50 Tips For Attraction

Attraction Mastery
50 Amazing Tips For Guaranteed

Success with Women

By Scott Patterson

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Introduction

Let's be honest here

The dating scene can be quite intimidating!

While there might be thousands of available women in
your area, you have almost no chance of success if you
don't know how to approach and or get them interested in
you.

Now if you're like most guys, you may have trouble talking
to women or thinking of what to say in order to make them
attracted to you. In fact, you're probably missing golden
opportunities to meet beautiful and interesting women.

From my experience with my website, I've discovered that
many guys need help in a variety of areas with women. For
instance, here are some of the common questions I receive
from my readers:

As you can see, I get a lot of questions about how to
meet and attract women. So for the past months, I've
been busy helping hundreds of guys learn how to succeed
with women.

That's where this ebook comes in I've taken my best tips
created this report to give you a crash course on attracting
women.

So sit back, read these 50 tips, then implement them into
your life!

Mental Game

Tip #1 - How to Improve Your Self Confidence

If you've ever tried to attract a
woman, then you know your success
depends on your self-confidence. The
more confidence you have, the better
off you'll be!

So what should you do if you lack self
confidence around women? Well here
are a few tips you can use to raise
your self-esteem:

Learn to Relax

Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state
by paying attention to your posture and body. Then
concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation
you're about to have. If you can remove all expectations
you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind
yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life.

Try Meditation & Exercising

There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi)
which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these
exercises, you'll be able to put yourself into a positive state
whenever you need it, including the times when you're
trying to pick up women. So if you're serious about
building self confidence, try one of these activities.
Use Your Strengths

One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all
of the qualities that make you a great person. Then
whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not
feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your
positive qualities.

By mentally reviewing your strengths, you'll be able to
quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.

Be Positive at All Times

It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive
outlook tend to attract more women.

So no matter what you're feeling inside, ALWAYS have a
upbeat attitude and do your best to be a guy who women
enjoy being around. What's funny is even when you *fake*
a confident personality, you'll eventually develop this
personality trait!

Tip #2- How to Be the MAN That Women
Want

Today I was reading a book on changing your lifestyle,
when I came to a sudden realization. Sometimes the best
way to attract a woman is to work on YOURSELF first. In
other words, you have to learn

How to become a MAN!

The truth is a LOT of
women are fed up with
dating guys who act like
little boys.

If you can learn what is
attractive to women, then
youll stand out from these
low status men.

So why is it important to become a MAN?
Well it's simple. By being a REAL man, you'll exude a
variety of positive characteristics. And these core set of
traits can help you become more naturally attractive to
women.

The question is- What virtues should you develop?

Well in my opinion, there are a number of strong character
traits you should develop. Here are just a FEW of them:
Honor
Integrity
Passion for life
Goal orientation
Confidence
Humility
Calmness under pressure
Generosity to friends, family and even strangers
Leadership
Courage and conviction
Decisiveness
Humor

Now you might be overwhelmed by the number of traits
Ive described. It definitely sounds like a lot to work on.
But if you want to become more attractive to women, then
you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of your
life. A great place to start is with John Alexanders How to
Become an Alpha Male system

I challenge you to take each trait and rate yourself on how
well you fit this description. Then discipline yourself to
improve on EACH of these character traits.

I guarantee the more you work on yourself, then more
youll naturally attract women.

Tip #3- Eliminate Your Approach Anxiety
Approach anxiety happens to the best of us! Weve all
had that terrifying fear of walking up to women and
initiating a conversation.
The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to
early human development. Back then,
there was REAL danger in
approaching women. If you talked to
a female who was attached to
another man, you could get smacked
over the head with a club.
As you can see, approach anxiety is a
NORMAL feeling that we all get.
But should you let it control you?
The obvious answer is NO!
Although approach anxiety is
commonplace, you should NEVER let
it control you. Remember that we've all been at this point
in our lives. The best Pick Up Artists in the world are the
guys who overcame these feelings.
Now if you want to overcome your own anxious feelings,
then you should follow the same technique I used to move
beyond approach anxiety
Talk to every woman you encounter!
Most guys who want success with women make the
mistake of ONLY approaching women during a specific time
during the week. Then they build up a LOT of anxious
feelings about initiating conversations with women.
The solution to this problem is pretty easy. Instead of only
approaching a girl during your trips to bar or club, you
should initiate conversations with the women you
encounter throughout the day.
The beauty of this technique is you do NOT have to worry
about trying to "pick up" these women. Instead you're
using opportunities to PRACTICE your conversation skills
and reduce nervousness. The point I'm trying to make is
you can quickly ELIMINATE your approach anxiety if talking
to women becomes second nature.
To get started, all you have to do is initiate conversations
with the women you encounter throughout the day.
For instance, here are some girls you can talk to:
Checkout girls at stores
Women who sit near you in class
Any girl who helps you in clothing stores
Females who work with you
Women that you encounter on trains and subways
Any girl waiting on the line with you
Remember that you DON'T have to use a smooth opener or
conversation starter. Just start talking to them in a normal
manner.
Approach anxiety is something which all men have at some
point in their lives. But you should NEVER let it control you.
If you make it a habit to talk to women EVERYWHERE you
go, it'll become second nature.

Tip #4 Overcome Your Fear of Rejection

One major stumbling block to your success with women
comes down to your ability to handle rejection. The simple
truth is many guys have built up a MAJOR fear of rejection.
If you have this phobia, then you're severely decreasing
your chances at meeting and attracting the kind of women
you want.
Now there is a way to quickly overcome this fear. All you
have to do is implement a trick my friend John taught me
called "Going Kamikaze". The technique is simple. Every
time you see an interesting woman, you approach
WITHOUT hesitation.
To be honest, I don't always agree with some of John's
routines, but there is something to be learned about
initiating conversations without thinking about it. He
succeeds with a lot of women simply because he has no
fear of rejection. While John knows he MIGHT get rejected,
he's able to remove all negative thoughts from his head
and focus on the moment.
He's able to overcome HIS fear of rejection because he
acts on instinct rather then dwell on what could go wrong.
But what he does is NOT for the weak of heart. If you're
uncomfortable with talking to ANY girl, then you need to
take drastic measures to get over your feelings of possible
rejection.
A great trick I learned about eliminating the fears of
rejection is to understand it's more important to think
about the present moment rather then any negative
thoughts which you might have. All you need to do is focus
on enjoying the conversation and having fun with the girl,
rather then "trying to score".
Instead of letting your fears control you, try to reprogram
yourself to approach without hesitation. So if you see an
interesting woman, approach her with the SOLE intention
of just striking up a conversation. When you tell yourself
that you're JUST having a conversation becomes easier to
eliminate your fears.
What's funny is when you approach lots of women you'll
discover it's not as bad as you think. After awhile your
fears will slowly diminish. And your overall success will
increase.
If you follow my advice and learn how to approach
automatically you'll discover your fear of rejection can be
overcome.

Tip #5 Stop Being the Nice Guy

In this tip, I am going to talk about "The Nice Guy".

Now there are a lot of guys who try too hard with women.
Typically these men are always ready to buy gifts do favors
for girls "they like". But
because of their supplicating
behavior, they end up repelling
women instead of attracting
them.

Without going into too much
female psychology, the nice
guy presents no challenge to
women. Most of them want a
guy who interests them and
presents a challenge.

As a result, you HAVE to
demonstrate that you're a
challenge to any woman you're
trying to attract. This means you should create a strict set
of standards and then ONLY do things if they comply with
your personal code.

Furthermore, you should challenge women if they're
disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations.
While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting
women, there are strict rules for attracting them. By not
kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks, you'll
get rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. This will help you
transform yourself into the kind of guy who all women
desire.

The final way to stop being the proverbial nice guy is to
learn how to be confident around women. This is especially
true if they challenge or try to reject you.

By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens"
attitude, you'll act like a man who isn't concerned about
the outcomes of an interaction with women. In fact, you'll
look like you're not trying too hard.

So if you want to stop being a nice guy, you should set up
a code of conduct and transform yourself into a confident
guy. Then you'll become an interesting and exciting person.

Tip #6 Overcome Your Sticking Points

When it comes to women, we ALL have certain strengths
and weaknesses. For instance, some guys are great at
approaching women, but cant create attraction. And
others can display a confident personality, but dont know
how to use openers.

Unfortunately being great with women comes down to
your ability to OVERCOME your weakness rather then
relying on your strengths.

What does this mean to you? Well, if you want to
increase your success with women, then you MUST identify
the specific obstacles (Often known as Sticking Points)
that are holding you back. Then once youve spotted these
weaknesses, you should work on fixing them.

I suggest a simple technique. Analyze the ways you try to
meet women and break down the different obstacles into
SMALL manageable steps. By doing it this way, youll
identify and laser-target the problems youre experiencing.

For instance, here are a few sticking-points that affect a
LOT of guys:
Being controlled by approach anxiety
Showing low status body language
Knowing the right way to approach women
How to start talking to women
Understanding signs of attraction and when a woman is
flirting
How to go from an opener to having a REAL
conversation
Getting a womans number and setting up a date
Knowing how to progress from a date to a *physical*
encounter

As you can see, there are a lot of sticking points that hold
guys back. Perhaps you have a few of them.

Part of being successful with women is accepting that you
arent perfect. But its also about identifying your problem
areas and having the courage to fix what you can.

My advice is to analyze the things youre doing wrong.
Then FIX them! If you can overcome your sticking points,
then youll experience a dramatic growth in your game.
Ultimately this will help you transform into the kind of guy
who can naturally attract a woman

Tip #7 The TRUTH About *Failure*
"Oh my God, I can't j ust walk up and talk to her.
What if I fail?"
This is a TOO common statement I hear from guys. A lot of
men are afraid to simply approach a woman and initiate a
conversation. They're showing their fear because of one
thing: FAILURE.
The fear of rejection is an incredible powerful emotion. It
can prevent you from taking that first step towards
attracting a woman. One of the more common reasons for
this anxiety is worrying that women will mock or ridicule
you in some way. While this
might happen, it's better to face
this fear than run away from it.
If you allow fear to control your
actions, you'll miss out on many
opportunities to talk to women.
Now I know anxiety is a
commonplace thing, but you
should NEVER allow it to dictate
what you can or can't do.
Instead of letting it control your
actions, you should learn to
embrace your failures. And
here's the reason why
A great comparison for dating is comparing it to baseball.
In this sport, a guy is a "Hall of Fame Player" if he gets a
hit 3 or 4 times for every 10 at bats. You should follow this
same philosophy when you're talking to a woman. Just
understand that failure is part of the whole process. Even
the guys with the BEST approach techniques will meet a
woman who won't be interested in them.
It's important to remember that failure is a positive not a
negative. You should learn to use it as a learning
experience and use this opportunity to increase your
overall "dating skill set".
So the next you "strike out" with a woman don't get
frustrated. Just analyze the interaction and ask yourself:
Did I talk to fast/slow/loud?
Did I demonstrate higher status?
Was she available or does she have a boyfriend?
Did I successfully create a dynamic conversation?
Was I funny, charming and confident?

When evaluate your *performance*, you can learn a lot
from your mistakes. Then you can apply them when you
next talk to a woman. When you eliminate your fear of
failure and understand that it's a GOOD thing, then you'll
see a dramatic increase in your dating success.

