Hey there, its Tyler Thanks for coming to the RSD Hot Seat!!

Contained within this document are a brief set of notes from what you learned, to help you to remember and apply it aAer the event. I hope you nd them helpful. If you havent yet, I would also *massively* appreciate it if you could smash up a quick review of your experience at: hJp://www.rsdnaLon.com/forum/2 (This is really important because oAenLmes everyone assumes that everyone ELSE will write something, and nobody writes anything at all. If you got a lot of out of the event, please take even 2 minutes to shoot up a quick review. It means a lot to me. Thanks!!) Lastly before we get started, if youre somebody who has NOT yet had your own Hot Seat experience, and youve accidentally stumbled onto this short document, my recommendaLon is ATTEND THE HOT SEAT FOR YOURSELF.

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Although youll nd many cool ideas in here, it is about 0.001% of the value of aJending the event in person, seeing the content that took me so long to put together, learning from the breakdowns, and experiencing the interacLve exercises as a group. I spent 2 years preparing the Hot Seat because my goal was to create the ulLmate one-full-day learning experience on success with women, and I KNOW that you will be LLllated and transformed by what you learn.

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GOALS OF YOUR HOT SEAT EXPERIENCE

1- To get a taste of whats possible if you make a strong commitment to get this area of your life sorted out. Although Tyler and other instructors have been going out for many years, the goal of this experience is to cut down your learning curve so you can get the same result in less Lme. 2- To show you that Success with women is a SET OF PRINCIPLES. Everyone is cut from the same cloth. The extent to which you apply the principles will be the extent to which you enjoy success. Tyler and the instructors are no dierentif they dont apply the principles, they fail just like anyone else. These videos include text book pickups, as well as mediocre pickups, and total screw-ups. Guys who do well in this area are REAL PEOPLE, not cartoon characters. You should see from this that the game doesnt have to be perfect, just good enough that the girl is open to you moving things forward. 3- To show you that THE GAME IS FUN. If nothing else, the single thing you need to get reinforced from this experience is that the game is one of the most fun hobbies on earth. Aptude is 90% of the game. When you realize how fun the game is, youre inclined to go out a lot, and when you go out a lot, you quickly improve. 4- If youre a beginner you should get a drasLc eye-opening about whats possible. If youre intermediate then you should get an idea of what you need to do to reach an advanced level. If youre advanced then youve reached a point where returns dont come as easily. To get from a 9 to a 10 in the game oAen takes longer than to get from a 4 to an 8. Although this event wont be the same drasLc experience as it is for a newbie, it will provide a number of advanced subtleLes that would have been really dicult to acquire on your own, and get you from that 9 to 10 level in your development. **UlLmately there are over 30 years of combined experience in the eld here. Youll gain hundreds of liJle disLncLons that took us years to gure out. These will be directly downloaded into your brain today. If you keep your mind open and immediately apply what you learned, you will gain 10X the value out of this program. **The event will start o with a lot of highlight clips to keep you engaged, and then move into longer clips that arent as entertaining, but more valuable to give you a FULL perspecLve of the game. If we showed you purely highly clips then your view of the game would be BOOM BOOM BOOM like a cartoon, instead of a highly realisLc perspecLve of what an interacLve looks like from open to close. That being the case, enjoy both the o the wall highlights, as well as the longer clipsthey are equally important.

TYLER
The INTENT secLon
Intent #1 2 out of 10 intent. Although this clip looks awesome to a newbie, because Tyler is holding the aJenLon of a hot girl, when compared to the 6 out of 10 or 10 out of 10 clips, you see where its lacking. This should provide you with a mirror of what many of YOUR interacLons look like. Think about approaches you did that looked like this. Most importantly, noLce how each of the three girls in the rst three clips are equally aJracLve (the rst is a professional model, and the other two probably could be as well), and equally RECEPTIVE. Its only how much interest TYLER IS SHOWING thats dierent. What you should learn from this: Its oAen not how much interest the girl is showing you, but how ENTITLED YOU FEEL TO SHOW INTEREST TO THE GIRL, that is the dierence between an approach that goes nowhere, versus an approach that leads from open to close. Intent #2 6 out of 10 intent. Tyler is closer to the girl here. Tyler isnt thinking ahead. Hes lepng her talk, JUDGING what shes saying, and then rewarding. She says something into Tylers ear, Tyler judges, decides its funny, and rewards her by looking under her shirt, then liking what he sees, picking her up in the air. NoLce also that when the pseudo-boyfriend gets angry, it doesnt mean the interacLon has to end. It keeps going. Intent #3 10 out of 10 intent. This is an example of the Unlimited chips in a casino frame. The best guys mindset = approaching women as if you were given endless chips in a casino, and you were running around on a happy frolic, pumping chips into every machine you can nd. Theres no downside to a machine not giving you the jackpot. You just go to some other machine and pump in more chips. Eventually one will give you the jackpot, its all good! Tyler opens this girl gepng into the taxi for no other reason than HE CAN. Shes a beauLful girl and theres nothing lost by shouLng something out to see if she responds. This usually has about a 1 out of 10 chance of working, but it happens to work here by the law of averages. Probably because shes BORED, but who cares?? Tyler says Dont get in the cab. Come with me instead. She says Do you want to SHARE a cab? He says No I want you to come with me. I want to take you behind the building (This is a jokeif youre not SERIOUSLY FUNNY then dont say things like this. As a joke its funny, but if youre not seriously funny then its blatantly stupid and you should never do it.) She says Okay and even points to the back of the building where she wants to be taken. Tyler feels =enLtled, and that none of this is a big deal. When you compare to the previous 2 out of 10 intent video, and 6 out of 10 video, you can see that this whole thing seems more NORMAL. Being

