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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (1)
csKdif;axmufESifh tzdk;tdk
t&ufxJwGif taumif;qHk;um; ESpfwpf&m t&uf/
tom;uifxJwGif taumif;qHk;um; qdwfom;uif/
tzdk;tdk wpfa,mufonf pum;wajymajymjzifh qdwfom;uifudk ESpfwpf&m t&ufESifh jrnf;vsuf&Sdonf/
pum;ajym&if;? qdwfom;uif wpfzJh0g;&if;? t&ufwpfiHk aomufvdkuf&if;jzifh aemufqHk;wGif t&ufvnf;
ukef? qdwfom;yef;uefvnf; ajymifoGm;cJhacsjyD/
]]tdrf; ... usKyfvnf; oGm;OD;rS}} ajymvufp pum;udk jzwfum tzdk;tdku x&yfvdkufonf/
qdkiftwGif;rS vlrsm;u tzdk;tdkudk 0dkif;MunhfvdkufMuonf/ olwdkYu tzdk;tdkudk rxGufoGm; apcsifao;
ay/ olwkdY\ rsufvHk;rsm;xJwGif rcsifhr&J jzpfaeMuonfh t&dyfta,mifrsm; xif&Sm;pGm ay:aeonf/
tzdk;MuD;u toHudk jrifh ajymvdkufonf/ ]]xefvGef[m iSufcg;a&mif"g; wpfvufeJY odkif;avmuudk
u,fwifay;cJhw,f/ olYq&m b,folb,f0g/ b,f*dkPf;*Pu qkdwm rod&ayr,fh ol[m ajzmifhrSefwJh
txufvrf; vrf;pOfudkom wpkdufrwfrwf avQmufcJhw,f ... ol&SdaewJh tckduftwefYav; twGif;rSm

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

'kpdkuform;awG acgif;raxmif&JMubl;/ ckawmh ... awmaMumifawG vufcarmif; cwfOD;rSmayghav}}


vlwpfa,mufu xar;vdkufonf/
]]xefvGef[m ajrmife,fpyfudk wu,fyJ oGm;cJhovm;/ ukr&EdkifwJh ajrGbk&if&JU tqdyfukd rdw,fqdkwm
[kwfovm;}}
tzdk;MuD;u vSnfh tajzay;vdkufonf/
]]usKyf Mum;&oavmufuawmh tqdyfrdw,fqdkwm [kwfygw,f/ vGefcJhwJh 6 vavmufu Mum;wm/
tJonf ajrGqdyf[m t&rf;jyif;xefw,f/ 1 vjynfhatmif cHEkdifwJhvlqkdwm r&Sdbl;/ ... xefvGef[m
ypnf;wpfckudk oGm;&SmwmwJh/ ... e0&wf ... e0&wf udk;yg; ... xefvGefvdk vlrsKd;[m aiGaMu; "eawGudk
rrufarmwwfbl;/ tJonfawmh ...}}
]]ysHvTm;r,ftwGufvdkY qdkvdkwmvm; bMuD;}}
tzkd;MuD; ]]tppfyJ/ 'gayr,fh rdef;rawGuvJ cufygw,fav}}
vli,f ]]xefvGef aovm; &Sifvm; rodcifrSm ... aemufwpfa,mufudk vufxyfvkdufwmuawmh
vGefygw,f/ aemufjyD;awmh olvufxyf vkdufwJh vluvJ xefvGef&JU r[m&efolawmf ]wef,dkY[kef} wJh}}
tzdk;MuD;u cyfnnf;nnf; ajymvdkuf\/ ]]rdef;rawG&JU pdwf[m cefYrSef;&cufw,f r[kwfvm;}}
ajym&if;qdk&if; tzkd;tdkonf csKdif;axmufudk qGJ,lvdkufonf/
]]awmuf ... awmuf ... awmuf}}
olxGufoGm;&m aemufodkY aMuGvGifh &Guf0grsm; vkdufygoGm;Muonf/
csKdif;axmufESifh tzdk;tdkonf wpfcsdefu rdk;ysHusm;opf usKdUwmxHk [laom emrnfjzifh odkif;avmuwGif
ausmfMum;cJhonf/ emrnfaumif;ESifhawmh r[kwf? emrnfqdk;jzifh ausmfMum;jcif; jzpfonf/ awmifydkif;e,f
wpfcGifudk zdefYzdefYwkefapcJhonf/
tcsdeftwefMumaomtcg rnfonfhtaMumif;aMumifhrSef; rod&yJ odkif;avmurS kwfw&uf aysmufuG,f
oGm;onf/
jyefay:xGufvmaomtcg 'kudw wpfa,muf jzpfaeojzifh tm;vHk;u tHhtm;oifhMu&onf/ olYtm;
tEdkif,lvdkufolrSm iSufcg;a&mif"g;[k ajymMuonf/
&efoluyif av;pm;csD;usL;&onfh xefvGefum; rnfodkYaom "g;orm;rsKd;enf;/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (2)
iSufcg;a&mif"g;orm;
csKdif;axmufESifh tzkd;tdku xefvGeftaMumif;ukd yHkjyifozG,f ajymjyaecsdefwGif xefvGefonf xdkpm;
aomufqkdifESifh uyfvsufzGifhxm;aom wnf;cdkcef;twGif; wpfae&mwGif aeylpmvIH aeonf/
tzdk;tdk ajymonfhpum;rsm; tukefrSefygonf/
xefvGefonf ajrmife,fpyfodkY oGm;cJhonf/
cspfol ysHvTm;r,ftwGuf tzdk;te* xkdufwefaom e0&wfudk;yg; &wem udk;rsKd;udk vufpGyfuGif;
vufaqmifay;csifaom pdwfaMumifh oGm;cJh&jcif; jzpfonf/
wGif olajrGqdyfrdcJhonf/ tcsdef twefMum arharsmaecJhonf/
okdif;avmuwGif; jyefa&mufvmcsdefwGif tqdyfudk ajz&efxuf &wemrsm;udk vufpGyfuGif;&ef MudK;pm;cJh
onf/ odkY&mwGif vufpGyfuGif;jyD;rS owif;wpfckudk olMum;vkduf&onf/ ysHvTm;r,fonf wef,dkY[kefESihf
vufxyfoGm;acsjyD/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

xefvGef raoao;yg/ odkYaomf eD;uyfonfxufawmh eD;uyfvmaeygjyD/


ol\ twGif;tm; aumif;vGef;ojzifh wpfaMumif;? ajrGqdyfajz aq;pGrf;aMumifh wpfaMumif;? olonf 6
v[laom tcsdefudk ausmfjzwfvm EdkifcJhonf/
odkY&mwGif olYtajctae ydkqdk;vmaeonf/ aemufqHk;wGif aq;q&mrsm;u vufavQmhvkdufMuonf/
onfaqmif;udk rausmfEdkif[k qdkMuonf/
xefvGefonf aeylpmvIH&if; olYvufudk Munfhvdkufonf/
e0&wfudk;yg; &wemudk;rsKd; vufpGyfonf aea&mifatmufwGif wzdwfzdwf awmufvsuf &Sdonf/
toufESifh vJ ,lvmcJhaom vufpGyfonf ,ckawmh t"dyg,fuif;rJh aeacsjyD/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (3)
rzdwfac:yJ a&mufvmaom {nfhonf
xefvGef tawG;pudk &yfvkdufonf/ olYpdwfxJwGif wpfcsuf vIyf&Sm;oGm;onf/ ywf0ef;usifudk aocsm
pGm tuJcwfvkdufonf/
t&mtm;vHk; yuwd jidrfoufvsuf/
onfhwkdifatmif olYpdwfxJwGif ouFmruif; jzpfvmonf/
toufvk wkdufyGJaygif; rsm;pGmudk qifETJcJhzl;ol odkif;orm; wpfa,muf taejzihf tE&m,fteHYudk cHEkdif
onfrSm rqef;ay/
xefvGefu acsmif; w[Gwf[Gwfqdk;vdkufonf/ olYukd,fcEmu ukvm;xkdifay:rS jyKwfusoGm;onf/
wpfcsdefwnf;rSmyif vufeufykef;av;rsm;u olxkdifcJhaom ukvm;xkdif aemufausmodkY tpDt&D pdkuf0if
oGm;Muonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

rIefa0aeaom rsufvHk;rsm;udk tm;,l zGifhvkduf&if; ywf0ef;usifudk xefvGef Munfhvkdufonf/ rsufESmzHk;


udk,fpD pGyfxm;aom vl 3 a,mufudk awGYvkduf&onf/
wpfa,mufu "g;aumufMuD; wpfvufukd udkifxm;onf/ wpfa,mufuawmh txl;wvnf MuD;xGm;
oefpGrf;onf/ olYvufxJwGif oHMudK;wpfacsmif;/ usefwpfa,mufuawmh t0wfIHUtdwfuav;rSty bm
vufeufrS udkifaqmif rxm;acs/ cg;wGifawmh "g;wkd 2 vufudk csdwfqGJxm;onf/
xefvGef\ EIwfrS a&&Gwfvdkufonf/
]]oJuEm& 0HykavGawG ajrjyefYudk bmaMumifh qif;vm&ovJ}}
vl 3 a,mufu tcsif;csif; jyefMunfhvkdufMujyD; olwkdY\ rsufESmzHk;rsm;udk udk,fpD qGJcRwfvkdufMuonf/
"g;aumuform;u ajymvdkufonf/
]]usKyfwkdYu tvkyfMuD; wpfck &vdkY vmcJhwmayghAsm}}
xefvGefu jyHK; ajymvdkufonf/
]]'gqdk&if cifAsm;wkdY&JU tvkyf&Sif[m awmfawmf &ufpufwmyJ}}
]]bmjzpfvkdYvJ}}
]]cifAsm;wkdYukd rEkdif0ef xrf;cdkif;vdkYaygh}}
xefvGef\ pum;qHk;onfESifh 0HykavG 3 aumifu w[m;[m; &,fvkdufMuonf/ vlrrmyHk aygufae
aom? acsmif;w[Gwf[Gwfqdk;aeaom xefvGefudk olwkdY rsufjrifyif r[kwfygvm;/ ,cktcsdefwGif xefvGef
onf aocgeD; tarmazmuf aeaom acG;tdkMuD; wpfaumifyrm jzpfaeacsjyD/
]]cifAsm;om ajrmife,fpyfudk roGm;cJh&ifawmh usKyfwkdYvJ 'DuaeY 'Dudk vmrSm r[kwfygbl;/ 'gayr,fh ...}}
xefvGefom tqdyfrrdvQif olwkdYonf xefvGefudk &ifrqkdif&J[k xkwfazmfajymMum; vkdufjcif;aywnf;/
odkY&mwGif pum;udk qHk;atmif rajym/ ajymp&mvJ rvdkacs/ olwkdYonf aMu;pm; yDo\/
wrk[kwfcsif; pwifwkdufcdkufawmhonf/ "g;aumuf? oHMudK;ESifh vufeufykef;orm;wdkY wjydKifeuf ckef0if
vmonf/ olwkdY &ifqdkifaeolrSm ]iSufcg;a&mif"g;} xefvGefrSef; odojzifh vHk;0 rayghq&Jacs/
tiftm; tjynfht0jzifh wkdufcdkufvkdufMuonf/ aea&mif atmufwGif vufeufrsm;onf ta&mif
wvufvuf xGufoGm;Muonf/
xefvGefu udk,fudk ,drf;EGJUum a&Smifvdkufonf/ wpfqufwnf;yif vufudk qefYvkdufonf/ "g;a&mif
wpfcsuf 0if;vufoGm;onf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

iSufcg;a&mif/
touftMuD;qHk; 0HykavG\ EIwfrS tvefYwMum;atmf[pfvkdufoH xGufvmonf/
]]iSufcg;a&mif"g; ... tjrefjyefqkwf}}
olu aemufuRrf;xkd; wkdufyGJuGif;jyifxJrS qkwfcGmoGm;onf/ odkYaomf 0HykavG 2 aumifrSmum; usefcJh
avjyD/ touf0dnmOf uif;rJhaeaom olwdkY\ rsufESmrsm;wGif thHMoxdwfvefYrIu txif;om;/
xefvGefu acsmif; 2 cgqufwkdufqdk;vdkufonf/ vIyf&Sm;vdkuf&jcif; twGuf tiftm;rsm;ydk jrefpGm
ukefcef;oGm;onf/ odkYaomf ol\ OD;aESmufurl awG;aeonf/
rdrdonf aovl jzpfonf/ odkYpifvsuf vlwpfa,mufuawmh rdrdtm; avmuMuD;xJrS jrefEdkiforQ
jrefpGm xGufcGm apcsifaeonf/
aMu;MuD;aom oJuEm& 0HykavGrsm;udkyif iSm;&rf;onfqdkygu xkdolonf tMuHMuD;ol wpfa,muf jzpf&
csdrfhrnf/
xkdvlrsKd;onf wpfenf;r[ef wpfenf;MuH&ef aESmifhaES;rnf r[kwfacs/
odkY awG;vkdufrdonfESifh xefvGefonf aiGom;ESifh t0wftpm;rsm;udk &SmazG xkwf,ljyD; wnf;ckdcef;
twGif;rS csufcsif; xGufcGm oGm;awmhonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (4)
&aohMuD;
ajcOD;wnfh&m avQmufvm&if;rS xefvGefwpfa,muf jrpfurf;yg;wpfckodkY a&mufvmonf/ [dk[kdonf
onf Munfhvkduf&m ul;wdkYqdyfwpfckudk awGUvkduf&onf/ iSufav; wpfpif;om &Sdaeonf/ avSorm;u
tdyfaysmfaeonf/
]]AsKdU ... q&mMuD; .. xygOD; ... usKyfudk [dkzufurf; ydkYay;ygvm;}}
xefvGefwpfa,muf avSay:wufjyD; avSMudK;udk jzKwfvdkufpOfrSmyif urf;ay:rS atmfoHMum;vkduf&onf/
]]aeygOD; ... aeygOD;}}
vSrf;Munfhkvdkufaomtcg &aohMuD; wpfyg;? zdkoDzwfoDjzifh ajy;vmaeonfudk awGYvkduf&onf/
]]&aohMuD;udkyg wifvkdufyg}} xefvGefu ajymvdkufonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

&aohMuD; avSay:a&mufaomtcg avSorm; tzkd;tdku vuf0g;jzefY&if;


