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When children are exposed to parent's heated debates, badmouthing, insults and high conflict situations, they suffer

tremendously. Children literally view themselves as half mom and half dad. Therefore, if they hear negative information or comments about one parent, kids tend to view it as something bad about them. This can greatly affect a child's self image and self esteem.

Exposing children to parental conflict can:


Place children in loyalty conflicts (feeling like they must choose one parent over the other). Continue or escalate children's feelings of fear and insecurity. Damage children's self esteem and sense of identity. Prolong short-term reactions to divorce and keep children from successfully adjusting. Contribute to development of negative long-term reactions. Keep children feeling responsible for the divorce.

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