Tip #8 Dont Worry About Your Looks

When it comes to dating, guys have a LOT of fears.
Whether they feel they're too bald, too short, or too fat,
some men feel their personal
appearance prevents them from
talking to women.
So the question is this:
Is your appearance THAT
important?
Well the short answer is NO. But
let me explain my rationale
As men we're primarily attracted
to the stereotypical "Hot Girl".
And according to popular men's
magazines all guys desire thin,
blonde-haired, and large-breasted models. (While you
might have different tastes, this type of girl is statistically
found to be the most popular type of woman among men.)
Now what's interesting is women are attracted to different
things then men. First off, each woman has varied tastes in
men. What they find attractive really depends on their
personality. Some love large hulking men, while others are
attracted to thin, intellectual types.
In addition women are PRIMARILY attracted to traits which
are not based on personal appearance. Things like
confidence, goal orientation and humor are all traits which
can attract a woman.
Obviously this is good news!
No matter what faults you might find in your own
appearance, you can still be VERY successful with women.
If you know how to demonstrate an attractive personality
then it becomes EASY to succeed with women.
So the moral of this post is to STOP worrying about your
looks. Instead try to focus on these things:
Developing your teasing/flirting skills. (Like the ones
discussed in Flirt Mastery)
Building your self confidence
Learning the *right* way to start a conversation
Being able to demonstrate higher value
Eliminating self limiting beliefs

When you develop these core traits your looks won't
matter. You'll be able to attract beautiful women through
your own unique personality.


Tip #9- Failure Can Bring You Success

The way you view an event determines how much
you can learn from each experience!
What do I mean? Well, its simple. How you view the world
has a direct impact on your success with women. If you
beat yourself up every time a woman rejects you, then you
wont make any progress with your dating life.
On the other hand, if you develop a positive attitude about
life, youll discover how to learn from each experience and
grow as a man!
Awhile back I discovered an
interesting thing about men
and how they view rejection.
Whenever a guy is turned
down by a woman, he uses
self-talk to beat himself up.
If a guy is rejected by a girl,
he thinks there must be
something wrong with him!
So in order to experience
DRAMATIC growth in your
dating life, you must learn
to develop a positive outlook
on EACH interaction with a
woman. Regardless of the
outcome!
In order to do this, you can try a simple technique I
learned from NLP and cognitive psychology- The
REFRAMING Technique
The reframing technique is easy to learn. Whenever youre
faced with a potentially negative outcome, you learn to
discover the positive results from the situation. This means
asking yourself what BENEFIT you just received from this
negative situation.
While you may think it sounds like a lot of psycho-babble,
Ive discovered that reframing is an excellent way to
LEARN from each experience. And by doing this regularly,
youll experience dramatic success with women.
Heres an example of how reframing would work:
Say you learned a brand new opener that you want to test
out. You head over to your local bar and approach 10
groups of women. The problem is all 10 groups reject you!
Most guys would view this as a negative experience and
feel that theyre not good-looking enough to attract a
woman.
However, YOU understand the importance of reframing.
You look at this situation and examine what benefit youve
just received. By being rejected by 10 women, you have
concrete proof that the opener does NOT work for you.
This means that you have to go back and find a new way
to approach women.

Plus by approaching 10 groups of women, youve just
acquired ten new experiences you can use to overcome
your approach anxiety. Simply by initiating conversations
with this many groups, youve learned that approaching
isnt as hard as you once thought.

I n order to MASTER your success with women, you
should adopt a positive outlook at everything you
experience. And by implementing the reframing
technique, youll discover that every negative outcome
will help you grow as a person!

Approaching Women

Tip #10- How to Start a Conversation
"How can I initiate a conversation with an attractive
woman?"
This is ONE major question I
receive all the time from the
readers of my newsletter.
What happens is these guys
see interesting women, but
have NO CLUE how to
approach and start talking to
them. Typically they make
the mistake of reciting a
corny pick up line they heard
from their friends.
Now let me tell you a little
secret about pick up lines
THEY NEVER WORK!
Sorry for shouting, but it drives me nuts when I hear some
ass use a cheesy pick up line straight from the 70's. Not
only are pick up lines offensive to women, but they actively
telegraph your interest. (This is a bad thing to do)
So the question is how can you initiate a conversation
without using a pick up line?
Well it's simple. All you have to do is use an OPENER!
What is an opener?
Basically an opener is ANY conversation starter you use
which attracts the interest and attention of the women
you're approaching. You use it to begin a conversation
which gets women talking instead of putting them in an
awkward situation.
It differs from a pick up line because it sparks
conversations and solicits their opinion. Also openers don't
come across as sleazy and creepy. When used correctly
you appear as a guy who is innocently asking a woman's
opinion.
Openers work because:
1) You're not telegraphing your intention
2) Women love to give their opinions
3) You can act funny AND interesting
4) Their answers can be used to seed a conversation
topic
The key to crafting the perfect opener is to make it an
open-ended question which involves all the people in the
group you're approaching. All that's required is for you to
walk up to a group, ask their opinion and get them talking.
So the opener should NEVER be a question that can be
answered with a quick YES or NO response. Instead the
conversation starter should get the group talking and make
them interested in what you have to say.
Now here are few rules you can use to craft a good
opener:
Step 1- Use a Time Constraint
If a group thinks you'll only stay for a few minutes, they'll
respond more positively to your opener. If you attract their
interest and attention, they won't care if told them that
you would only take a few minutes of their time.

Step 2- Make it Interesting and Funny
In order to be perceived as an interesting guy you should
keep your opener fun and lighthearted. Try to fabricate an
opener from your life or use something which can develop
into a great topic of conversation.

Step 3- Give Them a Reason Why Youre Asking
To make spark the curiosity of the woman you're
approaching you need to give a reason WHY you're asking
them a question. In other words, you shouldn't seem like
you're randomly walking around the room asking questions
from random strangers. Simply tell them that you were
having a conversation with your buddy and you needed an
opinion from different people.
Now that you understand the principles behind an opener,
it's time to create your own. What you should do is sit
down and create 3-4 different openers which match your
personality. Just think of funny or interesting things within
your life and then create an opener around it. (For more
on openers, be sure to take a look at the Art of
Approaching system)

Tip #11- 3 Second Rule For Approaching

Like I said before, you can eliminate your approach anxiety
by talking to every woman you encounter. When you
practice talking to women ALL the time, this skill will come
to you naturally. Then approaching them wont seem as
difficult.
Now in addition to talking to every woman you see, today I
wanted to discuss a technique
which is equally important. Its
called The Three Second Rule
for approaching women.
The process is simple. Whenever
you see an attractive woman, you
give yourself ONLY three seconds
before approaching her. Once you
think of an opener, you approach
her WITHOUT hesitation and
initiate a conversation.
The idea behind this technique is
to prevent approach anxiety.
When you take a long time to approach, negative thoughts
could make you nervous about talking to her. And you
might even psych yourself out.
In other words when you hesitate on the approach, youll
diminish your chances of success.
But when you only take three seconds to initiate a
conversation, youll have NO chance of letting approach
anxiety affect you. In other words, you wont have time to
think about what could go wrong. Instead you focus on
what you want to say THEN approach her.
Whats interesting is The Three Second Rule can make
approach women by reflex. If you do it enough, youll start
conversations without thinking about it! Then youll be a
lucky guy who has very LITTLE approach anxiety.

Tip #12- Five Items You Should Always
Carry
If you want to succeed with women, then you have to
remember a lesson many us learned as a Boy Scout:
"Always be prepared"
Yes, by making certain preparations each night you'll
experience a dramatic increase in your success.
What I mean is this. The items you carry can have a direct
effect on your ability to attract a woman. If you think
ahead and carry certain "critical" things, you'll be prepared
for specific scenarios which come up in the dating game.
The following are 5 of the most important things you
should carry every time you go out to meet women:

1- A Pen or Cell Phone
One of your primary goals when meeting women is to get a
phone number or set up a date. Now unless you have
photographic memory, you'll need some way to jot down a
girl's digits. That's why it's ALWAYS important to carry a
pen or cell phone with you.

2- A Lighter
While you might not be a smoker it's still important to
carry a lighter. During the course of an evening, you'll
probably encounter a few women who need a light. You
can easily use your lighter to initiate a conversation.

3- A Camera
Having a camera is a great way to demonstrate higher
value around women. When working a bar/club
environment, it's important to be perceived as fun and
exciting. You can use a camera to demonstrate this quality
by taking fun pictures of you and your friends.
Also a camera is a great way to initiate a conversation with
a woman. Simply find an attractive girl and ask her to take
a picture of your friends. Then after she takes the picture,
you can use a cocky/funny routine to continue the
conversation.

4- Gum or Breath Mints
The quickest turn off to a woman is having bad breath. To
prevent this, you should carry an assortment of breath
mints and gum. Usually mint flavor gum or Altoids can
dramatically improve your breath and will prevent you
from offending any girl you've met.
5- Condoms
Obviously you understand the importance of using
condom. If your late-night adventures end in a sexual
encounter, it's MANDATORY to carry protection with you.
The responsible guy should be concerned with protecting
both himself and his partner. So be smart and carry
condoms with you.
Like I said at the beginning of this article, it's important to
be prepared for the common things that occur when you're
meeting women. By carrying these 5 items, you'll prepare
yourself for all the different things which can occur during
an evening.

Tip #13- Identify Her Attraction Signals
Women constantly send you messages through their body
language. Whether theyre attracted or repulsed by your
presence, reading these cues can make ALL the difference
when youre trying to attract them.
So if you don't detect their body language signals, youll
COMPLETELY miss out on many golden opportunities.
Whats interesting 90% of a woman's communication is
done through her body language. (The guys who are
successful with women
KNOW how to read
these subtle cues and
can act according to
what they see.)
So if you DONT know
what women are telling
you, then youll ONLY
have a 10% chance of
understanding what women really want.
Why is it important to be able to read their body language?
Well there are times when a woman will subtly use her
body language to indicate interest. If you dont know how
to read these signs then you wont know to approach or
engage her in a conversation. Thus you might miss out on
an incredible girl.
What REALLY annoys me is there are some guys who
IGNORE obvious signals from woman. Often Ill see a girl
purposely initiate eye contact with a guy, and he stands
there doing nothing with a stupid expression on his face.
Shes already demonstrated interest. So all he has to do is
walk up and start a conversation.
Its that easy!
Whats insane is guys spend SO much time trying to "pick
up chicks". But they seem to miss out on the subtle cues
women send them. If you learn how women flirt with their
body language, then you can dramatically stand out from
other guys.
So the solution is this: Don't be like one of those guys
who do nothing!
Take the time to pay attention to womens body language.
After doing this for a couple of days, youll notice a WHOLE
new world of subtle communication happening.
Then once you become comfortable with their body
language, you can look for specific attraction signals. Then
all you have to do is walk up and start a conversation.
So if you ever encounter a situation where a girl is making
eye contact, you know shes probably interested in talking
to you. Just get off your butt and do something!