enLtled means that when a beauLful woman is giving you aJenLon, its cool and fun, but no big deal. Later Tyler runs out of strength to carry her, but wants to look sexy and not like a dorky wimp. So he slams her against the wall and does a mock-choke, then says Im the most abusive man youve ever met. She says I love abusive men. Ive dated many abusive guys before you. Intent #4 -This clip is meant to show a dierent interpretaLon of the word Intent which can have mulLple meanings (or at least, there are dierent ways of understanding it). INTENT = CLARITY IN YOUR THOUGHTS, WORDS, AND ACTIONS. In other words, you dont always have to be up in a girls grill to show intent (although its obviously very good IF youre highly aJracted). Being clear in your intent can simply be that youre CLEAR IN WHAT YOURE DOING. -NoLce in this clip that although the girl is taller and beJer looking than Tyler, who appears to be the lucky on in the interacLon. This points to the Buyer/Seller Dynamic. Even if you arent as good looking, tall, etc, you can sLll be the buyer in the interacLon, with the preper girl feeling lucky that shes talking to you. It comes down to being more at ease in your own reality, and being the one who GIVES validaLon, as opposed to RECEIVING validaLon. This is a win/win frame, as girls enjoy it and feel aJracted to it. Theyre generally bored by a guy who seeks approval and validaLon.

The OPENERS SecLon

Openers CompilaLon **This clip shows a variety of dierent openers, styles of opening, etc. Some hook immediately while others are rough landings that eventually smoothen out. OPENER 1 Accomplishment intro. Jey waits unLl Tyler has crossed the hook point and then opens. NoLce he amuses himself somewhat while waiLng, as opposed to looking over desperately. Tyler gets a strong response on the high ve and so its obvious the girls would rather that he stay as opposed to leave. When Je comes in, its an example of communicaLng authenLcally from whatever state youre in. Hes not super psyched, so references that hes not interesLng tonight. Even though hes downplaying himself, hes not EMOTIONALLY LEACHING. Theres a dierence between communicaLng authenLcally that youre not super pumped up, and being an emoLonal leach. Use common sense. OPENER 2 Although you dont iniLally see it in the clip, if you look carefully youll see this girl is about 4 or 5 inches taller in her heels than Tyler (shes a runway model). To establish a masculine lead with taller girls, a great way to do it is to pick them up and spin them around a bit, in some funny way or other. NoLce Tyler has to aJempt to pick her up TWICE here, because she has to bend her legs to get picked up.

NoLce how Tyler also gets her hands quickly. The conversaLon is BORING and yet theres a good man to woman mode of communicaLon, simply because of the immediate physical game. This same conversaLon without the hand clasp would be at, but with physical game its ne. OPENER 3 This demonstrates REFLEXES. NoLce how Tyler sees her walking by and immediately claws her in, and launches into conversaLon. Key: Simultaneously increase awareness of where the girls are, decrease reacLon Lme. Think of all the Lmes that girls walked by and you didnt do anything. You were aware of them, but more as a voyeur than as really acknowledging them as being within your eld of reality of people who you could talk to. To get really good at approaching, you want to react immediately when you see a girl that you like. NoLce how hes feeding o of his aJracLon for the girl, and looks almost buzzed, even though hes stone sober. When approaching women you dont want to be thinking more than Duuuur, happy, horny, DUUUUURRRR.. Anything more than that, and youre overcomplicaLng it. Also noLce how overweight Tyler is here. Hes 205 pounds (its an older clip). Hes not self-conscious about how hes trapped in a big fat body, hes just enjoying himself. Even though hes fat, the girl is just feeding o of the emoLons. Would it make any dierence if he were SKINNER? Nope. NoLce also here how physical game adds chemistry and emoLonal relevance to the interacLon. The hand clasp especially. OPENER 4 Cockfarm disperse. Do not approach with big groups of guys in tow if you can avoid it, as this is weird to the girl. (On the other hand, if you have no other opLon then theres nothing to lose. Take it as a general guideline, not a rm rule). UJerly ridiculous opener for moving groups: Youve just been body checked. Im the body check BANDIT. NoLce the fearlessness even though its a mixed group. Nothing is a big deal, its all a joke. She says Are you going to drop me and he says I dropped a kid on its head this one Lme Everything is a joke. Observe how the guy simply vanishes. This typically happens when youre funnier, cooler, and more dominant, assuming he didnt drive there with her (if he did then hes usually forced to sLck around). OPENER 5 A simple example of how you can yell girls down while walking behind them, say something funny and them coral them in. Are you the blockers of the street. This isnt that funny. But be self amused with what youre saying, even if its not that funny, and it will seem funny. Take iniLaLve to get the conversaLon moving. Lead, lead, lead. OPENER 6 Tyler is staring at the girl like a wolf stares at sheep, but her man noLces and remarks its his girlfriend.