]]avScav; rpyg}}
]]tm;yg; ... 'umuvSLw,fvkdY oabmrxm;Edkifbl;vm;}}
]]xrif;pm;zdkY iSufcwfaewmAs}}
]]'Dr,f ... [kd'um ... avScay;jyD;yvm;}}
]]olay;jyD;jyD ... a[monfrSm}}
]][if .. aiGwHk;MuD;ygvm; .. 'Davmuf aiGwHk;MuD;qdk&if vltjynfheJY iSufcwfc avmuf&Sdw,f/ tckydkY&rSm
2 a,mufwnf;/ 'umu bmjzpfvdkY avmbMuD;aewmvJ}}
]]bmqkdifvkdYwkef; ... 'gu olYtwGuf/ cifAsm;twGuf xyfay;&r,f}}
xefvGefu aemufxyfaiGwHk;wpfwHk;udk ypfay;vdkufonf/
avSorm;tzdk;tdku auseyfpGm ajymvdkufonf/
]][J [J ... onfaeYawmh &wemyHk qkdufwmyJ}}
tzdk;tdk\ avmbMuD;yHkudk jrif&aom &aohMuD;u rausreyf ajymvkdufonf/
]]'umu awmfawmf avmbMuD;wmyJ/ i&Juswwfw,f/ uJuJ .. tJonfaiGwHk; usKyfudk vSLvkduf/}}
]]tdk .. bmvdkY vSL&rSmvJ}}
avSuav;onf a&pD;aMumif;twkdif; arsmvm&m jrpfv,fodkYyif a&mufvmacsjyD/ a&pD;Murf;vmojzifh
vl;vdrfhoGm;onf/ avS0rf;xJwGif &yfaeaom &aohMuD; ,dkifoGm;onf/ xefvGefu &aohMuD;udk atmf[pf
owday;&if; ayGUzufxm;vdkufonf/
xdkwpf'*FwGif avSorm;tzkd;tdk\ vufrsm;udk xefvGef owdxm; Munfhvkdufrdonf/ &moDOwk'gPfudk
cHxm;&onfh vufrsm;r[kwf/ tom;rm wufaejcif;rsm;vJ r&Sd/ tE&m,f taiGUtoufudk &vkdufavjyD/
avSorm; tzdk;tdk\ vufxJwGif "g;wpfacsmif; a&mufvmonf/ &aohMuD;udk xdk;pdkufvdkufonf/ okdY
aomf ol\ &nf&G,fcsufrSmum; &aohMuD;udk ayGUxm;aom xefvGef/
kwfw&uf &aohMuD;u ,drf;xkd; vJusoGm;onf/ "g;u xefvGefYxHodkY wkd;0ifvmonf/ xefvGefYtae
jzifh "g;udk vuf0g;jzifh nyfum xdef;xm;vdkuf&onf/
xefvGefu jyHK; ]]0HykavGMuD; ... ckxufxd pdwfravQmh ao;bl;vm;As}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

avSorm; tzdk;tdka,mifaqmif aeolrSm vGwfajy;oGm;aom oJuEm& 0HykavG jzpfayonf/


olu rJhjyHK;jyHK; ]]'Dwpfcgawmh rif;rvGwfEkdifbl;}}
ajym&if;rS olu cg;Mum;rS aemufxyf "g;wpfvufudk qGJ,lum xefvGefudk xkd;csvkdufawmhonf/
odkY&mwGif xkdtcdkuftwefYav;wGif &aohMuD;u vl;vJxum ]]'umMuD;u avmbwifru a'govJ
MuD;oudk;}}
&aohMuD; vufwpfzuf &rf;vkduf&m 0HykavG\ tuFsDvnf*kwfudk qGJ,lvTifhypfjyD;om; jzpfoGm;onf/ 0Hyk
avG wpfaumif a&pD;oefaom jrpfxJ jyKwfusoGm;awmhonf/ &aohMuD;u wpfqufwnf; ajymvkdufonf/
]]rif;u a&xJqif;ajy;awmh igyJ avSmf&rSmaygh}}
avSmfwufudk ,ljyD; &aohMuD;u avSmfvdkufonf/ w0SD;0SD; jrnfum avSuav;u a&SUodkY ajy;xGuf
oGm;onf/
xefvGefwpfa,muf yg;pyfta[mif;om; jzpfaeawmhonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (5)
aorif;vufavQmh orm;awmf
wpfzufurf;odkY a&mufaomtcg xefvGefu &aohMuD;udk tdktaoay;&if; ar;vkdufonf/
]]&aohMuD;&JU bGJYemrnf b,fvkd ac:ygovJ}}
]]usKyfvm; ... tif; ... usKyfemrnfawmifrS arhaeygjyDav/ 'umh emrnfvJ ajymjyraeeJY/ awmfawmf
Mum&if usKyfarhoGm;rSmyJ/}}
xefvGef bmqufajym&rnf rodawmhacs/ &aohMuD;u quf ]]'umhudk Munfh&wm tqdyfrdaeyHkyJ/ ...
'gu odyfrxl;qef;ygbl;av/ ... 'umhyHkpHu vlrrmyHk aygufaewm r[kwfvm;/}}
]][kwfygw,f &aohMuD; ... tck orm;awmf vdkuf&Smaewmyg/}}
]]usKyfodwJh orm;awmf wpfa,mufawmh &Sdw,f/ olu e*g;acGawmifwef;&JU acgif;ydkif;awmifMuD;rSm ae

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

w,f}}
ajymtjyD;wGif &aohMuD; vSnhfxGufoGm;awmhonf/
kwfw&uf ]aorif;vufavQmh orm;awmf} qdkonfh emrnfudk xefvGef owd&vdkufrdonf/ xkdorm;
awmfMuD;onf pdwfoabm tvGef xl;qef;onf/ aq;ynmvJ vGefpGm xufjrufonf/ cufaeonfu ol\
ae&yfudk vsKdU0Sufxm;jcif;yif/ olESifhom awGUygu xefvGef\ a&m*g aysmufaumif; aysmufEdkifonf/
e*g;acG awmifwef;udk vdkuf&SmonfrSm 2 ygwfrQ &SdcJhjyD/ onfe,fwpf0dkufwGif xkdtrnfrsKd; rMum;zl;yg
[lom tajz&cJhonf/ pdwfysuftm;avsmh&if; xefvGefwpfa,muf &aohMuD;ESifh vrf;cGJcJhaom ae&modkY
jyefa&mufvmonf/ jrpfurf;rS vSrf;jrif&aom awmifwef;MuD;udk Munfh&if; xefvGefwpfa,muf tawG;
aygufoGm;onf/ ]]onfawmifwef;MuD;[m ajrGMuD; wpfaumifvkdyJ/ a[monfrSm ajrGtjrD; ... a[monfrSm
udk,fvHk; ... 'gqdk&if ...}}
xefvGefwpfa,muf ajy;xGufoGm;awmhonf/
awmifxdyfodkY a&mufcJhacsjyD/ odkYaomf yuwd wdwfqdwfvsuf/ xefvGef\ arQmfvifhcsufrsm; a0;oGm;&
jyefjyD/ pdwfnpfnL;pGmjzifh vrf;avQmufaepOf toHAvHrsm;udk Mum;vdkuf&onf/
vl 2 a,muf usm;xkd;aeoH/
teD;odkY xefvGef a&mufoGm;aomtcg wpfa,mufaomolrSm &aohMuD; jzpfaeonfudk 0rf;ajrmufpzG,f
awGUvdkuf&onf/ olESifh ,SOfjydKifzufrSm qHyifjzLrsm; wpfacgif;vHk; azG;aeaom tzdk;MuD; wpfa,muf
jzpfonf/ 2 a,mufvHk;u usm;uGufwGif tmkHepfaeonf/ xefvGefudk *krjyKrdMu/
wpfuGufwGif acgif;jzLMuD; a&TUvdkufonfrSm rSm;oGm;\/ xefvGefu vTwfueJ ]][m ... rSm;oGm;jyD}}
&aohMuD;u w[m;[m; &,fvsuf qdk;qdk;qwfqwfjzifh tEdkifuGufudk a&TUxnfhvdkufonf/ tzdk;MuD;
rsufESm IHUrJhoGm;onf/ csufcsif; vSnfhum xefvGefYudk &efawGUawmhonf/
]]rif;u bmvmIyfwmvJ}}
xefvGefu csufcsif;yif tdktaoay;um
]]uRefawmfu vlrrm wpfa,mufyg/ onfawmifay:rSm orm;awmf vm&Smwmyg cifAsm}}
]]rif;vkyfwmeJY igIH;oGm;jyDuG}}
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]]a[ ... [kwfvm; ... b,fvdkwkef;}}
&aohMuD;u pdwfqkd;rmefqdk;jzifh

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2008

]]b,fuvm Ekdif&rSmvJ/ tck tuGufudk ra&TU&ifawmif usKyfu tom&aejyD}}


xefvGefu ]]r[kwfbl;/ usm;wufwm rSm;oGm;vdkY/ 'Dbufu usm;udk wuf&if b,fvdkrS ta&;edrfhp&m
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]]aorif;vufavQmh orm;awmfMuD;udkyg/ uRefawmfha&m*gudk olrSyJ ukay;Ekdifr,fxifvdkYyg}}
]]igvnf; aq;ynm rawmufwacguf &ygw,f/ rif;udk prf;Munfhay;yg&ap}}
]]xm;vdkufygOD;&,f/ uRefawmfh tqdyfu t&rf;jyif;xefw,f ... OD;rukEdkifavmufygbl;}}
acgif;jzLMuD;u pdwfqdk;vmjyD;aemuf ]]a[h ... igrukEdkifwJh tqdyf rawGUzl;ao;bl;uG/ aorif;vuf
avQmhqkdwm ... igyJ}}
&aohMuD;u vuf0g;umvsuf ]]a[h a[h ... 'um udk,fwkdif ajymwmaemf/ usKyf bmrS rajymbl;}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (6)
aq;ukojcif;
xefvGefYudk aocsmpGm prf;oyfjyD;aemuf orm;awmfMuD; rsufESm uGufueJ ysufoGm;onf/
]]rif; ... 'Dtqdyfrdwm b,favmuf MumjyDvJ}}
]]6 vavmufawmh &SdygjyD cifAsm}}
]]tif; ... cufw,fuGm ... tcsdef awmfawmfMumoGm;awmh rif;&JU udk,fwGif; t*FgawG xdcdkufaejyD/ rif;&JU
udk,fcHtm; odyfaumif;vdkY tck tcsdeftxd cHaewm/ igvnf; tmrrcHEdkifbl;/ ukcsif&ifawmh wpfenf;awmh
&Sdw,f/ MudK;pm;Munfh&r,f/ aemufwpfcku ... rif;taeeJY a&Smifp&m ...}}
]]ajymyg cifAsm}}
]]rif; ... 'Dwpfouf ... odkif;tm; vHk;0 roHk;&awmhbl;}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

xefvGefudk rdk;MudK; ypfcsvdkufovdk jzpfoGm;onf/ ]]Asm}}


]]wu,fvdkY roHk;bl;ajymjyD;rS twGif;tm; xkwfoHk;&if ajrGqdyfu ydkjyD; jyefYoGm;vdrhfr,f/ tJ'gqkd&if Adkif;
ueJ vJusjyD; aooGm;Edkifw,f/ ... b,fvdkvJ ...}}
xefvGefwpfa,muf idkifusoGm;onf/ odkYaomf aemufqHk;wGif acgif;udk jyefarmhvkdufjyD;
]]toufxufawmh b,ft&mrS ta&;rMuD;ygbl;av/ ... aemufjyD;awmh at;at;csrf;csrf; ae&wJh b0udk
usaemf wpfoufvHk; arQmfvifhcJhygw,f/ ...
... uRefawmf odkif;ynmudk vHk;0 toHk;rcs awmhygbl; cifAsm}}
orm;awmfMuD;u olYudk vlemaqmifxJwGif xm;onf/ yxr&ufrsm;wGif wpfudk,fvHk;udk aq;&nfrsm;
jzihf aygif;wifay;onf/ xefvGefwpfa,muf tcH&cufaom a0'emudk 7 &ufcefY cHpm;&jyD;aemuf orm;
awmfMuD;u
]]tck rif;&JY wpfudk,fvHk;rSm ysHUaewJh ajrGqdyfawGudk csufatmufrSm pkjyD;jyD/ tyfpdkufjyD;awmh xkwf&r,f}}
'kwd,ygwfrSm xefvGefudk tyfpdkufay;onf/ aiGtyfav;rsm;udk pdwf&Snfvuf&Snf pdkufay;&m xefvGef
wpfa,muf oufomvmonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (7)
n{nfhonf
a&m*g oufomvmojzihf naecif; wpfcsdefwGif xefvGef wpfa,muf tanmif;ajy vrf;avQmufxGuf
vmonf/ ywf0ef;usif tajctaeudk MunfhI&if; neufoGm;onf/ tcef;qDodkY cyfokwfokwf jyefvmcsdefwGif
olYem;xJ wkd;nif;aom toHrsm;udk Mum;vkduf&onf/ csufcsif;yif udk,fudk 0yfum ykef;atmif;vdkufjyD;
MunfhIvkdufonf/
va&mifatmufwGif vl 3 a,muf wkdufcdkufaeMuonf/ wpfa,mufrSm vlxGm;MuD;? av;vHvSaom "g;
jym;MuD; wpfvufudk iSufarT;av;tvm; udkifaqmif wkdufcdkufaeonf/ olwkdufcdkufaeolrSm 0wfpHkeuf 0wf
um rsufESmzHk;pnf;xm;onf/ aemufwpfa,mufrSm acgif;jzLjzL tzkd;MuD;wpfa,muf ... ]]orm;awmfMuD;
ygvm;}} xefvGef vTwfueJ a&&Gwfvdkufrdonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

wpfudk,fawmf nvlrSm ESpfa,muf wpfa,muf wkdufckdufae&aomfvnf; at;aq;pGmyif &Sdaeonf/


olu atmfajymvdkufonf/
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rSmyif vufarmif; "g;'gPf&m wpfcsuf&oGm;onf/ olu aemufuRrf;ypfum ckefxGufoGm;&if; ...
]]cifAsm;wkdY[m bk&ifrif;jrwf&JU trdefYudk zDqefcsifolawGyJ/ tckawmh usKyfoGm;r,f/ 'gayr,fh jyefvm
cJhr,f}}
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vufu cg;Mum;odkY a&mufoGm;onf/ iSufcg;a&mif"g; r&Sd/ tcef;xJwGif xm;cJhrdonf/ olYtaejzihf odkif;y
nmudk toHk;rcsawmh[k uwday;xm;onf r[kwfygvm;/
cg;Mum;xJwGif xrif;pm;onfh 0g;wlav; 2 acsmif;udk prf;rdonf/ pOf;pm;csdefrsm;rsm; r&Sd/ wlESpf
acsmif;udk nvlqDodkY csdef&G,fypfvTwfvdkufonf/
]tm;} ... vlwpfa,muf\ rcsdrqefY atmfoHxGufay:vmonf/
xefvGefu olYtcef;odkY tjrefjyefawmhonf/
q&mcsL;ESifh orm;awmfMuD;wkdY wpfa,mufrsufESm wpfa,muf MunfhvkdufrdMuonf/ nvl\ vuf
armif;wGif &oGm;aom 'gPf&mrSm aoEkdifzG,fr&Sd/ tokdY jzpf&oenf;/
toHMum;&modkY a&mufoGm;aomtcg aoG;uGuf wpfuGufudkom awGU&onf/ olwdkY 2 a,mufpvHk;
awGa0pGmjzifh jyefvmcJhMuonf/ orm;awmfMuD;u xefvGef\ tcef;qDodkY oGm;Munfhonf/ ukwifay:wGif
tdyfaysmfaeaom xefvGefudk awGU&onf wdwfqdwfpGm vSnhfjyefvmcJhonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (8)
xl;qef;aom rdef;uav;

