Professional Documents
Culture Documents
COMMUNICATION Skills
(Listening and Learning & Building
Confidence and Support)
VERBAL or
NON VERBAL (BODY
LANGUAGE)
Counseling is a way of working with
people in which you try to understand
how they feel and help them to decide
what they think is best to do in their
situation.
Counseling mothers about feeding their
infants is not the only situation in which
counseling is useful.
USE HELPFUL
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Non-verbal communication means
showing your attitude through
your posture, your expression,
everything except through
speaking.
Demo 5 – skill 1
Skill 1
With each demonstration say exactly the same few words, and try to say them
in the same way, for example:
“Good morning, Susan. How is feeding going for you and you baby?”
•Posture:
Hinders: Stand with your head higher than the other person’s
Helps: Sit so that your head is level with hers.
•Eye contact:
Helps: Look at her and pay attention as she speaks
Hinders: Look away at something else, or down at your notes
•Barriers:
Hinders: Sit behind a table, or write notes while you talk
Helps: remove the table or the notes
•Taking time:
Helps: Make her feel that you have time. Sit down and greet her
without hurrying; then; just stay quietly smiling at her, watching her
breastfeed, and waiting for her to answer.
Hinders: Be in a hurry. Greet her quickly, show signs of impatience,
look at you watch.
•Touch:
Helps: Touch the mother appropriately.
Hinders: Touch her in an inappropriately way.
Helpful Non-verbal Communication
Demo d-e
Skill 1: Accepting what mother’s thinks
A.
Mother: “My milk is thin and weak, and so I
have to give bottle feeds.”
B.
Mother: “My milk is thin and weak, and so I
have to give bottle feeds.”
C.
Mother: “My milk is thin and weak, and so I
have to give bottle feeds.”
D.
Mother(crying): “It is terrible,(child’s name) has
a cold and his nose is completely blocked
and he can’t breastfeed. He just cries and I
don’t know what to d.”
E.
Mother(crying): “It is terrible,(child’s name) has
a cold and his nose is completely blocked
and he can’t breastfeed. He just cries and I
don’t know what to d.”
Case study
A baby being weighed, and his mother.
The baby is exclusively breastfed. Beside the
mother and baby is the baby’s growth chart. His
growth chart shows that he has gained a little
weight over the last month. However, his growth
line is not following the reference curves. It is
rising too slowly. This shows that the baby’s
growth is slow.
Which of these remarks will help to
build the mother’s confidence?
Case study
“This mother is lying in bed soon
after delivery. She looks miserable and
depressed. She is saying to the health
worker: “no, I haven’t breastfed him
yet. My breasts are empty and it is too
painful to sit up.”
Which response is more appropriate
Responses:
• “You must feed Amy at least 10 times a
day.”
• “It might help if you feed Amy more
often.”
Summary
• Accept what a mother thinks and feels
• Recognize and praise what a mother and baby are doing right
• Give practical help
• Give a little, relevant information
• Use simple language
• Make one or two suggestion, not commands