Tyler is polite and says You guys make a lovely couple which allows him to duck out in a nice way, but also allows the girl to engage him in case 1) the guy was lying about being with her, or 2) shes thinking of ditching him regardless. She happens to take it in this case (this doesnt always happen), and so he immediately physically escalates. Why does he bite her? Because its fun, no other reason. The game doesnt always have to be strategic do what amuses you (within reason) and youll build amusement for the following approaches. OPENER 7 This approach is early in the night, Tyler hasnt built much momentum yet. This is whats known as a rough landing. Tyler struggles to nd anything to say. His jokes dont really connecthe makes dumb comments like Are you a supermodel for real because hes improvising (as opposed to using canned material) and is just saying anything that comes into his head. Regardless he stays persistent, and because the girl can tell hes OK shes curious enough to allow him to conLnue, so invites him to the bar where shes meeLng her friends. The ONE semi-decent thing he does is to demand where shes going, and this turns out to be enough to keep her engaged. She isnt inviLng him to the bar for sex. But shes willing to let him spit his rapgirls see dudes spit their rap all the Lme, and shes willing to let him conLnue. This allows her to decide if shes interested as Lme goes on. The lesson here is that you dont have to open perfectly. You can recover. Just keep going. Say something. Say ANYTHING. OPENER 8 Tyler opens just by asking an innocuous quesLon, and then transiLoning. At the end of the clip, it becomes obvious hes hooked when he says How old are you? and she iniLally says 23. Tyler is skepLcal and asks Really? and she admits 21. Any Lme a girl tries to alter your percepLon of her to meet your standards, its usually a good sign.

The FREEDOM OF OUTCOME SecLon

**Two important lessons here: 1) the Social experiment frame, and 2) the Use rejecLon to build your state frame. Combine these two frames, and you can learn to completely remove all approach anxiety over Lme. Social Experiment Frame This is just an example of what the RSD dudes are like when theyre out screwing around. NOTHING IS SERIOUS. Its all a big joke. If pickup is serious to you, youre taking yourself too seriously. If youre not having fun, YOU SUCK. NoLce that Je gives Tyler a ridiculous opener o the cu, and Tyler immediately implements it. This is the aptude that the most experienced guys have all the Lme. They see something ridiculous, they go try it as an opener. THE WORLD IS YOUR SOCIAL EXPERIMENT LAB. ITS ALL FUNNY. NOTHING IS SERIOUS.

Also noLce Tylers funny facial expressions here. RejecLons CompilaLon NoLce here that Tyler is using rejecLon as ENERGY. Most of these approaches are earlier in the night when he lacks momentum. The sets are decent, but hes just slightly o. Rather than gepng into his head, he uses the interacLons to GET OUT OF HIS HEAD. He makes drama. Gets himself talking and yelling. Most important of all: making himself laugh. In the nal clip Tyler references how misguided it is when people on RSD NaLon come on and talk about how hard and depressing the game is. They dont get it. The game is fun. If its messing with you, youre taking yourself too seriously. HAVE FUN.

The GROUP DYNAMICS SecLon

Solo VS With Wing **NoLce the dierence here between an interacLon with a wingman (buddy who is also talking to the girls) as opposed to an interacLon that you have to run on your own. SOLO -Tyler keeps the group engaged on his own. He gets them on his team so that theyre his biggest fans in helping him and the girl to hook up. He does this by being cool to ALL of them, making sure theyre all having a good Lme. -As you watch this interacLon, bare in mind that again, Tyler weighs 205 pounds. Hes moving his body as if he delusionally thinks hes the man, and so you dont really noLce it that much. This is why the girls dont care: they respond to GOOD EMOTIONS, and theyre having fun. Girls arent as picky as guys. -Tyler goes to hug the girl, and she resists because she fears her friends judgment. Tyler backs o and looks to them to see their opinion, and they yell Yes, yes, yes. This smooth, is in contrast to most guys who would simply plow forward like a bull. -NoLce as the interacLon progresses that Tyler is Self amused. He likes them, but hed be having fun if they were there OR NOT. Thats why they compete for his aJenLon. It would never happen if he cared about their approval. WITH WING -Here we see an approach where Tyler isnt required to keep the group engaged, because he has another guy keeping the other girl engaged -This allows him to bang the guns without any interrupLon, and results in rapid escalaLon, followed by bringing the girls to the couch where he can really work and nally the extracLon. Peer Group #1: -Tyler always says Ill open with anything that comes to mind. NoLce here that he opens with the most uJerly random nonsense. Hes Lred at the end of the night in the heat, so his speech is a bit slow, but he sLll opens with any nonsense that comes to mindand it makes no dierence at all.

