An Interplay of Self and Social World, Self-Concept
INTENDED LEARNING OUTCOMES o Define the concept of self and its significance within the context of the social world. o Identify the key components of self-concept and the various influences that shape one’s perception of the self. o Recognize the interplay between self and the social world, understanding how external factors impact one’s self-concept. SELF-CONCEPT: WHO AM I? Complete the sentence “I am ____________” in three different ways. OUR SENSE OF SELF o The most important aspect of yourself is your self. o Schemas – mental templates by which we organize our worlds. o Self-schema – beliefs about self that organize and guide the processing of self-relevant information. SOCIAL COMPARISONS o Evaluating one’s opinions and abilities by comparing oneself with others. o Schadenfreude – schaden (damage or harm); freude (joy); finding pleasure at other’s suffering/misfortune o Social comparisons are sometimes based on incomplete information and can diminish our satisfaction in other ways. o Upward social comparison - the tendency to compare ourselves with those perceived to be better off than us. o Downward social comparison - involves comparing oneself to someone else perceived as “lesser” or “worse” OTHER PEOPLE’S JUDGMENT o Labels that are accompanied to us are being incorporated to our self-concepts and behavior. o looking-glass self – as described by sociologist Charles H. Cooley (1902), our use of how we think others perceive us mirror for perceiving ourselves. o George Herbert Mead (1934), also a sociologist, refined this concept, noting that what matters for out self-concepts is not how others actually see us but the way we imagine they see us. SELF AND CULTURE o Individualism – the concept of giving priority to one’s own goals over group goals and defining one’s identity in terms of personal attributes rather than group identifications. o independent self – construing one’s identity as an autonomous self. SELF AND CULTURE o Collectivism – giving priority to the goals of one’s group (often one’s extended family or work group_ and defining one’s identity accordingly. o In individualistic cultures, being different and standing out is seen as an asset. In collectivistic cultures, it is seen as a detriment. SELF AND CULTURE SELF AND CULTURE SELF-CONCEPT o Our sense of self helps organize our thoughts and action. o Self-concept consists of two elements: o self-schemas – guide our processing of self-relevant information o possible selves – representation of an individual’s ideas of what they might become, what they would like to become, and what they are afraid of becoming. SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY Self-Esteem, Self-Knowledge and Social Self INTENDED LEARNING OUTCOMES o Define the concept of self-esteem ad its associated concepts. o Define the concept of self-knowledge and its related concepts. o Define the concept of the social self and its associated concepts. SELF-ESTEEM o refers to how we value and perceive ourselves. o “self-worth” o In collectivist cultures, self-esteem tends to be malleable (context-specific) rather than stable (enduring across situations). oFor those in individualistic cultures, self-esteem is more personal and less relational. SELF-KNOWLEDGE o “Know thyself” o “There is one thing, and only one in the whole universe which we know more about than we could learn from external observation. That one thing is ourselves” – C.S. Lewis (1952) o refers to knowledge of one’s own mental states, processes, and dispositions. PREDICTING OUR BEHAVIOR o Planning fallacy – the tendency to underestimate how long will it take to complete a task. o You can improve your self-predictions by being more realistic about how long tasks took in the past. PREDICTING OUR FEELINGS o Sometimes, we know how we will feel but other times, we may mispredict our responses. o Studies of “affective forecasting” reveal that people have the greatest difficulty predicting the intensity and the duration of their future emotions (Wilson & Gilbert, 2003). o Impact bias – overestimating the enduring impact of emotion-causing events. WISDOM AND ILLUSIONS OF SELF-ANALYSIS o We are unaware of much that goes in our minds. Perceptions and memory studies show that we are more aware of the results of our thinking than of its process. o Timothy Wilson (1985, 2002) offered a bold idea: Analyzing why we feel the way we do can actually make our judgments less accurate. o Dual attitude system – differing implicit (automatic) and explicit (consciously controlled) attitude toward the same object. o Verbalized explicit attitudes may change with education and persuasion. o Implicit attitudes change slowly, with practice that forms new habits. WISDOM AND ILLUSIONS OF SELF-ANALYSIS o The research on the limits of our self-knowledge has two practical implications: o psychological inquiry o Self-reports are often untrustworthy. o Errors in self-understanding limit the scientific usefulness of subjective personal reports. o everyday lives o Even if people report and interpret their experiences with complete honesty, that does not mean their reports are true. WISDOM AND ILLUSIONS OF SELF-ANALYSIS o The research on the limits of our self-knowledge has two practical implications: o psychological inquiry o Self-reports are often untrustworthy. o Errors in self-understanding limit the scientific usefulness of subjective personal reports. o everyday lives o Even if people report and interpret their experiences with complete honesty, that does not mean their reports are true. SELF-ESTEEM MOTIVATION o Most people are extremely motivated to maintain their self-esteem. o When people have markedly different ability levels, they report not getting along well – hence, their self-esteem is threatened. o Schadenfreude – joy at another’s misfortune/suffering. SELF-ESTEEM MOTIVATION o Relationships enable surviving and thriving, so the self-esteem gauge alerts us threatened to social rejection, motivating us to act with greater sensitivity to others’ expectations. o Studies confirm that social rejection lowers self- esteem and makes people more eager for approval. SELF-ESTEEM MOTIVATION o Jeff Greenberg offered another perspective called terror management theory. o This theory proposes that people exhibit self- protective emotional and cognitive responses (including adhering more strongly to their cultural worldviews and prejudices) when confronted with reminders of their mortality. NARCISSISM: SELF-ESTEEM’S CONCEITED SISTER o Actively pursuing self-esteem can be detrimental. o According to a study, individuals whose self-worth was contingent on external sources (such as grades or other’s opinions) experienced more stress, anger, relationship problems, drug and alcohol use, and eating disorders than did those whose sense of self-worth was rooted more in internal sources, such as personal virtues. o Those who pursue self-esteem, perhaps by seeking to become beautiful, rich, or popular, may lose sight of what really makes them feel good about themselves.