Professional Documents
Culture Documents
All of the facilitator notes for this session are found in the notes section of the PowerPoint.
Materials required
● Printed facilitator notes from this PowerPoint
● Pens for participants
● White board or flip chart paper and markers
● Printed from the appendix, one copy for each participant:
− Appendix 1: : How do you feel today?
− Appendix 1: EQ Activity Sheet
− Appendix 1: How Approachable Are You?
− Appendix 1: How Approachable are you – Scoring Sheet
− Appendix 1: How Approachable are you - Score Interpretation
− Appendix 1: How Approachable are you - Look Available - Questions 2, 6, 14
− Appendix 1: How Approachable are you- Listening Skills - Questions 5, 7, 8, 9, 16
− Appendix 1: How Approachable are you - Verbal Communication - Questions 1, 4, 7, 11, 13, 15
− Appendix 1: How Approachable are you - Body Language - Questions 3, 8, 10, 12
− Appendix 1: Be Approachable – My Commitment
− Appendix 1: Truth Exercise
− Appendix 2: Leading Through Relationships
− Appendix 3: The emotional bank account - How Should You Invest?
− Appendix 4: Social Style Handout
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Convergys Confidential and Proprietary 1
Team Leader
Development
Agent Relationships
Philippines
August 2017
● Hi, my name is __________ and often people say I look like _______, but in
reality I actually look more like ______. And if I had a million dollars I’d probably
buy ___________, but I settle on doing ______ as a hobby on weekends.
WORKSHOP CONTENT:
● Overview of Emotional Intelligence
− “How Approachable Are You” survey and dialog
● Team Leader Service Model
− Care
− Connect
− Credibility
− Keeping Commitments
− Unbiased Approach
Transformation
− Approachable
− Praise in Public, Correct in Private Understanding and practicing the
● Leading through relationships action planning importance of engagement will drive
retention and program metrics
● The Emotional Bank Account
● Characteristics of an effective team
We’ve all had bosses we were proud to follow — people we’d do anything for — even run
through a brick wall. On the other hand, most of us have had bosses we followed only
because, well, they’re the boss.
So what separates the leaders we want to follow from the leaders we have to follow?
TASK
Dimensions of Success
PROCESS RELATIONSHIPS
Adapted from Interactive Associate’s model Dimensions of Success
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CHECK POINT! Transformation
What Do We Know?
- We now know that based on the NPS Survey, our direct reports
wants a LEADER and not a BOSS!
Dimensions of Success
How to be in the “Sweet Spot”?
IQ: 178
EQ: 0
Daniel Goleman
Rigidity
- Inability to accept feedback
- Inability to listen, learn and change
Emotional Intelligence = EQ
Perceiving
Monitoring
Recognizing
Understanding Using
Emotions
Reasoning
Having high EQ means that you understand and recognize emotions and use this information to guide your
thinking and actions in a positive productive way
Social Competence
EQ Domain competencies
Self Management: Relationship Management:
Controlling Emotions Facilitating
Demonstrating Integrity Influencing
Adaptability Developing Others
Accomplishing Cultivating Relationships
Sustaining Optimism Team Work and Collaboration
Inspirational Leadership
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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE – SELF AWARENESS Transformation
Accurately reading your own emotions is a basic aspect of emotional intelligence and
helps guide your decision making process
Self confidence comes from an accurate sense of your own worth and abilities. This
leads to be a belief in yourself and the ability to be a better decision maker
Always be positive
Solicit feedback
Identify strengths, weaknesses and triggers
Interpret goals and feelings
Self-observe and reflect
Record reactions and thoughts
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EMOTIONS
A mental state that arises spontaneously rather than through conscious effort and
is often accompanied by physiological changes; a feeling .
Eight basic emotions
● Anger ● Fear
● Surprise ● Guilt/Shame
● Sorrow ● Interest
● Joy ● Disgust
Instructions: For each statement, mark in the column that best describes you. Please answer them as you actually are
(rather than how you think you should be), and don't worry if some seem to score in the "wrong direction."
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1 - The negative feedback I give outweighs my
9 - I empathize with my colleagues' positions.
positive feedback.
2 - I step away from my desk and walk around to 10 - I do not make eye contact when talking to
speak to my colleagues. people.
3 - I smile at people, whatever their level in the 11 - I talk to each team member the same,
organization. whether they are thick skinned or sensitive.
4 - When my colleague pitches an idea, I do not
12 - I talk with my arms folded.
provide feedback.
