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Antra Singh
Non -Verbal Communication is the message or response
not expressed or sent in words -hints, suggestions and
indications.
NVC is the unspoken communication that goes on in
every Face-to-Face encounter with another human being.
It is recognized as the route to discover what the other side
wants, without them ever saying it, like a secret way into
their soul.
NVC stands for the innermost, instinctual form of human
communication.
Communication researcher Mehrabian
found that only 7% of a message’s effect
are carried by words ; listeners receive
the other 93% through non -verbal means.
Birdwhistell suggested that spoken words
account for not more than 30-35% of all
our social interactions.
Over 65 percent of the social meaning of
the messages we send to others are
communicated non-verbally.
Conscious Non-verbal Communication
Subliminal Non-verbal Communication
(communicated to sub conscious mind)
Voluntary Non-verbal Communication (planned
physical response)
Involuntary Non-verbal Communication
(unplanned physical response)
To create impressions
To manage interactions
Expressing emotions
To send relational messages (conveying affection,
power, respect, dominance, etc)
To convey deception
To send messages of power and persuasion
Kinesics Facial expressions
Oculesics Eye contact
Haptics Communication of touch
Proxemics Communication of space and proximity
Appearance and Physical characteristics, attire and
Artifacts accessories
Paralinguistics/ Variation in pitch, speed, volume and
Vocalics pauses that convey meaning
Chronemics Effects of time on communication
It is the articulation of the body or the movement resulting
from muscular and skeletal shift
Kinesics acts may substitute language, accompany it or
modify it
It is informative and directive in nature
It comprises of the following:
Facial Expression
Posture
Gesture
Facial Expressions
It is used to aid or inhibit other people’s communication, to
complement your own and to replace spoken messages
There are five basic physical descriptions of facial expressions
viz.:
Neutral – pleasure, mask, respect, thoughtful and quiet attention
Relaxed – love, pleasure and submission
Tensed – fear, surprise, determination, contempt and extreme interest
Uplifted – happiness, anxiety, rage, love, astonishment and attention
Droopy – distress, suffering, grief, dismay and shock
It also provides information about a communicator’s thought
process
It also serves as a source of positive or negative feedback from
the receiver
Posture
Slumped posture – low spirits
Erect posture – high spirits, energy and confidence
Lean forward – open and interested
Lean away – defensive or disinterested
Crossed arms – defensive
Uncrossed arms – willingness to listen
Gesture
Ambiguous or Unambiguous gesture
Unnatural gesture
Beneficial gesture
Conscious gesture
Spontaneous gesture (Iconic; Metaphoric; Deictics; Beat)
It is the way eyes are used during a communication exchange
It is a direct and powerful form of non-verbal communication
The frequency of contact may suggest either interest or boredom
Gaze refers to an individual’s looking behaviour. It serves four functions:
regulatory, monitoring, cognitive and expressive.
Mutual Gazing is present when two individual’s interact and look at each other,
usually in the face
Effective guidelines on eye contact:
If you have trouble staring someone in the eye, look at something else on their face
When speaking to a group look at everyone
Look at people who are key decision makers or hold power
Look at reactive listeners
Do not look at the floor, scripts or anything that causes you tilt your head away from the
receiver
Do not look at bad listeners who may distract you
Haptics or tactile communication or touch
Touch helps the group form bonds and stay peaceful
Through touch we learn to relate to people and objects
It may be divided into the following degrees of intimacy:
Functional/ professional
Social/ polite
Friendship/ warmth
Love/ intimacy
Touch is an important way to convey warmth, comfort and
reassurance
Study of space/ distance
Space is defined as the distance a person maintains
between him/herself and his/ her fellows and
which he/she builds around him/ her in his/ her
home and offices.
Distance Relation Volume
Near (12 in. to 36 in.) Many dyadic social Indoors, soft voice
interactions occur
Neutral (4.5 ft to 5 ft) Most social gatherings and Outdoors, full voice
business transactions
Public Distance (5.5 ft to 8 Business and social Full voice with slight over
ft) discourse; more formal; loudness
desks in offices are placed
to hold off visitors
Across Room (8 ft to 20 ft) Used by teachers and Loud voice talking to a
speakers at public group
gatherings
Far Distance (20 ft and Public speaking by public Hailing distances, public-
more) figures address systems
Personal appearance is used to judge a person because the first
impression of a person is based on appearance
Clothing, hair style, attire, physical characteristics of the body like
facial shape, body shape, height, skin colour, body odour, hair, etc
Adornments (jewellery)
Pay attention to good grooming, including a neat hair style, body
hygiene, polished shoes and clean nails
Invest in professional looking clothing and accessories
Avoid flashy garments, clunky jewellery, garish make-up and
over powering perfumes
Ensure you feel comfortable in your attire and that your
accessories suit you before embarking on your business day.
Paralanguage refers to all vocally produced sound that is not a
direct form of linguistic communication
Tone (direct, commanding, loud, harsh, disguised, soft, gentle,
comforting, pleasing, volatile, sharp, boisterous, rage, etc)
Voice Inflection (stressing – stretching - narrow)
Pitch (high – low)
Intensity (loud – soft)
Articulation (precise – imprecise)
Rhythm (smooth – jerky)
Chronemics refers to the use of time as a message
system including punctuality, amount of time
spent with another and waiting time.
Observe and understand the non-verbal signals being sent your way on a
moment-to-moment basis
Use good eye contact
Stop what you are doing when your listeners look glassy-eyed or bored
Use the tone of your voice the way a musician uses an instrument
Adopt the most appropriate posture that suits the occasion
Express gratitude to your audience when they are being attentive and
responsive
Soak in the pats/ hugs that others give you
When you are confronting someone who you are in a close relationship
with, reach out to take his/ her hand in both of yours
Understand the cultural nuances of the various forms of non-verbal
communication