Professional Documents
Culture Documents
By Robert Neuenschwander
Current Problem
Few (if any) true initiations into adulthood are active in the West Ones that remain are
Small Ineffective Limited to closed groups
This leads to
Distorted self-images Violence Lack of vocational direction
What is a Rite?
Ronald L. Grimes - While rites-of-passage programs are partly intended to build self-esteem, they also focus on practical matters that can be a challenge to young men and women. Instruction is often provided in topics such as financial management, sex education, nutrition, personal hygiene, and decision making.
Remaining Rites
Religious Baptism, confirmation, bar mitzvah, christenings, first communion (often occurring at a younger age), vision quest Graduation (high school, college), completion of Boy Scouts, athletics and sports, military Quinceaera / Sweet Sixteen / major birthday, start/end of puberty, dbutante balls Moving out of home, first major job, marriage
Group
Personal - Teen
Personal 18+
Negative
Anatomy of a Rite
Part 1 Separation
A focused detachment from a previous way of living Cutting away of childish actions and beliefs
Part 2 Transition
Longest/most intense phase Learning about life, responsibilities, work with mentors
Part 3 Ceremony/Incorporation
A public declaration that rites test have been completed New adult is ready to be a full adult member in the community This is the main (and mostly remaining) focus in modern West
Constructing A Rite
When is it time?
Often around the onset of puberty
Rite Teachers
Boy is provided with a number of successful and powerful mentors, wellknown community leaders Some adult women involved in the beginning, mostly men at the end Mentors become responsible for character development
Rite Tests
Boy is provided with ongoing challenges Physical
Constructing, exploring, adventure into the unknown Being a man involves work and effort
Mental
Puzzles and situations where thought is needed before action Being a man involves wisdom and foresight
Emotions/values to face: fear, grief, empathy, love, valor, courage, honor, sacrifice, peace
Secret Knowledge
Traditions/instructions are passed down
Family, community, religious
Husband
How to relate to women
Father
How to raise sons properly
Names
Boy is given or decides on a new name
Mikey becomes Mike
Bob becomes Robert Childhood nicknames are dropped
Victories
Boy earns physical representations of his successes
A reminder of a test being passed Emblem, badge, item from the test itself Example Boy Scout badges
Rite Completion
A community ceremony, where boy is judged and encouraged by parents and mentors Young man makes a public declaration of:
Who he is What he seeks His goal in life / what he has to offer the world
Post-Rite
When the rites are done, they are done
Rite Impact
If rites of passage are emphasized, the result will be:
Men who can define their role in life Men who know who they are and where they are going in life Men who are independent but can still accept guidance from elders Men who can properly relate to women Men who are fit and prepared to raise children Men willing to pass on their knowledge to the next generation
Current Models
The following websites are some of the organizations attempting to revive modern rites of passage: http://www.aliveadventures.com/ http://www.ritesofpassagevisionquest.org/ http://www.thecornerstonespath.com/
http://www.thresholdpassages.org/
http://www.ymaw.com/
Works Consulted
Crossroads: the quest for contemporary rites of passage. (1996). Open Court: Chicago. Grimes, R. (2000). Deeply into the bone: re-inventing rites of passage. University of California Press: Berkeley.
Lewis, R. (2007). Raising a modern day knight. Tyndale House Publishers: Carol Stream, IL.
Websites on previous page also consulted.