5 - I make time available to speak with team
13 - I do not complain.
members.
6 - I let my colleagues know where I will be if I
14 - I give team members my cellphone number.
am away from my desk.
7 - I let negative emotions show when I receive 15 - I talk about my life outside work with my
bad news. colleagues.
8 - If I am talking to a team member and the
phone rings, I halt the conversation to take the 16 - I provide a platform for ideas.
call.
You need to work on your approachability. Your attitude and demeanor are cutting
off the flow of information you receive from your team members. This might mean
that problems are swept under the carpet, or great ideas aren’t being allowed to
flourish. You may have to make some fundamental changes to how you manage,
but don’t worry: there are plenty of simple ways to get started and boost your
16-36 approachability.
You are in a great position to improve. You can be approachable, so problems may
come to you before they get serious. However, your team members may also put off
telling you when something’s up, because they’re worried about your reaction. Take
a closer look at your results and focus most on where your score is low. You may
37-58 find that a simple change to the way you manage will make a huge difference.
Well done! You are approachable, which means your team members feel relatively
little fear in coming to you when they have a problem or an idea. This is because
your reaction to bad news is measured and calm, and you treat ideas with relish
and positivity. As a result, crises develop far less often than they would do under a
more unapproachable manager, and your organization benefits from the ideas
culture that your welcoming attitude has fostered. However, there is always room
59-80 for improvement!
There is a huge crossover between appearing approachable and being positive, and this is especially important when
we consider what comes out of our mouths. What we say is a crucial part of approachability, because good verbal
communication helps us build trust and a strong team spirit.
Few people will want to engage with you if everything you say is negative. Although it will always depend on the
circumstances, team members will have more confidence in approaching you with ideas or problems if they are not
fearful of the outcome. With this in mind, make sure you acknowledge ideas from your team and give credit where it's
due.
(You don't have to go over the top. Try to give much more positive feedback than negative (because people take
negative feedback much more to heart than positive feedback – a simple "thanks for the suggestion" encourages
people to contribute again.)
If an idea is great, make sure you give your team member the recognition he deserves. Research shows that receiving
praise raises our dopamine levels – the neurotransmitter associated with feelings of joy and satisfaction – which helps
us establish good working habits. But if an idea is not so good, you need to explain why. Failure to do so may leave your
team member feeling like his input is not wanted, and this can stifle future creativity.
Responding positively to good ideas is the easy part. It's how you react to bad news that's the real test. Self-regulation,
which is an important part of emotional intelligence, isn't always easy but problems can fester if team members are too
scared to come to you with their issues. Appreciate that it takes courage to speak up when something is wrong, so
always thank the person for letting you know.
Link to Verbal Communication
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HOW APPROACHABLE ARE YOU? – BODY LANGUAGE - QUESTIONS 3, 8, 10, 12 Transformation
Your team members could be sitting on ideas that could transform your organization but previous
experiences, when you've seemed disinterested, may have put them off telling you about them. And you
could be none the wiser!
We know that positive managers tend to have happy teams, and they are naturally far more approachable
than those with a negative outlook. Positivity shines through all communication, including our posture, eye
contact, hand gestures, speech, and tone of voice. And how we hold ourselves determines the way people
act toward us.
Using the right body language is a vital yet simple way of increasing your approachability. Smile more,
unfold your arms, look your team members in the eye when you talk to them, and speak slowly in a
moderate to low tone. Take your time when you're walking to and from your desk – even if you're in a hurry
– and remember to look around rather than straight ahead or down at the floor.
Compare the results from your quiz to the tips provided to be approachable.
Take 5 minutes and write down three things that you will do differently to be more
approachable with your Agents in the four categories.
Look Available
Listening Skills
Verbal Communication
Body Language
● Are either internal (e.g. thoughts) or external (e.g. events that happen
around us) factors that can elicit an emotional response.
● For example, I thought (trigger: internal) my TL was mad at me that’s why I
got scared (emotion: fear) and it reflected in the way I responded to the
customer
● The man cut the line (trigger: external) and I got mad (emotion: anger)
Expressed
Trigger INTERPRETATION Emotional Response
“Moment of Choice”
We can choose how to interpret
Empathizing and reading the big picture, being able to read the big picture facilitates an understanding
of relationship networks, trends and politics of larger groups and Organizations. A high Level view
allows you to see the reality of things, not just how you would like them to be. Awareness of social
surroundings can be built through empathizing, which is sensing and taking interest in other people’s
emotions and perceptions
1. Care
2. Connect
3. Credibility
4. Keeping Commitments
5. Unbiased Approach
6. Approachable
7. Praise in Public, Correct in Private
We’ll show you simple, fast easy ways you can connect.