-The friend criLcizes Tyler as being like the guy from silence of the lambs. This throws him o internally and he takes it personally, but outwardly he responds with the principle of Always have the beJer answer The principle Tyler uses to have the beJer answer is: If this is true, then what else is true Its a principle of comedy you can use: if one crazy thing a person says is hypotheLcally true, then what other even CRAZIER thing could be true as well? Although Tyler waits a bit too long to sit (because he was thrown o by the iniLal comment) he recovers and sits down. -Tyler messes with the friend for being rude to him, then befriends her by kissing her hand. This iniLally disarms her anger and rage. -Tyler ignores the friend and pays too much aJenLon to the girl hes trying to engage. This was emoLonal and impaLent: sloppy game. He was sloppy because hed taken it personally earlier, and didnt want to talk to the mean girl anymore. As a consequence for being impaLent, the friend starts freaking out and messing with him. She tries to bait him to leave by saying they want his number, but he declines. She tries to mess up Tyler further by saying DO YOU LIKE HIM?? Tyler responds by saying Dont answer. Say you dont like me in order to maintain control of the frame. Regardless its not enough, but its a good eort. UlLmately Tylers failure to properly engage the group messed up a situaLon where he could have hit it o with the girl. Peer Group #2 Tyler starts o with the benet of approval of the friend. He doesnt have to do that much to get iniLal aJracLon. Also noLce the benets of being cool with ALL people. Tyler wouldnt have expected a conversaLon in Los Angeles to help him in Phoenix a week later, but because he treated the girl well she hooks him up with her cute friend. -Tyler interrupts the girl when she REALLY wants to get something in (this create an open-loop of tension). He uses mulLple push/pulls in a single sentence: PUSH: InteresLngly I understood nothing of what you just said right now. PUSH: The accent got too thick. PULL: But it was hot. PULL: I like that I dont understand you. PUSH: It means you cant piss me o. PUSH: (Turns away from her, to her friend) -Tyler swings her hand while talking to her friend and looking away from her. Its as if hes her dad, and theyre talking to someone at the shopping mall (or something/anything like that). It creates rapport and a dynamic where she wants his aJenLon. -Tyler drops a cigareJe down her bra, and then uses his mouth to put it in yet again. This follows a CLASSIC game format. Nearly all naturals do this: you tease / take away approval / cross a boundary in a funny way, then GIVE validaLon with physical escalaLon.

That being the case, Tyler picks her up in the air right aAer, motorboats, etc. She wants to make out with Tyler (You have to kiss me), although he tries to avoid it. -Tyler stacks push/pulls again (5 in a single sentence): PULL: Once were married. PUSH: You wont be a useless PULL: Hot trophy wife PUSH: Bitch PULL: I like that Tyler does this unconsciously, because his mind understands the format from many years of social interacLon. Its like riding a bike: veering a liJle to the leA, a liJle to the right, etc. -Finally Tyler gets permission to take her to the bar to get her number, from the friend. NoLce how shes totally ne with it and doesnt get in the way, in contrast to the friend from the previous video where she blocks at every step of the way. Peer Group #3 Tyler is talking to his buddy, who menLons that his girl has a SISTER in the bar. Tyler asks her if thats her boyfriend shes talking to: she says Yes because she doesnt want her sister to look promiscuous and lose value. Tyler senses her hesitaLon so asks CommiJed boyfriend? She says no, he says Thank you and walks over. NoLce how casually Tyler opens, even with a mixed group. He just says HiOwen. -Dude guy tries to say hes her boyfriend. Tyler rolls with it by saying Shes said many good things about you. Tyler says She said youre like WOOOOOOHOOOOO! (referencing his dick size) and the guy foolishly says Yeah Im hung to the oor. Tyler says MeIm hung like a liJle wet carrot and the girl starts laughing. The reason this works is because the girl doesnt care about the WORDS (our reproducLve systems probably evolved before we invented complex spoken language). Whats more important is WHO IS QUALIFYING THEMSELVES, AND WHO IS THE JUDGE. Its obvious that Tyler is kidding, but whats important is the dude has qualied himself, whereas Tyler doesnt care. -Tyler asks Do girls have to pay the 20 dollar cover to get in here? The guy foolishly responds Im throwing the fucking party (like YEEEAH, IM THROWING THE PARTY, WITH MY BIG DIIIIICK!!!). **NOTE: Tyler probably asked this quesLon because his UNCONSCIOUS MIND knew that the guy would be baited into qualifying himself. It was only aAer watching the video later that it became apparent. Your mind will learn liJle disLncLons that you arent even aware of, from years of approaching. Youll see a similar paJern with Alexs nal video where he gets a kiss from a girl in a car. -Tyler cuts the guy o when he REALLY wants to say something. This creates a vacuum where he wants to qualify himself.

