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May 2024

Working Together
DAAJI

An Honor
Bestowed
PATRICIA
SCOTLAND

It’s Time for


Love to Go Viral
ROLLIN MCCRATY
Planet
The World Is
One Family
LOVE
NILAKSHI
RAJKHOWA

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He a rtful n es s
Unity Is the Way

Dear readers,

From March 14 to 17, 2024, around 60,000 people gathered in Kanha Shanti Vanam for an interfaith
celebration organized by the Ministry of Culture, Government of India, and the Heartfulness Institute.
People came from around 300 organizations, many countries, and covering a spectrum of spiritual and
religious beliefs and practices.

There were plenary talks and panel discussions, exhibitions and stalls, activities and opportunities for
everyone to experience each other’s practices, musical performances, and group meditations. We shared
meals, accommodation, and all the other facilities at Kanha Shanti Vanam, and came away with a deeper
understanding of ourselves and each other. This Global Spirituality Mahotsav was an opportunity to
develop harmony, peace, and heart coherence among people from all different backgrounds and walks of
life. And it worked! Dr. Rollin McCraty and his team from the HearthMath Institute set up devices on
campus to measure the coherence among the hearts of the attendees during the group meditation on the
final morning of the gathering, and here are the results:

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Meditation: At the Global Spirituality Mahotsav

Hosted at the Heartfulness Institute Headquarters, Kanha Shanti Vanam (Hyderabad, India). Meditation on
3/17, starting at 9:40 a.m. IST. Approximately 60,000 participants.

Significant

Meditation begins

Heartfulness Institute Meditation Hall Network Coherence significantly


increased starting with the meditation

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When we sit together to meditate, we feel the increased flow of connection dissolving barriers among
us. Not only did we feel this within during the celebration, but the data from HeartMath’s devices
demonstrated that the increased coherence among our hearts was highly significant. Dr. McCraty shares
more on this topic in his article this month.

We also hear from Daaji on love, Joseph Howell on connecting with the inner child, Sofia Stril-Rever
on peace, Gour Gopal Das on managing problems, Nilakshi Rajkhowa on the world as one family,
Sravan Banda on cultivating peace through the environment, Aaryan Arora on becoming his own person,
Siddharth Kak on creativity, and Sara Bubber on time. And very specially, the Rt. Hon. Patricia Scotland,
KC, Secretary-General of the Commonwealth bestows a special honor upon Daaji.

There have been many interfaith gatherings over the years, starting with the famous Parliament of the
World’s Religions, which opened on September 11, 1893, and which is known as the birthplace of the
worldwide interfaith movement. On the first day of the event, Swami Vivekananda addressed the audience
as “Sisters and brothers of America!” to a standing ovation. In his final address, he spoke of how the
parliament “proved to the world that holiness, purity, and charity are not the exclusive possessions of any
church in the world, and that every system has produced men and women of the most exalted character.”

This Global Spirituality Mahotsav has now taken interfaith collaboration to a new level, with Daaji
urging everyone to start working together, and providing the field of action for that to happen. The rest is
now up to all of us. Can we stop wasting our energy on divisions and differences, and focus on harmony
and collaboration? When we do, our planet and all her species will breathe a huge sigh of relief. Our
consciousness will no longer be weighed down by the negativity and conflict we create; it will be free to
soar above our individual differences to merge with the universal consciousness. Humanity is quite capable
of doing that, and imagine what we will create then!

Happy reading,
The editors

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Working Together There Will Always Be Become Your Own
Daaji Problems Influence

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Reconnecting with Your
Inner Child When a Bird Sings, Do You
Joseph Howell
relationships Analyze It?
Siddharth Kak
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Human Fellowship

inspiration Nilakshi Rajkhowa


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Love for the Sake of Love It's Time for Love to Go Time Is a Precious Resource
Daaji Viral Sara Bubber
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KC, Commonwealth Secretary-
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Cultivating Peace
Sravan Banda
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DAAJI PATRICIA SCOTLAND JOSEPH HOWELL

Daaji is the Heartfulness As the first woman to be Dr. Howell is a clinical


Guide. He is an innovator and appointed Secretary-General of psychologist and the founder
researcher, equally at home in the the Commonwealth, Patricia’s of the Institute for Conscious
fields of spirituality, science, and career has been marked by Being, near Atlanta, USA. He
the evolution of consciousness. a number of firsts. She is is an Enneagram Authority and
He has taken our understanding mobilizing the 56 nations of the author of Becoming Conscious: The
of human potential to a new Commonwealth to tackle climate Enneagram Forgotten Passageway
level. change, and, through women’s and his upcoming book, Know
enterprises, to build the resilience Your Soul.
of more vulnerable countries.

SOFIA STRIL-REVER GOUR GOPAL DAS NILAKSHI RAJKHOWA

Sofia is a French spiritual Gour Gopal Das is an Indian Nilakshi is the Director, Office
teacher, Sanskrit scholar, writer, Hindu monk, lifestyle coach, and of Public Affairs at the National
biographer of the 14th Dalai motivational speaker from the Spiritual Assembly of the Baha’is
Lama, co-author and translator International Society for Krishna of India. She promotes social
with His Holiness, specialist Consciousness. He is the author change, including fostering a
on Tibet, and translator of of Life’s Amazing Secrets, The Way new culture of equality in India
Kalachakra from Sanskrit. She is of the Monk, and Energize Your and the transformation of society
the coordinator for UNESCO’s Mind, and has over 17 million structures that prevent women’s
International Day of Conscience followers on social media. full and meaningful participation
with Love for Peace on April 5. in public life.

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contributors

ROLLIN MCCRATY SRAVAN BANDA AARYAN ARORA

Rollin is a scientist, Sravan’s expertise is constructed Aaryan is a young Indian-


psychophysiologist, executive wetlands and wastewater American actor, musician,
vice president and director of challenges. He is an accredited composer, and social media
research at HeartMath Institute, Green Building Professional personality, who is known for
member of the Global Coherence through IGBC, and a member of the legal drama Bull, the musical
Steering committee, and project the Society of Wetland Scientists, Bhangin It and the film Deli
coordinator of GCI’s Global USA. His interest extends to Boy. He is also the Founder and
Coherence Monitoring System. Indian Traditional Medicine CEO of The Arora Company, a
He is a professor at Florida and the medicinal properties US-based Public Relations and
Atlantic University. of indigenous plants. He is a Marketing Consultancy Firm.
Director at BlueDrop Enviro Pvt.
Ltd.

SIDDHARTH KAK SARA BUBBER PURNIMA


RAMAKRISHNAN
Siddharth is an Indian Sara is a storyteller, Montessori
documentary maker, television consultant, and a children’s book Purnima is a UN award winning
producer, and presenter, best author. She is also a naturalist, writer and blogger. She is the
known as the producer and doing her doctoral work in eco- recipient of the BlogHER
presenter of Surabhi (1990-2001). consciousness in childhood. She International Activist Award,
After that, he established the has been practicing Heartfulness 2013, and one of five senior
Surabhi Foundation to preserve for eight years and is a certified editors of the World Moms
cultural artefacts, and currently trainer. Network. She is a practitioner
co-hosts the NDTV travel show, and trainer of Heartfulness
Indiadhanush. Meditation, and on the
Heartfulness Magazine editorial
team.
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self-care
The child is in me still—
and sometimes not so still.

FRED ROGERS
YES, YOU CAN DO IT!

Working Together
DAAJI At the Global Spirituality Mahotsav,
DAAJI shares his vision for bringing about
world peace through individual peace,
through cooperative projects, and through
staying together to dissolve differences
and bring progress..

T
he dream of Swami
Vivekananda ji has been
perceived by so many of
us in this particular moment
of bringing many paths and
followers together. Now that
we have come together, it is just
the beginning. What do we do
next? What is the purpose of
this gathering? Our goal is very
clear: to bring about harmony
within each community through
individual peace, so that we
build the capacity for global
peace.