Tip #14 Look For Hidden Opportunities
There will be times when an attractive woman will send
you flirting signals. If you can detect these signals, then
youll have a great opportunity to talk to an interesting girl.
As gender roles evolve, it's become socially acceptable for
women to be obvious about their
attraction to guys. This includes
flirting, making forward eye
contact and even approaching YOU.
So if you pay close attention, youll
discover women are sending
obvious attraction signals.
When you receive a sign of
attraction, you should take action.
If a girl is giving you direct eye
contact, then you know youre
being given an invitation to
approach her. But when you don't do anything, you'll miss
out on a golden opportunity.
So here's an easy technique to try. Next time youre out,
try to make eye contact with the different women you find
attractive.
When you see a girl who locks eyes with you, give her a
warm smile. If she smiles back or does a quick VERTICAL
scan (ie: checking you out), then you know she is
demonstrating a classic sign of interest. Obviously you're
receiving an opportunity to approach this woman with very
little risk of rejection.
Don't hesitate!
Immediately walk up to her and initiate a conversation.
Because shes demonstrated a major sign of attraction,
you know shes interested in you. So you don't have to
worry about what to say or do. Just be natural in your
approach and use a good opener.
By taking the time to lock eyes with women and giving
them time to check you out, you're creating your own
opportunities. If you regularly do this, youll discover its
easy to initiate conversations with girls.

Tip #15- Approach GROUPS of Women

Approaching a woman can be scary for a lot of guys. And
this is especially true when shes surrounded by her friends.
That's the reason why some guys wait till a woman is alone
before approaching her.
But there is a MAJOR problem if you only approach women
who are by themselves. When in a public setting, MOST
women will never
travel alone. So
this makes it
quite challenging
to find a girl who
isnt surrounded
by her friends.
And even if you
DO isolate a girl,
shell be
standoffish. A woman has a natural tendency to distrust
ANY guy who approaches her when she doesnt have the
protective shield of her friends.
So the solution is simple- You HAVE to learn how to
approach GROUPS of women.
Its a fact that attractive women are RARELY alone. This
means at some point, you have to become comfortable
with approaching groups of girls and engaging them in a
conversation.
Now the best strategy is to approach the group and talk to
ALL of them. Not just the girl you find attractive.
The best way to do this is to use an opener. Then from
their responses, you can transition into a conversation and
demonstrate higher value.
Just remember that your main objective for approaching a
group of women to gain acceptance from EVERY person.
Once they like you, itll become easy to shift your focus
and work on the objection of your attention.
For instance, you can use an opener, tell a few
stories/negs, then suddenly notice the girl you like. From
that point, you talk t her and do some qualifying.
Then if youre getting the enough indicators of interest,
you can isolate her. The best way to do this is to say
something like: Can I borrow {her name} for a
couple of minutes. I promise to bring her back.
After that, you bring her to a different area in the venue,
and work on your rapport/attraction building skills.
Now you might be a little scared about approaching
GROUPS of women. But you have to realize that this is a
natural feeling that all guys get. If you understand the
principles in this post and practice your approach, this
feeling will quickly diminish!

Tip #16- Make Strong Eye Contact

As you know by now, confidence is the key ingredient to
demonstrating a high status personality. When you
approach with confidence, you dramatically increase your
success with women.

So how do you display a confident aura? Well, Ive found
the best is to show a dominant presence with your body
language. And this starts with the eye contact you give.

Strong eye contact means a lot of things to women:

#1- It shows that youre used to being in control
#2- It demonstrates youre not afraid of women
#3- It provides the first example of high status body
language.

What I recommend is simple. Whenever youre out
meeting women, allow your eye contact to hold SLIGHTLY
longer then whats considered socially acceptable. In a way,
youre acting like youre trying to figure out if youre
looking at something you like.

What's interesting about this form of communication is it
sends a different message to people, based on their gender.
Men will find lengthy eye contact to be a challenge or an
aggressive action. On the other hand, women find these
guys to be confident and sexual.

You can also use eye contact to approach women.
Whenever you lock eyes with a woman, you can give her a
simple smile. If she smiles back, you know shes probably
willing to be approached. Contrary to using openers, this is
a more natural way to start talking to women.
Confidence is necessary ingredient to creating attraction. If
you feel like you lack this characteristic when talking to
women, then I recommend you work on the eye contact
you give. Simply follow the advice I gave, and youll find
that its easier to display a more self-assured presence
around women.

Tip #17- Isolation For Attraction

A couple of days ago, I reviewed basic body language
when approach a group of women. Today, I want to cover
a related topic- Isolating your target from her friends.

The goal of any approach
or opener is to get you
into a conversation with
a group. As long as you
demonstrate high status
and transition to an
interesting discussion,
then youll find that most
groups will accept you.

But you have to remember ONE important thing. The goal
of any approach is to attract a specific woman. (Ie: Your
Target). If youre simply talking to the group the whole
night, then youll minimize your chances of attracting your
target.

Whenever you approach a group, you should focus on
ISOLATING her from her friends. Then once shes alone
you can work on building more attraction and comfort.
The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. First you
want to look for genuine signs of attraction. If you don't
see any IOIs (Indicators of Interest), then you should
make a decision- switch your focus to another woman or
cut the conversation short and move on.

Now if you notice that youre target is demonstrating a few
flirt signals, then you know she is open to being isolated.
At this point, you want to direct your attention to her and
start building more direct attraction. By now her friends
will pick up on the fact they're developing a one-on-one
conversation.

When this becomes obvious, say to your target:

Hey ____ , I want to show you something

Then turn to her friends and say:

Im going to borrow your friend for a bit, I promise to
bring her back

What you want to do is create a pretense for showing her
something in a quieter location. Or you can simply tell her
that you want to walk around the venue a little bit and she
should join you. By acknowledging her friends, youre also
demonstrating that you have social intuition and youre not
going to do anything creepy.

Then once youve isolated your target, you can do a
number of things like build more attraction, establish
rapport and initiate physical contact.

Just remember that the best way to make a woman
remember you during the initial interaction is if you make
a lasting impression. And the best way to do that is to get
her away from her friends and work on establishing that
connection.

Attracting Women

Tip #18- Demonstrate Confident Body
Language

Being attractive to women sometimes doesnt depend on
what you say. Instead it can depend on the tone of your
body language.
Its been said that almost 90% of your communication is
done through non-verbal cues. If youre not displaying the
right kind of body language, then the best openers and
routines wont be able to help you!
So the solution is simple. If you want to demonstrate high
status, then you must know the secrets of giving off
positive body language. When you do this, youll be
perceived as a confident and dominant guy!
And here are six ways you can show incredible body
language around women

#1 Eradicate Weak Body Language
The first step to fixing your body language is to eliminate
all body language traits that are considered weak. Women
can instantly detect a man who isnt confident. So in order
to make INSTANT improvement, you MUST become
sensitive to the body language traits youre displaying.
For instance, some weak traits can include:
Having your hands in your pockets
Fidgeting or showing nervous energy
Talking to people with your arms folded
Slumping your head or shoulder down
Looking uncomfortable in social situations
Not taking up space
Walking fast everywhere you go
Leaning towards women during an initial conversation
Whats interesting is you can make dramatic change to
your body language simply by eliminating these behaviors.

#2- Work on Your Stance
The way you stand can have a huge impact on how people
will think of you. Here are a few rules for how you should
stand:
Keep your chin and head up
Position your feet and legs at shoulder length apart
Have your hands at your side or have only ONE hand
holding a drink in front of you (Bar environments)
Keep your back straight

#3 Take Up Space
The confident guys in the world are NOT afraid of others.
This is especially true in social situations. An easy way to
eliminate your fear is subtly show your dominance and
leadership by taking up space wherever your go.
The good news is can be easily done. Whenever youre in a
public environment, try to spread out a little. Instead of
folding inwards when youre surrounded by other people,
position your body so youre taking up the most amount of
space.
#4 Be Relaxed
A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a
relaxed pose in ANY situation. So if you want to
demonstrate high status, you must display a casual aura
around women.
By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude, youre
showing that the little things in life dont phase you. And
here are a few ways to do this:
Your eyes concentrate on the person in the
conversation
When talking to women at a bar, you lean back and
show that youre comfortable
You never let your eyes dart around a room
You spread out and look comfortable when sitting down
You breathe through your stomach instead of your
chest
By showing a relaxed pose, you demonstrate a LACK of
nervous and inferior body language traits

#5 You Move Deliberately

Low status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. As
a result, they end up displaying needy body language.
Instead of showing that youre ready to please you want
to demonstrate that you move on YOUR own terms.
One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who is
ALWAYS ready to do favors for women. If somebody needs
help, the beta male will instantly come running.
Instead of showing this inferior personality trait, you
should move slowly and with a measured attitude. By
taking deliberate actions with every step, you'll force
people to pay attention to your schedule not theirs.

#6 Face Away From Women
You can tell a LOT to women without opening your mouth.
If you walk up to a woman, invade her personal space and
make your intentions obvious, then youre demonstrating
the fact that youre trying to pick her up.
Now when youre first talking to women, you DONT want
to make your intentions obvious. Instead of invading her
space on the initial approach, you want to put her at ease.
The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a woman.
One of the principles of body language is we tend to be
uncomfortable by people who face us directly. So instead
of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a group),
you should approach her to the side. If you can end up
side-by-side or at an angle, you'll reduce her nervousness
and tension. And this will help show that youre not
investing too much emotionally in the outcome of the
conversation.
Your body language provides your first impression to
women. If you know how to demonstrate high status with
it, then you can easily show an attractive aura. By applying
the six traits I discussed in this post, youll be able to show
confident and alluring body language around women.

Tip #19- Know When Shes Interested

When you know when women are attracted to you, it
becomes easy figure out which ones are available.
But there is one MAJOR problem when you ONLY rely on
indicators of interest. Many women (who already have
boyfriends) display the exact same signs of attraction that
single women demonstrate.
This can include direct
eye contact, smiling at
you, playing with their
hair, and having
dilated pupils.
What's annoying is we
all respond to body
language signs that
indicate attraction. So
it gets frustrating when woman in a committed relationship
displays these same signals. Usually this means that
youve wasted time that could be spent talking to an
AVAILABLE woman.
The good news is there are specific signs of attraction that
are ONLY used by available women. If you know how to
identify them, it becomes easy to locate a girl who wants
to meet a guy.
So when you're looking for women to approach, try to
identify these signals:
A flushed appearance or blushing when you look directly
at her.
Showing the inside of her palms and hands to you.
Positioning her body towards you.
Making attempts to get you to look at her or be noticed
by you.
Isolating herself from her friends so youll approach her.
As you probably know, its pretty frustrating to be in a
conversation with a woman who is already taken. But if
youre able to decipher her body language and know that
shes single BEFORE you approach, youll quickly increase
your overall dating success.
Simply pay attention to the five signs of attraction I
discussed in this post. Then youll discover that there are
available women out there who WANT to meet you!