...

aemufwpfaeY eHeufwGif xefvGef vrf;avQmuf xGufjyefonf/ onfwpfMudrfwGifawmh yef;O,smOfxJodkY


]][,f ... vSvdkufwJh vdyfjymMuD;ygvm;}}

rdef;uav; i,fwpfa,muf\ toHudk Mum;vdkuf&ojzifh vSnfhMunfhvkdufaom xefvGefwpfa,muf


rifoufrdoGm;&\/ olawGUvdkuf&onfrSm ewforD;av; wpfyg;/ toufum; i,fEkyHk&onf/ 14-15 0ef;
usifavmufxuf rydkEdkif/ t0wftpm;rSm omref csnfxnfyif jzpfaomfvnf; tjyKtrlrsm;rSm tqifhtwef;
jrifhaom rif;orD; wpfyg;ES,f/ oluav;wGif xl;jcm;aeonfrSm ydefjyD; azsmhawmhaom tom;ta&yif
jzpfonf/
]]vdyfjymMuD;udk zrf;ay;ygvm;&Sif}}
xefvGefwpfa,muf owdvGwfum ckefwufvkdufonf/ vdyfjymMuD;onf xGufajy;&ef MudK;pm;aomfvnf;
rvGwfawmhacs/ xefvGef\ vufnKd;? vufrMum;wGif ygvmawmhonf/
]]tdk .. tvSawG ysufukefygawmhr,f .. jyefvTwfvdkufygOD;}}
taESmiftzGJYrS vGwfoGm;aom vdyfjymMuD;onf wzswfzswf cwf&if; ysHajy;oGm;awmhonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

rdef;uav;u xefvGefudk aus;Zl;pum;qdk&if;rS


]]tckeu &SifavxJ ysHwufvkdufwm odyfMunfhvkdYaumif;wmyJ}}
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]]tJ'gqkd&if oifaygh/ tpfudk oifay;&rvm;}}
]]rjzpfygbl;/ OD;av;csL;u t&rf; wif;MuyfwmyJ ... nDru bmrS vkyfvkdY r&bl;/ ... tckxGufvmwm
av;awmif olwdkY tvpfrSm ...}}
ajym&if;qdk&if; rdef;rMuD; wpfa,muf\ atmfoHudk Mum;vkduf&onf/
]]orD;a& .. orD; ... b,frSmwkef; ... aq;aomuf&r,favuG,f}}
rdef;uav;u ESmcrf;pljyD; jyefxl;vdkufonf/ rdef;rMuD;u tajy;vm&if;
]]orD;av;&,f .. b,fawG avQmufoGm;aewmwkef; ... aevnf; raumif;ao;yJeJY}}
xefvGefwpfa,muf pum;pjzwfjyD; jyefvmcJhonf/
aemufwpfaeY xkdO,smOfodkY olxyfoGm; jzpfao;onf/ rdef;uav;udk rawGUacs/ odkYjzihf tjyefwGif ...
]]a[h ... &yfvkduf}}
xefvGef vSnfhMunfhvdkufaomtcg vlxGm;MuD; wpfa,mufudk awGUonf/
]]bmudp&SdvkdYygvJ}}
]]aemufudk 'DO,smOfxJudk rif; rvmygeJY}}
]]bmaMumifhvJAs}}
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]]rif; aocsifjyDxifw,f}}
]]cifAsm; &efpum; rajymygeJY ... }}
]]w,f ... ig ... ausmufcGJvufoD;eJY xdk;vkduf&}}
]]usKyfu odrf;iSufvufonf;eJY jyefukwfrSmaygh}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]tJ'gqdk&if igu oHrPd vufacsmif; odkif;uGufeJY xdk;r,fuGm}}


]]usm;tkyf vufodkif;eJY cifAsm;udk wkdufr,f}}
]]tJ'gqkd&if zdk;olawmf awmifa0S; odkif;uGufeJY igu udk,fudkvSnfhjyD; rif;udk uefvdkufr,f}}
]][m; [m; ... 'gqdk&if usKyfEdkifjyD/ odrf;awmifyHjzefY tuGufeJY ckefa&Smifvkdufr,f/ aemufjyD;&if cifAsm;&JU
aemufausmudk uefvdkufvkdY&jyD}}
]]r&bl; ... igu udk,fudkvSnfhjyD; a&SmifrSmaygh/ rif;udkawmif jyefxkd;vdkufOD;r,f}}
]]&w,f ... usKyfq&mu ajymzl;w,f/ zdk;olawmfawmifa0S; odkif;uGufeJY wkdufvmwJh &efolawGU&if &J&J
wif;wif;om ckefwufwkdufwJh ... olYukd,fu avxJrSm uefYvefYjzpfaeawmh a&SmifvdkY r&bl;wJh}}
]]rif;q&mu b,folvJ}}
]]cifAsm; odzdkY rvdkygbl;}}
]]w,fav ... ig}} vlxGm;MuD;u kwfw&uf rmefoGif;atmf[pf&if; vufoD;jyif; wpfcsuf
xdk;csvdkufonf/ xefvGefuvnf; csufcsif;yif odrf;iSufvufonf; odkif;uGufudk xkwfoHk;vkdufonf/ ...
wkduf&if;cdkuf&if; vlxGm;MuD;u zdk;olawmfawmifa0S; tuGufudk oHk;vkdufrdonf/ olu avxJodkY ajc 2
acsmif;ajrmufum xefvGefudk uefvdkufonf/
xefvGefu ckefwufvdkuf&if; vlxGm;MuD;\ aemufausmudk tomt,muefvkdufonf/ vlxGm;MuD;u
udk,fudk vSnfh&ef MudK;pm;aomfjim; rvGwfacs/ ol\ udk,frSm avxJwGif uefYvefY jzpfaeojzihf uefcsufrd
um jyKwfusoGm;awmhonf/
xefvGefwpfa,muf toufjyif;jyif; SLvkdufonf/ twGif;tm; xkwfoHk;vkduf&ojzihf ta&jym;ay:wGif
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]]rif;&JU q&m emrnfudk ajymyg/ wu,fvdkY igod&if rif;udk qufrwdkufawmhbl;}}
]]aumif;jyD ... usKyf&JUq&m emrnfudk ajymjyr,f ... aoG;0dnmOf}}
vlxGm;MuD;\ rsufESmwGif tHhMojcif;? r,HkEkdifjcif;? aMumuf&GHUjcif;wkdY ay:vmonf/
]]rif;&JU q&mu okdif;avmuudk arTaESmufcJhwJh vlqkd;MuD; wpfa,mufyJ}}
]][kwfygw,f/ 'gayr,fh vlwkdif;rSm aemifw&wJh tcsdefqdkwm &Sdwwfygw,f}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]igr,Hkbl;uG}}
ajymajymqkdqdkjzihf vlxGm;MuD;u "g;udk qGJxkwfum wkdufckduf&ef [efjyifvdkufonf/ xefvGef oufjyif;
wpfcsuf csvdkufonf/
]]a[monfrSm Munfhprf;yg}}
xefvGefu vuf0g;wpfzuf axmifjyvdkufonf/ ol\ vuf0g;onf jzLazG;vsuf ... cPcsif;wGif ..
eD&Jvmonf/ jyD;aemuf jyefjzLoGm;onf/
]][if ... aoG;0dnmOfvuf0g;}}
]][kwfw,f ... tJ'g aoG;0dnmOfvuf0g;yJ ... b,fvdkvJ ... ,HkjyDvm;}}
vlxGm;MuD; pum; rajymEdkifawmhacs/ xefvGefwpfa,muf vSnfhxGufvmcJhonf/
xefvGef tcef;xJ jyefa&mufjyD; rsm;rMumrD orm;awmfMuD; a&mufvmonf/
]]rif; ... odkif;ynm xkwfoHk;w,fvkdY Mum;w,f}}
]][kwfuJh ... roHk;&if rjzpfawmhvdkYyg}}
orm;awmfMuD;u oufjyif;wpfcsufcs&if;
]]&Sif;atmif igajymxm;r,f/ rif;taeeJY odkif;ynmudk 3 Mudrf 3 cg toHk;csrd&if ... igvuf
avQmh&vdrhfr,f}}
]][kwfuJhyg cifAsm}}
]]'geJY ... rif;taeeJY aoG;0dnmOfvuf0g;udk wu,f wwfajrmufxm;ovm;}}
]][kwfygw,f}}
]]tJ'D vuf0g;odkif;udk avhusifhpOfrSm tqdyfvl;xm;wJh oJawG xJudk ESpfjyD; avhusifh&w,fqdkwm [kwf
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]][kwfygw,f .. tJonf tqdyfudk xdef;csKyfxm;EdkifwJh enf;vrf; &Sdygw,f}}
]]cufwmyJ ... 'DvdkuGm ... rif;udk tyfpdkufjyD; ukwJh tcgrS rif;udk,fxJrSm tqdyfawG wpfrsKd;ru &Sdae
w,fqdkwm igodvdkufw,f/ tJonfawmh ukxHk;u trsm;MuD; IyfaxG;oGm;jyD}}
]]orm;awmfMuD;udk uRefawmf tjypfrwifygbl;Asm ... 'Dae&mu xGufoGm;ay;&rvm;}}
]]rif;xGufoGm;wmudk rvdkcsifygbl;/ ... rif;taeeJY onfrSmyJ qufaevdkY &ygw,f}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

aemuf&ufrsm;wGif xefvGefonf rdef;uav;udk awGU&jyefonf/


][dkaeYu aeraumif; jzpfw,f} tpcsDvsuf rdef;uav;u pum;rsm; ajymonf/ olr\ emrnfrSm csL;zd
jzpfaMumif;? vlxGm;MuD;rSm q&mcsL;[k ac:aMumif;/ olrzcifrSm ta0;wGif&SdaeaMumif; ..
csL;zdonf uav;pdwf raysmufao;acs/ xefvGefu odkif;avmu tawGUtMuHKrsm;udk ajymjyvQif tvGef
pdwf0ifpm;onf/ odkif;avmuxJ avQmufoGm;csifonf[k qkdonf/ odkYaomf csufcsif;yif olra&m*gaMumifh
pdwfnpfonf[k ajymonf/
]]nDru bma&m*g jzpfaewmvJ}}
]]ESvHk; tm;enf;wJh a&m*gyg ... nDru 0rf;omvGef;&ifvnf; aeraumif;bl;/ 0rf;enf;&ifvnf; r&bl;
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rdef;uav; vlrrmyHk aygufaejcif;udk xefvGef oabmaygufvdkufonf/
olru odkif;avmutaMumif; ajymjy&ef ylqmojzifh xefvGefu olyg0ifcJhaom wkdufyGJrsm; taMumif;udk
ajymjy&onf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (8) tcef;cGJ (u)


rdk;ysHusm;opf
wpfcgu awmifydkif;wGif rdk;ysHusm;opf[laom teufa&mif odkif;orm; wpfa,muf ay:aygufzl;onf/
xdkolonf "g;wpfvuf udkifaqmifjyD; awmifydkif;e,fudk arTaESmuf acsmufjcm;apcJhonf/
rMumygacs/ iSufcg;a&mif"g;xefvGefu rdk;ysHusm;opfESifh wkdufcdkuf&ef csdef;qkdvdkufonf/
vli,fwpfa,muf (xefvGef) yifv,furf;ajcwGif vrf;avQmufvmaeonf/ EIwfrSvnf; a&&Gwfvm
onf/
]]rdk;ysHusm;opf usKdUwmxHku tcsdef aemufuswwfwJh vlrsKd; r[kwfygbl;/ bmjzpfvdkY rvmao;wmvJ}}
xkdpOfrSmyif w[m;[m; &,foHESifhtwl ausmufaqmif tuG,frS vlMuD; wpfa,muf ay:vmonf/
touf 40 ausmf? oefoefpGrf;pGrf;? 0wfkHMuD;ESifh cefYnm;vSonf/ cg;wGif "g;jym;MuD; wpfvuf csdwfqGJ
xm;onf/
]]iSufcg;a&mif"g;qkdjyD; emrnfMuD;vdkY b,fvdkrsm;vJ atmufarhygw,f/ tckawmh csmwdwfav; wa,muf

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

ygvm;/}}
]]toufu ta&;rMuD;ygbl;av/ odkif;ynm ,SOfjydKif&mrSm toufi,fawmh oufvHkawmif ydkaumif;Ekdif
ygao;w,f}}
]]rif;u igeJY ,SOfjydKifzdkY pma&; csdef;qkdw,f qdkawmh rif;udk,frif; tawmfuav; pdwfcsyHk ay:w,f}}
]]r[kwfygbl; cifAsm/ cifAsm;udk uRefawmf rEdkifcJh&ifvJ aemufxyf qHk;rr,fhol ay:vmrSmyg}}
]][m; ... [m; ... 'Dvdk ajymwmudku rif;rSm udk,fhukd,fudk ,HkMunfrI tm;enf;wmudk jyaewmyJ ... uJ ..
ajym .. rif;aooGm;&if ig bmvkyfay;&rvJ}}
]]tJovdkqdk&if iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk uRefawmfeJY twlwl jrKyfay;yg ... 'geJY q&mMuD; ua&m bmrsm;
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onfrSm yifv,fjyifwGif rkefwkdif; usonfhtvm;/ xefvGefu udk,fcEmudk ,drf;EGJU a&Smifvdkufonf/
vIdif;vHk;rsm;tMum; e*g;wpfaumif aysmfjrL;aeonfESifh tvm;wl\/ usKdUwmxHku tHudk wif;wif;Mudwfum
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iSufcg;a&mif"g;u 0if;vufoGm;onf/ usKdUwmxHk a&SmifzkdY MudK;pm;aomfvnf; ratmifjrif/ aygif&if;wGif
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Adkif;ueJ vJusoGm;aom usKdUwmxHkudk xefvGefu az;rum aoG;xGufrvGefap&ef aoG;aMumrsm; xkd;ydwf
ay;vkdufonf/
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]]raoEdkifygbl;Asm ... pdwfravQmhygeJY}}
]]rif; .. ighudk rowf&if ... igu wpfaeYrSm vufpm;jyefacsrSm raMumufbl;vm;/}}
]]vlaumif;b0rSmawmif usKyfudk rEdkifwJhOpm ... 'kudw jzpfaerSawmh b,fvkdrsm; ,SOfOD;rSmvJ ...}}
xefvGefu usKdUwmxHkudk xyf pum;ajymcGifh ray;awmhay/ aq;q&mxHodkY vsifjrefpGm ac:aqmif

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2008

oGm;awmhonf/
usKdUwmxHk\ 'gPf&mrsm; usufoGm;&ef wpfvausmf Mumjrifhonf/ xefvGefu wpfcsdefvHk; tem;rSm ae
um jyKpkay;onf/ vlaumif; wpfa,muf jzpfvmap&ef tm;ay;onf/ odkif;avmu\ vlqdk;MuD; aoG;
0dnmOfyif aemufqHk;wGif raumif;rIrsm;udk pGefYvTwfum ZmwfjrKyfaeoGm;onfh taMumif; ajymjyonf/
usKdUwmxHk\ &efolrsm;u usKdUwmxHk toufudk vma&muf &ef&Smonfukdvnf; ckcHwkdufcdkufay;onf/
usKdUwmxHk 'gPf&m aysmufuif; csKdif;axmufESifh oGm;vmEdkifaom tcsdefwGif olwdkY vrf;cGJvdkuf
Muonf/ rdwfaqGaumif;rsm; tjzpf vrf;cGJvdkufMujcif; jzpfonf/
xefvGef\ yHkjyifjyD;oGm;aomtcg csL;zdu vufckyfvuf0g; wD;vsuf ]]odyfem;axmifvkdY aumif;wmyJ}}
[k tm;ay;onf/ olru wpfqufwnf; ]]tJonf rdk;ysHusm;opfqkdwJh vlMuD;u odkif;ynm awmfovm;[if}}
]]3 ESpftwGif;rSm awmifydkif;u odkif;tausmftarmf 15 a,mufudk tEkdif,lcJhw,f/ olY&JU odkif;ynmu
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]]'geJYawmif tpfudku olYudk odkif;uGuf 30 tausmay;cJhw,fqdkawmh tpfudku olYxuf q,fqavmuf
awmfaewmaygh}}
xefvGef bmjyefajym&rSef; rod jzpfoGm;onf/ csL;zdESifh pum; ajym&vQif olaeaumif;onf/ a&m*gudkyif
arhaeonf/
xdkpOf [kdaeYu rdef;rMuD; a&mufvmjyefonf/ aq;aomuf&atmif[k ajym&if; csL;zdudk ac:oGm;onf/

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2008

tcef; (9)
tE&m,f\ tp
rsm;rMumrDtwGif;wGif orm;awmfjcH0if;odkY vlpdrf;rsm; vma&muf acsmif;ajrmif;onfudk xefvGefwpf
a,muf owdjyKvdkufrdonf/ 0g;wlav;rsm;udk aumuf,l&if; tcef;xJrS ckefxGufvkdufonf/
vl 2 a,mufpum; ajymaeoHudk Mum;vkduf&ojzifh olu owdxm;vsuf teD;odkY uyfoGm;onf/
]]uRefawmfwdkYvl raocif tavmif;ab;rSm orm;awmf jcH0if;vdkY aoG;eJY pma&;oGm;w,f/ 'gawmifrS
tpfudkMuD; \u bmjzpfvdkY orm;awmfjcH0if;udk 0ifrpD;wmvJAs}}
]]igwkdYvl&JU odkif;ynm[m rqkd;bl;/ 'gawmifrS aooGm;&w,fqkdawmh ayghayghqqvkyfvkdY rjzpfbl;}}
]]tif; ... xl;awmh xl;w,f/ vufarmif;u 'gPf&maMumifh aooGm;wm r[kwfbl;aemf}}
]]tppfyJ .. ausmrSm pdkufaewJh wlaMumifh aooGm;wmuG ... wludk jrm;vdk ypfEdkifwJhol &Sm;w,f/ orm;
awmf jcH0if;rSm xdyfoD; okdif;rm;wpfa,muf ckdatmif;aewm aocsmjyD ... 'Dvdkvkyf ... igu 'DrSm apmifhae&pf
r,f/ rif;u q&m[dkwkdYudk oGm;ac:acs}}
]]aumif;jyD}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

pum;qHk;onfESifh vlwpfa,mufonf awmifapmif;twkdif; ajy;qif;oGm;awmhonf/


t0wfeuf 0wfxm;ol wpfa,muf ...
vloluif;aom awmifapmif;twkdif; ajy;qif;vmaeonf/ kwfw&uf olYajcvSrf;rsm; wHkYueJ &yfoGm;
onf/ vrf;ydwf&yfaeol wpfOD;udk awGUvdkuf&aomaMumifh jzpfonf/
]]b,folvJ}} ar;vkdufaom toHu wkef,ifaeonf/ tajctae odyfraumif;onfudk &dyfpm;rdvdkufjyD/
vrf;ydwf&yfaeolu ajzvdkufonf/
]]aorif;}}
vrf;ydwf&yfaeolum; xefvGefjzpfonf/ olYudk,fol aovltjzpf owfrSwfxm;onf/
]],m;}} rmefoGif;atmf[pf vdkufoHESifh twl 0wfpHkeufu "g;jzifh ajy;ckwfvmonf/ xefvGefu ab;odkY
a&Smifwdrf;vdkuf&if; vufudk wpfcsufrQ vIyf&Sm;vdkufonf/ &efol\ vufudk zrf;qkyfum aemufjyef aqmifh
wGef;vkdufjcif;om jzpf\/
0wfpkHeuf\ "g;onf olY&ifywfxJ jyefvnf wkd;0ifoGm;awmhonf/
usD;uef;rsm; kwfueJ xysHoGm;onf/
wpfa,mufwnf; apmifhaeolrSm pdwfxJ rodk;roefY jzpfvmonf/ olu xdkif&mrS xvdkufjyD; olYtazmf
xGufoGm;&mvrf;odkY arQmfMunfhvdkufonf/ jyD;aemuf jyefxkdifcsvdkufonf/ wpfckck xl;jcm;aeonfukd
cHpm;vdkuf&ojzihf ab;bDudk Munfhvdkufonf/ wGif olYa&SUwnfhwnf opfyifwpfyifudk rSDum &yfaeaom
vlwpfa,mufudk awGUvkduf&onf/
]]rif; b,folvJ}}
]]aorif;}}
]]at; ... aorif;udk vdkuf&Smwmudk;? awGU&aphr,f ...}}
aMumuf&GHUaeaomfvnf; rmefoGif;atmf[pfvdkufum "g;udkqGJxkwf&if; ajy;0ifoGm;onf/
xefvGefu tjrefqHk; vIyf&Sm;vdkufonf/ yxr wpfa,mufqDrS ,lvmcJhaom "g;jzifh ypfaygufvkdufjcif;
jzpfonf/
"g;a&mifu 0if;vufoGm;onf/
olY&if0wGif pdkuf0ifaeaom "g;udk r,HkMunfEdkifpGm Munfh&if; xyfar;vkdufonf/
]]rif; ... b,folvJ}}

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2008

]]xefvGef ... iSufcg;a&mif"g; xefvGef}}


]]wu,f ... rif;[m xefvGef ... [m; [m; ... usKyf[m aiGtwGufeJY aMu;pm; vlowform; jzpfcJh&ay
r,fh ... xefvGefudkawmh av;pm;w,f/ iSufcg;a&mif"g;&JU vufeJY ao&wmudk auseyfygw,f/ ... usKyfwpfck
ajymyg&ap/ usKyfwkdY 2 a,muf aooGm;&if olwdkY odoGm;jyD; orm;awmfjcH0if;udk vmwkdufcdkufrSm rkcsyJ/
tJonfawmh a&Trif;orD;udk ac:jyD; ... ajy; ... ajy; ...}}
xkdolum; 0dnmOfcsKyfoGm;avjyD/ xefvGefu pdwfraumif;jcif;MuD;pGmjzifh rsufvHk;rsm;udk ydwfay;vkduf
onf/ olonf vlowfcsifol r[kwfacs/ ,ckawmh owfvdkufrdonf/ vlonf vlaumif;tjzpf ajymif;vJ
vmEdkifol jzpfojzifh olYtaejzihf pdwfraumif;jcif; MuD;pGm jzpf&onf/

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2008

tcef; (10)
a&Trif;orD;
tavmif; 2 avmif;udk ajrjrKyfjyD; xefvGef tjrefqHk; jyefvmcJhonf/
jyefa&mufa&mufcsif; taMumif;pHkudk orm;awmfMuD;udk ajymjyvdkufonf/
aemufqHk;wGifrS orm;awmfMuD;u zGifhajymawmhonf/
]]csL;zd[m rif;orD; wpfyg;yJ/ wdAufjynf bk&ifrif;jrwf&JU orD;awmfav;ayghuGm/ olYrSm arG;&myg ESvHk;
tm;enf;wJh a&m*g&SdvdkY ighqDudk aq;ukzdkY vTwfxm;wm/ Murmqdk; 0ifcsifawmh oltazu eef;cscHvkduf&
w,f/ 'gaMumifhrdkY tapmifhtMuyfawG trsm;MuD; rxm;Ekdifbl;/ vl,Hkawmf 2 a,mufeJYyJ xm;&w,f/ a&Trif;
orD;&JU vHkjcHKa&;[m ightay:rSm rlwnfaew,f/}}
]]olwkdYu csL;zdudk zrf;jyD;awmh bmvkyfrSmvJ}}
]]jyefay;qGJwmav ... onfhxuf awG;&&ifawmh olYtazudk tusyfudkifEdkif wmayghuGm}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]uJ .. tck orm;awmfMuD; b,fvkd vkyfcsifovJ .. &efolawGuawmh vmawmhr,f}}


]]rif; ... ulnDEdkifrvm;}}
xefvGef kwfw&uf jyefrajzEdkifatmif jzpfoGm;&onf/ csL;zdudk olYzcifqD jyefydkYay;&efrSm olYtaejzifh
odkif;tm;udk roHk;rjzpf xkwfoHk;&ayvdrfhrnf/ odkYqkdvQif ...
orm;awmfMuD;u xefvGefudk wpfa,mufwnf; xm;cJhjyD; wdwfqdwfpGm xGufcGmoGm;awmhonf/
csL;zdtcef;odkY xefvGef a&mufvmaomtcg tcef;0wGif q&mcsL; xkdifaeonfudk awGUonf/
]]ocifrav; aeraumif;bl;}}
xefvGefu jywfjywfyif ajymvdkufonf/
]]&efolawGu nqkd&ifa&mufvmawmhr,f}}
]]tJonfawmh bmvkyfcsifvJ}}
]]xGufoGm;&rSmaygh}}
]]xGufoGm;&ifaum vGwfrwJhvm;}}
]]xGufroGm;&ifawmh aorSm rkcsyJ}}
]]wpfckawmh&Sdw,f/ iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk qkd&ifawmh igpdwfcsw,f}}
q&mcsL;u csnfjyD; wkwfjyD; ajymjcif;jzpfonf/ xefvGef aocsmpGm pOf;pm;vdkufonf/ odkif;tm;udk
toHk;jyK&rnf qdkjcif;onf olYtwGuf aordefYyif jzpfonf/
xdknwGif &aohMuD; yk0D;a&mufvmonf/ orm;awmfMuD; ygykukef;? q&mcsL;? txdef;awmfMuD; pk?
xefvGef/ okdif;orm; 5 a,muf/ &efolum; 50 txuf&Sdonf/ csL;zdudk tdyfaq;wkdufxm;onf/ wkdufcdkuf
oHrsm; Mum;ygu olr\ a&m*g wdk;ayvdrhfrnf/
&efolrsm;u av;zufav;wefrS 0dkif;vmum orm;awmf jcH0if;udk rD;IdUum wkdufMuonf/ txdef;awmf
MuD;ESifh orm;awmfMuD;wkdYu csL;zdudk umuG,faecsdefwGif xefvGef? q&mcsL;ESifh &aohMuD;wkdYu wpfaxmifhpDrS
ckcHaeMuonf/
aemufqHk;wGif q&mcsL;u vSrf;atmfajymonf/
]]xefvGef ... ocifrav;udk ac:jyD; rif;ajy;ayawmh ... tcGifhom&if igwkdY vdkufvmcJhr,f}}
tajctaet& xGufajy;rS vGwfrnfrdkY xefvGef? orm;awmfMuD;ESifh txdef;awmfMuD;wkdYu csL;zdudk ac:

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

um ajy;xGufvmcJhMuawmhonf/ q&mcsL;ESifh &aohMuD; yk0D;wdkYu &efolrsm;udk ckcH&if; usefcJhonf/


q&mcsL;\ "g;MuD;u avxJwGif w0SD0SDjrnfaeonf/ &efolrsm;udk aemufqkwfoGm;aponf/ csufcsif;yif
&efolrsm;xJrS jrif;"g;&SnfMuD; wpfvufudk udkifaqmifxm;ol wpfOD; ay:vmonf/ xdkol\ "g;&SnfMuD;u
q&mcsL;\ "g;aumufMuD;ESifh &ifqkdifrdonf/
jyif;xefaom xdcdkufoHESifhtwl q&mcsL;\ vufrS "g;vGwfusoGm;onf/ &efolu aemufwpfcsuf
ckwfcsvdkufonf/ q&mcsL; vJusoGm;ayjyD/
wpfzufwGif teufa&mif 0wfpHkjzifh tzdk;tdku &aohMuD; yk0D;ESifh wkdufcdkufaeonf/
&aohMuD; yk0D;\ acgif;xJwGif usm;wpfaumif auR;um wpfaumifpm;aom wkdufuGufudk jrifa,mif
vmonf/ tzkd;tdk\ vuf0g;apmif; dkufcsufudk ra&SmifyJ cHvkdufonf/ wpfcsdefwnf;wGif tzdk;tdkudk yk0D;u
xdk;ESufvdkufonf/
odkY&mwGif tzdk;tdk\ vuf0g;dkufcsuf yk0D;\ &if0udk xdvdkufonfESifh yk0D;\ &if0udk wlESifh xkESuf
vkdufouJhodkY cHpm;vkduf&onf/ tiftm;rsm; aysmufqHk;oGm;onf/ toHyif rxGufEdkifawmhyJ vJusoGm;
awmhonf/

ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf


yxrydkif; jyD;ygjyD/

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2008

ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf


'kwd,ydkif;

tcef; (11)
ra&mufvmolrsm;

aexGufvmjyD/
arQmfolum; a&mufrvmao;/
xefvGefu jidrfoufpGm xkdifaeonf/
cyfvSrf;vSrf;wGif orm;awmfMuD; ygykukef;u acgufwHkYacgufjyef avQmufaeonf/ olYtrlt&mrSm
*emrjidrf jzpfaeonf/ aemufqHk;wGif olu ar;vkdufonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]xefvGef ... igwkdY jyefoGm;jyD; Munhfrvm;}}


xefvGefu ajzvdkufonf/
]]rvdkbl;}}
orm;awmfMuD;u rausreyfjzifh apm'uwuf&ef yg;pyf[vkdufonf/ odkYaomf csufcsif;yif jyefydwf
vdkufonf/ xefvGef\ pum; 3 vHk;onf t"dyg,f tjynfht0 yg0ifonf r[kwfygvm;/
txdef;awmfMuD;pku aygifay:wGif tdyfaeaom csL;zdudk Munfhvdkufonf/ tdyfaysmfaeaom csL;zdum;
bmrQrod/ txdef;awmfMuD;u ajymvdkufonf/
]]q&mcsL;eJY &aohMuD;wdkY&JU uHMurmudk uRefr odvkdufygjyD...}}
olru wpfcsuf Idufvkduf&if;
]]b,folrS r&dyfrdatmif aecJhMuayr,fh q&mcsL;[m uRefr vifa,mufsm;yg}}
orm;awmfMuD; ygykukef;\ rsufcHk;tpHk jrifhwufoGm;onf/ tcsufudk oludk,fwkdifyif r&dyfpm;rdcJh
aomaMumifh jzpfonf/
xefvGefu kwfw&uf rwfwwf&yfvkdufojzifh tm;vHk; pum;p jywfoGm;Muonf/
]]oGm;Mur,f}}
]]b,fudk oGm;MurSmvJ}}
]]&efolawG 0dkif;aew,f}}
]]tJ'gqkd&if &efol rawGUEkdifwJhae&mudk oGm;r,f}}
]]b,fae&mwkef;}}
]]&efol &SdwJhae&maygh}}
txdef;awmfMuD;pku kwfw&uf atmf[pfvdkufonf/
]]rif; ... rif; ... b,fvdkvlvJ/ &efolawGqDoGm;r,f ... [kwfvm; ... ocifrav;udk &efolawGMum;xJ
a&mufatmif ...}}
xefvGefu jzwfajymvdkufonf/
]]wu,fawmh q&mcsL;om &SdcJh&if usKyfawG;ovdkyJ awG;rSmyJ/ bmjzpfvdkYvJqdkawmh ol[m yg;&nfeyf&nf
&SdjyD; pGefYpm;wwfwJhol jzpfvdkYyJ}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

txdef;awmfMuD;pk yg;pyfydwfoGm;onf/ orm;awmfMuD; ygykukef;\ rsufvHk;rsm;xJwGif t&dyfta,mif


tcsKdU,Sufoef;oGm;onf/
iSufcg;a&mif"g;orm;[k aMumfMum;&jcif;rSm taMumif;rJh r[kwfaMumif; olodvdkuf&jyD/ xefvGefu
ajcvSrf; pvSrf;vdkufonf/ txdef;awmfMuD;pku ar;vkdufjyefonf/
]]aeygOD;? ocifrav; Edk;vm&if b,fvdk ajymrSmvJ}}
]]'gu usLyfwm0ef xm;yg}}
]]tckaum b,fES,fhvkyf ac:vm&rvJ}}
]]onftwkdif;yJ ac:vmcJhaygh}}
xefvGefu a&SUqHk;rS avQmufxGufoGm;onf/ ygykukef;u aq;tdwfqJG&if; aemufrS uysmu,m vdkuf
oGm;onf/ txdef;awmfMuD;u csL;zdudk ayGUcsD&if; aemufqHk;rS ...
a&SUqHk;rS avQmufoGm;aom xefvGefrSm acsmif;w[Gwf[Gwf qkd;aeavonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (12)
jrdKUuav;
csL;zd Ekd;vmaomtcg teD;&Sd pm;yGJwGif xdkifaeaom xefvGefudk awGUvdkuf&onf/ olru aMumifoGm;
onf/
]][,f .. tpfudkygvm;}}
]]nDr Edk;vmjyDvm;}}
olru tcef;ywfvnfudk vSnfhywfMunfhI&if; ar;vkdufonf/
]]uRefr b,fudk a&mufaewmvJ [if}}
]]nDryJ odkif;avmuxJudk avQmufvnfcsifw,fqdk}}
]][,f .. wu,fvm; ... 0rf;omvdkufwm}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

uav;pdwf rukefao;aom csL;zdrSm vufckyfvuf0g;wD;um &,fvdkufonf/ txdef;awmfMuD;pku aq;


vmwkdufonf/ csL;zdu xl;jcm;pGmyif rjiif;qefyJ ,laomufvkdufonf/ jyD;aemuf
]]'geJY ... q&mcsL;udka&m rawGUygvm;}}
xefvGefu 0if ]]olu orm;awmf jcH0if;rSm usefcJhw,f/ tvkyfuav; enf;enf;&Sdw,f/ aemufjyD;
nDrazazqDu vlawG? pmawG vm&if jyefvdkY &atmif olYudk xm;cJhw,f}}
csL;zd pdwfcsrf;omatmif rkom;pum;rsm; tqufrjywfxGufaeaom olYukd,folyif xefvGef oHo,jzpf
vmonf/
csL;zduawmh aysmfaeavonf/ olronf wpfcsdefu eef;awmfMuD;wGif aexkdifvmoluav; jzpfaomf
vnf; ,ckawmh jrdKUi,fuav;udk vGefpGm pdwf0ifpm;aeyHk &onf/ vrf;avQmufcsifw,f[k ylqmawmhonf/
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jrifvkdufonfESifh vefYoGm;Muawmhonf/
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acsmif;jzifh "g;oGm;udk zrf;nyfxm;vdkufonf/ 0wfpHkeufonf "g;udk qGJEkwfvnf; r&? ckwfcsvnf;
r&jzpfaeonf/ wGif xefvGefu olY&if0udk vufndI;jzifh tomt,m awmufvdkufonf/ 0wfpHkeuf
aysmhusoGm;onf/
usef&Sdaom 0wfpHkeuftm; xefvGefu tomt,m ajymvdkufonf/

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]]cifAsm; tazmfudk ac:oGm;&if aumif;r,f ... avmavmq,f ol vrf;ravQmuf Ekdifawmhbl;av}}


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armif;&if; a&SUwufum vuf0g;dkufcsufwpfcsuf xkwfvdkufawmhonf/
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axmufvkdufonf/ vlrdkufacgif;aqmif wHkYueJ &yfoGm;onf/ ausmufkyfMuD;yrm jzpfoGm;onf/ vIyf&Sm;
r&awmhacs/

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xefvGefu jyHK; vSnfhxGuf&if;


]]2 em&Davmuf Mum&if cifAsm;&JU taMumawG ajyoGm;ygvdrfhr,f}}

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2008

tcef; (13)
usif;,Hk
xefvGefwdkY 4 a,mufom; jrif; 3 pD;jzifh c&D;xGufvmMuonf/ csL;zdu txdef;awmfMuD;pkESifh twlwl
vdkufygvmonf/ olru awmvrf;wGif jrif;pD;&onfudk tvGefaysmfarGUaeonf/ xefvGefuvnf; csL;zdudk
apmifhum cyfajz;ajz; pD;onf/ xdkpOfwGif aemufrS 'kef;pdkif;vkdufvmaom jrif;cGmoHudk Mum;vdkuf&onf/
usefjrif; 2 pD;udk a&SUodkY wufapjyD; xefvGefu aemufcsefaeum pl;prf;vdkufonf/ aemufrS vdkufvm
aom jrif;rSmwpfpD;wnf; jzpfonf/ olu &yfapmifhaevkdufonf/
jrif;pD;orm;rSm usif;,Hkyifwnf;/ xefvGef rsufarSmifMuKwfvkdufrdonf/ eD;vmaom tcg usif;,Hku
]]awmfygao;&JUAsm/ rDao;vdkY}}
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]]t&if rdwfqufOD;rSyJ/ uRefawmfu usif;,Hkyg/ raeYnu awGUwJh 2 a,mufxJu 1 a,mufayghAsm/

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2008

uRefawmfhudk bmrS rvkyfwJhtwGuf aus;Zl;trsm;MuD; wifygw,f/ tck vkdufvmwmu owday;csif


vdkYyg/ ckeu cifAsm; tEkdif,lvdkufwJh aumifMuD;u vlpkaew,f/ cifAsm;wkdY aemufudk vdkufvmvdrfhr,f ...}}
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vmayjyD/ a&SUqufoGm;&if; bHkausmif;ysuf wpfckudk awGUonf/ wpfnwm tdyfpuf&ef jyifqifMuonf/
xefvGefu tjyifzufqHk; wHcg;0wGif ae&m,lvkdufonf/ jyD;aemuf orm;awmfMuD;/ twGif;qHk;wGif txdef;
awmfMuD;pkESifh csL;zd/

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2008

tcef; (14)
bHkausmif;ysuf
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vmonf/
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cyftkyftkyf trdefYay;oHwpfck/
]]tdyfaq;aiGUawGudk txJa&mufatmif vTwfaemf/ r[kwf&if [dkaumifeJY awGUvdkY igwdkYtm;vHk; udpacsm
ukefr,f/}}
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[efjyifonf/
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onf/ ydk xl;qef;onfrSm xdkjrif;onf rD;yHkwpfckudk qGJajy;vmjcif;yifwnf;/
jrif;\ tjrD;wGif avmifpmrsm;udk pnf; rD;IdYvdkufjyD; armif;oGif;vkdufjcif;jzpfayonf/

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2008

vufonfum; rnfolenf;/ xefvGef pdwfIyfoGm;onf/ rnfolyif jzpfapumrl? xdkolonf rdrdwkdYtvpf


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rD;a&mifatmufwGif 0dkif;vmaeaom &efolrsm;u txif;om;/ acgif;aqmifvkyfolu atmfvkdufonf/
]]wpfa,mufa,muf tJonfjrif;udk wm0ef,lvkdufprf;a[h}}
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avmifpGm [D&if; vJusoGm;onf/
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xefvGefu aumufukdifxm;aom ausmufcJav;rsm;udk ypfvTwfvkdufonf/ &efolrsm;udk xdrSefoGm;ojzifh
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aemufwpfaeY eHeufwGif olwkdY qufvuf xGufvmMuonf/ bmtE&m,frS rawGUojzifh cyfokwf
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pkwGif ygvmaom a&T? aiGrsm;jzifh wnf;ckdcef;wpfckwGif wnf;vdkufMuonf/
csL;zdu naeapmif;vQif jrdKUxJodkY avQmufvnf&ef xefvGefudk ylqmawmhonf/
txdef;awmfMuD;pku wm;aomfvnf; r&/ uav;i,f wpfa,mufuJhodkY jzpfaeonf/ aq;vnf;
raomufyJ qEjyonf/
aemufqHk;wGif xefvGefu vkdufydkYygrnf[k ajymvdkufawmhrS jyHK;&TifoGm;awmhonf/

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tcef; (15)
rsufvSnfhyGJ
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awmhonf/ odkYjzifh olwkdY 2 a,mufonf naeapmif;wGif xGufvmcJhonf/
rsufvSnfhyGJum; rpao;acs/ xefvGefu ar;vdkufonf/
]]nDr ... Adkufqmvm;}}
]]tif; .. enf;enf;awmh qmovdkyJ}}
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udk a&G;um xkdif&if; pum;rsm;ajymMuonf/ csL;zdrSm jyifyodkY wpfMudrfrQ rxGufzl;ojzifh txl;tqef;csnf;
jzpfaeonf/
pm;aomufqdkifwGif oDcsif;qdk azsmfajzolrsm;udkvnf; xl;qef;aeonf/ vrf;ab;wGif odkif;upm;jyae
aom olrsm;udkvnf; xl;qef;onf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

odkYjzifh pm;p&mrsm; a&mufvmawmhonf/ 2 a,mufom; pm;&ef wlrsm;udk aumufudkifum jyifqif


vdkufcsdefwGif puLvHk;av; wpfvHk;u xefvGef\ xrif;yef;uefxJ usvmonf/ ab;bDudk zswfueJ vSnfh
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b,frSvmonfudk awG;&cufaeonf/
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]]rpm;eJY}}
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rsufvSnfhyGJ pawmhrnf/ qkdif;oHrsm;yif Mum;ae&ayjyD/ jyifqifaeyHkudk pdwf0ifpm;pGm Munfh&if; csL;zdu
ar;cGef;rsm; wwGwfwGwf ar;aeonf/ tvdkufoifh tvsm;oifh ajz&if; xefvGefwpfa,muf yGJcif;udk
tuJcwfaeonf/
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yGJcif;xJodkY rrSdwfrokef Munfhae&if; vl 3 a,mufukd xefvGef owdxm;vdkufrdonf/
wpfa,mufrSm acgif;wkH;pdrf;MuD;ESifh bkef;awmfMuD; wpfyg;jzpfonf/ bkef;MuD;onf kyfao;yGJ bmaMumifh
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onf yGJvmMunfhonfrSm tawmfxl;qef;onf/ aemufqHk;olrSmum; rdef;r&Tif wpfa,mufESifh wlonf/ olr
u xefvGefukd zdwfac:aom tMunfhjzifh Munhfaeonf/
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csL;zdukd uGufMunfh uGufMunfh vkyfaeMuonf/
xefvGef &ifxdwfoGm;onf/ olrsm;onf xdyfoD; aMu;pm;rsm; jzpfMuonfudk ,HkrSm;zG,f r&Sdacs/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

pOf;pm;ae&if;rSmyif bkef;MuD;onf vlrsm;udk wdk;a0SY&if; eD;uyfvmonf/ vlrrmuvnf; tzsm;wufae


csif[ef raqmifawmhyJ/ rodrom a&SUwkd;vmonf/
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]]atmf ... nDrudk kyfao;q&mMuD;eJY tpfudk rdwfqufay;rvdkYyg ... rdwfqufcsifw,f r[kwfvm;}}
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a,muf yGJpifatmufodkY 0ifvkdufonf/
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]]aemufrS nDr ... tck avmavmq,f vlqkd;awGudk awGUxm;w,f/ olwkdYudk t&ifqHk; &Sif;ypf&r,f}}
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ajcoHrsm;u kwfw&uf &yfoGm;onf/ acwrQ Mumaomtcg vrf;Mum;av;\ nmzufrS uwHk;MuD;
ay:vmonf/ b,fbufrS vlrrm avQmufvmonf/
uwHk;MuD;u ol\ pdrf;aeatmif &dyfxm;aom uwHk;udk yGwf&if; w[J[J &,fvmonf/

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2008

vlrrmu apmifudk wif;aeatmif jcHKxm;&if; tzsm;wufovdk w[D;[D; nnf;vmonf/


rdef;r&TifrSmum; ray:vmyJ aysmufaeonf/
xefvGefu pmtkyfudk &Gwfzwfovdk toHjzifh wnfjidrfpGm ajymvdkufonf/
]]odkif;avmurSm emrnf ausmfMum;wJh aMu;pm;vlowform; wpfq,fhoHk;a,muf &Sdw,f/ olwdkY&JU emrnf
awGudk vsKdU0Sufxm;wm MumvGef;vdkY b,folrS rodMuawmhbl;/ vleJY vkdufwJh emrnfawG ... Oyrm/ /uwHk;
bkef;MuD;wkdY? vlrrmwdkY? rdef;r&TifwdkY? pm;awmfuJ? pojzifhyJ odMuw,f/ olwdkY[m odkif;ynm xl;cRefkHomru
enf;y&d,m,fvJ rsm;Muw,f/}}