There is no magic wand


that can change the level of
peace and global harmony
in one stroke. Lord Krishna
could not attain it; none of
us can attain it alone. First,
we all have to work together,
individually—one heart at a
time. Next, all of us can take up
some projects together, co-
share those projects, implement
those projects and successfully

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When we work together, we will be able to dissolve our


differences, and that will be the sign of progress. Working
together is the next step to a mere beginning. A further
step is to grow together. When we maintain these
relationships of working together for longer
and longer periods, we will see how the
small step of coming together evolves.

complete those projects across things like planting trees, going


the globe. to villages to help children
understand the importance of
When volunteers from education, teaching farmers
Jainism, Buddhism, Sikhism, how to double their crop
Islam, Christianity, Judaism, productivity, increasing the
Hinduism, Transcendental intuitive capabilities of little
Meditation, Brahma Kumaris, children—so many things can
Heartfulness, and no tradition be achieved.
all work together, we will be
able to understand each other’s This gathering is not just about
minds, hearts, and emotions. exchanging philosophical ideas;
When we work together, we it is mainly to come together
will be able to dissolve our as one to spread the message of
differences, and that will be love. Otherwise, such meetings
the sign of progress. Working will go on and on.
together is the next step to a
mere beginning. A further step Actually, when did we ever have
is to grow together. When we such a meeting? I don’t recollect
maintain these relationships it ever happening like this in
of working together for longer the recent era, and our grateful
and longer periods, we will see hearts go out to the Ministry
how the small step of coming of Culture for bringing so
together evolves. This is many groups together to
especially vital for our youth. promote brotherhood, love, and
compassion toward each other.
When people of different faiths
come together and do simple

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SEL F -CAR E

Activity
to disadvantaged children; When people of
Take up a local project in your collecting books and setting
community. Here are some up a mobile library for different faiths
examples, but please don’t be children where story-time is
limited by these: offered; offering art, music, or come together and
dance classes.
1. Take up an ecological project,
do simple things
e.g. planting trees in an area 3. Take up a health project, e.g.
like planting trees,
that has been deforested; working with local groups to
cleaning up a stream, river promote healthy eating, good going to villages to
or lake; setting up recycling hygiene, digital detox, sleep
centers and compost facilities habits. help children
in local communities, and
training people how to use Partner with other organizations understand the
them. that are also interested in the
same projects, pool your resources,
importance of
2. Take up an educational and work together for maximum education, teaching
project, e.g. teaching benefit. There is no limit to what
Brighter Minds programs we can accomplish together. farmers how to
double their crop
productivity,
increasing the
intuitive capabilities
of little children—so
many things can be
achieved.

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Reconnecting with
Your Inner Child
DR. JOSEPH HOWELL is the founder of The Institute for
Conscious Being in the US. During his keynote address at
the Global Spirituality Mahotsav, he guided the audience
through an exercise to help them find spiritual connection
by connecting to their inner child.

F
or a moment, if you will do garden, was it in the common area Sadly, that little child—our
this for me: of an apartment building? soul child—has to go under a
crust because the demands and
Gently close your eyes and As you picture this in your mind, harshness and woundings of
picture in your mind’s eye the look at the little being who is you, this world will not allow that
home, the dwelling, the apartment, playing in those places. Look at precious innocence to survive in
the house in which you spent the that beautiful little child with all its purity. So, by age five or six,
earliest part of your life. expressive eyes, with excitement, sometimes seven, we have put on a
with tenderness, with vulnerability, layer of protection, and it is called
Now, look at that dwelling. You with awe, with surprise, and only the ego. We must have an ego. It
were one year old, two years old, two wishes: to love and to be gives us a way to move through
three years old, maybe four. And as loved. Hold me and let me hold the world. It gives us protection
you look at it, look at the windows you. This little child with those from the wounds that our little
and the doors, look at the colors. beautiful eyes is sitting in the vulnerable self could not bear.
playground or the yard or the
Now, look at where you played the garden, full of hope for what life is And as that child grows, the ego
most. Was it on the grass, was it in to be. And the child radiates that grows with it, with you and me. At
a playground, was it in your private hope. one point, we became a defensive

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Put your hearts together, and let


them beat in coherence. Join with
your soul so that your life can face
any shock point, and do it with
dignity and compassion, and holy
strength and holy faith.

In my opinion, we have to return


to our first identity, which is our
personality that said to the world, true nature. That’s found in the
“You can’t hurt me because I’m little being you saw in that yard or
powerful, or because I’m okay, or false self we are presenting for our playground just a few minutes ago.
because I’m right, or because I’m children to embrace.
giving.” We decided what our ego- Close your eyes again. I’d like for
strategy was going to be. What is it that we can be if we you to picture that child one more
are not the ego? Who is it that we time. Look into her or his eyes.
Then, by midlife, and for some of can be that brings hope again, that See the purity, the beauty, the
us sooner, there was a shock point. brings love again, that brings light willingness to love and be loved.
That shock point took us into a again? The answer is our soul. The Now feel the heart of that child.
land of pain and suffering, because soul now has a purpose, a meaning, And now, if you will go to that
we realized that the ego never did and a way, with the ego’s help, to child and sit by them, and put your
have a way to successfully block be protected, because the ego can arms around that little being. Put
the pain, suffering, shame, anger, now serve the purpose of the soul. your hearts together, and let them
and alienation. beat in coherence. Join with your
So, I’d like to tell you how to find soul so that your life can face any
When we were teenagers, we were the qualities of your soul again. shock point, and do it with dignity
searching for an identity. Instead Well, in my tradition, the great and compassion, and holy strength
of going back to our soul child, we teacher Jesus Christ said, “You and holy faith.
found our identity in groups. And cannot enter the Kingdom of
now, so many are finding their Heaven unless you become as a
identity in social media. What a little child.” Illustrations by LAKSHMI GADDAM

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inspiration

We shall overcome because


the arc of the moral universe is long,
but it bends towards justice.

MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.

Illustration by JASMEE MUDGAL


Love for the
Sake of Love
On the second day of the Mahotsav, DAAJI spoke about the
purpose of the gathering, why there are different religious
practices in different faiths, how to nurture the soul, and
how all people can come together for a better world.

L
overs of God, to you all my There will be volunteers from discerning right from wrong. An
heartfelt Pranams. I hope this many organizations who can work unregulated mind will always be
will become a yearly tradition together on specific projects. tempted to do wrong. Why would
throughout the globe. Coming a person with a sane, regulated
together is only the beginning. The United Nations SDGs are mind think of polluting the air
When we work together it will there, including pollution control or polluting the water? It is not
translate into progress, in the of all kinds (soil, water, air), the possible; hence the need for
words of Henry Ford. When we education of women, equality, meditation. In brief, all the various
join hands and grow, we will have poverty eradication, etc. But types of pollution in the world are
to understand each other, and how fundamentally, they have not the product of mental pollution.
to work together to fulfill a goal. included the one thing that is the
cause of all the other problems. In the traditions of India, we
Many ask me, “What is the pluck Tulsi leaves. Is Tulsi a
purpose of this event?” A dear brother from France goddess? No, but we call her a
I reply, “It is to come together highlighted this need for goddess. Why? Because Tulsi has
for the moment, learn from each meditation to regulate the mind so many healing properties that
other, understand each other, so as to address all the SDGs. no one should destroy her. Our
know each other, and then roll out A mind that has transcended ancestors called Tulsi a goddess
programs across the globe.” differences can discriminate, so we wouldn’t destroy the plants,