-Tyler also makes a few ridiculous sounds and imitaLons, which sort of stuns the guy from knowing what else to say to keep up. **NOTE: The peer group here was FAKE. Most guys would have THOUGHT it was the peer group, when in fact it was just a random guy. You see as he leaves that he didnt really know her.

The PHYSICAL GAME SecLon

Girl Sipng On Bar This video is to introduce you to the concept of Physical game. Physical game allows you to create aJracLon without a great verbal game. Even if your verbal game is a bit rusty, you can always go physical to maintain chemistry. Even an uJerly boring verbal game works GREAT with physical game. Lets watch this next clip. Physical VS Non Physical Game In this clip Tyler tried to lm indoors. It was SUPER WEIRD to lm right there in the middle of the mall, so he got sketched out. YES PHYSICAL GAME WORKS IN THE DAY. WE JUST DIDNT GET A LOT OF CLIPS OF IT BECAUSE ITS HARD TO SHOOT. WELL GET SOME AT SOME POINT. Point being, with the rst set with the blonde girl there is actually more natural chemistry between Tyler and the girl, but because theres a lack of physical game, its more awkward. This second set with the Asian girl, Tyler actually has LESS natural chemistry than with the blonde, but because theres physical interacLon its much more natural. Point being: That which seems LESS awkward is in fact MORE awkwardand that which seems MORE awkward is in fact LESS awkward Get physical immediately and it will actually be less awkward, even though it may feel more awkward iniLally. Physical Game In The DayLme Next up the SAME quesLon comes up over and over: Can you use physical game in the dayLme? This video answers that quesLon. Tyler emulates the type of energy and immediate physicality that youd normally think of as being reserved for the club. NoLce the level of dominaLon and insanity in the middle of the dayLme, as people look on. NoLce as well how Tyler has structured a situaLon where the interacLon can be lead from open to close very quickly, by the energy that hes using. Behave like a rockstar, get treated like one.

The LONGER SETS SecLon

**Its been fun to watch highlight clips to get hyper-focused on specic ideas, but we need to watch a few longer clips to get a beJer idea of how an interacLon plays out from open to close. ADD Party Girls Pull This set is an example of how to handle girls who are out of control. These girls are out partying, dancing, and they dont care about any guy in parLcular.

Youll noLce they have no investment in Tyler. They just want to have fun, and whoever is there at the end of the night is who theyll go home with. Its like Last man standing game: You just want to be there at the end of the night, and it doesnt really maJer what happens in order to get there. The interacLon starts with Tyler following them into the club. NoLce that he could have engaged them on the street, but OPTED to wait unLl they get into the club. This is a subjecLve judgment call. -The girls friend freaks out, because Tyler is escalaLng too quickly. He disarms it by saying If people dont accept an apology then how are Israel and PalesLne are going to work it out? Then he shiAs into EMOTIONAL RELEVANCE by joking that he wont do anything to her friend that he wouldnt do to HER as well. -Girl asks Do you have kids. Tyler answers Probably but I dont know. This is a common answer to a common quesLongets her a liJle mad, but her unconscious mind realizes that you have opLons. -Tyler starts incoherently yelling I CANNOT GO HOME WITH YOU!! This is classic funny game stu. You could modify it to say Im not going to have buJ sex with you in the bathroom!! or Im not going to do you behind the dumpster!! It just gives the girl a bit of a thrill and gets her laughing. -Tyler disarms quesLons in the parking lot by just pushing forward. Cute But No Chemistry This is an example of a set where you relate to the girl more as a FRIEND than as someone you have chemistry with. The truth is that when you get good at meeLng women, just because a girl is visually aJracLve doesnt mean you have real chemistry. In pickup you can either relate as 1) a man to a woman, 2) a friend to a friend, or 3) a woman to a woman (like by saying He treats you so bad giiirl!! like many of us used to do before we found the pickup community.) This girl is from the country and has a funny accent. Tyler feels no chemistry for her, but befriends her, walks her around the club so other girls see them together, and has fun with her. Tyler likes to show this clip because many guys think that you have to try to have sex with every decent looking girl you approach, and burn it to the ground. However if you want female friends who will introduce you to their friends, or get you into club, you have to meet LOTS of girls out like this, who you become friends with. NoLce however that when a girl says Lets just be friends she really means Lets not EVEN be friends Its usually girls that you have SOME chemistry with, just not enough to have sex with, who will become your female friends and hook you up. ALSO NOTICE: Tyler nearly blows himself out by going on a Lrade about his opinions about psychology. Whats cool is that he CATCHES HIMSELF, and slows himself down, and then says Actually I think Im insane So rather than just giving his 10 minute Lrade on psychology, he slooooows down, and re-adjusts the conversaLon. This is important because when you go o on some topic for TOO LONG you may impress the girl, but youll oAen lose aJracLon. Its called blowing yourself out with your own awesomeness: the girl thinks youre awesome, but isnt aJracted whatsoever.

