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By Mr Daniel Hansson
Models of Relationship Dissolution
Lee’s sequences of
separation model
(1984)
Duck’s model of
dissolution (1999)
Lee’s Sequences of Separation
Model (1984)
Based on a survey on 112
romantic break ups of premarital
couples, Lee identified
the following stages:
• Dissatisfaction-Recognising
there is a problem
• Exposure- Problem brought
out into open.
• Negotiation- Discussion abo
ut issue raised
• Resolution Attempts-Each p
artner attempts to problem s
olve.
• Termination-Resolution atte
mpts are unsuccessful.
Duck’s Model of Dissolution (1999)
Duck supposed there were five stages
which could be triggered by a threshold.
1. Breakdown-Dissatisfaction leads to cri
sis. Repair strategy: correct own faults
2. Intra-psychic phase-Thinking about rel
ationship in private, then with close frie
nd. Repair strategy- re-establish liking
for partner.
3. Dyadic phase- Deciding to break up/re
pair: repair strategy- recalculate rules f
or future.
4. Social phase. Include others in your ar
gument i.e. take your side. Repair strat
egy outsiders encourage reunion.
5. Grave Dressing- Public & private disse
ction of relationship. Repair strategy- T
ry to salvage friendship and agree upo
n acceptable version of events.
Evaluation