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we would worship them. Isn’t it things—gravitation, the quantum


wonderful, respecting a little plant, field, the laws of genetics,
worshipping it? chemical reactions, the laws
of thermodynamics—where
Likewise, there are many other the fundamental laws stay the
traditions, like breathing exercises, same. So it is in spirituality. The
Pranayama. Do you think huffing fundamental law that governs all
and puffing will bring God is love. Then, we speak of “Ekam
toward you? Not at all. But when Brahmam dvitya naste,” meaning
Pranayama is tied with religion, there is only one God. In the .. it is through
people do it. Pranayama is mainly Quran it says “La ilaha illallah,”
to look after your koshas for your also meaning there is only one pranasya pranaha
health and well-being. God. In the Christian tradition
too there is only one God. or pranahuti—
In Hinduism, we have a sattvic
diet prescribed. Why? Because Christ said, “I am the way and the
prana of the
through a sattvic diet we nourish truth and the life. No one comes subtlest order
our physical body. Through mental to the Father except through
activity, such as interacting with me. If you really knew me, you transmitted by a
our elders, learning in colleges, would know my Father as well.”
universities, and schools, and now Lord Krishna said, “Abandon yogi of caliber. It
through Google matha [mother], all dharmas, surrender to me,
we nourish our minds. I will save you from trials and
awakens our
tribulations.” In Buddhism it is
dormant
How do we nourish the soul? The “Buddham Saranam Gacchami,”
Adi-guru of Heartfulness, Shri meaning I go to the Buddha consciousness, and
Ram Chandra ji, also known as for refuge. When we listen to
Lalaji Maharaj, showed us how such statements and we don’t helps that
to enrich our prana in order to understand them, they seem
enrich our souls. He said that it superficially egotistic. But they consciousness to
is through pranasya pranaha or are not. I must tell you, love means
pranahuti—prana of the subtlest surrender.
travel from the
order transmitted by a yogi of base to the human
caliber. It awakens our dormant Here, I speak about surrender not
consciousness, and helps that in the form of defeat, but because to the humane to
consciousness to travel from I have won over myself. My ego
the base to the human to the is now sublimated, so “I” exists no the divine levels.
humane to the divine levels. This more. Thou art the only one, dear
is the promise. It is not a false God.
promise; it is a promise that can be
experienced. We can realize this sate as a
follower of any religion. If you are
In science we don’t have to a Hindu, be the best Hindu you
believe. There are factual can be. If you are a Christian, be

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the best Christian. If you are a


Muslim, be the best Muslim, and
so on.

Will there be wars if you follow


your own dharma perfectly? No,
there cannot be. Religions are all
faithful systems. Kofi Annan,
former Director-General of the
United Nations once said, “The
problem is not with the faith, but
with the faithful.” The faithful
believe in their faith alone, and
think they are superior to others.
This is the problem. My Guruji
Maharaj used to say that there is
nothing wrong with thinking you
are great, but always think the
other person is greater.

So with this little understanding,


with peaceful hearts, let us all
practice on a daily basis. When
you do your Namaz, be receptive
to the godly Grace. When you do
your puja in front of your favorite
deity, be receptive, be loving, open
your heart. Whatever form of
practice you are performing, do
it with a receptive heart, not as a
ritual, not out of fear, not out of
temptation, not for begging, but
with love for the sake of love.

When we maintain this, we will Whatever form of practice you are


change. Once we change, the
world will change. And we will performing, do it with a receptive heart,
contribute much more this way.
not as a ritual, not out of fear, not out of
temptation, not for begging, but with love
for the sake of love.
AI generated illustrations

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An Honor
Bestowed

On the final morning of the Mahotsav, the Right Honorable PATRICIA SCOTLAND,
KC, Secretary-General of the Commonwealth, spoke about the role DAAJI has
played in bringing spirituality to the world, unifying people of all faiths and
cultures, and nurturing nature. In honor of his work, she bestowed upon him the
title of Global Ambassador for Peacebuilding and Faith in the Commonwealth.
Below is the speech she made while conferring the honor.

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M
y heartfelt greetings present here. And it is reflected Your impact extends far
to you all. It is a constantly in the vision and and wide. Heartfulness has
genuine honor to leadership offered by our dear become a global force for inner
return to this magnificent friend and brother, Daaji, who transformation, creating ripples
place. Vision, ingenuity, and has once again welcomed us that transcend continents
labor have transformed what so graciously to this wonderful and cultures, sowing seeds
was once harsh and depleted place. of mindfulness, compassion,
land into a lush green campus, and spiritual well-being. Your
with rainforest full of thriving, The Commonwealth is a family, teachings resonate deeply,
endemic, and endangered and we are 56 nations and 2.5 offering a pathway to peace
species, medicinal and edible billion people stretched across and self-discovery. And your
plants, and organic farms. This five continents and six oceans. approach to meditation and
site has become a testament to Our collective heart beats with spirituality is both profound and
harmony with nature. Every the shared values of peace, accessible, guiding seekers on
step one takes through the Yatra understanding, and mutual a journey toward a harmonious
Garden and these hallowed halls respect. Daaji, as the guiding existence.
is an encounter with tranquility force behind Heartfulness,
and renewal. you embody these values. This vision has cultivated
Your wisdom, compassion, a Heartfulness community
We stand today in the and unwavering commitment centered around love, unity, and
physical representation of the to the spiritual well-being of mindfulness, offering solace and
Heartfulness you have been humanity shines through you spiritual nourishment to seekers
practicing and sharing for so and through this movement. from diverse backgrounds in
many years. And as we gather Your leadership has nurtured the an increasingly chaotic world.
here in the month before the growth of Heartfulness, and in Your unwavering commitment
125th Birth Anniversary of doing so you have touched the to service, coupled with your
Babuji, it is a fitting monument lives of countless people across profound understanding of the
to his lasting legacy. the globe, across 160 countries, human heart creates a legacy
and more than 5 million of grace, humility, inspiration,
The imprint of his life of practitioners, with the dedicated and boundless compassion. In
humble service, devotion, and support of 16,000 volunteer our lives, we all try to create
love is unmistakable. It echoes trainers operating in over 5,000 and send out our own positive
in the demeanor of everyone centers worldwide.

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ripples of change. The ripples


you have created are vast and
lasting. They can build a current In your honor, and in honor of your
that can sweep down even the
mightiest walls of resistance vision and leadership, and your
and provide us all with constant
inspiration. unwavering commitment to service,

In your honor, and in honor of


as Secretary-General of the
your vision and leadership, and Commonwealth of Nations I am proud
your unwavering commitment
to service, as Secretary-General and honored to bestow on you the
of the Commonwealth of
Nations I am proud and title of Global Ambassador for
honored to bestow on you the
title of Global Ambassador for
Peacebuilding and Faith in the
Peacebuilding and Faith in the Commonwealth.
Commonwealth.

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Problems
GOUR GOPAL DAS is an Indian monk, lifestyle coach, motivational
speaker, and former electrical engineer. He talks about the
inevitability of problems and how developing a state of inner
peace can help us to navigate those problems, and not allow
them to hold us back from living a fulfilling and whole life.

H
ow many of you were good Without all of you, this would you think the esteemed guests
at spelling in school? How be no event. My respects to all of sitting on this dais don’t have
many of you were terrible you for coming with such open problems? Do you think they don’t
at spelling in school? How many hearts and such open minds to have health crises, or logistical
of you didn’t care about spelling in explore this diverse deep space of issues when it comes to building
school? spirituality. things of this scale? Spiritual or
One boy was asked by his teacher, not spiritual, when we are human
“Which state of India are you How many of you have problems? beings living on this planet, we
from?” Any health problems? Any all experience problems. Life
He said, “I’m from Arunachala workplace politics? Any financial bothers us every single day. Life is
Pradesh, Ma’am.” liabilities? Emotional issues? causing a threat to our inner peace.
“Can you spell it for me?” Mental health issues? Relationship Challenges, issues, problems,
He said, “I’m from Goa, actually.” problems? The biggest issues in calamities, trying circumstances,
finding inner peace are problems. and difficulties are ruining our
Who spells Arunachala Pradesh? How many of you would like to inner peace.
But if you spell the word “success,” have a solution to problems? All
the second letter is “u” (you). You of us. How many of you have felt, “Now
cannot spell the success of such a my health is better.” Have you ever
grand event without you. You can’t Whoever you are, problems are given a sigh of relief ? As soon as a
have the word success without “u.” an integral part of your life. Do problem goes away, you give a sigh

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is better, there’s a weather problem. There was a dry mountain, with