Scenario:
Your OM has confidentially shared that the program you are currently on will no
longer be supported by Convergys. During a one on one with an Agent, she tells you
that she heard the program will be pulling out of the site.
After your coaching conversation, you (TL) and your agent create an action plan.
After a meeting with your OM, you are tasked to communicate a change of target (e.g. AHT will
significantly increase in target in the next 2 months) through your Team Meeting.
How do you (as a TL) communicate and stick to your commitments during and after your Team
Meeting?
Scenario:
Two of your agents are in the bottom two in the Net Promotor Score (NPS) OM cluster
stack rank. One of your agents is fresh out of Transition, and the other agent is tenured
(more than two years in the program).
:
Highly performing teams -> the leaders provide a 5:1 ratio. That means 5 utterances of
positive reinforcing feedback to every 1 utterance of constructive feedback.
You are currently conducting a team meeting on the production floor, and ask an Agent to
share best practices. Your Agent shares best practices, but in vernacular, and in front of
new hires that are on the other side of the stations Y-connecting with tenured agents.
How do you handle the scenario in front of the team, and then correct privately?
While remotely monitoring an Agent on one of the calls, you are able to observed that the
Agent is exhibiting the right behavior you recently talked about in your “coaching to
improve AHT”, avoiding being too chatty. The Agent was consistent as well on the next two
calls you have remotely observed.
YOU DO!
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RELATIONSHIP BUILDING IDEAS Transformation
Withdrawal
Deposit
“I can’t believe you’d
expect me to give you
“How was your weekend?” PTO with only 1 day
“I wanted to check in to see if your notice!”
daughter is feeling better.”
“Great job earlier today helping Gina
“Get out of the way, I’m trying to come
find the tools she was looking for!”
through.”
“I brought you a new pen since you
lost your favorite one.”
“Who is the idiot who forgot to pick up
“I made some cupcakes for the team
their documents from the copier?”
– Happy Friday!”
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THE EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT - ACTIVITY
Withdrawal
Deposit
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THE EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT - HOW SHOULD YOU INVEST? ACTIVITY
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THE EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT
Emotional Bank
Account Activity
● Team building is essential to bring out the best in every team member
for continuous growth.
Here are some team activities that promote building an effective Team:
● On Team Meetings – Have one team member share (10mins) something interesting
about him/herself (encourage creativity during sharing…like show
pictures/ppt./etc.).
● Schedule All Hand meeting with your Team to discuss critical communications and
changes to your program.
● Conduct regular Focus Group Discussions with your TLs and/or Agents.
● Regular rewards and recognitions activities.
● Follow your TL cadence of “walking the floor”.
● When planning to conduct team building, you can check GOM or in our Leadership
Development portal go to Building Leaders and go to Skill Pack - Team Building
for Team Leaders. You will find activities there you can use for Team building.
● Emotional Intelligence
● Team Leader Service Model
− Care
− Connect
− Credibility
− Keeping Commitments
− Unbiased Approach
− Approachable
− Praise in Public, Correct in Private
● Leading through relationships action planning Transformation
● The Emotional Bank Account Understanding and practicing the
● Characteristics of an effective team importance of engagement will drive
retention and program metrics
Item 1 2 3 4 5
Never Rarely Sometimes Often Always
People set group goals and help others work toward them
Enthusiasm and confidence in the organization are widespread.
My Notes
Back
How Approachable Are You?
Instructions: For each statement, mark in the column that best describes you.
Please answer them as you actually are (rather than how you think you should be), and don't worry if some seem to
score in the "wrong direction."
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1 - The negative feedback I give outweighs my
9 - I empathize with my colleagues' positions.
positive feedback.
2 - I step away from my desk and walk around to 10 - I do not make eye contact when talking to
speak to my colleagues.
3 - I smile at people, whatever their level in the INTERMISSION people.
11 - I talk to each team member the same,
organization. whether they are thick skinned or sensitive.
4 - When my colleague pitches an idea, I do not
12 - I talk with my arms folded.
provide feedback.
5 - I make time available to speak with team
13 - I do not complain.
members.
6 - I let my colleagues know where I will be if I
14 - I give team members my cellphone number.
am away from my desk.