Tip #20- How to Be the Alpha Male
Whats the secret to being attractive to women?
Well, there are a lot of traits that women find attractive in
men. This can include BOTH your looks and your
personality. Specifically women are incredibly attracted to
the guy who acts demonstrates high status (or act likes an
alpha male).
So if you want to be attractive to women, you must project
a high status personality. But what exactly does this
expression mean and why is it attractive to women?
There is a simple reason for cultivating a high status
attitude with females. Almost ALL women want to be with
the guy who stands out from the crowd. Basically they
want guys who are equal to or better then their own social
status.
Think of it this way... Really attractive women are
constantly being "hit on" by guys. Because its IMPOSSIBLE
to date every man who talks to them, most girls have
developed simple mechanisms for "weeding out" the losers.
When a guy immediately hits on a girl, she'll place him in
the "Lower Status" category.
Attractive women typically have high status. Therefore
most want a guy who is equal or GREATER then their own
status. (Again, this is covered in How to Become an
Alpha Male)
So what does this mean to you? Well its simple. Whenever
you first meet a woman, you must immediately
demonstrate a high status personality. Even if shes
gorgeous, dont give her compliments or show that youre
attracted to her.
Instead QUALIFY her and tease her. If you show that
youre not enamored with her looks (like other guys), then
shell wonder if you might be an important person.
Tip #21- Display a Confident Smile

As I emphasize in this ebook, your personal appearance is
a MAJOR factor in attracting women. While good looks
arent mandatory, you must ensure that youre doing your
best to display an interesting AND unique look. And a huge
part of your appearance is displaying a confident smile
when youre talking to a woman.
The truth is the first thing
a woman will notice
about you is your smile.
If you smile (and have a
positive demeanor) around
a woman, youll increase
your chances of attracting
her.
So from the FIRST moment
you make eye contact with
a female, you MUST give
your best possible smile.
Now the question is- Why is
smiling so effective?
Well smiling is effective for
many reasons. When youre smiling, you're telling a
woman these things:
1) You enjoy her company
2) You like what she is saying to you
3) You are an upbeat person with a positive outlook
4) Youre a fun guy
As you can see, smiling is the cornerstone of a great first
impression. In fact, I think its one of the key steps
towards attracting a woman. By smiling at a woman youll
get her to like you. Heres why
If you study human nature then you know that when
people smile at us, we usually return the gesture. So when
you smile at a woman, shell probably give you one back.
In a way you've given her a subconscious reason to
immediately like you.
So if you want to increase your success with women, make
sure youre smiling when talking to them!

Tip #22- Show Your Inner Rock Star

One thing I find interesting is how rock stars can easily
*score* with women. From what Ive seen, all a guy needs
is a guitar or microphone and hell have the pick of ANY
woman around him. In fact, some rock guys literally have
women beg them for sex.
From Led Zeppelin all the way to a local cover band,
musicians have it easy when it comes to attracting women.
All they have to do is get on stage and women will become
hypnotically captured by their presence.
Now you probably think that rock guys attract women
because of their fame or money. However this isnt the
case. What rock stars have is the ability to stand out from
the crowd.
Unlike the average
guy, these dudes
know how to dress
AND act in a
unique manner.
Furthermore,
theyre good at
projecting a
mysterious image
which women eat
up!
What I find interesting is there are LOTS of musicians who
really suck at their craft. But they still manage to attract
HORDES of women! So it shows that even the worst
musicians have something which girls find incredibly
seductive.
And this theory holds true for even the crappiest cover
bands at your local bars. While these guys are ONLY
playing the songs from other bands, they still know how to
draw women to them like a magnet.
So what can you learn from this?
Well its simple. Almost all rock stars succeed with women
because they know how to stand out from the crowd.
Unlike the average guy, theyre not afraid to dress
differently or demonstrate an outlandish personality.
While you dont have to play an instrument, you can learn
a lesson from how rock stars act. To be more like them
you should do the following:
Wear something unique
Peacock a little
Be energetic and exciting around your friends
Talk to everyone
Be the life of the party
Demonstrate higher value

The reason a 'rock star persona' is successful is it helps
you stand out from other guys. In other words, by when
you display a positive, alpha male personality, women
will know that youre different from other guys.
The reason is simple... Deep down, ALL women want
passion and excitement in their lives. (That's probably why
romance novels are so successful). By displaying an
outlandish personality around a woman, which makes you
stand out, you'll represent the excitement she's probably
missing in her life.
But there is something important you should know about
being different. In order to be attractive to women you
should ONLY do things which are both original AND
interesting. An easy way to do this is to observe how other
guys act and do the EXACT opposite.
The more you stand out, the more women will notice you.
So think of new ways to dress, how to talk to women and
your general attitude. If you can make them DIFFERENT
from other guys, then youll be viewed as a unique and
attractive guy.

Tip #23 Become the Fun Guy
Its happened to ALL us! There are times when the process
of meeting women can become tedious. Since the art of
attracting women requires a TON of effort, it can be both
stressful and tiresome. And sometimes it just doesnt seem
worth your time.
Often a night out can include:
Spending money
Having to project a confident and energetic persona at
ALL times
Approaching dozens of sets or groups of women
Going out night after night
Being rejected by women when youre approach
techniques arent working
As you can see, there is LOT involved
with trying to learn the subtle art of
the pick up artist. So its only human
if you sometimes forget the MAIN
reason that youre on this path.
But there is something you must
always keep in mind
If youre not having FUN during this
whole process, then youll have
LITTLE chance of success. The truth
is what we feel inside is always
shown on the outside. So if you're
not having fun when youre meeting
women, then you'll project a bored looking demeanor.
And when this happens, youll KILL your chances of
success.
Whats the answer? Well its simple. You must learn to
enjoy the whole experience of meeting and attracting
women. Have fun out there, EVEN if you fail.
Also, when you go out, it helps if youre enjoying other
things BESIDES trying to meet women. For instance, you
can check out a new band, have fun with your buddies or
simply talk to women because you want to meet a new
person.
The more you enjoy yourself, the more you'll project an
aura of positive energy and confidence. Then trying to
meet women wont seem so tedious.

Tip #24- The Catch and Release
Technique
Building attraction is absolutely vital when you meet a
woman for the first time. If you can't make her physically
interested, then you stand LITTLE chance of getting her
number or setting up a date.
Now it's actually fairly easy to approach a woman and
create that initial spark. But what you do at this point can
MAKE OR BREAK your chances of success.
When you initially talk to a woman, you'll discover a period
where you're getting to know her. If you're good at flirting
and conversations, you'll be able to create that spark of
chemistry. Normally at this point a LOT of guys will
continue to talk and focus on increasing her attraction.
Instead of doing this, try to implement what I like to call
the 'Catch and Release' technique. It works like this
During your conversation, there will be a moment when
the discussion is going really well and she's flirting with
you. What you want to do is find a specific time where the
conversation could stop or progress to the next level.
Typically women expect men to make the conversation
more intimate (ie: get her number, set up a date or kiss
her).
Now instead of taking the conversation to the next level,
you tell her that you have to back your friends. Then as
you leave, casually mention that you'll talk to her later.
Then walk away, and rejoin your friends.
If done correctly, the 'Catch and Release' technique will
drive her crazy. She'll wonder why you're not talking to her
and will make attempts to get your attention again. Later
in the night, you can approach her again and resume your
conversation.
What's great about this technique is you make HER work
for YOUR attention. As a result, she'll try harder to build
attraction. The harder she has to work, the more of a
"prize" you'll become.
Normally I like to implement the 'Catch and Release'
technique in an enclosed environment (bar, club, etc.) at
the beginning of the night. Since I know I'll probably see
her again, I like to use it to "work the room".
If you have a string of 4-5 conversations that ALL went
well, you can use this technique to increase your chances
of getting a number, setting up a date or going home with
her.

Tip #25- Be Persistent, Be Proactive

Well, here's a tip that I'm a little hesitant to discuss.
So I urge you to read and understand it FULLY before you
follow my advice.
Anyway, the tip is simple! When meeting (and dating)
women you have to be PERSISTANT.
Now before you go out and start
stalking every woman you meet,
let explain what I mean about
persistence. When I talk about
this attitude, I mean that you
shouldn't be afraid to follow-up
with a woman where there is
some chemistry. I DON'T mean
you should stalk every girl you
"really like".
So when I tell you to be
persistent, I mean you should
make an effort when it comes to
pursuing women. In other words,
don't listen to your buddies and wait 7 days to call her. Nor
do I mean you should blow her off every time she wants to
hang out because you want to "seem cool".
Instead actively call her and set up dates. Remember that
most women let guys make the first move. If you're
waiting around for her to call, then you might miss out on
an opportunity with a great girl.
Also it's important to remember that woman have busy
lives just like you. So while she might be interested in you,
there could be outside factors which require her attention.
A woman might still have interest EVEN if she's not making
the first move. What this means is it's up to YOU to follow-
up and set up a date.
Now there's the reverse side of being persistent. Eventually
you'll encounter a girl who won't return your calls. This is
the point where your persistence must STOP. If she
doesn't return a number of your calls then she doesn't
want to talk to you.
I know this sounds harsh, but you should NEVER stalk a
woman who has no interest in you.
So remember that persistence is a great attitude. Don't be
afraid to follow-up with woman and set up dates. But
always remember that there are certain times when it's
important to stop pursuing a woman and move on!
In addition to persistence, theres an equally important
trait: Being Proactive.
Like persistence, being proactive will increase your success
with women. But whats funny is many guys think playing
games is the best way to increase attraction. In other
words, they follow the advice of waiting 5-7 days before
calling a girl. The logic is women will be attracted because
they're forced to do the pursuing.
The problem is this technique RARELY works!
Think of it this way. Women, like men, get busy with their
lives. After grabbing a womans number, youre in direct
competition for her time against her job, family, and other
guys. When she gets busy, shell probably have to ditch
something in her life. And since you've just met her, itll
probably be YOU.
Now once she decides that youre expendable, all your
efforts will have been wasted. Once this happens you only
have yourself to blame. By not calling her, you've killed
your chances of making a connection to that girl
As you can see, being proactive is an incredibly important
trait to develop. When you pursue women and immediately
make the first call (within 2 days), you'll stick out in her
mind. As a result, your success will dramatically increase.
When you develop a proactive personality, you'll become
the guy who has more women in his life. Youll date more
and will have more opportunities for finding someone
special
So ask yourself which guy gets laid more:
The guy who waits for women to call first?
OR
The guy who is proactive and quickly follows up with
women?
Just remember that getting a phone number is the FIRST
step in the dating process. If you become a proactive guy,
youll have the skills for turning those digits into dates and
fun times!

Tip #26- Never Fear Other Guys

When youre out meeting women how do you deal
with other guys?
This is an important question to ask yourself. Whenever
youre out approaching women, youll DEFINITELY
encounter situations where an attractive woman has a few
guys with her. If youre like a lot of guys, youll assume
one of them is her boyfriend and move on.
This is a mistake!
Just because a woman is surrounded by guys, it doesnt
mean that she isnt AVAILABLE. So do yourself a favor and
dont DISQUALIFY yourself before even taking a chance
and approaching her.
Remember this- ALL girls have a few male friends. So
youll often see available women with guys around her. But
they might be her friends instead of her lovers. Actually
she probably WANTS a have a guy to approach her,
because other men havent had the courage to talk to her.
In fact, I HIGHLY recommend should ALWAYS approach a
girl if she's surrounded by guys. Because you never know
who is available and who isnt. If you approach and then
find out that shes dating one of the guys, then you can
quickly move on.
What I recommend is to use an opinion opener which I
learned from The Art of Approaching system. Usually
type of conversation starter is a way to approach a group
in a friendly, but not too aggressive manner.
Once you use your opener, you ask questions to the group
and find out how they know each other. By doing this, you
can quickly learn if the target woman is dating any of the
guys. If you discover that she's single, then you can
transition and isolate her from the group.
By approaching women surrounded by men, you're taking
action which scares other guys. The result is you'll
approach LOTS of women who want to have guys talk to
them. Which makes it easier to get more numbers and
dates.