The world is a Problems will never end. no greenery but one tree with a
collective reflection tiny branch, and on the branch was
When you find your inner peace, a nest. In that nest was a mother
of individual you will deal with your problems bird feeding her little ones.
effectively. Today the world lacks
consciousness. If I individuals who can navigate Guess which one the king
through their challenges. The awarded? The second painting,
am not peaceful, world is a collective reflection of because the first one is a myth.
individual consciousness. If I am Life is not serene, calm, and
how will the world not peaceful, how will the world clear. Life is not peaceful; life is
be peaceful? If the be peaceful? If the citizens on this challenges, chaos, mayhem, issues,
planet don’t find peace, how can difficulties, trying circumstances,
citizens on this the world be peaceful? and tribulations. In the middle
of all the darkness, I can have my
planet don’t find I will tell you a story. There was inner nest in my heart. My heart
once a king who was extremely is like that nest under the gloomy
peace, how can the fond of art. After four days as a sky. I lost my job, I lost my parents,
world be peaceful? practicing disciple, he announced I lost my spouse, I lost my health,
that the person who could make I lost my money… lost, lost, lost.
the best painting depicting That is the world outside, but
peace would be rewarded with a when I enter into the space of my
thousand gold coins. Thousands heart, like the bird feeding her
of relief. For a lot of people the of artists started painting, and out chicks, that is the real depiction
definition of peace is the absence of the thousands of paintings two of peace—finding peace within a
of problems. were selected to show the king. world full of chaos and mayhem.
Both were covered.
Why have you come here? You’ve That is what happened on the
come to disconnect and find some The king unveiled the first battlefield of Kurukshetra 5,000
peace. People think, “Let all the painting. He saw beautiful crystal years back. Arjuna didn’t know
problems go away and then I’ll clear aquamarine waters. He what to do. His properties were
be peaceful.” It’s the complete could see the bottom of the lake. taken away, his rights were taken
opposite. When you are peaceful, There were beautiful mountains, away, his wife was disrobed,
you’ll deal with your problems birds flying, clear skies with their sons were killed, and in the
better. Today one problem will go fluffy clouds, and beautiful swans middle of all of that he was on the
away, tomorrow there’ll be another. swimming on the surface of the battlefield trying to do his duty.
When your health is better, there lake. He said, “This seems to In the confusion and darkness,
are financial problems. When be the best painting depicting he turned toward his friend and
your finances are better, there peace.” He then unveiled the guide, Shri Krishna, and said, “I
are relationship problems. When second painting, which had a don't know how to navigate this
relationships are better, there are dark, gloomy, depressing sky with darkness, Krishna, please guide
social problems. When social life lightning and torrential rain. me.”

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Life is a journey, We need a guide, a spiritual “In an equation there is pi, 3.1814,
teacher, to help us find that nest. which you cannot change, and
things evolve, and you We have such spiritual mentors there is x.” Focusing on the x
sitting here today. Listen to them empowers you. The more you
don’t need everything not to follow them, otherwise you focus on pi, which cannot change,
will simply be a blind follower the more frustrated you will be. So
sorted right away. If of another guru. Listen to them say to yourself, “I will not waste
you’re a believer, turn not to listen to their voice; listen my energy and peace on pi.”
to their voice so you can start
to God. If you’re a listening to your own voice. If you Second, say to yourself, “The
cannot listen to your own voice, world’s problems are not my
non-believer, turn to the whole spiritual journey has problems at the moment. I’m not
been a failure. an enlightened being yet; I’m
life or the universe. okay to deal with my own share of
You don’t have to do I’d like to recommend four things. troubles.”
First, when you’re going through
it alone. Turn to challenges and you want to find Third, say to yourself, “I don’t need
your inner peace, say to yourself, all the answers and everything
somebody to connect sorted out right now.” Life is a
journey, things evolve, and you
and take that stuff don’t need everything sorted right
away. If you’re a believer, turn
from your head. to God. If you’re a non-believer,
turn to life or the universe. You
don’t have to do it alone. Turn to
somebody to connect and take that
stuff from your head.

Daaji said, “In this world today,


let religions not divide us.” Two
plus eight is ten. Seven plus three
is also ten. Six plus four is also
ten. Nine plus one is also ten.
There are multiple ways to reach
ten, the end goal. Let us respect
each other. As Daaji mentioned,
let us not just tolerate each other,
let us accept each other; from
tolerance to acceptance. And take
it even further, let us celebrate
each other’s connections as a great
humanity.

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Time is
Too slow for those who wait,
Too swift for those who fear,
Too long for those who grieve,
Too short for those who rejoice,
But for those who love,
Time is eternity.

HENRY VAN DYK

Illustration by JASMEE MUDGAL


Human
Fellowship
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NILAKSHI RAJKHOWA is the Director, Office of Public Affairs,


National Spiritual Assembly of the Baha’i Faith in India. During
the Mahotsav, she challenged everyone to join together to
overcome our current crises, by starting with the heart.

H
eartful greetings on behalf love, unity, compassion, and this spirit of all-embracing
of the Baha’i Community break our barriers of caste, oneness that is conveyed in the
to each and every one of religion, and gender. I’m so ancient ethos of Vasudhaiva
you. I’m delighted and honored happy to be part of this, and Kutumbakam—the world is one
to be part of this Global want to share a few thoughts family.
Spirituality Mahotsav. Thank from the Baha’i community.
you for bringing us all together. The unity of nations will be
Friends, we see many factors a stage in the progressive
I would like to begin with a keeping India together as a manifestation of oneness in
quote from the Baha’i writings, nation. One vital cohesive the social and political realms.
“O SON OF SPIRIT, my first force binding the nation is It will reach its fruition when
council is this: possess a pure, spirituality. It finds expression the principle of oneness of
kindly, and radiant heart that in valuing human beings as humanity is established in the
thine may be a sovereignty the creation of the Divine, consciousness of people, and
ancient, imperishable, and and is open and accepting when nations across the world
everlasting.” of people of all backgrounds unite as one family.
who view the reflection of the
It all starts with the heart, and sacred in all living beings. This Over the past few decades,
what Heartfulness is trying enjoins respect, gentleness, and there has been a resurgence
to do is unlock the hearts of nonviolence in relationships of religious fundamentalism
everyone so that we can embrace as the ideal way of life. It is that represents religious

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History bears witness to the fact that


only religion is capable of stirring the
depths of human motivation and
calling forth the spirit of nobility,
sacrifice, and initiative needed to
achieve such an objective.

extremism and intolerance. It representatives of all religions driven by a common objective to


has increasingly entered the on religion’s contribution to contribute to the transformation
political and social mainstream, social harmony. The ground of society, and to ever-increasing
and in many countries it for such a discourse can be laid material and spiritual prosperity,
dominates public discourse. by clarifying the fundamental unity can become a pretext for
This has created confusion nature and purpose of religion, passive conformity with the
around the concept of religion, and the common foundations status quo, with all its attendant
as its unifying and constructive of all religions. Such a discourse challenges and injustices.
role has been obscured by must show a practical path
the tendency to view it solely forward for inter-religious The most secure basis of inter-
through an identity lens. These collaboration. Preserving the religious harmony lies in coming
challenges come at a time tradition of inter-religious together to apply spiritual
of great uncertainty, when fellowship requires efforts principles to build a united,
the need for unity is vital to from individuals, communities, just, and prosperous world. The
successfully navigate the waves religious leaders, and complex and unprecedented
of present and impending institutions. challenges of the 21st century
crises. These crises include the will require us to make deep
Covid pandemic, geopolitical However, such efforts can changes in our patterns of
instability, war, economic close in on themselves if inter- thought and behavior, and the
recession, climate change, religious unity is considered an willingness to make profound
terrorism, the food crisis, and end in itself, and is not viewed sacrifices for the common good.
the energy crisis. from the context of society’s The kind of structural and
needs. systemic changes needed to
The need of the hour is become more united and restore
constructive dialogue, a At this moment in history, our balance with nature will
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Youth can move the world. They have a critical role to


play in the fields of development, peace, and the
prosperity of humanity. Young people want a better
society, no matter where they live. They tend to
believe in unity and be relatively unburdened by
biases and prejudices. They want peaceful and
prosperous futures for themselves and their peers.

