I. Survey life but also inevitable adversity.

However, what matters

amidst this occurrence is how a particular family reacts
The family is often seen as the foundation of to it and continues living.
society, blending strengths and weaknesses. It reflects
traits, treatment patterns, and traditions that shape its Table 2. Frequency of Family Strengths
members' identities and interactions. Therefore,
understanding these aspects is crucial for grasping the
broader social scope.

Table 1. Summary Result

Family Traits & Traditions (Summary Result)

Strengths Weaknesses
1 Diverse Lack of communication
2 Open communication -
Lack of communication;
Supportive; Money Resilient; Boomer parenting; Strict
3 Blood is thicker than water guardians
Based on the given bar graph, the concepts of
4 Celebrates events together Separate/Independent lives 'open communication and supportive parents' gained the
Hospitable; Generous; highest frequency, followed by 'celebrates together,
5 Supportive - money resiliency, and hardworking parents' notions. The
Broken family; Strict parents; unmentioned ones refer to the distinct family cultures of
6 Solves problems at once Dictatorship/Controlling the respondents, such as familial ties, optimism,
Open Communication; Inner conflicts; Broken hospitality, and so on.
7 Supportive yet cautious family

Silent treatment; Contentious Table 3. Frequency of Family Weaknesses

and strict parents;
8 A family that eats together Dictatorship/No free will
Money resilient; Lack of communication;
9 Hardworking Emotionally unavailable

Understanding; Open
Communication; Highly
connected/closed with each
10 other; Optimistic
Familial ties despite several
11 conflicts
Silent treatment; Does
separate ways when not in
good terms
Overshared problems on
social media; Extremely
violent contention; Fake
treatment; Dictator guardians;
Draining family

On the other hand, concerning family

Eleven (11) students were given a chance to
share their family cultures by specifically highlighting
their strengths and weaknesses. As exemplified in the
result, the basic unit of society, a family, indeed varies in
terms of status, capabilities, needs, and experiences. This
serves as a testament to the fact that the majority of
families pull together when facing not only the ups in
weaknesses, dictatorship and lack of communication
(unfortunately) garnered the highest frequency, each
having three (3) similar responses. Additionally, the next
highest frequency was related to inner conflicts, silent
treatment, and contentious parents.
 Figure 1. Overall Percentage of Family
Strengths and Weaknesses
Table 4. Most Common Strengths and Weaknesses
Most Common Strengths & Weaknesses
Strengths Weaknesses
Open Communication - 6.7% Lack of Communication - 6.7%
Supportive Parents - 6.7% Dictatorship - 6.7%
At large, as per the last figure and table, fourteen
(14) positive family concepts are acquired, with open
communication and supportive parenting as the most
common denominator among the respondents. In
contrast, there are thirteen (13) negative insights
regarding family, with lack of communication and
dictatorship as the weaknesses families usually have. As
an implication, it is very coincidental that the given
results are contradictory statements, which posit that in
life, families are different from one another and do face
quite a few challenges. Thus, equilibrium among the two
variables is met. Nonetheless, reasons behind the
mentioned awful experiences should be revealed and
analyzed for a two-coin understanding of different shoes
in certain railroads.
II. Concepts of Family Strengths
As the saying goes, No man is an island, everyone needs
companionship and a shoulder to lean on. It is important
to surround ourselves with family and friends for support
and comfort in both times of joy and distress.
A. Open Communication
Based on the data presented, it was shown that
open communication and having supportive parents are
the common strengths of a family. A family is made
strong through a number of factors. The most important
ones are of course love and loyalty.
We instantly think of unconditional love when
we think of family. It is the first source of love we
receive in our life. It teaches us the meaning of love
which we carry on forever in our heart. Secondly, we see
that loyalty strengthens a family. When you have a
family, you are devoted to them. You stick by them
through the hard times and celebrate in their happy
times. A family always supports and backs each other.
Members of strong families work at developing
good communication skills and spend a lot of time
talking with each other. They talk about the small, trivial
things as well as the deep, important issues of life. When
we spend time with our families and love each other and
communicate openly, we create a better future for
ourselves. When we stay connected with our families,
we learn to connect better with the world.
Communication is the lifeblood of relationships. It is the
way that love and other emotions are expressed.
Relationships are played out in the context of
communication. We cannot help but communicate, and it
is largely up to us whether the communication in our
families will be effective or ineffective.
1.1. Honesty
 The openness and honesty in a family will set
the stage for trusting relationships. Without trust,
families cannot build strong relation- ships. Open and
honest communication creates an atmosphere that allows
family members to express their differences as well as
love and admiration for one another.
B. Supportive Parents
Another strength of a family is having
supportive parents.Human beings do not thrive alone.
We need our family and friends as pillars of support,
especially in difficult times. Having a strong network of
supportive family and friends helps enhance our mental
well-being. Learn more about the importance of having
this supportive network and how you can maintain and
build one.
Members of strong families being devoted to the
well-being and happiness of the other members. They
value family unity. Supportive parenting involves
creating a warm and nurturing environment where
children feel loved and supported. Studies have shown
that children who experience unconditional love and
warmth from their parents have better mental health
outcomes, including higher self-esteem, and lower
anxiety rates.
1.1. Commitment
Commitment serves as a firm foundation for
strong family relationships.Members of strong families
show a strong commitment to one another, investing
time and energy in family activities and not letting their
work or other priorities take too much time away from
family interaction. Commitment is trusting, respecting,
accepting and putting your family first.
C. Relative Wisdom
Let us remind ourselves that having a family is a
blessing, because it is the most important aspect of one's
life. Let me give you five reasons to be thankful for
having a family:
Laughter. Families can bring a unique sense of
enjoyment in our everyday life.
Love. No matter what happens, your family
members will always love you unconditionally –
something to remember on those tough days when you
feel like giving up.
Memories. Having countless memories of
good times spent together. Your shared memories will
be a true treasure trove of happy times.
Support. In times of tough days, your family
will come into their own and will always have your
back
Guidance. When we aren’t quite sure of the
best course to take or how we should proceed, our
family will be sure to help guide us in the right
direction.
“A family's strengths are those characteristics that
contribute to a family`s satisfaction and its perceived
success as a family.”
III. Concepts of Family Weaknesses
In the harsh reality of life, not everyone is privileged
to experience the warmth of a happy family. For some,
existence is marked by unrelenting challenges, enduring the
sting of hurtful words and the brutality of severe treatment.

