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How
does
non-verbal
communication
work?
Is
it
more
accurate
than
what
is
blurted
out
of
ones
mouth?
How
accurate
can
it
be
depicted
among
different
age
groups
and
between
married
and
un-married
couples?
Human
intimacy
is
derived
from
multiple
levels
of
verbal
and
non-verbal
communication.
Awareness
to
the
non
verbal
cues
conveys
intimacy
and
gives
one
a
fairly
good
sense
of
the
closeness
and
warmth
within
a
relationship
of
two
given
people.
(Strong
&
Cohen,
2014,
p.
233)
I
went
to
a
mall
on
the
weekend
to
observe
these
cues
from
single
and
married
individuals.
The
first
observation
that
I
made
was
in
Brookstone
where
an
employee
(female)
was
helping
out
a
customer
(also
female).
They
stood
about
2-3
feet
apart.
The
textbook
notes
that
this
is
called
the
personal
space
which
allows
for
sensory
information
but
not
at
the
same
level
of
detail
as
the
intimate
zone.
(Strong
&
Cohen,
2014,
p.
234)
They
made
the
transaction
and
she
walked
out
of
the
store.
The
second
observation
that
I
made
was
watching
two
friends
walk
near
a
couple
of
clothing
stores.
They
were
excited
to
buy
some
new
clothes
and
prancing
around
with
arms
linked.
They
constantly
made
eye
contact
and
they
were
making
similar
body
expressions
which
also
confirmed
high
interest.
They
were
within
inches
of
each
other
the
entire
time,
even
when
arms
werent
locked.
This
is
considered
the
intimate
zone
which
is
the
interaction
among
close
friends,
family,
or
a
partner
within
0-18
inches
of
space.
(Strong
&
Cohen,
2014,
p.
234)
They
were
obviously
quite
close
as
they
were
hugging
excitedly
as
they
entered
a
clothing
store.
A
married
couple
in
the
Apple
Store
wasnt
nearly
as
excited,
but
as
they
browsed
for
what
looked
like
a
new
laptop
or
desktop.
They
were
shoulder
to
shoulder
and
the
wife
put
her
head
on
the
husbands
shoulder
frequently
as
they
looked
through
which
model
to
buy.
She
also
had
her
hand
on
his
back
for
most
of
the
time
that
I
was
observing
them,
and
as
the
textbook
states,
touch
may
be
used
to
display
closeness,
support,
and
warmth
(Strong
&
Cohen,
2014,
p.
235)
There
was
another
couple
buying
a
LuvSac
that
were
not
getting
along
well
since
they
couldnt
decide
what
color
to
buy.
They
didnt
make
much
eye
contact
and
they
werent
as
close
in
distance
as
the
previous
mentioned
couple.
It
was
easy
to
tell
that
they
werent
happy
with
each
other
at
the
moment.
One
funny
interaction
was
between
two
teenagers
and
their
friends
near
the
cafeteria.
A
group
of
teenage
boys
saw
a
group
of
teenage
girls,
and
one
dared
his
friend
to
go
up
and
get
the
phone
number
of
the
most
attractive
girl
of
the
group.
As
he
approached
and
asked
her,
she
didnt
want
to
make
eye
contact
with
him
when
he
asked
her
for
her
number.
She
then
made
up
some
excuse
that
they
had
to
run
and
pick
up
her
phone
from
a
store
because
they
were
putting
a
case
on
it
and
they
quickly
left.
This
is
known
as
an
exchange
cue
and
some
people
believe
that
this
is
the
most
polite
form
of
rejection
without
saying,
No,
please
go
away.
(Strong
&
Cohen,
2014,
p.
234)
Within
the
mall
there
were
singles
and
married
couples
from
different
cultures.
It
was
interesting
to
note
that
I
saw
mainly
Latinos
and
Americans
with
the
most
eye
contact
out
of
the
few
couples
that
I
saw.
Women
were
more
likely
to
touch
shoulders
and
scratch
a
mans
back
whereas
the
men
were
more
likely
to
initiate
holding
hands
with
females.
These
two
instances
were
for
the
couples,
of
course.
Groups
of
teenage
boys
were
more
likely
to
travel
with
sunglasses
and
try
to
look
cool
whereas
the
girls
were
more
excited
about
entering
stores
and
finding
new
shops
within
Fashion
Place
Mall.
This
was
an
interesting
outside
experience
because
mainly
one
would
not
pay
attention
to
which
gender
initiates
what
type
of
contact
or
even
the
non-verbal
cues.
The
non-verbal
cues
tell
a
lot
about
what
a
person
is
thinking
or
feeling
about
the
interaction
happening
in
front
of
them.
These
are
important
to
note
especially
when
dealing
with
someone
of
the
opposite
sex
that
one
is
interested
in
so
that
a
good
connection
can
be
made.
Sources:
The
Marriage
and
Family
Experience
Bryan
Strong
and
Theodore
F.
Coden,
(2014).
Twelfth
Edition.
The
Marriage
and
Family
Experience:
Intimate
Relationships
in
A
Changing
Society,
Wadsworth:
Cengage
Learning.
Pages
Referenced:
233-235