and for a duration never before bearing on people’s responses to critical role to play in the fields
witnessed. the crisis. The statement, which of development, peace, and the
was coordinated by the Baha’i prosperity of humanity. Young
History bears witness to the fact community of India, called people want a better society, no
that only religion is capable of upon all religions to unite in a matter where they live. They tend
stirring the depths of human common commitment to spiritual to believe in unity and be relatively
motivation and calling forth the principles relevant to the crisis. unburdened by biases and
spirit of nobility, sacrifice, and And that statement is just as prejudices. They want peaceful and
initiative needed to achieve such relevant to the current challenges prosperous futures for themselves
an objective. The world is in dire we all face: recognizing the and their peers.
need of religion to once again oneness of religion, the oneness of
course through our veins, to stir a humankind, selfless and sacrificial It is time to let unity and harmony
common and collective response to service to the common good, become the dominant narrative,
our challenges. and complementarity between and strongly associated with our
science and religion. Although it identity, relegating conflict among
Religious leaders have a role was a modest effort, it illustrates religions to an earlier and less
to direct the attention of their the tremendous potential for mature stage of our history. Let
congregations to the needs of the positive social change that resides us harness the edifying power
world. Many heartening examples in the untapped spirituality of of religion toward constructive
of this were witnessed during the the common people, which faith endeavors that can bring about
worst phases of the Covid-19 leaders can together inspire for the spiritual and material prosperity.
pandemic. Twenty-five leaders of well-being of all. In this way, India can contribute to
religions and interfaith movements global peace and harmony, assuring
in India issued a joint statement Another group with great capacity its place as a leader in spirituality
to reiterate those religious and potential is our youth. Youth and inter-religious harmony.
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It is time to let unity and harmony become the


dominant narrative, and strongly associated with
our identity, relegating conflict among religions to
an earlier and less mature stage of our history. Let
us harness the edifying power of religion toward
constructive endeavors that can bring about
spiritual and material prosperity.

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It’s Time for
Love
to Go Viral

DR. ROLLIN
MCCRATY shares
the science of
the synchronicity
between the heart
and mind and,
when they are in
sync, how the love
that is created can
positively connect
us to each other and
everything in the
world.

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I
t’s a great honor to be here. I’m I was fortunate to help him nobody was looking at what
not going to stand here and try found The HeartMath Institute, happens in our bodies when
to tell you anything you haven’t and a few years later he invited we love, when we appreciate, it
already heard or that you don’t me to found The HeartMath was all about stress, depression,
already know, but I am going Research Center. He said we and anxiety), was that when
to tell you the same thing in a have to do rigorous scientific people had heartfelt feelings
different language, the language research. The language of of love, compassion, kindness,
of science. science is the new language for something magical happened.
many people in the world, and if Their heartbeats, the rhythms of
I have been a long-term we’re going to introduce them to the heart, dramatically changed.
meditator myself, and I learned getting their hearts and brains in
about the heart. But if I’m sync, we need that work. Today we know this as an
really honest, it was more like a optimal state, a state where the
metaphor for emotions; for me So, over the last 30 years, mind, emotions, the heart all
it was all about the brain. I even we made a lot of scientific come into synchronization. We
got a degree in Consciousness discoveries that validate what call it heart coherence. There are
Studies. Then I had the great we already believed to be true. over 500 studies that show when
fortune to meet the Founder of We started by looking at how people are in a heart coherent
HeartMath, Doc Childre, and emotions affect the body, the state, it lifts and benefits almost
I was introduced to the real physiology. We were measuring everything: our health, our
Heart, the deeper heart, which it brainwaves and hearts in the lab. performance in sports, etc., but
is really all about. And what we found back when especially our ability to access
we started this (at that time, our inner intuitive guidance.

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The beautiful thing about the matter how we get there, what The big gift is access to our
heart and heart coherence is technique or practice we do. intuition, our inner guidance.
it’s neutral. It’s something It increases the measurable This is something we have
we all have. And whenever synchronization between the tested in the lab, and even we
we’re feeling love, compassion, rhythms of the brain and the were surprised. The takeaway
and kindness, we shift into a rhythms of the heart. is that the heart can know
heart coherent state. It doesn’t the future; it all starts in the
heart. The heart is the first to
get the information. It sends a
measurably different signal to
the brain, and then there is a
brain response, and only then
is there a body response to felt
emotion.

The heart has access to a field


of information that is not bound
by time and space. I would
suggest we have two hearts: the
physical heart and the energetic
heart, which has been called
the spiritual heart in so many
spiritual and religious traditions.
The energetic heart is the bridge
that connects the larger part of
our self—our soul, our spirit. It
translates that down into the
physical world of our bodies.
The energetic heart is how we
connect with our larger self, our
higher self. That’s the real us. As
we learn to become more heart
coherent, that pathway opens.
Becoming more heart-coherent
can facilitate anything we do,
and any practice we want to take
The big gift is access to our up.

intuition, our inner guidance. The next adventure in our


research was to understand
scientifically how the heart
connects us with others. Our
heart doesn’t just stop at the

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When we’re in a coherent state,


which we get into naturally when
we’re loving and appreciative, it
connects us with others in a
measurable way.

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The heart really is what is connecting us


across dimensions, with the higher self,
with others, and with yourself.

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skin. We are broadcasting radiating vibrate at the same frequency the field environment, the Earth.
fields, magnetic fields produced by as the coherent human heart Love is by far the most powerful
the heart. We were able to show rhythm. When we’re in that energy or frequency bringing
that those fields carry information heart coherent state, through coherence into the planetary
about how we feel. When we’re in resonance we connect with the field. We can measure this. And
a coherent state, which we get into fields of the Earth. We’re all I’m honored to say that the
naturally when we’re loving and connected too. We’re finding Heartfulness Institute is one
appreciative, it connects us with that the interconnected fields of of our partners on this project.
others in a measurable way. Hearts the Earth not only connect us We have a lot of these devices
literally synchronize when we to each other, but with nature, here, now, measuring what we’re
come together in the heart. with trees and animals. The doing to affect the field.
heart really is what is connecting
And that opens a new type of us across dimensions, with the I hope it has been useful to
communication where we hear higher self, with others, and with share some science with you.
each other deeply. Even when we yourself. What does this all point to?
don’t agree, we still have the heart My parting invitation is: it’s
level connection. It’s the key to Once we really understood that, time for love to go viral. It’s
how we build social coherence, we said, “How can we teach what is going to shift the
how we learn to get along with this to others? How can we frequency of the planet, it’s what
others, even when our minds make coherence easy?” So we is going to lift the baseline of
might not disagree. developed technologies to help humanity into our next level of
us do that. They are inexpensive consciousness, where the heart
The next major step in the technologies that allow you to and brain are truly in sync, in a
research path was understanding see your heart rhythm in real joint partnership.
how our hearts not only connect time. I’m thrilled to say they
us with our higher self and with are being introduced into many From a talk given at the Global
others, but with the Earth itself. schools in the US and other Spirituality Mahotsav, March 14 to
17, 2024, at Kanha Shanti Vanam
When we measured the heart- countries, allowing kids to learn
coherent rhythm, a rhythm of this at an early age. I personally
Illustrations by JASMEE
about ten seconds (we have new think there is no greater gift
MUDGAL
technologies that can measure it), we can give our children than
we started asking questions like, learning how to sync our hearts
“How do mothers know their and brains so they have that skill
children are in harm’s way when for life.
they’re on the other side of the
planet?” “What’s connecting us? When we look at the global
There has to be something making field, we have new technologies
that connection.” that can measure it. When we
come together at events like
We all live within the magnetic this, we get into that coherent
fields of the Earth, the North Pole, state. In other words, we add
the South Pole, the fields of Earth. love and compassion, and we
We discovered that the fields intentionally radiate that into
environment

There is nectar in water;


there is medicine in water.

RIG VEDA
Cultivating Peace:
Water, Wetlands, and Biophilia
for a Loving World
SRAVAN BANDA reminds us of the importance of water in a
peaceful world. He especially focuses on wetlands, often
referred to as the Earth’s kidneys, and asks us to continue the
work of World Water Day throughout the rest of the year.