Its good to talk about things youre interested in, but if its a mental-thought-loop that just goes o on a Lrade of opinions that youre overly ATTACHED TO, instead of talking about it to HAVE FUN, then its oAen a buzz kill. Use common sense. Pull With ConnecLon Heres an example of a girl who Tyler DOES have chemistry with. Shes a solid person (she works in a hospice for dying people) and is easy to talk to, and respect as a woman. NoLce throughout the interacLon that Tyler communicates with TWO SELVES. Her self that wants to have fun (ie: have sex) with random guys, and her self that wants to be a good girl and not be judged. REALLY WATCH AS HE COMMUNICATES WITH TWO DIFFERENT SELVES: Tyler goes back and forth between making funny sexual and aggressive comments, and talking about being a gentleman, being more tradiLonal, etc. Tyler says that if he walks her home he wont come in. The reason he says this is that shes only known him for TWENTY FIVE MINUTES. Although in delusional pickup land 25 minutes is long enough for a girl to decide to have sex with you, in the real world many girls need longer. Shes saying Walk me home but you cant come in to allow her to talk to Tyler more, and see if shes interested in lepng him come in, but at the same Lme to GIVE HERSELF AN OUT if she decides she doesnt like him. Girls do this because unlike guys, they need TIME to tell if a guy is aJracLve or not. Any guy can FAKE being condent for a few minutes, but its harder to fake over an hour or two. Thats why they want to spend Lme with you: to see if you are CONGRUENT to the cool and awesome guy that you seem to be. THE PULL: Here Tyler knows that he has to build as much rapport as possible between now and the Lme they get home. Because she has a more stable and high quality personality, he doesnt have to keep pumping with sLmulus. They can just talk and get to know each other. AJracLon is done. Once they arrive home, the you cant come in thing isnt remotely an issue. She just said it to see if he was cool. Because he was, he was invited in no problem at all. Solid Day 2 Establishing Game This girl is out for a bacheloreJe party. She has been paired up in a buddy-system with this girl she doesnt know, and the girl has goJen totally drunk. Shes now stuck taking care of a drunk girl she barely knows. This creates a weird situaLon for Tyler. The drunk girl is on the other side of the railing, and Tyler wants to jump over and talk to the girl he likes, but he doesnt want to weird her out by gepng too near to the drunk girl. **The main lesson of this interacLon is the balance between Value and QualicaLon. -Early on you see that the girl is skepLcal that Tyler really likes her. He says I love you and she says No you dont. Tyler iniLally failed to noLce this. -NoLce how she pulls on Tylers arms. She likes pulling away and being held.

She also reveals that she runs her own business. Shes got her life together. It seems like a natural t. -Tyler asks for the phone number and gets DENIED. He quickly has to assess: Is it because he lacks the VALUE to get her aJracted, or the QUALIFICATION to make her feel that he really likes her. -Tyler should have noLced earlier when she was skepLcal, when he said I love you and she said You say that to everyone. He didnt spot it because he was mesmerized on the girl and wasnt thinking. To ASSESS where he stands with her, he says, Why? I would stalk you, youre right and she says No you wouldnt THAT IS THE TIPOFF THAT HE LACKS QUALIFICATION. She assumes he wouldnt be bothered. Now Tyler has to spend the next ten minutes showing hes really interested. He starts talking about all her good qualiLes. -Tyler gets her hotel address. The qualicaLon has pushed through the iniLal skepLcism, and she gures that if hes willing to call her, then its at least decent proof he likes her. This is so important because for a GIRL TO FEEL VALIDATED by sex, she has to feel the guy likes her, or chose her from among other girls. Guys ALWAYS feel validated by sex, because the girl could have chosen some other dude (thats why we have a hard Lme relaLng to this whole thing). But girls need MORE in order to feel any emoLonal validaLon.

JEFFY
Saves The Day Heres a quick example of his aptude in the eld. He just likes to mess around. Hes having fun. Again, Je is always screwing around. Its all a joke. Twilight NoLce here how hes talking about things that YOU OR I would not nd that funny, but because JEFF nds it funny, by the law of state transfer she starts laughing (to the point that she asks him to say the same things again and again). Je actually feels like hes qualifying himself by doing it, but shes laughing so hard he goes with it (the rules are just general guidelines, and can always be broken. Its newbies who will never break a rule.) English Pull -Some of the sharpest verbal game ever recorded. -Demonstrates how Je pushes through resistance towards leaving the club and hooking up: keys are conLnual persistence with a lot of hilarity.

RYAN
Random Nonsense Ryan was NOT natural with women at all. He didnt nd his condence easily.