Tip #27- Anchor an NLP Memory

One of the earliest techniques used within the seduction
community was implementing Neuro Linguistic
Programming (NLP) to meet women. Many seduction
gurus have long understood the importance of using basic
psychological principles to make women more attracted.

To be honest, NLP is a hard concept for many guys to learn.
Often it seems hokey or too mechanical to work in the real
world. But theres one NLP I regularly use that can help
you increase your overall success with women. Its called
Anchoring.

The idea of anchoring is simple. You take a neutral item
that has NO emotional connection to a woman, and you
use it to trigger a
positive emotion
within a woman.

Through a shared
experience, shell
always think of YOU
when she looks at
this object.

With anchoring you
basically create a
fun memory that floods her with positive emotions.
Ultimately this will get her to think about you when youre
not around.

Now this concept may seem a little abstract, so lets talk
about an example of how anchoring can be used in your
dating life.

Whenever you meet a woman, its likely that some popular
music will be playing in the background. To anchor this
memory, start singing along with the songOFF KEY! As
long as youve already demonstrated high status, shell
laugh and probably join in.

While Im normally against doing anything that projects a
low status attitude, this technique can be a funny way she
can remember you. In fact, its so powerful, shell think of
you WEEKS later when she hears this song. Its that
powerful!

Heres an example of how it works:

Over a year and a half ago, there was that dreadful song
Youre Beautiful by James Blunt. One day I was at a bar
talking to a girl, when the song came on. I start this whole
bit about how I thought James Blunt was gay and they
should play this song every time somebody acts a little
fruity. Finally, I started singing the song in this high
falsetto voice.

While this might seem a bit weird, it really connected to
this girl. I hung out with her a number of times after that
night. And every time I saw her, she would start singing
Youre Beautiful in a high voice whenever somebody
started acting a little gay.

The way I anchored that song created a frame of reference
that was really powerful. To this day, I bet she still cracks
up every time she hears that song.

The point is simple. When you meet a woman, you want to
stand out in a positive and funny manner. And a great way
to do this is to anchor some popular song that shell often
hear when youre not around.

Tip #28- The Importance of Teasing

As you learned in a past tip, being a nice guy gets you
nowhere with women. This reasoning is simple. Women are
NOT attracted to guys who behave in a submissive manner.
In essence, being a nice guy will end up boring a woman to
tears!
But theres something to remember about this philosophy.
While its crucial to not be too nice, its equally important
to not come across as an arrogant jerk.
So this presents a unique challenge. Around women, you
must find that sweet spot between being a challenge while
not acting TOO arrogant.
Whats surprising is the solution is fairly simple. Whenever
you talk to a woman, you MUST display a humorous but
slightly teasing attitude. In other words, you say funny
things while generally treating a woman like your bratty
little sister.
Now a lot of guys get confused about how humor should be
used around women. Basically they're not sure why they
should use it or why it's important.
Being funny is directly correlated to being perceived as a
fun guy. As a result, if you can project a humorous attitude,
women will have fun around you.
This is true even if youre teasing her. If you create
nicknames for her and not act afraid to make a few jokes
at her expense, youll increase your chances of attracting
her.
While making fun of girl might seem counterproductive,
there are concrete reasons why it works:
1) Youre demonstrating a high status personality by not
acting like the nice guy who is concerned with pleasing
her
2) Youre showing a sense of humor and a playful attitude
3) You're reversing traditional gender roles by putting HER
in the position of the pursuer
Teasing a woman can include a lot of things. For instance,
you can give do negs, give her a nickname or use your
body language in a humorous manner. The key is to use
your humor in a manner which makes it seem like you
dont care TOO much about what she thinks of you.
By teasing a woman, you're creating a situation where
shes NOT sure if youre attracted to her. As a result, she'll
think of you as a challenge and will start to subconsciously
prove herself.

In the end, teasing a woman can be one of the best ways
to build attraction and take an ordinary conversation to the
next level.

Tip #29- Talk EVEN When Youre Nervous

Being nervous around women can be one of your biggest
obstacles in your dating life. If youre tongue tied and
shaky when talking, you will NOT be attractive to girls.
Now there is something I find interesting. In a recent radio
show, I heard that many TOUGH guys would rather be in
combat then approach a woman.
Yes its true. Some men would prefer being shot at then
approach a pretty-looking girl.
Sounds crazy, right?
Well, if the toughest guys in the world feel nervous around
women then this emotion MUST be pretty powerful.
But what do you do if youre like these guys and get
REALLY nervous about approaching women?
The solution is pretty simple. In order to overcome your
nervousness, you must learn to TALK TO WOMEN.
What do I mean?
In order to overcome your nervous feelings about talking
to women, you must learn to initiate conversations as a
reflex action. In other words, you should strike up a
conversation with every woman you encounter. (In a
recent tip, I discussed how to do this)
So during each day, you should look for opportunities to
talk to women. If you think of it as practice and NOT
because youre trying to pick up a woman, then youll
quickly squash any feelings of nervousness.
In addition, if you learn to talk to every woman you
encounter, this behavior will become second nature! In the
long run, you'll find it's pretty easy to approach attractive
women. And then youll become a master at initiating
conversations with women!
Always remember that practice always makes perfect. If
youre nervous about talking to women, then solution is to
keep doing it till it becomes comfortable.

Tip #30- Reading Her Body Language

As I discussed in a recent tip, women can show MANY signs
of attraction. Simply through studying their body language,
you can learn a lot about their levels of attraction. And if
can successfully interpret these cues, you can use this
information to know what kind of move to make.
By understanding when a woman
is into you, it becomes easier to
emotionally and physically escalate
a conversation.
The best part is you can use a
womans body language to
measure your success. If things
arent going well, you can calibrate
and try something else.
For instance when a woman finds
you attractive, shell
subconsciously move closer and
find a reason to touch you. By
being able to pick up one these
attraction signals you know that whatever youre doing is
working!
So to study a womans body language, you should identify
when youre getting both a POSITIVE and NEGATIVE
reaction. Then you use this information to determine your
next step.
For instance, here are a few different cues you can
receive from women:

Positive
She moves closer to you when you say something
interesting
She touches you throughout the conversation
She teases and jokes with you
She maintains eye contact and isnt distracted by
people around her

Negative
She has closed off body language during the
conversation
Her eyes wander throughout the room
She answers your questions with one word answers
She engages other people in conversation and ignores
your questions

As I mentioned before, HER body language can tell you a
lot about her levels of attraction. If you make it a habit to
study her signals, then act accordingly youll increase your
chance of picking her up!

Tip #31- Know Your Outcomes

One of the reasons I succeed in a lot of things in my
life is because I know the power of setting goals. By
establishing a CLEAR cut understanding of what I want, Im
able to easily achieve it.
Now there is one important thing to remember about
setting goals. In order to achieve an outcome, you must
specifically DEFINE it!
And this could also be said about meeting women!
If you want to be successful with women, you should
define the outcomes that you want. In other words, when
youre meeting a woman for the first time, you should
decide what goal youre shooting for. By doing this, youll
increase your chances of getting it!
So to make this work, you have to set a goal EACH time
before you approach a woman. Create a mental picture of
what you want. Then clearly think of a mental map of how
you can achieve this outcome.
If you set goals for EACH approach, you can steer the
conversation towards obtaining it.
For instance, before each conversation you should
ask yourself:
Do I want her number?
Am I looking for a girlfriend?
Do I want to sleep with her tonight?
Should I go for the date?
Am I approaching only to have a conversation?
By establishing a goal for each conversation, you can
adjust the way you talk and who you approach.
For instance, if youre looking for a one night stand, then
you should focus on approaching an easy target and going
heavy on the flirting/sexual innuendos.
On the other hand, if you want a girlfriend, then you
should demonstrate higher status. In other words, you
want to show the basic character traits of an interesting
guy that woman would want to date.
Just remember that establishing outcomes for EACH
conversation can help you achieve it. Youll discover that
mentally creating a clear picture of your approach
techniques can do wonders for getting what you want!

Tip #32- Speak with Authority
Women are naturally drawn to leaders!
You can see evidence of this in almost every social
situation. For instance, the most *desired* girls in your
high school probably dated the popular athletes. And in the
real world, attractive women are usually drawn to guys
with powerful jobs.
What makes these
men stand out from
the crowd?
Well, its simple. The
guys who are most
successful at attracting
women are usually able
to demonstrate high
levels of authority.
By showing that theyre the leader of the pack, these
men are able exude extreme levels of authority.
I discovered the value of authority when I was recently
reading a book on human psychology. What I discovered
was how people tend to believe ALMOST any statement if
you say it with complete confidence.
So if you want to be perceived as a LEADER when youre
around women, then you have to start TALKING like one.
There are a few simple ways you can do this. For instance
you can demonstrate high levels of authority in the stories
you tell, the openers you use and the body language you
display. As long as you believe in yourself, women will
believe in you!
The truth is being an authority means having complete
confidence in yourself! This means if youre having inner-
game issues, then you NEED to work on them.
Just remember that leaders are guys who believe in
themselves. If youre nervous around women, then youll
only end up displaying an anxious persona. But if you
identify your problem areas and constantly WORK on them,
you can easily transform yourself into a guy who naturally
displays an authoritative attitude.

Tip #33- Know How to Tell a Story

If you're like other guys, there will be moments in a
conversation where you can't think of anything to
say.

What sucks is you could be
talking to a great woman, then
your mind suddenly goes blank
and you can't have anything to
talk about.

Once this happens, you can say
goodbye to any chance you
have to attract this woman.

The good news is there is a
way to completely CAPTIVATE
her attention during a
conversation. All you have to
do is utilize the power of
storytelling.

It's human nature to LOVE STORIES.

Think about it

There have been times when you've been completely
captivated by a person because he or she was able to tell a
really interesting story.

And you can do the same!

By telling her entertaining stories, with you as the central
character, you'll completely captivate her attention. In
order to tell a good story you have to first think of
different incidents and scenarios which a woman will find
both interesting and entertaining. Then practice telling
these stories around people.

The important thing is to get to the point where you can
tell this story as a reflex. Now you might think is you
should use a different story every time you talk to a new
woman.

But that's not what you should do

If you have a good enough story, learn to tell it to
every new woman you meet.

Although you might know the story by heart, it'll be
entertaining to any new woman you've just met. This is
especially true when you know the story cold.
For instance one story I often use when I meet a woman is
about the time I was running and almost got hit by Bruce
Springsteen when he was driving his car.

I craft the story in a humorous way with him giving me
the finger and my reaction. Since this happened MANY
years ago, I've had a lot of experience telling it and
making it really entertaining.

YOU can also entertain women with your stories. Just sit
down and craft a bunch of interesting stories. Then
practice telling them every time you meet a woman.
I promise you'll like the reactions you get from women.