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M
arch 22 was World Water how these elements can guide us for diverse forms of life. It’s time
Day, and this year the toward a more peaceful world. to acknowledge not only their role
theme was “Water for in safeguarding water but also their
Peace,” emphasizing the vital role Picture the Earth cradling its contribution to nurturing countless
of water in sustaining life and life-giving waters in wetlands, species. From the protective
fostering harmony between people often referred to as the planet’s embrace of marsh grasses to
and nature. As we delve into the kidneys. These unique ecosystems the sanctuary of shallow waters,
intricate dance of water, wetlands, not only cleanse and store water wetlands offer food, shelter, and
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of plants and animals, promoting


biodiversity and ecological balance.

Preserving and safeguarding


these green lungs is essential
for fostering peace with our
environment. By taking measures
to restore and protect these vibrant
habitats, we not only conserve
water but also create a world that
exudes calmness and equilibrium.

Our cities yearn for a deeper


connection with nature. Within
urban landscapes, wetlands emerge
as resilient guardians during
floods, offering invaluable support
in adapting to our changing
climate. Moreover, they serve as
multifaceted ecosystems, acting
as natural filters that enhance
water quality. These vital habitats
also function as carbon sinks,
absorbing and storing carbon
dioxide from the atmosphere, thus
playing a crucial role in mitigating
climate change. Beyond their
environmental functions, wetlands
serve as biodiversity hotspots and
recreational spaces, fostering a
sense of well-being and connection
with nature.

Incorporating features like ponds,


fountains, and small streams
into our urban environments
can create peaceful oases that
rejuvenate our minds and bodies.
The theme “Water for Peace”
urges us to contemplate how
water intersects with peace on a
global scale. Access to clean water

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is a fundamental right, yet many


communities still lack sufficient
access. By collaborating to address
water challenges, we can promote
stability and peace worldwide.

Achieving peace doesn’t always


require grand gestures. Each
of us can contribute by using
water wisely, supporting eco-
friendly initiatives, and spreading
awareness about the importance of
water and wetlands. World Water
Day is a reminder to rekindle
our connection with nature,
recognizing that our bond with
water is an intrinsic part of our
identity.

World Water Day 2024 was a call


to action. It implored us to care
for water, protect wetlands, and
cherish nature. By understanding
the interconnectedness of these
elements, we ensure a future
where water flows freely, wetlands
thrive, and our love for nature
flourishes—a world where “Water
for Peace” is not just a concept but
a vibrant reality.

As we continue to celebrate the


spirit of this day and let our
actions ripple outward, we are
creating a wave of positive change.
Together, we can paint a world
of serenity, where humanity and
nature coexist harmoniously,
forever in the glow of peace and
love.

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creativity
The creative process is a process of
surrender, not control.

BRUCE LEE

Illustration by ANANYA PATEL


Become Your Own
Influence

AARYAN ARORA is a young actor, musician,


and composer. He was interviewed by
PRAGYA MISHRA during the Global Spirituality
Mahotsav on the impact of meditation on his
creativity and sense of inner balance, and the
advice he would give young people struggling
to find their way.

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Q: Thank you for joining us. You’re a social media there that can bring change?” Since then, so
influencer. How did it all start for you? many emotions have overflowed. The second I
entered Kanha again, I was blown away with all
I started posting on Instagram three years ago and I the love and positive energy. Meditation got me
now have around 400,000 followers. It started with in such a great state.
some of my acting projects, then I started releasing
music, mostly covers of Hindi and English songs. Q: You’re here at Kanha for the Global
Then, after meeting Daaji, I became obsessed with Spirituality Mahotsav, where many spiritual
writing music. organizations have come together with
a focus on how inner peace can lead to
I asked Daaji about artists producing content. He told global peace. If individuals are at peace,
me that when anybody in the artistic field is working then collectively we can bring about a
on something, they should have a purpose in mind, world where there are fewer wars, more
so as to create something with meaning. That’s when cooperation, and everyone can come
I started writing music. I wanted to dive deeper into together. I want to understand from you, as
life, so I started writing music that was more spiritual. a creator and influencer, what do you do to
find inner peace and joy?
Q: This is your second visit to Kanha; you must have
noticed the transformation from your last visit. I meditate. I started here in Kanha. It was the
What has pulled you back here? best experience I could imagine having. I did
not come with any expectations. I came with
Definitely Daaji, and also everyone who makes an open heart. I just followed the energy I
Daaji who he is. The volunteers, the people I’ve been was receiving. Since then, I’ve been practicing
meeting here, embody that essence of Heartfulness, Heartfulness regularly.
which is love, right?
For inner peace, I try to go within myself, not
Daaji touched my heart when I first met him, when to analyze but to dive deep into my heart,
we did a podcast together. I didn’t come with any which is what we do in Heartfulness. It makes
expectations, but he put me in a state of pure bliss. a big difference. Every time I’m thinking about
It was so amazing just talking to him. My first life, problems, the meaning of being here, why
question was about love. He said it was a very big I’m doing this, I just dive within my heart and
question, and we went into many different areas that go from there.
opened my heart. I remember thinking, “What’s
the point of being an artist? Is it just to produce Before I met Daaji and started Heartfulness, I
content for entertainment, or is it also to have an was making some originals that were centered
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For inner peace, I try


to go within myself,
not to analyze but
to dive deep into my
heart, which is what
we do in
Heartfulness.

with people from the heart. But I wasn’t diving getting into social media, a lot of the time you get
that deep into my writing. Once I met Daaji, I into the aspects of likes and followers, and you may
came back to Delhi and my mom said, “What’s think, “I shouldn’t do this because what if I don’t
happened to you?” I was in a state of self-discovery. get enough engagement?” “If I do this, I’ll get more
comments.” “More girl followers. Girls will like
I started writing deep lyrics, including a song that this better.”
isn’t released yet about how we’re all wandering
souls on this earth, we’re all trying to find the truth. I don’t post too often these days—maybe once or
More importantly, we’re trying to find happiness. twice a month. Do your work with your heart. If
What we don’t realize is that it’s temporary you want to get into a specific niche and promote
happiness, whereas real happiness is within something, let it be something you love. Someone
yourself, right? When you’re content with yourself. who’s into yoga is doing it because they love it,
right? They want to spread that beautiful art to
People say, “I haven’t made it, I’m not successful the rest of the world. That’s what I am doing with
yet.” But the way I think about success now is how music, acting, and my content.
you feel within yourself, if your soul is content with
what you’re doing. Q: Couldn’t agree more. But it’s often difficult
when you’re going through a struggle to dig
We’re living in an age of social media. For anybody deep, look into your heart, and say, “Okay, that’s
who is an influencer already, or is thinking of what I want to do.” While you believe in it, you

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don’t always have the courage to follow your heart. The second week, I felt a little more relaxed.
Have you had those moments? What has really After a couple of months, everything changed.
helped you to stick to that path? The depression was a catalyst, because I had
never composed music, I was just singing
I’m so glad you asked this question. Around a year other people’s songs. As an artist, one way to
ago, I was in a state of depression. I didn’t know open up your heart is to write music. After the
what I was experiencing. My mom witnessed it, and depression and after meditating for a month
you know how mothers are, very emotional and very or two, I could write music from my heart,
loving. Even though she’s spiritual and very much and it changed my whole life. Meditation and
into meditation, my mom knew I was a bit rigid at spirituality helped me unleash my creativity as
that point. When you get into spirituality, at the an artist.
beginning it’s not always easy. If materialistic things
aren’t going to give you happiness, what will? That I did a podcast with the well-known director,
put me in a depressive state, in a loop. I was thinking, David Lynch. He told me that when actors
thinking, thinking, and I overthought to the point sometimes walk into a room, sometimes
of depression. I went to a therapist who said, “You’ve people say, “Oh, he has the ‘it’ factor.” Why?
got to be on lifelong medication,” so my mom said, It includes looks, how well you’re dressed,
“Alright, just listen to me, start meditating a little bit.” consciousness, energy, and the spirituality that
your soul is speaking to. Sometimes you change
We started doing meditation in the morning and the way people perceive you, and you give an
evening. The first week, nothing much happened. energy to people. Once you meditate for some

As an artist, one way to


open up your heart is to
write music. After the
depression and after
meditating for a month or
two, I could write music
from my heart, and it
changed my whole life.
Meditation and spirituality
helped me unleash my
creativity as an artist.

