1. Pakikipagkapwa-tao : Opening yourself to others
and feel one with others with dignity and - Respect life as fellow human beings - Sense of fairness and justice - Concern for others - Ability to empathize with others - Helpfulness and generosity - Practice of hospitality - Sensitive to other feelings and trust 2. Family Orientation : A genuine and deep love for family. - Commitment and responsibility - Honor and Respect - Generosity and Sacrifice - Sense of trust and Security 3. Joy and Humor : Filipinos have a cheerful and fun-loving approach to life and its up and down, Pleasant Disposition, a Sense of Humor and Propensity for happiness that contribute not only to the Filipino charm but also to the Filipino Spirit.
* Laughing or smiling at those we love and hate.
* Tend to make joke about our good and even bad fortune * Smiling and heads up even in the most trying of times - Emotional balance and optimism - Healthy disrespect for power and office. 4. Flexibility, Adaptability and Creativity - Easy to adapt, blend to other culture, practice other tradition, speak and study other languages and even diff. environment or climate) 5. Hard Work and Industry : Capacity for hard work given to raise one's standard living of a decent life for one's family. 6. Faith and Religiosity : Faith in God - accepting reality to comprehend as a human created by God. "Pampalakas- loob" 7. Ability to Survive WEAKNESSES 1. Extreme Personalism - always trying to give personal interpretation to actions (Cow fave or Mahilig sa "baka' ") - thank you with "but" (compliment-criticism- compliment) 2. Extreme Family Centeredness - Very strong family protection whether it is in good or bad condition and situation (Konsentidor) (overprotected) 3. Lack of Discipline : Very relaxed attitude but POOR Time Management (the famous Filipino Time) - Impatient and unable to delay gratification or reward - Love to take short-cuts or 'palusot' system - Carelessness 4. Passivity and Lack of Initiative : Strong reliance to others fate (Makapag-Asawa ng Mayaman - or Manalo sa Lotto) (Mayaman- Mapera-Abroad naman si Mommy and Daddy/Lola and Lolo or Tito or Tita or Pinsan or Ninong etc.) - Yeah the famous PINOY PRIDE. It is all because of the race (nationality/blood) not by person's attitude, hard-work, dream and perseverance etc. - Claiming someone achievement even they are not representing the same flag just because of ethnicity. (Mabuhay ang mga Pinoy kahit American Citizens etc. and they are representing other country) - Very complacent (relax) but their rarely is a sense of urgency (It's OK we have 1 day left to finished, just relax) - Strong personality but Lack of Self-Confidence and strong determination to achieve goals - Good at start but NO Sense of Continuity (sometimes no direction at all or no plan at all) - Too patient without any plan or action (matiisin) "Bahala na System" - No matter what, At least we tried (paconsuelo). - Doubt and Debate or Argument or Objection first than to study, discuss until planning and action 5. Colonial Mentality : Patriotism vs Active awareness - (mas maganda and magaling kasi ang ibang bansa, mas masarap) - Too much appreciation to other nationality and foreign products than native one (local vs imported) - Lack of LOVE and Appreciation on what they have - Open outside but Side-open or Close inside (it's OK and Best to RECEIVED more than to Share) 6. Kanya-kanya Syndrome : Self-serving attitude that generates feeling of envy and competitiveness towards others (status vs prestige). - Personal ambition but insensitive to common good (people & own country) - Crab mentality (Hilahan and Inggitan System) - Lack of appreciation resulting unhealthy competition 7.Lack of Self Analysis and Reflection - Superficial and flighty or dreamy