brought into connection with the mind of the Infinite. We may have no remarkable evidence at the time that the face of our Redeemer is bending over us in compassion and love, but this is even so. We may not feel His visible touch, but His hand is upon us in love and pitying tenderness. {Pr 102.3} • 103 THE SPIRIT OF FORGIVENESS What is forgiveness? It is the action of forgiving (the weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong). Mahatima Gandhi. Synonyms: (Action of forgiving) REMISSION (Readiness to forgive) MERCY FORGIVE To pardon, to waive any negative feeling or desire for punishment. • To accord forgiveness. MERCY: Relenting, forbearance to cause or allow harm to another. ( she took mercy on him and quit embarrassing him) A tendency toward forgiveness, pit or compassion. • JESUS TAUGHT US TO FORGIVE • In Mathew chapter 6:12 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
• PAUL ALSO IS SAYING IN COLOSIANS THE
SAME THING • Colossians 3:13 Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also [do] ye. And be ye • Ephesians4:32
kind one to another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. • HOW TO SEEK PEACE AND FORGIVENESS • MATHEW18:15 Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. • 18:16But if he will not hear [thee, then] take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.
• 18:17And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell [it] unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as a heathen man and a publican.
• 18:18Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be
bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. • 18:21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? • 18:22Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. • 18:23Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants. • 18:24And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents. • 18:25But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made • 18:26 The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. • 18:27Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt. • 18:28But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took [him] by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest. • 18:29And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. • 18:30And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt. • 18:31So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done. • 18:32 Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: • 18:33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee? • 18:34And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. • 18:35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses. • If I regard • Psalms 66:18
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iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear [me]: • Mathew 5:23 Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; • 5:24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles • 5:25 thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison. • When we come to ask mercy and WHY SHOULD WE FORGIVE? blessing from God we should have a spirit of love and forgiveness in our own hearts. How can we pray, “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors,” and yet indulge an unforgiving spirit? Matthew 6:12. If we expect our own prayers to be heard we must forgive others in the same manner and to the same extent as we hope to be forgiven. {Pr 103.1} • . He has upon his heart the burden of the souls of his neighbors. He must have the help of Jesus. How careful he will be to walk circumspectly, that his prayers may not be hindered, that no cherished sin may separate him from God. While helping others, such a worker is himself obtaining spiritual strength and understanding, and in this humble school he may become qualified to enter a wider field. As laborers for God, we need a more sacred nearness to him, and a closer fellowship with one another, that our prayers and efforts may not be hindered. HS119-1 A machine may be perfect in all its parts, and yet there be much friction and wear in its movements; but apply oil, and it performs its work quietly and well. So with us. It is necessary to have the oil of grace in our hearts, in order to prevent the friction that may arise between us and those for whom we labor. HS119-2 • We pray, "Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those that trespass against us." Do we do our part to answer this prayer? We are to make every effort in our power to remove every stumbling-block from before the feet of our brother. But too often our prayers are hindered by our pride of heart, by our refusal to confess faults and to remove wrong impressions. Let us remember that our prayers are not acceptable to God while we suffer a fellow-worker to misapprehend us. If we are not to blame for the misunderstanding that exists, we can perhaps make an explanation that will remove the misunderstanding. If we are to blame, if we have left a wrong impression on a brother's mind, we are certainly under obligation to do all in our power to remove this impression. {AUCR, April 15, 1903 par. 7} The lessons which Christ has given us are to be studied and into our religious life of every day. He says: “If you forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive thy trespasses.” “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.” Mathew 5:44 • Those who harden their hearts to forgive……. “their prayers are thus hindered, their faith is paralyzed and unkind thoughts are, unholy suspicions, alienate them from their brethren. Thus GOD is dishonored, and SOULS ARE IMPERILED. RH Chapter 767 A few words of explanation might change entirely the views of those who have been at variance, cherishing bitter feelings. We cannot be obedient to the law of God until we put out of the mind all differences, until we allow our hearts to be softened and subdued by the Spirit of Christ. Our prayers are hindered by our pride of heart, by our refusal to confess faults and to remove wrong impressions. {TDG 19.3} We are to make every effort in our power to remove every stumbling block from before the feet of our neighbor or our brother. My son [Edson], make every concession that it is possible for you to make. Do not leave on a suffering mind a misconception that an advance in humiliation and tenderhearted interest would remove. Satan will be sure to come to that mind with the temptation to misconstrue and to make a mountain out of a molehill. A mind that easily stumbles over hurt feelings will conjure up mistaken ideas of all kinds. {TDG 19.4}