7 - I let negative emotions show when I receive 15 - I talk about my life outside work with my
bad news. colleagues.
8 - If I am talking to a team member and the
phone rings, I halt the conversation to take the 16 - I provide a platform for ideas.
call.
Back
How Approachable Are you - Scoring Sheet
Question
No. Never Rarely Sometimes Often Always
1 5 4 3 2 1
2 1 2 3 4 5
3 1 2 3 4 5
4 5 4 3 2 1
5 1 2 3 4 5
6 1 2 3 4 5
7 5 4 3 2 1
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10 5 4 3 2 1
11 5 4 3 2 1
12 5 4 3 2 1
13 1 2 3 4 5
14 1 2 3 4 5
15 1 2 3 4 5
16 1 2 3 4 5
Back
Score Interpretation
Score Comment
You need to work on your approachability. Your attitude and demeanor are cutting off the
flow of information you receive from your team members. This might mean that problems
are swept under the carpet, or great ideas aren’t being allowed to flourish. You may have
to make some fundamental changes to how you manage, but don’t worry: there are plenty
16-36 of simple ways to get started and boost your approachability.
You are in a great position to improve. You can be approachable, so problems may come
to you before they get serious. However, your team members may also put off telling you
when something’s up, because INTERMISSION
they’re worried about your reaction. Take a closer look at
your results and focus most on where your score is low. You may find that a simple change
37-58 to the way you manage will make a huge difference.
Well done! You are approachable, which means your team members feel relatively little
fear in coming to you when they have a problem or an idea. This is because your reaction
to bad news is measured and calm, and you treat ideas with relish and positivity. As a
result, crises develop far less often than they would do under a more unapproachable
manager, and your organization benefits from the ideas culture that your welcoming
59-80 attitude has fostered. However, there is always room for improvement!
Back
Look Available - Questions 2, 6, 14
It seems obvious, but looking available is one of the most effective steps we can take toward breaking down physical
barriers, reducing power distance, and keeping lines of communication open. Not much says "leave me alone" more than
keeping your office door closed, not talking to team members because they're less senior than you, or expecting people
to address you differently from everyone else!
If you don't have an office, improve your visibility by getting up from your desk and walking around. Your desk is your turf,
and this can make it hard for team members to approach. So, go and speak with people at their desks, where they feel
comfortable, or talk to them somewhere neutral, like at the water cooler. Use this informal time to recognize good work,
and to gain feedback. You'll be amazed how much people like to share their thoughts when they're asked!
Hewlett Packard® founders William Hewlett and David Packard famously used this approach in their company. Since
then, the term MBWA – Management by Walking Around – has become popular. But it takes more than simply strolling
through your office or around your site. You must make a determined and genuine effort to talk to and understand your
team members, to find out what they do, check they INTERMISSION
have what they need, make sure they're happy, and to take action
where necessary to correct things that are going wrong.
And don't just talk about work; indulge in a little personal disclosure. Sharing information about yourself is important
when you're in a leadership role because it shows others you are empathetic, compassionate and authentic. Speak
about your family, what you did at the weekend, and your hobbies. Build rapport with others by finding out about their
lives outside work, too. (If you share information and take time to chat, you'll probably find that you end up liking the
people you work with – that's great, and mutual liking and mutual respect can be hugely powerful!)
If you're in and out of meetings a lot, let your team know where you'll be and when you'll be back. Tell everyone how to
contact you if there are any problems, and make sure you're available. Should you not be able to respond immediately,
reassure people that you'll do so at the first opportunity you get.
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Listening Skills - Questions 5, 7, 8, 9, 16
Put simply, if your team members think you are not listening to them, they won't want to approach you.
Good listening is not about hearing what someone is saying and waiting for him or her to finish so you can
have your "two cents." You have to engage your eyes, as well as your ears, give the other person your full
attention, and draw on your emotional intelligence. Being switched on in this way builds trust and respect,
both of which are important for increasing approachability.
Engage in Active Listening. This is the process by which you pay attention to the words someone is saying,
and understand the complete message that he is sending. Listening in this way is important, because it
shows you are paying attention, so your colleagues feel engaged and valued.
Another approach is Empathic Listening. This can help you win your team members' trust and get to the root
of any issues they may have. Do this by identifying key points and repeating them back to the speaker to get
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her to open up. What's important is to pay attention to what's not being said, as well as what is – the
absence of words can often be telling.
