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NewDarkside - PPT 2018
NewDarkside - PPT 2018
the
Dark Side
of Leadership
Session One: The Dangers of the Dark Side
Desert Sun INDIAN WELLS - The Rev. David
Tyrell XXXXX, the Southwest Community
Church pastor under fire for revelations of nude
hot-tub photographs of him with his wife and a
married parishioner, resigned Saturday.
The Dark Side is Everywhere!
The Dark Side Top Ten Dangers List
5. Forced Resignation
4. Burnout & Physical Illness
3. Sexual Immorality
2. Divorce & Family Break-Up
1. Loss of Ministerial Credentials &
Shame as well as Discredit to the
Cause of Christ
The Big Picture
Session Three
Identifying and understanding our
particular dark side will enable us to deal
with it more effectively and develop a
personal plan for overcoming its
negative, destructive influences.
The Big Picture
Session Four
Developing a personal plan that will
help us consistently overcome our
unique dark side and enable us to
exercise healthy, God-glorifying,
failure-free leadership.
What is Personal Dysfunction?
•Physical Abuse
•Parental Divorce
•Teasing
• Acne
•Adoption, Abortion •Alcoholic
•Rejection
•Social Stigma
Mild •Death
Acute
Where Does Dysfunction Come From?
The Fall
Family of Origin
Personal Experiences
Personal Circumstances
Why Doesn’t God Just Remove Them?
Why doesn’t He Remove our Physical Ailments …?
Nearsighted
Asthma
Diabetes
Why Doesn’t God Just Remove Them?
James 1:2-4
Why Doesn’t God Just Remove Them?
And not only this, but we also exult in tribulations, knowing that
tribulation brings perseverance; and perseverance, proven
character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not
disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within
our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
Romans 5:3-5
Why Doesn’t God Just Remove Them?
Joseph Paul
Moses Lincoln
David Churchill
Esther FDR
How Does Dysfunction Contribute?
Self
Actualization
Esteem
Love
Safety
Physiological
Missing Blocks on Our Pyramid of Needs
Divorce
Abuse
Adoption
Sibling Death
School Failures
Others...
A Drive to Succeed…
Compensation Theory:
Lincoln
Douglas MacArthur
Jim Bakker
Bill Clinton
Billy Graham
Me and You ?
A Pattern Emerges...
The
Profile
Dark Side Profile Scoring
PLOTTING KEY
A=Passive-Aggressive
B=Compulsive
COMPULSIVE C=Paranoid
D=Narcissistic
E=Co-dependent
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SCORING LEGEND
0-4 Little to No Influence
4-8 Significant Negative
CO Influence
-D ID
8-12 Potentially Destructive
Influence
EP O
EN A N
D A R
EN P
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Compulsive Leaders - Causes:
Characteristics
Perfectionistic
Status Conscious
Workaholism
Compulsive Leaders - Challenges:
Perfectionistic Tendencies
Feelings of Inferiority
Causes
Personal Uncertainty
Narcissistic Leaders - Characteristics:
Characteristics
Grandiose Visions & Intense Ambition
Personal Exploitation
Self-Absorption
Narcissistic Leaders - Challenges:
Servant Leadership
Challenges
Suspicion
Personal Insecurity
Paranoid Leaders - Characteristics:
Characteristics
Alliance Building
(scheming & secrecy)
Overreaction to Criticism
Trusting Others
Challenges
Characteristics
Inability to Say “No”
Appearance of Benevolence
A Traumatic Failure
Characteristics
Resistance to Goal-Setting & Planning
Blaming Others
Passive-Aggressive Leaders - Challenges: