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THE ALPHA
LIFESTYLE

Special
Report:
HOW TO
CHANGE

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I dug up a special bonus e-book for you, as a little “New Year’s
Gift.”

You probably know by now that the philosophy that I teach is

one of self-improvement and living an Alpha Lifestyle.

This means that you’re focused not on just a quick lay, but on
forging yourself into the best piece of masculine machinery out
there.

You do this not just for women, but for yourself.

For your character...

For your personal development ...
For your family...
For your friends...
For your career...

For every facet of the life you want to lead.

In my seminars, bootcamps, and various home-study programs,

I discuss the three elements of a complete Alpha Lifestyle:

- Inner Game
- Outer Game
- Motivation

With these three elements in place, you are UNSTOPPABLE.

Soak in the information in this e-book, and continue to the end

where I’ll give you more information on how to continue on the
path of the Alpha Man to Ultimate Success...

This is one of my coaches giving you priceless advice.. and the kind of
information and guidance YOU can get PERSONALLY. Read to the end
and you'll find out what I mean.

Your friend,
Carlos Xuma

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Man, I’m so excited... There are so many theories and thoughts about change and getting
better at something (like dating), but having worked all of these and seeing them applied
with people one-on-one has enabled me to see their actual effect in the real world. I have
found what I believe is the missing key (or keys) to why for most people change is so
darn slow, and sometimes non-existent.

I want you to read over this report carefully. Some of these things might seem familiar, or
even well known, but they’re not. It’s how I will present them that will make the
difference. Read carefully.

So how do you make the fastest possible progress? Well, there are several things we
found through our extensive NetCoaching which we continue to optimize to make it as
fast as possible.

Breaking it Down

I know you want to go out tomorrow and be able to walk into the hottest club, impress all
the bouncers, be let in for free and immediately go for the playmate surrounded by 10
bodyguards and take her home… in 5 minutes or less… as you have the entire club eating
out of your hand.

Am I going to say this is impossible or unrealistic? No, not at all, this is the reality of all
masters in this area… And by masters, I mean average guys who studied and applied this
stuff and eventually reached that level.

What I am going to tell you is that it’s impossible to achieve any of it if you have that as
the goal lingering in your mind… today. You need to break down your ideal future into as
tiny as possible chunks. Like for example: “working a room (impressing bouncers)”,
“approaching groups”, “physical escalation”, “body-language”, “voice”, “conversational
skill.”

Ok, ok, so you’ve heard all of this before. What’s different? Here’s what’s different, and
this is by far the BIGGEST difference between those who make huge progress FAST and
those that don’t.

Those that don’t make progress, try to work on all of these simultaneously. They decide
to go out and work on all of these at the same time. They study all the products on each
of these areas at the same time, and they try to apply them all at the same time.

Don’t fall into this trap!

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Pick only ONE thing at a time… Let’s say, approaching people and starting conversation.

Only work on this one thing until you become a master of it. Only read about
approaching, only ask questions about approaching. Only think about approaching. Only
care about approaching.

If I could give you an educated estimate of what this looks like…

✦Working on 5 aspects of dating at once – 3-4 years to mastering all of them...

✦Working on 1 aspect at a time – 3-4 months to mastering all 5...

Giving stuff up

But there’s a problem here… We see this all the time in our NetCoaching students… As
you’re working on one thing to exclusion of all else… It feels hard to let go of the others.
As you’re working on approaching, you keep getting thoughts about “oh wow, but what
if she says this when I ask for the number”, or “oh but wow, what if I get a date, what do
I do on the date”.

In order to make this work you have to completely let go of being good at any other area.
You have to be willing to accept that you’re going to remain the same in other areas, and
even accept you might suck at the other stuff. As you’re working on say how to do a
perfect date, that’s all you care about, everything else can completely suck, as long as you
work on this one thing right.

Again, would you rather spend 4 years or 3-4 months? Just let it go.

Acceptance

This is the second aspect of giving stuff up, and I have to pound it even a bit further. You
have to completely accept who you are right now. It sounds somewhat ironic, and even
counter-intuitive, but in order to get to the next level, you have to accept that it’s OK who
you are right now. In order to get to the next level, you have to count out all the blessings
of the current level. Be grateful and then move on. Acceptance doesn’t mean “inaction”
as some people think of the word.

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Acceptance means “unconditional love for oneself”. If I succeed at getting this girl, wow
that’s awesome, I’m still the same awesome person!… If I don’t succeed? Wooah, that’s
awesome too, I’m still that awesome great person.

Acceptance is a way of achieving detachment from outcome.

“Whoah, I love who I am, I can’t wait until I master approaching, it’s going to be cool,
but it won’t change much. I don’t care whether it takes 2 days or 2 years… it’s all cool. I
like myself.”

If, for example, you’ve always wanted to lose weight… but are working on approaching
now, as you’re working on approaching “accept your weight unconditionally”… become
the best darn overweight approach master on the planet, completely let go of the weight
area. Once you master the current area, then move on to the second thing by priority, for
example say conversation, or finances, whatever it is. Again accepting *Everything* else
that you’re not working on. Everything except your finances is perfect as it is.

The Magic of Leverage

If there is one magical technique that will super-accelerate your progress, than this is it…
You’ve probably seen this example ready. Why is that Hollywood actors and rich people
get such a stunning body-transformation in just 6-9 months, when people in your local
gym look the same year after year? Do they have magical potions and pills? No, in fact
the kids at your local gym have black-market “potions and pills” that are more potent
than what any actor or celebrity could get a hold of.

What do celebrities have then? They have a “personal trainer.” So what’s special about a
trainer? Is it his “superior” knowledge? No… The gym geeks have read 456 books on
fitness. More than any trainer knows.

The secret behind a trainer is that he’s a form of “leverage”!

So what is leverage? It’s simply a “something”, a trick, a person, a technique, a method, a

secret… that allows you to get “more bang for your buck” or to get a higher quantity of
results, for a lower amount of investment.

From Wikipedia “Leverage is a factor by which lever multiplies a force - it is therefore

related to mechanical advantage. The useful work done is the energy applied, which is
force times distance. Therefore a small force applied over a long distance is the same
amount of work as a large force applied over a small distance...”

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In terms of the personal development world, when the word leverage is used, what we
mean is “something” that gets us to perform and evolve at much higher levels than we
would without that something.

So, what are some secret forms of leverage?

✦Creating a form of social pressure: This can be something like telling your
colleague at work that you plan on finishing at least 2 reports by the break. The
way this works is that you will feel bad admitting to the guy on your break that
you didn’t do it… So the pressure motivates you to do it…

✦Reward and Punishment: You can, for example, tell your colleague that if
you show up tomorrow at work with less than 4 reports, you owe him $40. This
will motivate you to do it and eliminate all procrastination and misdirected effort

✦Burning ships Let’s say you want to start a business, but you are still working
at the same job. Writing a letter of resignation and handing it to a friend with the
instructions to mail it within thirty days if you haven’t started your business is a
great example. Your aim is to make the costs of not acting so unbelievably high
that they pale in comparison with any imagined risks of taking action.

✦Written statements: One way this works is for example taking a huge neon-
colored card, writing what you will do today, and putting it in your wallet. This
will make it so that it’s continually reminding you what you set out to do, and at
the same time pointing out that you actually had a reason to do it, so you can’t
back out.

There is one problem with leverage… And that is that if you use it incorrectly, it can
backfire. If you use too much of it… Such as creating too much pressure, you can end up
just crashing entirely. For example… If the pain of potentially having to see the friend on
the break and admitting you didn’t do those reports is too big… You might end up just
skipping from work entirely (as a way to avoid him), hence doing more harm than good.

So those examples above are some typical examples from self-help, how can you make
this work in terms of dating, pickup, seduction and becoming an alpha man?

One thing you can do is contact someone who has the same interests about meeting
women as you do (you can find groups like this online), meet him, and define some
mutual goals, that way you’ll both be responsible to one another that you worked on
them.

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An obvious way, for what you can do is get yourself a NetCoach. The advantages of
a NetCoach are that:

✦He knows exactly the right amount of leverage to apply...

✦He has worked with hundreds of people like you, so he will know exactly the
one secret to apply for that one specific issue you’re having (so you don’t spend
months scouring knowledge for potential solutions to try out)...

✦He will break down things at just the right level and know exactly what you
should be working on today...

✦He will monitor your progress and be able to tell exactly when you’re ready to
go to the next level, and when to do what...

✦You feel responsible to someone other than yourself… A real human of flesh
and blood, that you have a connection to, that you know is thinking about you
and your well-being...

✦He will know exactly what areas to prioritize right now, and which area to
ignore...

Fortunately for you, we decided to open up another backdoor to get in a few more folks
into our very special Netcoaching program. I can’t know if this is what you’re looking
for, but I’d bet it is something you will be VERY interested in looking at.

If you’re really serious about improving your skills with women, and you’d like to have
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This is your unique ticket to the Alpha Lifestyle. Go take a look now by clicking HERE:

NETCOACHING - Your personal dating trainer...

Your friend,

- Petro DeMello

Coach with Dating Dynamics and Carlos Xuma

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