Exploration and Curiosity Affiliation Achievement and Power Competition Cooperation Social Approval Self Actualization Secondary Motives
Secondary motives are taken into consideration when primary
motives and basic necessities are no longer an issue to fulfill or satisfy. These are the cause of the development of personality. As personality is the product of heredity and environment, no man in the world lives alone. According to Aristotle, man is a social animal. In order to adjust in his society, he has to learn many things from his environment throughout his life. That’s why it is difficult to explain them under one head. Play and Manipulation
Play motive is also very important among the objective motives.
It not only makes man to exert his physical and mental abilities but also promotes his sociability by creating the emotions of sympathy (to fell with others ) and empathy (feeling into a person or a thing); cooperation and coordination with the members of pro- team and emotions of eagerness, competition, winning over the opponent team ,tolerance patience and sportsman spirit. A player learns to keep his morale high. And struggle continuously to be successful in achieving his goal and play motive helps man to be physically and mentally fit. Manipulation helps the animals and human beings to learn to handle and use the things found in their environment. The learning ability of the animals Is inferior to the human learning ability as he not only uses his hands but also uses his intellect. A human child does not keep his ability to learn the rules and techniques of games alone; but as he grows younger, he learns to operate and repair different machines, instruments and apparatus etc. And thus he adjusts himself as an expert In his environment. Exploratory and Curiosity
Exploratory motive is observed both in human and animals .
A human child at the age of 3 months ,starts to explore world by moving his eyes after the moving objects or toys, as he grows older, he breaks his toys to look into the toys construct and use . The emotion of curiosity energizes his behavior to explore things and get know –how about. As he is able to speak, he questions his friends, elders and teaches about an unknown thing. So the journey from unknown to known depends on the exploratory motive. From the time immemorial, man has been exploring the world and has made many discoveries and inventions in the field of art and science. A stimulus and exploration motive might also be called curiosity motive. The tendency to find out and explore new things may be called curiosity. Traveling is a common way for people to discover new places, new things and new developments taking place outside their environment. By exploring new things ,people want to expand their knowledge and experience. When children are growing up, they are driven to explore new things . Toys are others articles are not accepted useless they are examined from various angles, even if the items become damaged or ruined in the process. Almost all individuals have a desire to have some standing position among the people of his society or group. Nobody likes to be considered inferior. Efforts to achieve a rank in the hierarchy of the group are present not just in human beings, but even among birds and animals, e.g. ‘pecking order’ among hens. Affiliation
Man cannot exist in isolation. The need to be with other people is
known as affiliation need. This need is revealed through one’s attraction to others through friendship, sociability or group membership. They make more local phone calls, visits and seek approvals of others. Need to rely on others which is called dependency motive is one form of the need for affiliation. When little children are frightened, they seek others to comfort them. This kind of experience in early life makes one seek the friendly company of others when faced with anxiety and fear. Achievement and Power
They refer to a drive towards some standards of excellence.
People with high-level achievement motives prefer tasks that would promise success and are moderately difficult. David C McClelland has found that while high achievers tend to succeed, low achievers tend to avoid failures. High achievers challenge failures and work harder while low achievers accept failures and go for less difficult tasks. High achievers prefer personal responsibility and like to get feedback about their works. Children whose parents have accepted their independence tend to become high achievers, while those of overprotective parents tend to become low achievers. Children learn by copying the behavior of their parents and other important people in their lives who serve as models. The parental expectations also develop achievement motivation in children. In order for children to achieve success in their future, parents must try to instill leadership qualities in them. When a person has a power motive, he or she is concerned about how their an actions will affect others. They try to influence others through their reputation. When a person has a power motive, he or she will expect others to bow to them as they give instructions. People with a strong power motive normally choose jobs in which they can use their power. These people expect high status and recognition from others. People may wish to become police officers, politicians, or deputy commissioners, for example. Competition
Competition may be between two individuals or two groups or a
competition of one individual with himself. Competition increases the rate and quality of work. However, the healthy competition involves an individual honest work whereas unhealthy competition may involve dishonesty in surpassing others; e.g. the quantity of work may raise but the quality may get poorer. So healthy competition with fair means should be encouraged and the unfair means should be discouraged. Some people make themselves a target for competition and compare their present work with the work done by them in the past. So competition whether in individual`s or groups often increases the performance. Cooperation
Cooperation is needed when collective performance is assessed
than the individual`s separate performance. An individual who identifies him with a group , cooperates with his group expecting that his group`s performance is his own performance. Such identification of each members to his associated group exceeds cooperation and the production is qualitatively and quantitatively better as a result of cooperation and coordination. If an individual is selfish and jealous of his group members, the work rate and quality will be negatively affected. Social Approval The Approval Motive is how people go about being accepted in society and what may or may not be approved by social standards. In other words, they want to feel sanctioned and not shunned. The need for social approval sustains cohesive societies. Individuals who “dance to their own drummer” and care little about what others think of them can remain within the community if they are needed and are willing to fulfill that need. Otherwise, they extract themselves or can be removed by the group if they are unwilling to contribute or are a hindrance. Often, there is no certainty in knowing which “nonconformists” will or will not be tolerated in a society. Therefore, those who want to enhance their chances of inclusion are frequently motivated to maintain social approval. Self Actualization
A self-actualized person is someone who feels fulfilled and has
accomplished all the things they are capable of accomplishing in their life through personal growth and peak experiences, which are moments of deep meaning or emotion. Here are a few characteristics of a self-actualized person: Problem-centered (not self-centered) Highly creative Takes responsibility and works hard Strong moral/ethical standards Honest and avoids deception To understand self-actualization, it is important to be aware of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, which depicts the five basic needs individuals have during various stages of their lives. Abraham Maslow (the creator of Maslow's hierarchy of needs) believed human motivation is based on an individual's ability to seek fulfillment and change through personal growth. Maslow asserted that individuals strive for higher needs when their lower-level needs have been fulfilled or satisfied. THANK YOU
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