Tip #34- Use Sexual Innuendos

When it comes to dating, women WANT some excitement.
Unfortunately, this isnt what they usually get from guys.
A major mistake that men make
when they first meet a woman is
to discuss safe topics. In an
effort to not offend a girl, most
guys will only discuss things like
her work, background, or what
she does during her free time.
The problem is these topics do
NOTHING to build rapport or
attraction.
Instead they create a
conversation that is similar to a
boring job interview.
In essence, theyre terrified to talk about SEX!
Now I understand that you might be one of those guys
who is worried about offending a woman. But if you want
to build sexual tension, then you MUST bring up this topic
EARLY in a conversation.
This means that when you first meet a woman, you
shouldnt shy away from joking about sex or using a few
sexual innuendos.
What I find interesting is women think about sex as much
as us. Perhaps even more! However most dont want to be
regarded as promiscuous or easy, so they generally avoid
this topic.
The good news is you can EASILY tap into a womans
inclination to discuss sex if YOU have the courage to bring
it up! By discussing the topic in a non-creepy manner,
you can joke about the topic while NOT making her
uncomfortable.
What I found to work best is to tell a story related to one
of your friends. Simply discuss a humorous incident, then
get her feedback about similar incidences in her own life.
The key here is to bring up the topic in a way that is not
lewd. If you do this correctly, you can steer a conversation
towards the topic of sex, while maintaining her levels of
comfort.
Just remember that you WANT a woman to think of you as
a potential dating partner. By introducing the topic into a
conversation early on, youll be perceived as a sexually
confident guy. And this will help increase your chances of
getting physical with the women you meet.

Tip #35- Know How to Build Rapport

As Ive discussed throughout this site, attraction isnt about
a smooth opener and five minutes of conversation. Its
about creating that spark of chemistry, building comfort
then moving to a private location. All of this is called
"rapport"
What is rapport?
When it comes to women, rapport is being in sync with
her and sharing heightened levels of attraction. When it
occurs, you can quickly build her levels of trust. And this
can often lead to an intimate experience.
When you establish rapport with a woman, it becomes
easy to get her number, set up a date or even go home
with her. So obviously rapport is something that MUST be
built during the comfort stage of a conversation.
If she trusts you and feels a CONNECTION, then youll
increase her levels of attraction. Rapport can be created by
doing a few different things.
For instance, here are some ways YOU can build
rapport with women:
Discuss common interests and hobbies
Establish physical contact
Tease and neg in a playful manner
Discuss interesting stories which demonstrate higher
value
Do future future adventures and talk about the fun
things you COULD do together
Look for her Indicators of Interest and escalate the
conversation from this information
So after youve been talking to woman for awhile, you
must move into the rapport building stage. Then once she
becomes comfortable, youll discover its easier to escalate
her levels of physical attraction.

Tip #36- How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

There is a right and wrong way to ask a girl out on date.
Done correctly, you can easily land a date. But if you
phrase it badly, youll seem weak and low status.

Thats why its important to know HOW to ask a girl out.
Then make sure you do this every time you meet a woman.
But before we get to that, lets review the WRONG way to
phrase your date request.

The WRONG Way To Ask

The worst way to ask a woman on a date is to be unclear
about your plans. This is where you conclude the
conversation with a weak statement that doesnt build
interest OR excitement.

For instance, a wrong way to
request a date would sound
like this:

I enjoyed talking to you. Would
you like to go out sometime?

The reason this doesn't work is it
does nothing to make her
interested about going on a date.

If you want to her to go out with
you, then the date itself should sound intriguing.

Furthermore, when you give an ambiguous date request
you do nothing to indicate your high status. As you
probably know, women want a guy who is confident and
takes initiative. When youre unclear about your date
request, youll demonstrate low self esteem.

Now lets move on to a correct way to ask for a date

The RIGHT Way to Ask

When you ask a woman out there should indicator of
exactly whats going to happen. This can include the
day/time, place and the activity.

In addition, the date request should be an extension of
your lifestyle. Instead of presenting her with a formal date
request, youre casually inviting her into an exciting part of
YOUR world.

So a great way to ask a girl out would to talk about your
exciting life and the things you enjoy. Then as the initial
conversation comes to a conclusion, you see if she wants
to join with an activity that you enjoy.

For instance, you can ask a girl out like this:

Hey, you mentioned you like live music. A group of us are
checking out that ____ band at ____ on ____. It should be
an awesome time. You should tag along! Here let me get
your number!

This is an excellent way to ask a girl on a date because it
gives ALL the necessary information without seeming too
needy. Also, if you state this with a high level of energy
and status, shell naturally feel excited about joining you.

If you follow my advice after building attraction, rapport
and comfort, you should EASILY conclude the conversation
with a phone number and date plan.
Seduction

Tip #37- Five Steps For Seduction
Seduction can be a confusing concept for many guys.
Because this is a topic covered by MANY sites, there is
almost TOO much information out there.
Whats the end result?
Well, with the large
amount of seduction
material the average
guy can learn a lot about
various pick up tricks.
But in all likelihood, hell
fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY behind each technique.
Frankly, I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be
boiled down to a few easy steps. If you understand the
point behind each step, then youll do better then 99% of
the other guys who only look for quick-fix solutions.
So here is MY five-step formula for how seduction works:
#1 Mental Game
The most seductive men are the guys who overcome the
problems with their confidence and self limiting beliefs.
What these guys understand is the importance of having
the right mindset before approaching women.
I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their
mind when it comes to meeting women. In order to be
seductive to women, you must practice displaying an
attractive personality.
#2- Approaching Women
Approaching women isnt about using some cheesy pick up
line. Its about displaying a high status personality while
attracting her interest. Thats why its important to use a
neutral opener that doesnt indicate your interest.
Most women want guys who are high status. By NOT
displaying signs of interest on your approach, youll attract
her attention without triggering her natural inclination to
be wary of new guys talking to her. And this helps to
reinforce a confident, yet mysterious persona.
#3 Make Her Attracted
You CANT have seduction unless shes attracted to you.
And this attraction is established within the first few
minutes of meeting a guy.
As I stated before, a big mistake you could make with a
woman is to demonstrate YOUR attraction before she
displays her.
Once you approach a woman, you need to focus on
creating attraction. There are many routines and
techniques you can use to make this happen. In fact,
MOST of the content youll find on seduction websites
focuses on creating that spark of attraction.
For now, all you need to know is the importance of creating
attraction.
#4- Show Your Attraction
In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a
guy, she must know that you like her for who SHE is rather
then her appearance.
As a woman becomes attracted to you, shell demonstrate
specific Indicators of Interest. Once you detect these
flirting signals, you should push and pull the interaction.
Basically these are routines where you subtly get a woman
to sell herself.
And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for, you
can demonstrate your own signs of attraction.
Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your
attraction is to create sexual tension. This is what flirting is
all about. One minute youre showing signs of interest, the
next youre pushing her away and teasing her in a funny
manner.
#5- The Seduction
While this is the last step listed, seduction is something
that should be happening from the moment you meet a
woman. When you first start talking to a woman, you must
be communicating a sexually confident aura.
Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and
responding with the appropriate response. And during the
later stages of interaction, seduction is about knowing how
to physically escalate, kiss her and THEN progress towards
closing the deal. In addition, its also about being the guy
who is confident enough the control each level of
progression.
So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction
summarized into a few steps. Obviously there is a lot more
to learn about this process. (Thats why Ive devoted a
whole site to this topic).

However, its important to understand the idea behind this
system. When you understand WHY you should learn a
specific technique, it becomes that much easier to improve
your success with women.

Tip #38- Create Great Sexual Chemistry
Sexual Chemistry
At some point in your life, youve probably heard this term.
For a lot of guys, this phrase represents the holy grail of all
interactions with a woman. If youre able to create sexual
chemistry, then you have a virtual lock on getting her into
the bedroom.
But how do you create it?
Well, theres a simple truth about sexual chemistry. A
womans desire for you starts WAY before youve even met
her.
During her formative years, a woman develops her tastes
for what she specifically likes in a guy. So if she is
attracted to somebody who is tall, dark and handsome,
then you wont initially create sexual tension if youre a
short, ugly, albino dude.
Every girl has her own particular taste in a guy. You cant
control it and you wont know what she likes until you
approach her.
As a result, its important to fix what you can and display a
top-notch personal appearance. Then once you know
youre looking your best, you can work on a REAL way to
create sexual chemistry.
While looks are initially important to a woman, you can still
create a spark of attraction if you understand the principle
of SEXUAL TENSION. (This is a topic covered in-depth in
the Flirt Mastery product)
Attractive women are used to guys acting like nice guys
and kissing their asses. In order to trigger her attraction
switches, you should understand that deep down inside
women want a guy who presents a challenge. And thats
what youre doing when you create sexual tension.
A conversation should involve subtle techniques for
pushing a woman away THEN pulling her in. One minute
youre touching her and providing a pleasurable
experience. Then youre pushing her away and teasing the
hell out of her.
The important thing to remember is that a conversation
NEEDS tension. By giving her mixed signals about YOUR
attraction, youre NOT providing a way to resolve the
tension that youve built.
Now there is an important reason for creating this tension.
At some point, you want to help a woman understand that
the ONLY way to eliminate this tension is to take things to
a physical level.

In other words, with sexual tension, a woman feels excited
and has conflicting feelings. She thinks you might be
attracted to her, but isnt quite sure. Only by taking things
to a physical level, will she resolve the tension thats been
built.
Remember that sexual chemistry is an important
ingredient to a conversation. Whenever you meet a woman,
you should focus on creating enough tension thatll
increase her levels of attraction. Then sit back and watch
as she works hard for your attention.

Tip #39- Five Ways to Initiate Physical
Contact

If you want an interaction with a woman to lead to sex,
you MUST establish physical contact!
The simple truth is a girl wont want to be intimate unless
you first make her comfortable with your touch.
And once shes grown
used to your contact,
itll become easy to
transition into kissing
her and leading things
towards sex.
Whats important about
physical contact is it
should be established
in the first few minutes of a conversation. The problem is
you have to do it without being perceived as the creepy
guy. An easy way to initiate contact is to do it in a natural
manner.
Here are five ways to do it:

Touch Her to Emphasize a Point
During the first few minutes of a conversation, the touch
barrier can be broken by emphasizing a point. All you need
to do is lightly touch her arm or shoulder in a normal, non-
aggressive manner.
The important thing is act casual about this action. Dont
call attention to it or allow your touch to linger. Just make
it seem like a normal extension of your demeanor.
Do a Personality Test
Personality tests are great for building attraction and
demonstrating higher value. However, theyre also
incredibly useful for touching a woman.
For instance, a palm reading test requires hand-to-hand
contact. You can touch the sensitive parts of a womans
hands while demonstrating a skill. Then after
demonstrating this skill, you should give her hands back.
This will show that youre not trying to grope her.

Play Games with Her
Playfulness is an important part of ALL conversations. One
of things that women want in a guy is a great sense of
humor. So playing games with a woman can help you
demonstrate humor while breaking the touch barrier.
The technique is pretty simple. When youre first talking to
a woman, you want to do specific things that'll require
touching her. For instance, you could initiate games like
thumb/arm wrestling, the slap game or drawing on her
arm.