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time, it changes your experience with other people,


your relationships; it’s not just about understanding
yourself more, it also changes the way you talk to
other people, the way you handle situations.

For example, if something happens in daily life,


whether small or big, a business deal, or a broken
utensil in the kitchen, earlier I’d be like, “Oh my God,
why is this going on?” I would constantly monkey my
victim mindset. But since meditating regularly, it has
changed. I’ve seen the people who are connected with
Daaji. They are so content with themselves, they know
how to behave, and how to react to situations.

Q: I completely agree. Heartfulness has helped But with spirituality, there’s a


me significantly to center and respond instead of
reacting.
smooth balance, a high that
never has lows.
Exactly. When you get less and less in your own way,
and you’re in that flow state, meditation gives you
that humility to realize you’re so insignificant, and
yet you’re significant. What is it you can do with the California and New York. In every social circle, your
significance that you have in this life? I think it’s friends ask, “You want to smoke?” I still remember
what Daaji says, around self-realization and finding going to Florida for a shoot. We were making money.
yourself. I thought, “Now’s the time to relax and have fun. Let’s
smoke some weed.” You smoke weed once and it’s
When I meditate more, I make meaningful human such a good experience. And for musicians, you walk
connections from the heart, which last a long time. At into any recording studio in America and it is full of
the end of the day, the other person can also resonate smoke.
and feel from where you are coming to them. If it’s
from a transactional place, they can quickly make it I told my mom, “Mom, I smoked weed.”
out. And she said, “What!”
I was like, “Mom, I’m so sorry, I feel so bad.”
Q: Often when young people are depressed, or in She said, “Why are you doing this?”
any sort of struggle, the easy go-to is addiction. I told her, “Mom, I don’t know. I feel like it unleashes
How come you never went into that? Or did you, my creativity.”
and you have something to share?
Then I discovered that meditation and spirituality
I did. I’m going to be totally honest, because a lot of give you a high that weed can never give you. With
my audience is from America and the Western world. any drug, after a couple hours there is going to be
Marijuana has been legalized everywhere, and it’s been a low after the high. But with spirituality, there’s a
marketed as something therapeutic, which maybe smooth balance, a high that never has lows.
in some situations it is. You have dispensaries in

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as you were. Even in one meditation, you can


Try meditation. Don’t just change the way you are thinking.
give it one try. Give it a
We all have different conditioning, whether from
couple of weeks or a month. family, friends, or where we were brought up. At
the same time, we eventually leave home, make
It will make a difference. You friends, and peer pressure is difficult.

will experience spiritual I would say, take a deep breath and connect to
your soul. Try meditation. Don’t just give it one
advancement in your life as
try. Give it a couple of weeks or a month. It will
well as materialistic. make a difference. You will experience spiritual
advancement in your life as well as materialistic.

Q: Thank you so much for sharing. We’ll keep


watching all your beautiful music coming out.

Q: Do you think we get into peer pressure, the Thank you.


need to fit in, to belong? We often do things
that don’t align with our values. I did that when
I was young, and I’m sure a lot of people are
doing it right now. What can you share with
them that will give them the courage to step
away and say, “I’m not going to fall for this. I’m
going to do what I think is right for me”?

It’s not easy when you have a group of friends,


especially if you’ve been friends for many
years. It’s even worse when they’re in the same
profession, especially if they’re successful. It’s
different than college or high school, when
someone is giving you drugs before an exam.
When you’re older, you’re making money and
being successful. People are smoking weed around
you and pressuring you to do drugs.

Nowadays, I take a deep breath and do a short


meditation, being 100% honest. That kind
of state of silence, of pure bliss, puts you in
connection with your soul. When you come out of
meditation, you don’t have thoughts about what
other people are saying. You’re not as influenced

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When a Bird Sings,
Do You Analyze It?

SIDDHARTH KAK is an Indian documentary maker, television


producer, and presenter, best known as the producer and
presenter of Surabhi. Here, he is interviewed by PURNIMA
RAMAKRISHNAN at the Global Spirituality Mahotsav about
being stoic, and he shares two unique stories on how culture
and language can transcend borders, time, and unexpected
circumstances.

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Q: Thank you so much for joining it will communicate to a large wrote the book Lilavati. Lilavati
us. My first question to you is number of people. This is true was his eight-year-old daughter,
what distinguishes documentary even for specialized documentaries, so he wrote the book to explain
filmmaking from regular which only committed people mathematics to his daughter, an
filmmaking in capturing the will listen to. You may not feel it’s eight-year-old child. And Lilavati
essence of a story? important to reach others, but your grew to be a great mathematician
documentary can bring them into in her own right.
The idea of a documentary is the fold. Even if you’re dealing
to communicate. Depending on with very complicated subjects, One of the problems he posed
whom you communicate with, you’re not talking to scientists, was: Imagine you’re in a field.
your documentary changes. you’re talking to the general public. There is a pillar in the middle of
A documentary is a teaching If you don’t capture their attention the field, and underneath it is a
medium. When you make any film in the first minute they’re gone. snake hole in which the snakes
for the masses, you have to make burrow. On top of the pole a
sure you retain their interest. What Q: How do you approach the peacock is sitting. The height of
is in it for them? Why are they research of storytelling? the pole is nine cubits (and so on
watching it? They’re not there to with measurements). Now a snake
learn; they’re there to enjoy, to be The best research is through is coming toward the hole at the
entertained. talking to people. But it is messy bottom of the pillar. The peacock
because you collect large amounts sees the snake and flies down to
Really speaking, the principle of of information. Finally, it is your catch it. So Baskaracharya asks,
documentary filmmaking is to ability to put it together. If there “Now Lilavati, tell me quickly, if
capture the audience’s attention, isn’t something new, it won’t the speed of the peacock’s flight is
and one of the simplest ways is to interest others, so it has to have a this, will it catch the snake before
make sure it is understood. Can an common denomination. it reaches its burrow, or will it not
eight-year-old child understand be able to catch it?”
what you’re saying? If she can, Are you aware of the great
then your documentary is good; mathematician Baskaracharya? He

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Now, to answer the question, you Kanyakumari to Kashmir, to


have to understand there is a right understand India and give the idea
angle made by the pillar, the snake of a united India. I filmed it, so I
is moving toward the pillar, and went on the trip with them.
the peacock is flying down from
a certain height. That is what For the first time in my life, I
storytelling is all about. When you was out of big cities into small
make a documentary, or any film, towns and villages. I saw the
you tell stories; that’s the way you hospitality and love of the people.
communicate. I experienced so much that it
became the first springboard to
Q: What has been your takeaway my understanding that there is a
from the TV series, Surabhi, the world I don’t know. Can I bring
longest running cultural program this world to other people? With Listen, be humble,
in India? How has being its host Surabhi, I had a platform, finally.
impacted your life? and find a way to
The beauty of Surabhi was that
When I started Surabhi, I could it taught me great humility. I communicate so
only speak English. My education realized I didn’t know anything.
was in a co-educational English I still don’t know anything. That
that the best of
public school. My grandfather helps me to enjoy learning. I what you say
was the last Prime Minister of enjoyed learning from you about
Kashmir, my step-grandmother Heartfulness. It’s something new, reaches the
was Scottish, and I lived a lot it has added to my knowledge. So
of my life with them, so I spoke I’m better for that. greatest number of
English very well. When I started
Surabhi, suddenly I was connected Surabhi taught me that there is people.
with rural India. Surabhi became an India that even India doesn’t
my education about India. know about. Do you think a
person working in the field or the
Before that, one more inspiration village is conscious that they are
brought me closer to the India I part of a great culture? They are
wished to explore and was proud just living their lives. That is the
to belong to. I joined Baba Amte, unconscious beauty of India. The
who looked after thousands of fact that India is unaware of its
lepers in his ashram, which is own greatness is its greatness. The
still there. Forty years ago, he craftspeople we featured in Surabhi
took up a yatra from the southern didn’t think they were great. They
tip to the northern tip of India, were just making a living, but
but because he had a spinal they’re living according to the
disability he traveled lying down traditional ways that have been
in a bus. Hundreds of rural youth there for thousands of years.
from all over India cycled from

