Others had Done to You (Pages 164 -177) Lesson 13 Memory Verse: Psalm 107:1 “Give thanks to the Lord, because He is good; His Love is eternal.” Gratitude or thankfulness is an emotional response to the acts of goodness done to a person by others. It is a way of showing appreciation for the things that one receives and that greatly benefits him/her. Expressing gratitude can surely touch the lives of people who help you when you need them. You can demonstrate being thankful by also doing good to others, such as being generous and kind to those who are in need. Components of Gratitude Kindness is marked by charitable behavior, a mild disposition, pleasantness, tenderness, and concern for others. It is a virtue that comes from the heart. It drives you to do good deeds for the benefit of the person being helped. It is a form of selfless love that needs no recognition. Generosity is caused by emotions you feel towards the person you want to help. This enables you to do good to others unconsciously. Remember that even the smallest good deed you do to others can occupy a big space in their hearts; it makes them appreciate everything you do for them. REMEMBER: Kindness and generosity are personal qualities that drive you to help those in need. Possessing these qualities can help you in expressing your gratitude for the good done to you by others. It is not determined by how much or how many you can give but it is based on your genuine intentions to help passionately from the heart. Always keep in mind that even if you are not wealthy, you can still be kind and generous to others. 2 Stages in the feeling of gratitude (according to Dr. Robert Emmons) 1.One must recognize the good things in life. When one is able to acknowledge this goodness, a positive outlook towards life is developed. Also this acknowledgment gratifies the person. 2. Gratitude is a way of distinguishing goodness that comes from others. The feeling of gratitude directed to people or entities aside from oneself. This recognition of goodness from others leads to an attitude of gratitude. Gratitude can also be used for purposes such as: 1. In forming new social relations or making stronger bonds with people in one’s life; 2. In expressing apology; 3. In helping solve other people’s problems; and 4. In motivating oneself. GOD BLESS!!! Grade 8 (Ilang2, Lirio, Jasmine) Group work (4 or 5 members ) *Read the story “The Beggar” page 165 and Answer page 167 (share with group) *Read case#1, 2 and 3 then answer pages 168 - 170. *Write in 1 whole piece of paper. *1 or 2 members will report to class findings and answers of the group.