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tcef; (16)
uwHk;bkef;MuD;? vlrrm? rdef;r&Tif? pm;awmfuJ
]]odkif;avmurSm emrnf ausmfMum;wJh aMu;pm;vlowform; wpfq,fhoHk;a,muf &Sdw,f/ olwdkY&JU em
rnfawGudk vsKdU0Sufxm;wm MumvGef;vdkY b,folrS rodMuawmhbl;/ vleJYvkdufwJh emrnfawG ... Oyrm/
/uwHk; bkef;MuD;wkdY? vlrrmwdkY? rdef;r&TifwdkY? pm;awmfuJ? pojzifhyJ odMuw,f/ olwdkY[m odkif;ynm xl;cRef
kHomru enf;y&d,m,fvJ rsm;Muw,f/}}
xefvGefu uwHk;bkef;MuD;zuf vSnfhum ]]cifAsm;[m a&Smifvifausmif;uae pnf;urf;azmufrdvdkY xGuf
ajy;vmwJh bkef;MuD; ... t&ufeJY tom;[if;udk odyfMudKufw,f/ trmpm; odkif;ynmudk avhusifhxm;w,f}}
jyD;aemuf vlrrmudk Munfh ]]cifAsm;&JU yHkyef;udk MunfhjyD; txifao;&if tJonfvl[m aozkdYrsm;aejyD/
tzsm; wufaeyHk ay:ayr,fh cifAsm;&JU odkif;ynm tifrwef tqifhjrifhw,f/ cifAsm; 0goem ygwmu
rdef;ryJ}}
wpfudk,fwnf; a&&Gwfovdk xefvGefu quf&Gwfvdkufonf/
]]xl;qef;wmu rdef;rrkef;wJh ]bkef;MuD; vlxGuf} eJY jrmayGwJh ]vlrrm} eJY wGJrdaewmyJ/ onfhxuf xl;
qef;wmu ]rdef;r&Tif} u ygvdkufao;w,f/ ckvdkawmh 4 a,mufjydKifjyD; wpfcgrQ rawGUzl;ao;bl;/
bmjzpfvdkYvJqkdawmh usKyfudk pm;aomufqdkifrSm tqdyfcwfwJholu ]pm;awmfuJ} jzpf&r,f}}

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2008

bkef;MuD;u &,f&if;jzifh
]]pm;awmfuJu tpm;taomuf rufw,favuGm/ olYESmacgif;u [if;eHUcHaewmeJY tcsdefukefaewmyJ/
'gaMumifh olaemufus usefaewmaygh ... 'geJY rif;u ightaMumif;udk tawmfodxm;wmyJ/ igawmifrS
rif;avmuf rodbl;/ ... [J[J ... vlrrmeJY wGJ&wJh taMumif;uawmh aiGavuGm ... igu rdef;rawGudk
rkef;ayr,fh MudKufaps;om &r,fqdk&if Zdrfeef; rajymeJY i&JjynfrSm aezkdYawmif 0efrav;bl;/}}
xefvGefu ]]uJ .. ar;prf;yg&apOD; .. usLyfudk owfvkdY cifAsm; b,favmuf&rSmvJ}}
bkef;MuD;u wHawG;wpfcsuf axG;vkdufonf/
]]xGD ... rif;udk owfzdkY qdk&if igu acR;xGufrcHbl;uG/ vufydkufjyD; MunfhaevdkufrSm ... rif;u aovlyJ/
ajrGbk&if&JU tqdyfrdjyD;aemufawmh rif;aorSm rkcsyJ}}
xefvGefu rodcsif[efaqmifvsuf jyefar;vkdufonf/
]]'gqdk&if bmaMumifhvJ}}
uwHk;MuD;u wpfcGef;wnf; ajymvdkufonf/
]]a&Trif;orD;}}
xefvGefu acgif;udk cg,rf;&if; ]]b,fu a&Trif;orD;vJ ... usKyfrodbl;/}}
]]rif;eJY ygvmwJh rdef;uav;}}
]]cifAsm;wkdY vGJaejyD/ olu rif;orD; r[kwfygbl;}}
uwHk;MuD; awGa0oGm;onf/ wGif vlrrmu ajymvmonf/
]]iSufcg;a&mif"g;[m odkif;avmurSm pum;udk wnfwnfwefYwefY ajymwwfw,fvdkY emrnf&wmyJ/
'gayr,fh tck tajctaeuawmh wpfrsKd;av/ oltajctae odyfraumif;bl; r[kwfvm;}}
xefvGefu jyHK;vkdufjyD; ]]usKyf tajctae raumif;bl;vdkY b,folajymvJ}}
uwHk;MuD;a&m vlrrmyg idkifusoGm;onf/ xefvGefu iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk wjznf;jznf;csif; qGJxkwfvdkuf
onf/
uwHk;MuD;u vufumjy&if; ]]igwdkY tay;t,l wpfck vkyf&atmif}}
]]ajymprf;ygOD;}}
]]aq;q&mu rif;rSm rdaewJh tqdyfudk aysmufatmif ukay;Ekdifw,f}}

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2008

]]aorif;vufavQmh ygykukef;eJY usKyfawGUjyD;jyD}}


]]aq;q&mu ygykukef;xuf rom&ifom &Sdr,f/ rnHhEdkifbl;}}
]][ifhtif;}}
uwHk;MuD;u pum; qufrajymawmh ... ydk xda&mufaom enf;vrf;udk oHk;vdkufonf/ ol\ acgif;wHk;
jzihf xefvGef\ &if0udk ajy;aqmifhvkduf avawmhonf/
uwHk;MuD;u acgif;udk rmatmif avhusifhxm;onf/ olYacgif;wHk;jzifh tkwfcJrsm;udkyif cGJEkdifonfrdkY
xefvGefudk tvpfwGif wkdufcdkufvdkufjcif; aywnf;/
xefvGefu vQyfjyufovkd vIyf&Sm;vdkufonf/
va&mifatmufwGif iSufcg;a&mif 0if;vufoGm;onf/
uwHk;rSm pdrf;raeEdkifawmhay/ &JueJ eDapG;oGm;onf/ toHyif rxGufEkdifawmhyJ uwHk;MuD; vJusoGm;
awmhonf/
xefvGefu vlrrmzuf vSnfh&if; ]]cifAsm;u tjrwrf; acgif;udkufaew,fvkdY Mum;w,f/ usKyf ukay;yg
&ap/ acgif;r&Sd&if acgif;rudkufEdkifawmhbl; r[kwfvm;}}
vlrrmu uysmu,m aemufqkwf&if; ]]r ... rvkyfygeJYuGm/ igtck aumif;oGm;jyD}} pum;rqHk;cif
aemufvSnfh ajy;awmhonf/
xefvGef oufjyif;csvkdufonf/ csL;zdudk xm;cJhaom a&tdk;pif &Sd&modkY avQmufoGm;vkdufonf/
xdkpOf
]]cpf .. cpf .. cpf}}
xefvGef acgif;em;yef; MuD;oGm;onf/ csL;zdem;wGif rdef;r wpfa,muf a&mufaeonfudk awGUvkduf
&onf/ csL;zdu xdkrdef;rudk ai;pdkufMunfhaeonf/ xefvGef xdwfvefYpGm a&&Gwfvdkufrdonf/
]]rdef; r &Tif}}
csL;zdudk wpfa,mufwnf; xm;cJhvdkufjcif;twGuf xefvGefaemifw &oGm;onf/
]]nDrav; .. cpf .. cpf}}
rdef;r&Tif\ &,foHonf xefvGefem;xJodkY uefYvefYMuD; 0ifvmonf/ olu cufxefpGm atmfvdkufonf/
]][dwf ... usKyfnDrav;em;udk ruyfeJY}}

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2008

rdef;r&Tifu xefvGefukd MumMunfh Munfh&if; csL;zdzufvSnfhum ar;vdkufonf/


]]nDrav; .. tJonf vlMuD;udk odvm;}}
]][ifhtif; .. rodbl;}}
]]nDrav; .. rraemufvkdufrvm;/ tJonf vlMuD;aemuf vdkufrvm;}}
csL;zdu ]]rraemuf vdkufr,f}}
rdef;r&Tifu xefvGefYudk Munfhum ]]olu &Sifhaemuf rvkdufbl;wJh .. oGm;prf;yg ... 'DrSm nDtpfrcsif;
pum;ajymaewmudk ... cpfcpf}}
rdef;r&Tif\ pdwfndIYynmudk awGUvdkuf&aom xefvGefrSm olYudk,folom tjypfwifrdawmhonf/
]]cifAsm; usKyfnDr tem;u rcGm&if usKyftqdk;rqkdeJY}}
ajymajymqkdqkdESifh xefvGefu iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk qkyfudkifvdkufonf/ rdef;r&Tifu rsufESmtrlt&mudk
ajymif;vkdufum
]]tpfudkMuD;&,f ... rvkyfygeJY}}
trSefwu,fum; olronf xefvGefukd nIdYvkdufjcif;aywnf;/ rdef;r&TifESifh rsufvHk;csif;qdkifae&mrS
xefvGefYpdwfxJwGif ysHvTm;r,fudk jrifa,mifvmonf/ rdef;r&Tifajymaom pum;udkvnf; ysHvTm;r,fu olYudk
awmif;yefwdk;vsKd;aeonf[k xifvmonf/
]]nDr}} xefvGefu wkd;nif;pGm ac:vkduf&if; "g;dk;ay:rS vufudk z,fvdkufonf/
rdef;r&Tifu auseyfpGm jyHK;vdkuf&if; vufwpfzufu cg;aemufodkY a&GUoGm;onf/ olru "g;ajrmifav;
wpfvufudk prf;vkduf&if; xefvGefYteD;odkY csOf;uyfoGm;awmhonf/
xdktcdkuf cGrf;ueJ jrnfoHESifh twl a&tdk;pifuGJoGm;onf/ wGif a&rsm;u rdef;r&TifESifh xefvGefYudk
&TJ&TJpdkoGm;aponf/
xefvGefwpfa,muf vefYEdk;oGm;onf/ rdef;r&Tifuawmh a'gotdk;aygufuGJum wpfcsuf atmf[pfvkduf
&if; vufonfudk vdkuf&Smawmhonf/
xefvGefu csufcsif;yif tajctaeudk &dyfpm;rdvdkufonf/ csL;zdudk qGJac:vdkufonf/ odkY&mwGif ...
]][ifhtif; ... uRefrudk rac:eJY ... rvdkufbl;/ ... rra& ... rrb,frSmvJ}}
jyemyJ [k xefvGef wpfa,mufwnf; a&&Gwfvdkufrdonf/ csL;zdudk ac:vmrdjcif;twGuf rsm;pGm
xdwfvefYoGm;awmhonf/ avmavmq,fwGifawmh vkyfp&m wpfckwnf;om&Sdonf/

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2008

csL;zd\ arhaMumudk xdk;ydwfvdkufjyD; olrudk xefvGefu xrf;vdkufonf/ jyD;aemuf tjrefqHk; ajy;xGuf


oGm;awmhonf/
odkY&mwGif xefvGefwpfa,muf a0;a0; rajy;&ao;cifrSmyif cpfueJ &,foHwpfcsuf Mum;vkduf&onf/
rdef;r&Tif jyefa&mufvmavjyD/
wpfjydKifwnf;rSmyif ][J [J} [k&,fvdkufaom vlrrm\ toHudkvnf; Mum;vkduf&onf/
jyefvm&Jjcif;aMumifh olwdkYwGif ppful a&mufvmrSef; xefvGefodvdkufonf/
xefvGef\ odkif;ynmonf aMu;pm;vlowform; wpfq,fhoHk;a,mufudk rIp&m rvdk[k tcsKdUu
xifaMu;ay;Muonf/ odkY&mwGif xefvGefudk,fwkdifum; ,if;uJhokdY ,lqxm;jcif; r&Sday/
rMumygacs/ vrf;usOf;uav;\ wpfzufrS rdef;r&Tif ay:vm\/ tjcm; wpfzufrS vlrrm ay:vm\/
ajcoH wzkwfzkwf Mum;vdkuf &jyD;aemuf aemufxyf wpfa,muf a&mufvmjyefonf/
a&mufvmolum; pm;zdkrSL; t0wftpm;rsm; 0wfqifxm;onf/ ol\ ESmacgif;MuD;rSm xl;jcm;pGm
eD&Jawmufajymifae\/ olu ESmacgif;udk IHUyG IHUyG vkyfvdkufjyD;aemuf ]][if;eYH&w,f ... [if;eYH&w,f}} [k
atmfvdkufonf/
jyD;aemuf csL;zdudk Munfh&if; ]]vufpowfawmh ig;MuD; wpfaumif rdxm;wmudk;}}
rdef;r&Tifu xefvGefudk vufjyum ]]ig;MuD;awmh ql;awmifawG rsm;w,f&Sifh ... 0dkif;jyD;ETmMu&atmif ...
jyD;awmh a0pm;Mur,fav .. r[kwfbl;vm;}}
]][kwfygw,fAsm/ ig;MuD;awmh usKyfwpfa,mufwnf;vnf; pm;rukefygbl;av}}
olwdkY 3 a,mufu tm;&yg;& &,fcsvkdufawmh\/
xefvGef\ &ifxJwGif av;vHaeonf/ 3 a,mufESifh wpfa,muf &ifqkdifae&jcif;twGuf r[kwfacs/
olYycHk;ay:rSm csL;zd&Sdaejcif; twGuf jzpfonf/
xdktcdkufav;rSmyif rarQmfvifhaom tjzpftysufwpfck ay:vmonf/ jrif;cGmoHrsm;yifwnf;/ jrif;wpf
tkyfonf olwkdY 5 a,mufqDodkY wnfhwnfhMuD; ajy;0ifvmonf/ vlrrm? rdef;r&TifESifh pm;awmfuJwdkYrSm rnf
odkYrQ rwwfEdkifawmhyJ a&Smifay;vdkuf &awmhonf/
xefvGefuawmh tcGifhta&;udk vufvGwfrcHyJ jrif;tkyf\ tumtuG,fudk ,lum okwfajcwifawmh
onf/
wnf;cdkcef;odkY jyefa&mufcJhavjyD/ pdk;&drfwMuD; jzpfaeMuaom orm;awmfMuD;ESifh txdef;awmfMuD; pkwkdY\
rsuf0ef;rsm;udk &ifqkdif&if; xefvGefu ajymvdkufonf/
]]csL;zdudk rm,m&Sifu pdwfndIUxm;w,f/}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

orm;awmfMuD;u xdwfxdwfysmysmjzifh ]]rm,m&Sifqdkwm aMu;pm;vlowform; 13 a,mufxJu


rdef;r&Tifudk ajymwmvm;}}
]][kwfw,f}}
ygykukef; ajcypfvufypf xkdifusoGm;onf/ aMu;pm;vlowform; 13 a,muf yg0ifywfouf vmonf
udk axmufjcif;tm;jzihf jyemonf ayghao;ao; r[kwfawmhonfudk olaumif;pGm od&Sdvdkufonf/
xefvGefu csL;zdudk taMumajz ay;vkdufonf/ csL;zdu rsufvHk;yGifhvmonfESifh ]]rr b,frSmvJ/ rrqD
oGm;r,f/ &SifwdkYudk uRefr rodbl;}}
txdef;awmfMuD;pkrSm xdwfvefY acsmufjcm;pGmjzifh ]]ocifrav; ... ocifrav;}} [kom atmfEdkifawmh
onf/
xdktcsdefwGif tcef;0rS cyfat;at; toHwpfoH xGufay:vmonf/
]]olYrsufESmudk a&at;eJY opfay;vdkufygAsm/ rm,m&Sif&JU pdwfndIUtwwfudk ukzdkY tvG,fqHk;enf;ygyJ}}
xefvGefu aemufvSnfhrMunfhyJ odvdkufonf/
]]usif;,Hkvm;}}
]][kwfygw,f/ usKyf usif;,Hkyg}}
]]bkHausmif;ysufrSm jrif;wpfaumif armif;cJhwm/ pm;aomufqkdifeJY rsufvSnfhyGJawGrSm pmeJYowday;wm/
ckeav;wkef;u a&tdk;cGJvkdufwm/ aemufqHk; jrif;wpftkyf armif;cJhwm ... cifAsm; [kwfovm;/}}
]][kwfygw,f}}
xefvGefu bmrS qufrajymawmhyJ aomufa& wpfcGufcyfum csL;zdrsufESmudk kwfw&uf yufxnfh
vdkufonf/
]]atmifr,fav;}}
csL;zdxHrS atmfoxGufvm jyD;aemuf olru a&rsm;udk okwfypfvkdufonf/ wjznf;jznf;ESifh owdjyef
vnfvmjyD; txdef;awmfMuD;pkudk ]]bmjzpfvdkY uRefrudk onfavmuf pdkufMunfhaewmvJ}} [kar;vkdufonf/
pdwfat;oGm;aom txdef;awmfMuD;u olrudk taMumif;pHk &Sif;jy&if; qlyGufawmhonf/ csL;zdum;
rsufESmav;i,f? acgif;uav; iHkY&if; jidrfusoGm;awmhonf/
xefvGefum; w[m;[m; &,fvkduf&if; usif;,Hk\ ycHk;udk ykwfum
]]usKyfwdkY t&ufoGm;aomuf&atmif}} .. [k ajymvdkufonf/