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Have you seen the film Gandhi, met with ordinary people. My
by Richard Attenborough? It won grandfather had a quality I hope I
many awards. Toward the end, have inherited—what the Greek
there is a scene in which Gandhi philosophers call stoicism. He
is talking with an American was a stoic; he would not allow
photographer, Margaret Bourke. himself to be influenced by things
And when Gandhi is walking to around him, or show that he
his last meeting, where he would was influenced by those things.
be shot, Margaret Bourke says, When his imprisoned father died,
“There goes a man who has a way he was informed in court, and
to change the world. But neither his expression did not change.
he knows it, nor does the world.” He accepted. Stoicism has to do
He could change the world, but he with acceptance, and that can be
was not trying to promote it as a related to Maya. When you see the
great brand. He didn’t know that unreality around you, why take it
he was doing anything great, nor so seriously? Life is an evolution,
did the world; but now the world things will change, the cycle will
knows. The greatness of India is change.
that it does not promote itself as
the greatest civilization. Stoics go through life without
melodrama or over-reacting,
One of the big principles of life keeping a meditative approach to
I have observed is to be humble. life. My grandfather taught me
Observe and listen. We don’t that, and it was his saving grace,
listen. As I am talking now, I’m because he faced many situations
talking about what I already know. politically and emotionally. He
If I listen, as I listened to you in faced them with equanimity.
the beginning, I learn more to Peaceful calmness is the meditative
add to my knowledge. So listen, influence; life is bigger than the
be humble, and find a way to events taking place. You observe
communicate so that the best of them and react in an intelligent,
what you say reaches the greatest unemotional, yet affectionate way,
number of people. without getting worked up.

Q: Thank you! I read your book. I never saw him lose his temper.
I was very impressed with That’s a remarkable achievement
your grandfather—his strong in today’s world, where we have
character, determination, and short fuses. It was his quality. I
resilience. His mental and hope some of it came through in
emotional strength is inspiring. the book, and I hope people will
read it. That’s why we gave it the
I spent my childhood with title, Love, Exile, Redemption.
him. As a Prime Minister, he

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The craftspeople we featured in
Surabhi didn’t think they were great.
They were just making a living, but
they’re living according to the
traditional ways that have been
there for thousands of years.

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Q: How do you capture these When the sun rises over the But you have music, words, and
qualities and very subtly mountains early in the morning, pictures at your disposal.
introduce them without speaking and the sky reveals the earth,
them aloud? can you analyze that? You When an artist paints a beautiful
have to bring not just one, but picture, if it is supported by
Tell me, how do you understand three or four factors into your music and words, maybe it will
the singing of birds? When a bird communication of the beauty of be far more expressive to people
sings, and you find it beautiful, do these things. What do you have who don’t understand it. You can
you analyze it? at your disposal? Finally, when use music, words, and how the
you achieve nirvana, there is no camera moves to focus on different
Q: No. description possible. When you try aspects of the painting, to explain
to describe it, nirvana is beyond. to people who don’t know what

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painting is. You use the grammar interpreter was provided by the To make the bridge,
of the language of cinema. You Uzbekistan government, but he
are expressing the beauty or didn’t speak English. He spoke you need building
importance of something that a very sanitized form of Hindi.
is known to experts in the field, This was a challenge, because blocks, and among
but is not known to an ordinary we’re not so great in Hindi, but
person. You are the bridge. we could manage. He needed to those building
go to a funeral and said he would
To make the bridge, you need meet us the next day at breakfast.
blocks are music,
building blocks, and among Meanwhile, at the hotel they words, visuals, and
those building blocks are music, would look after us.
words, visuals, and animation. Use animation. Use
them intelligently and you can When we went to the hotel, there
communicate well. was a sign that said, “Please don’t them intelligently
drink the water from the wash
You need to search for basin.” In America you can drink
and you can
connections. Explain in terms tap water, but not in Uzbekistan.
communicate well.
that a person understands. Not as So we didn’t have water. We rang
scientist to scientist, or professor down for room service and they
to professor, but as layperson to could not understand us, so they prepared for every situation. It
layperson. When you speak and sent soda. Soda doesn’t quench makes for a little adventure and
write and listen as a layperson your thirst, but with the little a fun story, but it’s better to be
listens, then you come back to water we had and the soda we prepared so as not to panic.
the eight-year-old girl. Will she drank we were able to pass the
understand? night. In the morning, we landed Thank you, Purnima, for thinking
up at breakfast and the first of me.
Let me share a story about question we asked our guide was
language and connectivity. We where we could find water. He was Q: Thank you so much for your
were once filming in Uzbekistan blank. Our hearts sank. He didn’t responses.
in Central Asia. The first day know what we were saying.
we landed to start filming, I had Even to the questions you didn’t
become a little complacent. We Then suddenly his eyes lit up. He ask?
had already filmed in eight or ten understood in Sanskrit that we
countries, and in my arrogance were trying to get water. Drinking Q: Yes!
I didn’t prepare by looking or water was 1000 rupees a small
researching. I thought, “We will bottle, so we got a few because we
always get the help we want in all had a limited amount of money. Illustrations by ANANYA PATEL
the countries we go to. We have The rest of the time, we discovered
always been helped.” ways of taking water from fruit.

We landed toward the evening Anyway, we learned our language


and went straight to the hotel. An lesson. We also learned to be

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Time Is a
Precious Resource
SARA BUBBER tells a story The king’s advisor When the king announced it,
about a king who set a the people of his kingdom were

O
challenge in order to find nce there lived a king very excited. Who didn’t want to
an assistant. The outcome who was looking for work for the king himself ? Not
teaches us the value of time. an assistant: a man of only did he receive hundreds
She also gives us a thoughtful virtues like hard work, respect of applications from within his
heart activity, and tells us for time, commitment, welfare, country, he received thousands
some fun facts about time. and many more good qualities. from neighboring areas as well.

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As he began to sort them, he didn’t new skills, alertness, and other far had been exciting, like horse
know how he would choose the things the king would want in an riding, finance, presenting talents,
best candidates for further rounds assistant. Finally, the candidates playing games, everyone looked
of interviews. were narrowed down to three. forward to it.

His wise chief minister made The king finally met them and The king announced there was a
a list of people who could be congratulated them for reaching so tank that held a thousand liters
shortlisted. He made his selections far in the process of selection. He of water, which had to be drained
by screening the applicants, then told them that the next task was into various water holders for
by a series of tests on being kind to the best and a challenge everyone the people of the kingdom. The
strangers, the willingness to learn should be up for. As the tasks so candidates were ready and asked

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the king for hoses to transfer the


water, but the king said there
would be no hoses used, only a
pail that was as small as their little
finger. The men were stunned at
the enormity of the task.

They began to work. With the first


few pails, one of them men left
thinking it was too much work.
The update was sent to the king.
The other two men continued.
For two days they slogged in
the sun. The second man finally
gave up and went home. The
third man continued and his
hand touched something made of
glass. He brought the bottle out
and it contained a note. As he
opened the note, it read, “This is
the reward for persevering when
you know the task is impossible.
Impossible tasks can overwhelm
you in the beginning, but you
may move into them, pail by pail,
just like today. Congratulations
on assuming your new role as the
king’s advisor.” The man wondered
why he was being made the king’s
advisor when the job was for an
assistant.

The king came over and told


Giving anyone your time is the man he had offered his most
precious asset, time. “Giving
the most valuable gift you anyone your time is the most
valuable gift you can ever give
can ever give them.
them. Welcome aboard!”

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Heart activity two things that are the same for Inside this heart, write the names
everyone—the heart and time! of people, animals, things or
We are all unique, we come from passion projects you are going to
different backgrounds, have Heart and time go together. When take more time for this month.
various qualifications, and speak you put your heart into something,
diverse languages. But there are you will give it your time.

Fun facts about time • In ancient times, there were • All cultures experience time
various ways to measure time differently. Some feel it is
• The concept of “time” in including sundials and water linear, some feel time moves
English comes from the bowls. from left to right, and some
Greek “chronos,” which means feel that time is cyclical.
chronological or ordered. • Both the Indian and Greek
societies made use of sundials
to tell the time using shadows
of the sun.

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