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Verbal Communication - Questions 1, 4, 7, 11, 13, 15
There is a huge crossover between appearing approachable and being positive, and this is especially important when
we consider what comes out of our mouths. What we say is a crucial part of approachability, because good verbal
communication helps us build trust and a strong team spirit.
Few people will want to engage with you if everything you say is negative. Although it will always depend on the
circumstances, team members will have more confidence in approaching you with ideas or problems if they are not
fearful of the outcome. With this in mind, make sure you acknowledge ideas from your team and give credit where it's
due.
(You don't have to go over the top. Try to give much more positive feedback than negative (because people take
negative feedback much more to heart than positive feedback – a simple "thanks for the suggestion" encourages
people to contribute again.)
If an idea is great, make sure you give your teamINTERMISSION
member the recognition he deserves. Research shows that
receiving praise raises our dopamine levels – the neurotransmitter associated with feelings of joy and satisfaction –
which helps us establish good working habits. But if an idea is not so good, you need to explain why. Failure to do so
may leave your team member feeling like his input is not wanted, and this can stifle future creativity.
Responding positively to good ideas is the easy part. It's how you react to bad news that's the real test. Self-
regulation, which is an important part of emotional intelligence, isn't always easy but problems can fester if team
members are too scared to come to you with their issues. Appreciate that it takes courage to speak up when
something is wrong, so always thank the person for letting you know.
Back
Body Language - Questions 3, 8, 10, 12
Your team members could be sitting on ideas that could transform your organization but previous experiences,
when you've seemed disinterested, may have put them off telling you about them. And you could be none the
wiser!
We know that positive managers tend to have happy teams, and they are naturally far more approachable
than those with a negative outlook. Positivity shines through all communication, including our posture, eye
contact, hand gestures, speech, and tone of voice. And how we hold ourselves determines the way people act
toward us.
Using the right body language is a vital yet simple way of increasing your approachability. Smile more, unfold
your arms, look your team members in the eye when you talk to them, and speak slowly in a moderate to low
tone. Take your time when you're walking to and from your desk – even if you're in a hurry – and remember to
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look around rather than straight ahead or down at the floor.
Back
My Commitment to being Approachable
Instructions: Compare the results from your quiz to the tips provided to be approachable. Take 5 minutes and
write down three things that you will do differently to be more approachable with your Agents in the four
categories. Be specific and creative
1 2 3
Look Available
Verbal
Communication
Body Language
Back
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Leading Through Relationships - TL Name_____________ To be completed by Date: ___________ Back
•Before you can comment on performance, your employee should feel you know and care about them. Remember, people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.
•Instructions: in a natural way get to know your people by finding the answers to these five questions, then report your finding back to your OM by the above date.
Where did you grow up? What are your hobbies? What do Who is the most important person or What are you passionate about? What is What do you want to do with
Where are you from? you like to do when not people in your life? You should know something besides work that you are your life? Help the
Where are your roots? working? This is important the individual’s spouse, kids, and passionate about? It may be the same as individual to see a vision
This provides for you to be able to even the dog’s name, if those are the hobby, but it could also be a particular for what’s beyond the
common ground for reference when talking with the people who are important to the cause that the individual really cares about. current role, and how
Agent Name
you to connect with the individual to make a individual. Make sure to ask about This is something you can plug into to help can you help them get
the individual. connection. these people regularly. motivate and energize the individual. there.
INTERMISSION
Leading Through Relationships - TL Name_____________ To be completed by Date: ___________ Back
•Before you can comment on performance, your employee should feel you know and care about them. Remember, people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.
•Instructions: in a natural way get to know your people by finding the answers to these five questions, then report your finding back to your OM by the above date.
Where did you grow up? What are your hobbies? What do Who is the most important person or What are you passionate about? What is What do you want to do with
Where are you from? you like to do when not people in your life? You should know something besides work that you are your life? Help the
Where are your roots? working? This is important the individual’s spouse, kids, and passionate about? It may be the same as individual to see a vision
This provides for you to be able to even the dog’s name, if those are the hobby, but it could also be a particular for what’s beyond the
common ground for reference when talking with the people who are important to the cause that the individual really cares about. current role, and how
Agent Name
you to connect with the individual to make a individual. Make sure to ask about This is something you can plug into to help can you help them get
the individual. connection. these people regularly. motivate and energize the individual. there.
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The emotional bank account - How Should You Invest? Write each of your Agents name and list one “deposit” you will Back
make in their emotional bank account.
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Social Styles Handout
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