As long as you act playful while doing these games, itll be
easy to touch her.

Cocky/Funny Routines
Cocky/funny is a great way to show a humorous AND
slightly arrogant women. Created by David DeAngelo,
this routine generally involves being a sarcastic in a playful
manner.
One way to use cocky/funny is to establish physical
contact. For instance you can give her a quick high five,
shove her lightly on her shoulder when you're joking
around, or give her bump hip check when you walk by
her. Also if you're walking together, you playfully walk her
into objects.
As long as she recognizes that youre playing around, shell
love your cocky/funny routines.
Do Chivalrous Things
If you're walking together somewhere, you can easily
establish physical contact while showing chivalrous side of
you. For instance you could do these things:
Open a door and lead her in with your hand on her
lower back
Offer your arm as you're walking into a place
When you're walking through a crowd of people, be the
first to go through it and offer your hand to guide her
through

As I stated at the beginning of this post, physical contact
must be established within the first few minutes of meeting
a woman. If you implement the five tips I discussed in this
article, youll be able to break this barrier in a simple yet
effective manner.

Tip #40- Kiss on the First Date???

Every day, I receive a LOT of email from guys needing help
in their dating lives. And one of the MOST common
questions I receive is Should I go for a kiss on the first
date?
Well instead of answering every email, I decided to use
this tip to specifically answer
this question.
First off, I personally think
guys place WAY too much
emphasis on the first date.
In fact, according to Google,
guys commonly request help in
this area.
But I want to clear the air
about the first date. After you
meet a woman, you do NOT
have to bring her to some
fancy restaurant or follow
traditional dating rules.
A first date can simply
involve hanging out in a casual environment. Actually I
ENCOURAGE you to keep things lighthearted when youre
meeting a woman for the first time.
So when I talk about the first date, I generally mean the
FIRST time you hang out with a girl after getting her
number/email.
Now that Ive clarified what I mean by the first date, lets
move on to the kissing
From what Ive seen, MOST seduction gurus recommend
that you ALWAYS go for a kiss on the first date.
Unfortunately I disagree.
Part of dating or hanging out with a woman is to see if
there is GENUINE attraction between the two of you. I
believe that you should try to initiate kissing ONLY if there
is mutual interest. If you try to force a kiss, this will only
create an awkward situation.
What I recommend is to look for Indicators of Interest that
provide signals of her levels of attraction. When you
receive at least 3 or 4 of these signs, you know she wants
to be kissed.
So whens the right moment?
Well traditionally, its recommended that you wait till the
END of the date. WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!
You should initiate kissing ANYTIME you think shes ready.
It shouldnt be done at the end of a date or during the
perfect moment.
Honestly I believe theres no such thing as the perfect
moment. Instead, there are small opportunities which you
must seize upon! So if you know shes attracted, go for the
kiss! If you read her signs correctly, then I guarantee you
wont be rejected!

Tip #41- Turn Your Friend Into Your
Girlfriend

Do this sound like you

There is a female friend in your life who you secretly desire.
You cant stop thinking of her and shes everything you
want from a woman. The problem is she ONLY considers
you to be a friend.

Well if this sounds familiar,
then youre not alone!

Probably the most common
problem I hear about from
men is how they secretly want
a SPECIFIC woman. But, they
cant figure out how to get her.

Whats the solution? To be
honest, this is one of those
situations where thats
EXTREMELY difficult to change!

And the only way to do it is to
take drastic measures. In this
tip, were going to cover my three-step plan for
turning that friend into a lover

Step #1- Change Your Actions

Theres something you probably never realized

The reason that youre friends (and not intimate) with this
girl is DIRECTLY related to the things that you did when
you first met her. As your relationship developed, you
made her look at you like a buddy, NOT as a sexual being.

In order change her opinion, you need to shake things up
a bit! This means ELIMINATING the specific actions that
initially pushed you into the friends zone.

For instance, here are a few things you need to STOP doing
immediately:
Calling her all the time
Listening to her talk about her guy problems
Taking her on pseudo dates
Putting her needs in front of yours
Being the shoulder she can always cry on

You might think this is a bit drastic, but remember were
trying to completely shift the nature of your relationship.
So, its necessary to have her completely change the way
she thinks of you.

The key is to do these things without coming across as a
complete asshole. What I suggest is to simply become
really busy in your life. Dont completely blow her off, but
let her know that you need to take care of some things for
awhile.

Which brings us to the next phase of this plan

Step #2- Transform Yourself

Now that weve removed yourself from her immediate
radar, youre going to work on becoming the kind of
person she would find sexually enticing. Whereas you were
once her emotional tampon, youll now become someone
who she WANTS to date.

This means creating an attractive lifestyle where she cant
help but be drawn to you!

First, start doing stuff that makes YOU happy. Ive found
that an infatuation with a particular woman often stems
from not having a lot going on with your life. By engaging
in activities that are fun, youll start to gain a broader
perspective on this particular woman. Perhaps she might
even be as great as you once thought!

Next, you should start hanging out with more women. This
is another action thatll give an idea of what else is out
there. For all you know, there might be someone who is
MUCH better than this girl.

Finally after a few weeks, even months, you want to
reconnect with your female friend. Call her up and talk
about some of the things that youve done with yourself.
(Hopefully youll have a lot of stories thatll pique her
interest).

Furthermore, you want to vaguely mention a few of the
women that are in your life. Dont brag, just casually
mention a few new friends that you now have. Trust me,
this will make her feel just a *little* jealous.

Now once youre on the phone, make a suggestion to
hang out sometime. This leads us to the next (and final)
phase

Step #3- Sealing the Deal

The key to a successful meeting (or date) is to do
something thatll connect to the emotional (not logical)
side of her brain. You want to bring her somewhere where
you shell connect the positive feelings to being around you.

So forget all thoughts of a boring activity like a dinner or
movie!

Instead you want to bring her somewhere thatll elevate
her mood and make her feel excited! Remember FUN is
directly connected to AROUSAL.

For instance, you can bring to places like an amusement
park, dancing, exercising, working out, engaging in a sport,
watching an exciting athletic game, doing something
risky/dangerous, or going to a fun concert.

All of these ideas are great for getting her to move around
and arousing the emotional side of her brain.

Now when youre with her, you want to focus on creating
SEXUAL TENSION. Rather than being the predictable,
sexless man she once knew, youre acting like a potential
lover.

This means flirting, teasing her, playfully touching her and
having fun. These actions are critical because you want her
to see you in a completely new light. And since she is
already having fun, shes not going to be in a position
where she worries about ruining your friendship.

Shell no longer see you as a friend. Youll be the exciting
guy who can elevate her positive emotions. And at this
point, things will naturally evolve into a more intimate
relationship.

This three-step plan is incredibly effective because it
avoids the awkward conversation that some guys feel is
the only way to change the nature of a relationship.

Rather than forcing her to make a decision, youre subtly
altering her opinion of you in a way thats connecting to
her emotional states instead of her logic.

Now, this is just a very basic plan. I do recommend you
take a look at the Friend Into Girlfriend site which has a
much more advanced strategy for getting the women in
your life.

Lifestyle

Tip #42- Part-Time Jobs For Attracting
Women
We all know that women are attracted to "power people"
like lawyers, doctors or architects. But there are a few
part-time jobs, that anyone can do, which can increase
your chances of meeting and attracting a woman.
Here's what I mean
There are a number of occupations where you can work
part-time and meet women in a social situation. Typically
these jobs include being a bartender, DJ, bouncer, or a
waiter. In fact, I think working a few hours each week in a
social industry is an incredible way you can meet attractive
women.
Now even if you already have a full-time job, you should
still think about working a few hours in one of these
professions. When you 're working at these jobs, women
will be engaging YOU in conversations. Due to the social
nature of this environment, you're encountering women
when they're relaxed and want to have fun.
Furthermore, when you work at a "social job", you'll be
regarded as an authority figure. The plain truth is women
are attracted to guys with confidence and leaders. When
you work at one of these jobs, you'll display the same
characteristics which will attract women.
In addition to attracting women, you can use a social job
to freely flirt with women. Since a lot of these positions
require a certain level of sarcasm and humor, you can flirt
in a confident manner without women being aware that
you're trying to pick them up.
From my personal experience as a DJ, I've found that it's
really easy to attract and engage women in conversations.
In fact by working at different bars, I'm able to stand out
from other guys and have them APPROACH ME.
For instance, whenever a good-looking woman requests a
certain song, I use this opportunity to tease her and
engage her in a conversation. Since they often look at my
job as an "authority figure", it's really simple to build
rapport and attraction.
So if you're having trouble with meeting women, then you
might want to look into working part time at a social job.
You'll probably discover that you're chances of meeting
and attracting women will dramatically increase.

Tip #43- Become the Busy Guy
There are many characteristics of what women find
attractive in a man. If you display "Alpha Male" traits,
you'll show women that you're a fun and interesting guy.
So it's important to demonstrate specific qualities which
women want from men.
For instance, I was recently rereading one of my favorite
books where the author discussed how being a "busy guy"
can help you build attraction with women you know. What
he said was girls are naturally attracted to men who have
interesting things going on.
Now the truth is MANY guys are terrible at following up
with women after getting a phone number or email address.
Generally what happens is the attraction they built during
the initial meeting falls flat and they can't set up a date.
Between the period between meeting a woman and
contacting her, a lot of things can draw her attention away
from you. So it's important to reestablish that connect and
make her interested in you. Since she probably has a lot of
things happening in her life, you have to find a way to
stand out in her mind.
And the best way to do this is to act like a busy guy.
As I mentioned before, women are extremely attracted to
men who have exciting and interesting lives. So she'll be
more attracted to you if you can demonstrate that you
have a lot going on in your life. In a way you're displaying
higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who
sits around the house nervously waiting for her call.
Also, by acting like a busy guy, she'll subconsciously think
you might be dating other women. If this woman thinks
she has a bit of competition, she'll work hard *make an
impression* the next time you meet.
Now to act like a busy guy, you need to do the following
When you initially call her, let her know that you have a lot
happening during the week. Then you tell her that you
want to make definite plans on a specific day. Emphasize
that you want to see her again, but "things have been
crazy" in your life.
After you make plans (ie: set up a date), cut the
conversation short and tell her you have a lot of things to
get done. Be vague about what you're doing, but make it
sound interesting.
Finally once you go on the date, mention all the activities
that you do. In other works, let her know that you have a
busy life, but you're willing to let her be part of it.

If you can demonstrate that you have an active life you'll
discover that women will find more attractive.


Tip #44- Increase Your Social Circle

Many guys have the erroneous belief that meeting women
ALWAYS involves going to a specific location and
approaching strangers. The truth is there is another way
you can meet women without feeling the need to frequent
crowded bars.
The solution is simple.
All you have to do is
make a concerted effort
to improve your social
life.
By making new friends
and contacts, you'll
increase your
opportunities for meeting interesting women.
When you try to make friends with more people, especially
females, your options for dating women will dramatically
increase. In addition, an increase in the quantity of friends
will provide an excellent opportunity to do new and
exciting things.
Now the truth is a lot of women are attracted to guys who
have an active social life. Furthermore by having more
female buddies, you could have an opportunity to meet
and date their friends.
If you've familiar with the psychology of women, then you
know that they love to play the role of matchmaker with
their single friends. By having a better social life, you'll
develop platonic relationships with lots of women. Then
over time, you'll have an opportunity to be set up with
their attractive friends.
Since you have "personal recommendation" from your
women friends, it'll be a lot easier to break the ice with
their friends. Unlike approaching a woman at a bar, these
women won't be so wary about you talking to them.
But even if your female friends won't set you up with
women they know, you can still meet their friends at social
activities like a party or happy hour. And by creating a
good social life, you'll see a dramatic increase in invitations
to these events.
So remember this
In order to increase your chances of meeting more women,
it's important to get a healthy social life. Even if you know
you're not attracted to a woman, make it a point to
befriend her. She probably has a few cute friends that you
can meet later on.