What you should really noLce with Ryan are two things: 1) how hes an example of a dude who is NOT naturally condent but just PUSHES THROUGH and gains success (if he can do it, then nobody in this room has an excuse), and 2) how he has Jedi-like frame control. Walking Street Set This video will introduce you to Ryans Jedi-like Frame Control. Throughout the clip the girl will say that THINGS ARE ONE WAY, and hell say Nope, theyre THIS OTHER WAY. And shell immediately agree. -I dont need to tell you youre endearing, you are endearing -(She says You dont look 26) and he says You just won so many points (to reframe it as a compliment). Then he grabs her aJenLon by saying But then you lose them, by doing the thing I hate most in the world (further reinforcing that he gives validaLon, she receives it) -(She says You have an iPhoneYou just lost a point) and he says No I didnt and she immediately agrees. -Sweet heart I think both of us are past the points Crosst Pull This video shows Ryan using the SAME FRAME CONTROL JEDI MOVES as the previous set, but in a far more aggressive frame baJle (so to speak). NoLce as he pulls her out, that her LEGS ARE WRAPPED AROUND HIM. Also noLce at the end, that if he loses state at any point, that she will fall out of state as well, and lose interest. It takes very good state-control if you want to do this. EVERYTHING HAS TO BE FUNNY. EVERYTHING IS A FUNNY JOKE. If you take this type of situaLon seriously, BOOM, she loses interest. Lastly, noLce in the taxi interview aAer how much fun she had. Why did what he do work? Because it was funny, she was into it, and he lead it from open to close.

BRAD
Brad is a very interesLng dude to watch. Guys will try to excuse his game on his looks, which ignores the million amazing things hes doing (and frankly its super patheLc when dudes make any excuse). The two things to learn from Brad are 1) his sense of high enLtlement, and 2) the way he us. These two aspects of his game are parLcularly great to model, because he never inches or qualies himself to girls whatsoever. And second, because hes able to keep conversaLons going forever and ever by making them light and uy. CompilaLon This should show a bit about Brads game. -You have bad eye contact. NoLce how MOST guys would interpret a girl ignoring them as being about THEM, whereas BRAD interprets it as being about HER bad eye contact. (Thats his sense of enLtlement). -YOU! He commands her to look at him here, in a funny way.

-WHOOOOOAAA!! as he falls to makeout with the girl. Its his posiLve/dominant vocal tonality. She can tell hes a popular and cool guy just by the way he yells WHOA! as he falls. -Also noLce how even a boring conversaLon is interesLng, by his ENERGY. Imagine if the average person had this conversaLon, how boring it would be. But because of his interest in his own conversaLon (and just relaLng to her as a person), its fun to listen to. -Brad forgets her name. He ignores it and says lets not talk, we dont need to talk and just keeps making out with her. He doesnt let it derail him. -Having fun is what gives you the emoLonal enthusiasm that girls are aJracted to. You goJa stop and smell the roses, not just hit, hit, hit. -Girl asks Brad if hes ready to fuck. He says WHOA! with a vocal tonality that re-asserts dominance in a casual way. -Then he says I AM preJy good at it very maJer-of-factually. Whats interesLng here is that he isnt using the typical pickup arLst cocky and funny remark, but just using radical honesty (a book by Brad Blanton). -Whats powerful about radical honesty is that there are no lters in your communicaLon. Although you lose the convenience of lying to people, your communicaLon becomes a lot more powerful and authenLc. Brad has tapped into this. -Anyway think of Brads response as having three levels. 1) Chode level Duuur, yeah Im ready to fuck!! Woooo!!! 2) the PUA level First you goJa pay me 5 bucks!!, and 3) Brads level I AM preJy good at it with a straight face. Brad has sort of taken it full circle back to chode-land, but with a certain vibe that makes it WORK. -Later she says Youve goJa last at least 45 minutes and he pauses, thinks to himself, and casually says I..can last that long. Again its that blunt, maJer-of-fact radical honesty, that allows him to qualify himself in a way thats NOT ACTUALLY QUALIFYING HIMSELF. -This causes her to become so aJracted she just jumps him for the make-out. Quick Makeout -NoLce Brads sense of enLtlement here. -Also noLce how hes talking like a totally normal conversaLon, while hes feeling her enLre body. Hes speaking to her logical self while his physical communicaLon speaks to her emoLonal self. -NoLce again Brads radical honesty. Hes very in the moment and doesnt really even remember what he says. She says What would you do to me?? and he honestly answers What?? Oh, yeah think of this, like, Lmes ve Long Set Of Hilarity CHALLENGE: Try to follow Brads conversaLon. You cant summarize it because hes fully in the moment, and doesnt care enough about her approval to overly think about what hes saying. Would adding in any structure or rouLnes help him?? NOPE.