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2008

tcef; (17)
t&uform;
tjyifa&mufaomtcg olwdkY 2 a,mufu wpfa,mufudk wpfa,muf Munfhvkdufrdonf/
xefvGefu pajymonf/ ]]onftcsdefqdk&if wnf;cdkcef;udk olwkdY odaeavmufjyD}}
usif;,Hku acgif;qwf&if; ]]pdwfcs&wJh t&ufqdkif &Sm;aejyD}}
]]b,fem;u t&ufqdkifqdk&if pdwfcs&vJ odovm;}}
usif;,Hku ]]usKyf oli,fcsif;wpfa,muf&JU qdkifawmh &Sdw,f}}
]]oGm;Muwmaygh}}
usif;,Hkum; jrdKUudk olYtdrfyrm uRrf;usifvSonf/ tdrfaemufaz;vrf;rsm;rS oGm;ae&if; usif;,Hku
]]usKyfu 'DjrdKUrSm MuD;jyif;vmwmyg/ tck oGm;r,fh t&ufqdkifuvnf; usKyfoli,fcsif;yJ .. olu 'DjrdKU

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

rSm taumif;qHk; t&ufcsufwJhol}}


aemufqHk;wGif caemfceJY wJuav; wpfvHk;qD a&mufvmawmhonf/
qdkifxJodkY 0ifxkdifvdkufaomtcg qkdifydkif&Sif wpfa,mufwnf;om &Sdonf/ olu usif;,HkudkawGUawGU
csif; tvGef0rf;ompGm pum;rsm; ajymum t&ufwpftdk; xkwfay;onf/ olvnf; tazmfvkyfum aomufawmh
onf/ pm;&if;aomuf&if; olu ajymonf/
]]usif;,Hk&m .. rif;r&Sdawmh ighrSm wpfa,mufwnf; ysif;vkdufwm ... ckeuawmh {nfhonfwpfa,muf
&SdvdkY tysif;ajyao;w,f/ ajym&OD;r,f/ oluvnf; rif;vdkyJ ... MuGufwGif;uG ... [m;[m; ... t&ufaumif;
MudKufwwfwmvJ rajymeJY .. ol 'DjrdKUudk a&mufwm 2 &ufyJ &Sdao;w,f/ 'gayr,fh jrdKUu t&ufqkdif
tm;vHk;udk jrnf;MunfhjyD;jyD}}
xefvGefu ar;vkdufonf/
]]tJonfvlu rsufvHk;cyfarS;arS; [kwfvm;/ b,fzufyg;rSm rJSUMuD; wpfck &Sdw,fav/ jyD;awmh
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]][kwfw,f}}
]]ol[m emrnfMuD; aMu;pm;vlowform; 13 a,mufxJu t&uform;yJ}}
t&ufqkdifydkif&Sif xdwfxdwfysmysm jzpfoGm;onf/
]]'gqkd&if olYudk aemufwpfcgqkdifxJ t0ifrcHawmhbl; ...}}
usif;,Hku ]]tJ'gqdk&if cifAsm;udkolu &ef&SmrSmaygh}}
]][m; [m; .. 'gtwGuf pdwfrylygeJY ... igaooGm;&if olt&ufaumif;aumif; aomuf&awmhrSm r[kwf
bl;}}
xefvGefu at;aq;pGm ajymvkdufonf/
]]pdwfrylygeJYav/ tJonfvlu usKyfaemufukd vdkufaewmyg/ usKyf xGufoGm;&if olvnf; 'DjrdKUrSm
qufaerSm r[kwfbl;/ tJ'gqkd&if tm;vHk; tqifajyoGm;rSmyg}}
t&ufqkdifydkif&Sifu usif;,Hkudk Munfh&if; ]]rif;vkdufoGm;rSmvm;}}
]]'gaygh}}
]]b,fawmh jyefvmrvJ}}
]]rajymEkdifao;bl;}}

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2008

]]at;uGm .. rif;MuD;vmwJh jrdKUav;udkawmh rarhygeJY}}


]]arhp&mvm;uG/ pdwfcsyg/ igjyefvmcJhr,f/ ... uJ ... igwkdYoGm;r,f/}}
vrf;wGif olwdkY 2 a,muf wkdifyifvmMuonf/ ,cktcsdefwGif jrdKUav;\ 0ifayguf xGufaygufrsm;udk
ydwfqdkY apmifhMuyfjyD; avmufayjyD/ xefvGefu jrif;&xm;jzifh ta,mifjyum a&vrf;rS tvpfxGuf oGm;vdk
onf/ usif;,Hku ulnDygrnf[k wm0efcHonf/
usif;,Hku ajymonf/ ]]cifAsm;u wnf;cdkcef;udkjyefAsm/ &efolawG a&SUuae&atmif azmufxGufcJh/ usKyf
u jrif;&xm; wpfpD;udk oGm;,lcJhr,f/ aemuf uGrf;wpf,mnuf tcsdefavmufqdk&if vrf;qHkrSm jyefqHkr,f/}}
xefvGefESifh csL;zdwdkYtkyfpk wnf;ckdcef;rS xGufvmcJhMuonf/ rnfolurQ rwm;qD;acs/ at;aq;pGmyif
vrf;qHkodkY a&mufvmonf/ usif;,Hku jrif;vSnf; wpfpD;jzifh tqifoifh apmifhaeonf/ csL;zd? orm;awmfMuD;
ESifh txdef;awmfMuD;pkudk vSnf;xJ 0ifapjyD; xefvGefurl usif;,HkESifh twl jrif;vSnf;armif;orm; ae&mwGif
xkdifvkdufonf/
olwkdY\ jrif;vSnf;udk aemufa,mifcHvdkufaeaMumif; xefvGef odvdkufonf/ olu usif;,Hktm;
]]qdyfurf;xJ r0ifeJY rvSrf;rurf; uaeomarmif; .. vSnf;udk r&yfvkdufeJY .. jznf;jznf;av; vSdrfh ...
a[m[dku arSmif&dyfrSm wpfa,mufjyD; wpfa,muf qif;Mur,f}}
xefvGef\ tpDtpOftwkdif; vkyfMu&m csL;zdwdkY tm;vHk; ajray: acsmarmpGm a&mufoGm;awmhonf/
usif;,Hkuawmh jrif;vSnf;udk [efrysuf qufarmif;oGm;onf/ vlr&Sdaom avSMuD; wpfpif;ay:udk xefvGef
wkdY wufoGm;Muonf/ tawmfMumaomtcg usif;,Hk ajy;vmonf/
]][m;[m; ... olwdkYu jrif;vSnf;udk oJMuD;rJMuD; vdkufvmw,fa[h .. igvnf; ukef;qif;rSm ckefcsvdkuf
w,f/ olwdkY vlrygwJh jrif;vSnf;MuD;udk zGifhMunfhrdwJhtcsdefus&ifawmh igwkdYvJ a&v,f a&mufaea&maygh}}
ajymajymqkdqdkjzifh avSMudK;udk ckwfjzwfum &Gufudk wifvdkufawmhonf/ avSMuD;rSm wa&GUa&GuxGufcGm
vmawmhonf/
xefvGefESifh usif;,HkwkdYu ukef;ywfay:wGif 0dkif;xkdifjyD; t&uftdk;udk zGifhvdkufonf/
olwdkY\ jidrf;csrf;rIav;rSm rMum&Snfvdkufyg/
]]ig;AsKdU .. ig; ... ig;,lMuOD;rvm;}}

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2008

tcef; (18)
wHigonf
va&mifatmufwGif jrpfjyifus,fMuD;rSm vSyaeonf/ wdwfqdwfrIudk azmufxGif; atmfoHwpfck xGuf
ay:vmonf/
]]ig;AsKdU .. ig; ... ig;,lMuOD;rvm;}}
xefvGefu ajymvdkufonf/
]]onftcsdefrSm ig;a&mif;w,fqdkawmh dk;dk; ig;zrf;orm;awmh rjzpfEdkifbl; ... nrSmqdk&if ig; rsm;rsm;
b,frdrSmvJ}}
usif;,Hku jyHK;
]]wpfcsKdUvlawGuawmh aeY&,fn&,f em;rvnfbl; ... olwdkY tvkyfjyD;zdkYyJ odw,f}}
]]b,fvkd vlawGvJ}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]aMu;pm;vlowform; awGaygh}}
]]'gqkd&ifawmh olwkdY rSm;oGm;jyD ... tajctaeeJY tcsdeftcgqkdawm &Sdao;w,f}}
pum; aumif;aepOfrSmyif avSi,fav;wpfpif;u olwdkY avSMuD;em; uyfvmonf/ xefvGefESifh usif;,Hk
u wkdufcdkuf&ef toifhjyifvkdufonf/ odkYaomf wHigonfu olwdkYtm; pwif wkdufcdkufawmhonf/
ig;ykyfrsm;yifwnf;/
ykyfa[mifaeaom ig;rsm;jzifh ypfcwf wkdufcdkufvmjcif;aMumifh tidkufrdum xefvGef a&Smifay;vdkuf
&onf/ olu iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk csufcsif;yif qGJxkwfvsuf avSi,fay: ckeful;vdkufonf/ wHigonfu
a&xJ ikyfoGm;onf/
]0kef;} toHMuD; xGufay:vmjyD; olwkdYavSMuD;xJodkY a&rsm; 0ifvmonfudk xefvGef vSrf;jrifvdkufonf/
]]vmcJhMu/ a[monf avSi,fay: ul;vmcJh ...}}
pum;yif rqHk;ao;/ xefvGef &yfaeaom avSi,fav;\ 0rf;AdkufwGifvnf; taygufMuD; wpfayguf
ay:vmjyefonf/
wpfcsufuav;rQ wHkYqkdif;raeyJ xefvGefwpfa,muf avSmfwufudk vSrf;,lum vuf0g;apmif;jzifh
dkufcsKd;vdkufonf/ usKd;usefaeaom tdk;u vSHwpfacsmif;vkd cRefjraeonf/ xefvGefu ,if;opfom;dk;udk
a&xJodkY vQyfwpfjyuf ypfpdkufvdkufonf/
jrpfa&jyif eD&JoGm;onfudk va&mifwGif aumif;pGm awGUjrifvdkuf&onf/ xefvGefonf &efoludk &Sif;vif;
EkdifcJhjyD jzpfonf/
odkY&mwGif noef;acgiftcsdef? jrpfv,fwGif Adkufaygufaeaom avSjzifh rnfodkY c&D;quf&rnfenf;/
xefvGefwpfa,muf vGefpGm pdwfIyfoGm;awmhonf/ rMumygacs/ avS 2 pif;vHk; jrKyfoGm;um vltm;vHk;
a&ul;Mu&awmhonf/
a&pD;oefvSaom jrpfMuD;rdkY rnfolrQ urf;odkY rul;cwfEdkifMuacs/ tm;vHk;yif arsmygoGm;awmhonf/
aemufqHk; awGUjrif vdkuf&onfrSm csL;zdESifh txdef;awmfMuD;pkwkdY &GufwkdifusKd;MuD;udk wG,fzufxm;onf/
xefvGefwpfa,muf ul;cwfae&if; tarmazmufvmonf/
jyD;aemuf arhajrmoGm;awmhonf/

