THEY HEALTHY
PART

Learn the brain science behind tantrums

HOW TO RESPOND TO TANTRUMS IN

2 THE MOMENT
PART

What does ‘Connection before Correction’ mean?

Learn the MOST IMPORTANT tip to manage tantrums

PRE-TRAINING REFLECTION
What happened the last time your child threw a tantrum?
How were they feeling?

What happened the last time you threw an adult tantrum?

How were you feeling?

What do you think is the best thing to do when your child throws a tantrum?

Assure them that it is a small issue and there is no need to make a big
fuss
Yell at them to stop crying
Calm yourself down
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TANTRUMS TRAINING PART 1
WHAT ARE TANTRUMS, WHY ARE THEY HEALTHY

Tantrums are of anger and frustration,

typically in a young child.

Our children cannot regulate their emotions because their brains are
.

As a result, they depend on their natural survival toolkit to:

F F F

NOTES

Emotional outbursts, aka tantrums are

for your child to return to equilibrium.
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TANTRUMS TRAINING PART 2
HOW TO RESPOND TO TANTRUMS IN THE
MOMENT

When we Children think

corece

cave in

correct

connect

We can say to their feelings

AND to their behaviours.

Remember:
before correction
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TANTRUMS TRAINING PART 2
HOW TO RESPOND TO TANTRUMS IN THE MOMENT:
CONNECTION BEFORE CORRECTION

THE TANTRUM ARC

When is the worst time to correct? Mark it with a

When is the best time to correct? Make it with a

Connection is the secret to getting kids to open up to our

guidance.

for your child:

be present and emotionally available for someone
without judgment or trying to fix their problems

Ways to do so:

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By connecting with your
child, your goal is not to
stop your child from
having these tantrums.

Your child is outside your

circle of control.

You can only provide

support and journey with
them through the highs of
the tantrums so they can
come to low on their own.
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HOW TO RESPOND TO TANTRUMS IN THE MOMENT:
CONNECTION BEFORE CORRECTION

ABOUT DISCIPLINE

Discipline is not synonymous with

Discipline means
_
_
_

One way to correct: , not instruct.

Case study: If your preschooler throws a tantrum when screen time is up

(1) CONNECTION (2) CORRECTION

Case study: If your child refuses to follow the routine to brush their teeth

(1) CONNECTION (2) CORRECTION

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SUMMARY QUIZ: HOW MANY CAN YOU FILL IN?
1. The most important step to manage tantrums is to manage
your .
2. yourself through reading books and research, listening to
podcasts, attending courses
3. Work on your self-r . (If we yell, they will yell)
4. Tantrums are .
.
5. Children cry or display tricky behaviours because they lack .
6. Our job is then to in our children.
7. And as with all skills, it takes for your child to learn how to work on their
self-control, regulate their emotions, problem solve.
8. When responding to your child’s tantrums, remember: before
correction.

INVITATION TO JOIN ‘FROM YELLING TO CONNECTING‘

- MY 4 WEEK ONLINE COURSE

If you are determined to better understand your child's body and brain
development, and want to stop the yelling and punishment at home, I
encourage you to keep learning! It CAN be done, hear from my students:

Enrollment to my signature course From Yelling To Connecting opens twice

a year, the next one is on 2 April 2024 - I’ve helped over 1500 parents and I
welcome you to join me (and other parents) as we learn together and
transform your family from chaos to calm.

Click here to join the waitlist and be notified when class opens!

Xx Jacinth
CONGRATULATIONS!
on completing the Tantrums Training! You are a better version of
yourself now compared to before, please celebrate the progress
you are making! One step at a time, I’m rooting for you!

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