A. Dictatorship
Based on the findings of our collective data results
make it clear that authoritarian control is the main problem in
our family households. In truth, plenty of Filipino households
have decisions that are unilaterally made by one person,
typically a parent or a dominant figure. This family structure,
a form of dictatorship or autocracy, is characterized by a
top-down approach to authority. When a dominating
individual, or your father, for example, assumes control,
dictating all decisions and setting constraints without
consideration for the family members' needs or desires.
When a family patriarch just hears one side of an
argument, they limit the value of other perspectives and
impedes the unrestricted exchange of ideas. Can you resonate
with the experience of having your thoughts and voices
overlooked in the very space you call “home”? This
deprivation leads to a profound impact—diminished our
confidence, hindered our personal growth, and a pervasive
sense of helplessness. It is more than just words on a page; it
has an extensive effect on our identity and our potential that
one has yet to realize and reach.
Picture a dinner table where a single voice
monopolizes conversations, where the aspirations and dreams
of others are overshadowed. It's within this atmosphere that
the seeds of resentment and frustration take root. The lack of a
collective decision-making approach becomes a hindrance to
the cultivation of essential life skills—like problem-solving
and conflict resolution—leaving family members inadequately
prepared for the hurdles that await them in the future.
1.1. Boomer (Helicopter) Parenting
The origin of familial dictatorship can be attributed to
the parenting attitudes of the boomer generation. And some of
us encounter this shared household dilemma.
A boomer parenting is a continuous, vigilant presence
that meticulously tracks every aspect of our lives, from
academics to social interactions. Even with the best of
intentions and love, the consequences can be profound,
resembling a form of unintentional tyranny.
Hence, many of us presently feel deprived,
unappreciated, and powerless in shaping our futures.
1.2. Emotional Unavailability
Emotional unavailability is a hesitancy or incapacity
to fully connect on an emotional level. Within the family unit,
this may present itself as an emptiness, a void where authentic
emotional expression and connection find no space to thrive.
Subtly extending its influence, this internal conflict now
shapes the dynamics of the entire family structure.
Picture a family where emotions are kept at a
distance, where heartfelt conversations are nonexistent. Then,
the absence of emotional dialogue creates a void—a void that
becomes a breeding ground for power imbalances. Hence,
creating superiority that creates dictating decisions and
influencing dynamics without the necessary emotional input
from others.
At this stage, the emotionally unavailable individual
takes center stage, making decisions without regard for the
diverse emotional landscapes of family members. This
unintentional wielding of emotional power mirrors the
autocratic control observed in dictatorial households that one
never deserves.
The presence of emotional scarcity within families
not only gives rise to an autocratic household structure but
also notably shapes an environment wherein effective
communication becomes an infrequent phenomenon. That
said, our statistical analyses reveal that the lack of
communication represents a prevailing vulnerability within
our familial units.

B. Lack of Communication in the relationship between each member. A lack of

understanding within the family strains relationships,
leading to conflicts and fostering 'bad blood' amongst
family members.

The diverse dynamics between the shapes of

It is important to recognize that the challenge of
insufficient communication within our family unit is not an
isolated concern but resonates universally, extending beyond
our group’s individual kinship. This phenomenon is not
exclusive to our family but is a shared problem across diverse
groups and communities.
each familial relation may vary for every individual.
This demonstrates that families are complex and not a
single-sided variable where every aspect is similar for
all. Ultimately, each family structure possesses its unique
strengths and weaknesses, reflecting the multifaceted
nature of human relationships. By acknowledging and
leveraging these dynamics, families can cultivate
resilience, communication, and mutual understanding,
fostering environments conducive to personal growth
and collective well-being.

It's not just about the words we don't say; it's about
the space we create, this unseen wall that holds us back from
having interactions as good as they could be. It's that tricky
space making it hard for thoughts, feelings, and relationships
to be heartily connected.

The data tells us more about how common this issue

is within our family units. It's not just about numbers; it tells a
story of missed opportunities and a shared longing for a more
understanding way of communicating that we all wish for.

C. Relative Wisdom

“Negativity may knock on your family's door, but you hold

the key to your own inner sanctuary.”

IV. Conclusion

In conclusion, an understanding of the strengths

and weaknesses within families has been attained,
though the data shows commonalities between the two, it
must be realized that the complexity of familial
relationships goes beyond each frequency. The ability to
foster a supportive environment in a family is brought by
cooperation between the household members. Factors
such as intimacy, communication, and honesty enable
the stability of these relationships; however, if these
elements are lacking or not present, challenges may arise