ALEXANDER

Alex is a guy who expresses a true child like joy. His joyful self comes to the surface. Hes always in state. The way you see him, this is how he is 24/7. Hes always going o about Shes gonna get the prawn (he calls his dick the prawn) and nonsense like that. Its just the way that he is. Club Pull Alex begins by saying Give me a chode opener. Hes trying to de-bunk myths about how you need a certain type of opener. NoLce that even though he oers to buy the girl a drink, hes being commanding and challenging. -He says Excuse me, why dont you have a job?? randomly. NoLce how hes interrupLng her whenever he feels like it. We call this GAMING BLIND. He has no regard for her responses whatsoever. -He kisses her. NoLce how you dont even really see it, its so casual and assumed. Its like theyre already daLng. - Tyler asks Do you need help and hes like No, I got this, Ill own this NoLce how hes in complete control, from doing this hundreds of Lmes. He can be logical to talk to Tyler, and then immediately shiA into game mode: JulieJe?? Is that you?? -VERY IMPORTANT: Are you from LA? No. Irrelevant and then KISS. (Alex is using a hypnoLc principle here, inadvertently. He doesnt realize hes doing this, but by asking where shes from, she gives an autopilot response, and then he says IRRELEVANT as he kisses her). NOT ONLY is Alex breaking an autopilot loop by asking a quesLon and then responding with a kiss (which her unconscious mind cant process, because shes so accustomed to people saying Oh youre not from LA, where are you from??), but hes saying the word Irrelevant as he kisses her, as if its no big deal (irrelevant) that hes doing so. ALSO VERY IMPORTANT: Do you believe in love at rst sight? and then sucks her neck. NoLce that AGAIN, hes eliciLng an autopilot response, and then coming back with something unexpected. Its a paJern hes using: ask a quesLon, then when she gives an answer, his response is to physically escalate as if it was the proper response. -She says Keep going. He says What? What do you want me to do? Okay turn your head the other way and then sucks her neck, then boobs. (He does this to ip the frame from her leading to him leading) -Alex winds up hooking up with this girl. Done deal. Street Game -Look at Alexs reexes and reacLon Lme. Think of all the Lmes you just let a girl pass by. Look at how he just claws her o of the street. -Is he relaLng to her as a friend to a friend, or a man to a woman?? How quickly is he doing this?? Always keep this in mind. -Also noLce how dumb his opener is. It makes no sense, its just a space-ller. There is no need for a good opener when youre relaLng as a man-to-a-woman.

-Is this her birthday?? BIRTHDAY PRESENT!! and kiss. (This is the SAME PATTERN you saw in the last video, of Alex asking a random quesLon, and then responding with a physical escalaLon. Again, Alexs unconscious brain gured out this paJern from years of approaching.) -Come here..RELAX..Whats your number?? NoLce the leading here, even as he turns her head. FULL LEADING. -NoLce the PosiLve/Dominant vocal tone. JESS, COME BACK!! Its not like hes begging, hes commanding. **This next secLon is a series of hypnoLc commands that Alex doesnt even realize hes doing. His unconscious mind knows to do this, he doesnt know hes doing it. -No, Im in the way of the door (her mind cant process how to answer to that. OF COURSE hes in the way of the door, but it makes no sense so she cant respond). -I have to goI have to go (Implying THEY are holding him up, and the kiss is ASSUMED.) -See ya. (and launches in for the kiss, as if its her boyfriend saying bye.) -Oh no, Im in the way (Again her mind cant process this.) -Ive goJa kiss Jess good-bye (As if theyre holding him up, the kiss is assumed.) -See ya. (launches in AGAIN) (NoLce him laughing. Look at his state control. He truly is truly oblivious to their responses and having fun, so they cant get any negaLve emoLons o of him.) -Quick! Quick!! (As if theyre holding him up, and also, its a command.)

Other Programs For Further Learning

The two other programs that you may want to aJend now that youve had the Hot Seat Experience are the RSD Bootcamp and the RSD World Summit. The bootcamp is a three day event where instructors take you into the eld and personally coach you, through a process of demonstraLng how pickup is done, and then gepng YOU doing it too.

[hJp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_px28WQRp8s] The World Summit is a week of full immersion in Las Vegas. This is the event where every instructor ies in to teach their most cupng edge material, as well as providing you with an endless number of like-minded individuals to go out and share adventures with. (Its also worth noLng that the World Summit tends to aJract the highest quality of people. This is likely because they have to have their lives together suciently to take a week o of work and make it to the event. Generally Ive been shocked by how good most of the students are at the Summit, as well as the results that Ive personally seen the students get while aJending.) Consider how much you learned in a single day of Hot Seat, and then imagine going through the same process again and again for an enLre week, followed by going out to some of the best nightclubs in the world (lled with extremely hot women in one of the most sex charged environments imaginable).

[hJp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP3rpR8i3lY] About 70% of students who aJend a RSD program will come back and check out another one, which I believe is because we push ourselves very hard to keep evolving our abiliLes, content, and teaching methods. I would love for you to conLnue to learn from us, and appreciate your business! Thank you for aJending the RSD Hot Seat, and please let other people know about your experience!