Tip #45- Wear the Right Cologne

If there is one lesson I've learned well as a guy, it is this:
women will make an instant judgment on you from the
moment you approach them. So if you make a bad first
impression, then you'll kill your chances of attracting them.
Now what I've
discovered is that
it's important to
display a top-notch
appearance.
If you look and feel
good, then you'll
increase your
overall success
with women.
And as part of your overall looks, it's important to wear
cologne that women love. Since women are more in tune
with their sense of smell, you should always remember to
apply a quality fragrance before you go out.
It's well known that women prefer guys who wear a nice
cologne. By spraying on a fragrance, you'll discover that
it'll help your ability to attract women.
But the question is: Should you buy ANY cologne that you
see?
The answer is no!
Because some fragrances "disagree" with many females,
it's important to do research and find out what cologne
women like best. If you're not careful with what you buy
you run the risk of turning off the same woman you're
trying to attract.
As a result, it's important to find out what cologne do
women prefer! One solution is to grab a female friend and
have her help you out. The two of you should go your local
mall and do some research. Try different fragrances and
get her opinion on which ones smell the best.
Another trick is to get the opinions from the women who
work at the cologne counter. Try asking them which
colognes they like best on their boyfriends. Then buy the
one which has the highest recommendation.
But if you don't have time to go fragrance shopping, then
take a look at some of the colognes that I know women
prefer:
Le Male by Jean Paul Gaultier
Hugo Boss
Curve for Men
Versace Blue Jeans by Gianni Versace
Contradiction by Calvin Klein

Being able to attract women often comes down to many
elements. But if you take the time to wear a nice cologne,
you'll improve your overall chances of success.

Tip #46- Why Appearance DOES Matter

Perhaps the question I get asked the most about women is
if you need looks or money to attract women. My response
to this question is ALWAYS a resounding NO!
But there is one MAJOR catch to this statement. While I
think you have the ability to attract women, you still need
to have a top-notch personal appearance.
Confused by this statement? If so, let me explain. While
you don't have to be good looking to be desired by women,
you still need to present an appearance which is attractive.
And when I talk about appearance, I mean you should do
everything to look your BEST. In other words, the clothes
you wear and how you display your body language will
have a direct impact on your success rate.
Here are a few ways to dramatically improve your
personal appearance:

1) Smile Every Time You Meet a Woman
If done properly, your smile can be your SECRET WEAPON
for attracting women. Now the trick is to learn how to
smile as a reflex every time you approach a woman. If you
don't have a natural smile, take the time to practice it.
In addition to smiling it's equally important to have display
a mouth which is free from stains or bad breath. So
remember to brush and floss twice a day. Furthermore
liberally use breath mints and gum.

2) Wear Fashionable Clothes

If you want to meet attractive women, you have to be
willing to wear fashionable clothes. So you might have to
make a few financial sacrifices if you want clothes which
will impress girls.
The key to improving your wardrobe is to purchase some
clothes which match today's latest fashion. While you don't
have to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe, you should
spend a little extra on a few items which look REALLY good.
Simple take the time to find which items look best on YOU
and you'll make a dramatic improvement.

3) Have Great Hygiene

Like your smile, it's extremely critical to have proper
hygiene. This means shaving, putting on deodorant,
getting a haircut and showering regularly. If you look like a
slob, you'll end up attracting slobbish women.

The guys who are really successful know that attractive
women go for confident and sharp looking men. In order to
be like them, you must look your best. Just remember that
your personal appearance is the first thing a woman will
see. So make sure you present yourself in the best
possible light.

Finally a great resource to use if youre concerned about
your looks is The Handsome Factor. On this site, youll
find a step-by-step solution to develop the kind of look that
women absolutely love!


Tip #47- Know Where to Meet Women

That's a common question I get from a lot of guys.
Typically these guys think there is some magical place they
can go to meet the woman of their dreams. The truth is
the best way to find the right kind of woman is to go where
she hangs out. Here's what I mean
Let's just say you decided one
day that you want to hunt for
dear. Would you grab a boat
and go into the middle of a
river? Probably not! If you
were smart, you would grab
some camouflage and go into
the woods.
You can take this analogy and
apply this to a lot of guys.
Typically they make the poor
choice of looking for a
SPECIFIC type of woman in
places where she won't be. For
instance, some men want a
sweet, homebody type of woman. But the first place they
look is their local bar.
In essence, they're hunting for a deer in the middle of a
river!
If you're serious about trying to find a specific type of girl,
you must be proactive and go to the places where she
goes. In other words, if you want a "spiritual church girl",
then you should put on your "Sunday's Best" and head
over to a church.
Now I'm not saying nice girls don't hang out at bars and
clubs. But statistically speaking, you'll probably encounter
girls who like to party and have a good time. Usually
settling down is the farthest from their minds.
To get started, sit down and form an image of your
PERFECT girl. Then decide on the best places where she
would hang out. For instance, here are a few types of
women:
Party girls
Bookish, intellectual women
Business and professional women
Athletic girls
Spiritual women
Alternative and extreme lifestyle girls

If you're able to define your ideal woman, it becomes that
much easier to envision the places where she goes. Then
all you have to do start frequenting the same spots where
you'll likely encounter her. [Also, being able to meet a
woman involves improving your dating skills.

Tip #48- Stop Thinking About The One

When it comes to dating, it's dangerous to develop an
obsession. The reason is when your thoughts are
consumed by thoughts of a single girl, it becomes to TOO
easy to avoid other women. In fact the expression "One-
itis" comes from an inability to stop thinking about a
specific girl in your life.
Unfortunately, a BAD case of oneitis has a devastating
effect on your ability to meet women. With oneitis, a guy
tends to have strong feelings for a woman who does NOT
return these feelings.
To overcome one-itis, my advice is simple- STOP obsessing
over her!
If you're hung up on one particular woman, you'll be
incredibly disappointed when she repeatedly spurns your
attention. Instead of being obsessed over her, you should
shift focus. In other words, start dating OTHER women and
try to make new female friends. In fact, make it a point to
include LOTS of women in your life.
When you increase your female social circle, you'll
dramatically improve your lifestyle. By filling your life
with women youll receive FIVE major benefits:

1) You'll stop obsessing over that one woman you
can't have

2) You'll have more opportunities to attend fun social
events

3) You'll discover your object of affection is NOT
that special

4) You'll become more HIGH STATUS because people
will see that you're surrounded by interesting
women

5) You'll demonstrate to this one woman that she's
EASILY replaceable
Oneitis is something which can plague the best of us. But
you can easily overcome it if you include more women in
your life.
So if you're struggling with obsessive feelings over one
particular girl, then it might be time to take massive action.
Simply try to date other women and make new female
friends. I guarantee you'll quickly forget about this girl.

On the other hand, if you cant stop thinking about her,
then I recommend the Get Her Back site.

Tip #49- Always Groom Yourself

Do you like when women scream and run away from you?
Well if you're like most guys this is the last thing you want.
But it's a real possibility if you're not taking care of your
grooming habits. Here's what I mean
In almost every social situation, I've noticed there is that
ONE guy who tries hard to attract women, but doesn't take
the time to work on his grooming habits. What he doesn't
realize is poor hygiene turns off women instead of
attracting them. By NOT taking a half hour each day for
grooming, he's eliminating his chances of success.
Now on this website, I work hard to provide great
information for being attractive to women. It's my hope
that I provide enough free information to help you
overcome bad looks, social awkwardness or a lack of
confidence. However there is NOTHING I can do to help
you if you don't take the time to work on your hygiene.
What's frustrating is having good personal hygiene is the
one area in which you have COMPLETE control. Yet I see a
number of guys who don't make an effort in this area of
their lives. So if you want to ensure a top-notch
appearance you should do the following EACH time before
you go out to meet women:
Shower (Using an ample amount of soap, shampoo, and
conditioner)
Clean your ears out with Q-Tips
Shave or trim your facial hair
Apply deodorant
Brush your teeth and use dental floss
Apply a popular cologne
Trim any nose, eyebrow or ear hair you have
Dress in a neat manner
While these grooming tips may seem like common sense, a
lot of guys seem to forget the importance of taking care of
their appearance.
Just remember that NO tip or technique will work if you
have a lousy appearance or poor hygiene. As I always say:
"If you look like a slob, you'll attract slobbish women!"
Ultimately if you want to maximize your ability to attract
women, simply spend a little time each day and remember
to groom yourself!

Tip #50- Create a Unique Look

As you probably know, you dont NEED good looks to be
attractive to women. As long as you have an interesting
personality and know how to develop physical chemistry,
then you wont have to look like a male model.
But theres one REALLY important exception to this
statement. In a previous tip, I discussed how your personal
appearance is VERY important. While women don't need to
be with guys with great looks, youll still increase your
success if you demonstrate an interesting appearance.
What do I mean by this?
Well, no matter what you look like, you can increase your
success with women by creating a unique look. For
instance, Neil Strauss (or Style), the renowned [PUA] who
wrote The Game, created an interesting appearance that
attracts women.
A few years ago, Style was a self-proclaimed short, balding,
skinny guy with a large nose. But with the help of Mystery,
he transformed himself into a stylish person with a shaved
head and unique facial hair.
In essence, Style went from average looking to a guy with
a unique look. This helped improve his confidence and
increase his success with women.
And you can do the same!
No matter what you look like, you can dramatically
improve your appearance and create an interesting look
thatll drive women crazy!
Whether it's the way you dress or how you wear your
haircut, there is probably something about your
appearance that can be improved. By creating an
interesting look, youll stand out from other guys and
become more attractive.

Conclusion

Well I hope you enjoyed the 50 tips included in this
ebook!

Just remember that dating women comes down the simple
process of knowing how to approach and attraction.

So it's up to you to apply the tips you've learned
throughout this ebook.

Now most of these techniques are used for women youve
never met before. BUT, Ive found that you can apply
some of them to attract that one girl who has never shown
you interest before!

Furthermore, I've recently
found a great program which
teaches you how to flirt and
sexually attract women.
EVERY time youre talking to
a woman, you need to know
the RIGHT techniques for
creating a stimulating
conversation.

In the Flirt Mastery guide,
youll discover how to flirt
and create hypnotic
conversations with
women.

It's like receiving personal coaching advice on how to make
a dramatic change to your dating life! So if you're
interested in learning how to increase your success with
the women you already know, I recommend you take a
look at the Flirt Mastery system.

Well thanks again for taking the time to read this report!
Now all you have to do is apply what you've learned and
you'll become an instant master at attracting women!

To your success with women,


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