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2008

tcef; (19)
u,fwifjcif;
xefvGef rsufvHk;zGifhvdkufaomtcg tzdk;tdk wpfa,muf\ rsufESmudk jrif&onf/ olYEIwfrS wtHhwMo
a&&Gwfvkdudrdonf/
]]usKdUwmxHk}}
olYukd rSwfrdojzifh tzdk;tdku auseyfpGmjzifh jyHK;vkdufonf/
]]rif; ... raoao;bl;udk;}}
olwdkY 2 a,muf jydKifwl &,fvdkufrdonf/ xefvGefu ar;vkdufonf/
]]usKyf arhaewm b,fES&uf &SdyvJ}}
usKdUwmxHku vuf 7 acsmif; axmifjyonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

xefvGefu vl;vJx&if; ]]aus;Zl;ygyJAsm/ uJuJ .. c&d;qufOD;rS}}


xxkdifvkduf&mwGif xefvGefwpfa,muf rdkufueJ jzpfoGm;onf/ usKdUwmxHku tm;vHk;udk odaeonfh
yHkpHjzifh
]]pdwfodyfrylygeJYav/ rif;udk,frif;om aeaumif;atmif vkyfyg/ igu 'Dae&mrSm aewm 3 ESpfavmuf
&SdygjyD/ rif;&SmcsifwJh vlawGudk igpHkprf;xm;ygw,f/}}
xefvGef pdwfat;oGm;onf/
aemuf 5 &ufcefYaerS xefvGefwpfa,muf rlveD;yg; jyefaumif;vmonf/ onfawmhrS usKdUwmxHku
ajymjyonf/
]]rif;udk jrpfxJuae q,fvmwJhvlqDu owif;&awmh iguref;uwef; ajy;vmw,f/ yxrawmh rif;
rSef;rodbl;ayghav/ aemufawmh pOf;pm;rdw,f/ rif;u wpfa,mufwnf;awmh avSrysuf avmufbl;vdkY ..
tJ'geJY igqufpHkprf;awmh .. vl 3 a,mufuvnf; tJonfnuyJ avSysufw,f/ rdef;uav;? tzGm;MuD;eJY
tzdk;MuD;/ olwdkYawGu &GufwkdifusKd;MuD;udk wG,fxm;&muae jrpfauGUrSm urf;ay:udk wifoGm;Muw,f/ ...]]
xefvGef pdwfr&Snfawmh/ olu Mum;jzwfajymvdkufonf/ ]]usKyfudk vdkufydkYay;Asm}}
usKdUwmxHku oufjyif; wpfcsufcsum ]]rif;eJYtwl ig vdkuf&r,fqdk&ifawmh jzpfw,f}}
usKdUwmxHkum; xdrf0Sufxm;&rnfhvl r[kwfojzifh xefvGefu taMumif;pHk ajymjyvdkufawmhonf/
]] .... tusOf;csKyfuawmh 'gygyJ/ cifAsm;udk 0ifrygapcsifbl;/ 'Dudp[m ayghao;ao; r[kwfwm
odomygw,f/ aMu;pm;vlowform; 13 a,muf[m &ifqdkif& vG,frSm r[kwfbl;}}
usKdUwmxHku ravQmhacs/ ydkyif pdwf0ifpm; vm[ef&Sdonf/
]]aMu;pm;vlowform; 13 a,mufygaevdkY igu ydkjyD; vdkufcsifwm/ r[kwf&if rif;wpfa,mufwnf;
igpdwfrcsbl;}} csdKif;axmufudk ajrmufjyvsuf ]]rif;u ighudk toHk;rusawmhbl; xifvdkYvm;uG}}
aemufqHk;wGif xefvGef vufavQmhvdkuf&onf/ wGif w[m;[m; &,fvdkuf&if; usKdUwmxHku ]]uJuJ
... tem;,lvkdufOD;/ pMum&Jwkdufqdkwm 0if& odyfvG,fwm r[kwfbl;/ tpDtpOfav;awG vkyfvdkufOD;r,f}}
]][if ... b,fvdkuae b,fvdk olwdkYu pMum&JwkdufxJ a&mufoGm;wmvJ}}
]]'DvdkuG olwdkYu jrpfnmzufrSm wifwm/ pMum&Jwkdufqdkwmuvnf; xl;xl;qef;qef;/ 0ifjyD;&if
xGufzkdY cufwmuvm;/ olwkdYudk MunfMunfomomyJ ay;0ifw,f/ jyD;awmh zrf;xm;vdkufw,f qdkygawmh}}

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2008

tcef; (20)
pMum&Jwkduf
pMum&JwkdufqkdonfrSm ausmufaqmifrsm; aygrsm;vSaom ae&mwGif aqmufxm;aom ausmuftdrfMuD;
wpfvHk;omwnf;/
vlaerusJyg;aom a'orskKd;wGif cufcJvSaom onfae&mudkrS a&G; aejcif;rSm tdrfydkif&Sif\ vltrsm;
ESifh wpfoD;wpfjcm; aevdkaom oabmudk jyovsuf &Sdawmhonf/
]]wkpdrf;zkef;[m pMumvufeufeJY odkif;avmurSm emrnfausmfwmyJ}}
]][kwfw,f/ aemufjyD;awmh olY&JU pMumvufeufudk iSufcg;a&mif"g;eJY ,SOfMunfhcsifpdwf &SdrSmyJ}}
]]usKyfuawmh rodcsifbl;AsKdU/ b,folomovJ odjyD; bmrS tusKd;r&Sdygbl;Asm}}
]]'guawmh rif;&JU oabmxm;udk;uG/ oluawmh tJovdk r[kwfavmufbl;vdkY igxifw,f}}
ajym&if;qdk&if;jzifh &Jwkduf\ 0ifaygufodkY olwkdY a&mufvmMuonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

olwdkYtm; vlMuD; wpfa,mufu wm;vkdufonf/


]]&yfvkduf .. bmudp&SdvdkYvJ}}
usKdYwmxHku &ifaumh ajzvkdufonf/
]]usKyfwkdY wkpdrf;zkef;eJY awGUcsifvkdY}}
]]'gqdk&if trdefYpmjyyg}}
]]trdefYpm qdkwm bmvJ}}
]]ocifMuD;eJY awGUcsif&if MudKjyD; csdef;qdk&ygr,f/ 'gqkd&if ocifMuD;u b,faeYb,ftcsdef vmcJhygqdkwJh
trdefYpmay;ygw,f}}
]]atmf .. tJovdkvm; ... usKyfwkdYrSm trdefYpm rygbl;}}
]]'gqkd&if tck csdef;vkdufyg}}
]]rjzpfbl; ... ta&;MuD;w,f .. 0ifawGUvkdY r&bl;vm;}}
]]wpfenf;awmh&Sdw,f/ wHcg; 7 aygufudk jzwfEdkif&ifawmh ocifMuD;eJY awGUvkdY&ygw,f/ ... 'gu yxr
wHcg;yJ}}
]]wkpdrf;zkef;u w,fjyD;awmh udef;MuD; cef;MuD;Edkifaeygvm;/ usKyfwkdUu tm;aewJhvlawG r[kwfbl;/
tckvmwmuvJ ta&;MuD; udp&SdvkdYvmwm/ oleJY tck awGU&rS jzpfr,f/ csdef;csufaevkdY rjzpfzl;}}
a'goxGufvmaom wHcg;apmifh vlxGm;MuD;u usKdUwmxHktm; oHwkwfMuD;jzifh wtm; ajy;dkufvdkuf
onf/ ajy;vmaom t&Sdefay:wGif oHwkwf\ tav;csdefudk aygif;xnfhum usKdUwmxHkudk wpfcsufwnf;ESifh
tvJwkdufcdkufvkdufjcif; jzpfonf/
usKdUwmxHkurl a&Smifwdrf;jcif; r&Sdacs/ ol\ oHrPd csKdif;axmufudk ajrmuf ckcHvkdufonf/
us,favmifaom jrnf[nf;oHMuD; xGufay:vmjyD; zkefrsm; xoGm;onf/
vlxGm;MuD; aemufodkY 2 vSrf;qkwfoGm;onf/ usKdUwmxHkrlum; ae&mrSmyif &yfvsuf/ odkYaomf ajray:
wGif axmufxm;onfh ol\ wpfzufwnf;aom ajcaxmufrSmum; ajrMuD;xJodkY 2 vufrcefU epf0ifoGm;
onf/
rawGU&aom q,fESpfausmf umvtwGif; usKdUwmxHk\odkif;ynm tHhrcef; wkd;wufvmonfudk xefvGef
&dyfpm;rdvdkufonf/
vlxGm;MuD;u xyfrHwkdufckduf&ef oHwkwfudk a0SU,rf;vkdufonf/ okdY&mwGif olYvufz0g;rsm; ylueJ

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2008

jzpfoGm;ojzifh iHkUMunhfvdkufonf/ ta&cHGrsm; vefxGufaejyDwnf;/ vlxGm;MuD; rsufESm ysufoGm;onf/


usKdUwmxHku olYcsKdif;axmufudk wHcg;0odkY nTefjyum
]]usKyfwkdY jzwfoGm;vdkY &jyDvm;}}
vlxGm;MuD;u tHudk wif;wif;Mudwf&if;
]]wHcg; eHygwfwpfudk cifAsm;wkdY jzwfoGm;EdkifjyD/ 'gayr,fh aemufwHcg;awGu usKyfxuf trsm;MuD;
awmfwJhvlawG apmifhMuyfaerSmudk odxm;yg}}
]]owday;wmudk ... aus;Zl;wifygw,f}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (20-c)
'kwd, wHcg;
wHcg;rMuD;rS 0ifvdkuf&mwGif yef;jcHav; wpfckudk awGUvdkuf&onf/ yef;jcHav;\ wpfzufwGifum;
touf odyfrMuD;ao;aom rdef;uav; wpfa,muf xkdifvsuf &Sdonf/ usKdYwmxHku vSrf;ar;vkdufonf/
]]rdef;uav; usKyfwkdYu rif;wkdY ocifMuD;eJY awGUzkdY vmcJhwmyg ... usKyfwkdYukd 0ifcGifhay;rSmvm;}}
rdef;uav;u jyHK;&TifpGm ajymvdkufonf/
]](0ifcGifh) ay;rSmaygh&Sif}}
]]aus;Zl;ygyJ}}
rdef;uav;udk cyfoGufoGuf ausmfjzwfoGm;Edkif&ef usKdUwmxHku jrefjref avQmufonf/ odkYaomf olru
qufajymvdkufonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]'gayr,fh 'DwHcg;udk ausmfjzwfoGm;csif&if uRefrudk vufaqmifypnf; ay;&r,f/}}


usKdYwmxHku ]]vufaqmif .. tJ .. avmavmq,fawmh usKyfwkdYrSm rdef;uav;udk ay;avmufp&m bmrS
ay;p&m rygbl;/ aemufrS vlvTwfjyD; ay;cdkif;vdkufr,f}}
odkY&mwGif rdef;uav;u cspfpzG,f jyHK;um
]][ifhtif; .. r&bl; ... a&SUu 0ifoGm;wJh vl 5 a,mufawmif udk,fpDudk,fpD uRefrudk vufaqmifawG
ay;oGm;wmyJ/ a[m[kdrSmMunfh ...
]]vlrrmeJY wlwJhvlu apmifwpfxnf? pm;zdkrSL;eJY wlwJhvlu [if;vSD;zdkY "g;wpfacsmif;? kyfacsmwJh rru
yk0gwpfxnf? aq;q&mu aq;tdwf wpfvkH;? yGJpm;u csdefcGif ... ay;oGm;Muw,f/ tpOftvm rysufatmif
&SifwkdYqDuvJ &rS jzpfr,f}}
usKdUwmxHktm; xefvGefu wD;wdk;ajymvdkufonf/ ]]tif; .. 'gqdk&ifawmh aMu;pm; vlowform; 5
a,mufu 'Dae&mudk usKyfwkdY t&if a&mufcJhMuw,f}}
xefvGefwdkY 2 a,muf &ifxdwfoGm;awmhonf/
aMu;pm; vlowform; 5 a,muf\ udk,fESifhruGm aqmifxm;avh &Sdaom ypnf;rsm;udk &atmif
,lxm;Ekdifonf qkdjcif;u rdef;uav;\ tqifhtwef;udk azmfjyvsuf &Sdawmhonf/
'kwd,wHcg;udk apmifhMuyfaeaomolonfyif rQ odkif;ynm awmfaeonfqkdygu usefwHcg;rsm;rSmrl
qdkzG,f&m r&Sdawmhay/
xefvGefu ar;vkdufonf/ ]]rdef;uav; vdkcsifwmu bmvJ}}
rdef;uav;u toHxGufatmif &,f&if; ]]&SifhqDu iSufcg;a&mif"g; vkdcsifw,f ... }}
jyD;aemuf olru usKdUwmxHktm; Munfh&if; ]]&Sifuawmh wjcm; bmrS rygawmh ... csKdif;axmufyJ
ay;cJhaygh}}
]]usKyf&JU csKdif;axmufudk vdkcsifw,faygh ...}} ajym&if;qdk&if; usKdUwmxHku ol\ csKdif;axmufudk
ajrmufum wdkufcdkuf&ef [efjyifvdkufonf/
xefvGefu ]]rvkyfygeJY usKdUwmxHk/ uJ .. rdef;uav; ... iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk vdkcsif&if ,lygAsm}}
pum;tqHk;wGif iSufcg;a&mif"g;u avxJwGif 0JysHoGm;onf/
xefvGefu vQyfwjyuf wkdufcdkufvkdufjcif; jzpfonf/ rdef;uav;uvnf; vsifonf/ csufcsif;yif
iHkYa&Smifvdkufonf/
odkY&mwGif iSufcg;a&mif"g;u olr\ qHyifrsm;udk ckwfjzwfvsuf wHcg;abmifwGif pdkuf0ifoGm;jyD;
jzpfaeonf/ rdef;uav;u iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk qGJEIwfum aocsmpGm Munfhvdkufonf/ jyD;aemuf

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]&Sifu ay;ayr,fhvnf; uRefru 'Dvdk"g;rsKd;udk xdef;odrf;xm;Edkifr,f rxifygbl;/ &SifyJ jyefodrf;


xm;vdkufyg}}
pum;tqHk;wGif olru jyefvnf ypfay;vkdufonf/ ypfaygufvkdufonfqdkvQif ydk rSefayrnf/
iSufcg;a&mif"g;onf avxkudkcGJvsuf t&Sdefjyif;pGm ajy;0ifvmonf/ xefvGefu tomt,myif zrf;,l
vsuf "g;tdrfxJ jyefxkd;xnfhvkdufonf/
rdef;uav;u olwdkYudk *krpdkufawmhay/ jyefxkdifcsvkdufum ta0;wpfae&modkY ai;armaeonf/
usKdUwmxHku pum; pvkdufonf/ ]]rdef;uav; ...}}
xefvGefu olYudk qGJac:&if; ]]olu usKyfwkdY&JU ypnf;awGudk rxdef;odrf;Edkifbl;vkdY ajymjyD;jyDav}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (20-*)
wwd, twm;tqD;
wwd, wHcg;rSmrl wrl xl;jcm;aeonf/ wHcg; 2 ayguf &Sdaeonf/ wpfaygufu omref jzpfjyD;
usefwpfaygufurl 3 aycefYom jrifhonf/ ab;bufwGif tzGm;tdkwpfa,muf wHjrufvSnf;aeonf/
olr tem;uyfoGm;jyD; usKdUwmxHku ]]tzGm;MuD; usKyfwdkY jzwfoGm;vdkY &ovm;}}
tzGm;tdku em;em;odkY vuf0g;uyfum ]]rif; .. b,folYudk ar;wmvJuG,fh}}
em;av;aeaom tzGm;MuD;udk usKdUwmxHku cyfus,fus,fav; ajymvkdufjyefonf/
]]{nfhonfav .. {nfhonf .. usKyfwkdYu wkpdrf;zkef;qD oGm;rvdkY}}
tzGm;MuD;u ajymcsif&m pGwfajymonf/
]]at;av ... ckeu 5 a,mufu vloGm;wJh taygufu roGm;csifbl;wJh/ [dkzufu taygufao;ao;
av;u acG;wdk;ovdk 0ifoGm;&w,f}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

xefvGefwdkY 2 a,muf wpfa,mufrsufESm wpfa,muf MunfhvdkufrdMuonf/ xdkaMu;pm; vlowform;


rsm;onf odkif;avmuwGif AdkvfusvmonfrSm ESpfESifh csDvsuf&SdMuayjyD/ ae&ma&mufrS olwdkYtwGuf
odum tusMuD; us&jcif;aywnf;/
usKdUwmxHku avoHwif;wif;jzifh ]]usKyfwkdYuawmh acG;wdk;aygufu rwkd;bl;As/ vl0ifaygufuyJoGm;rSm}}
odkY&mwGif tzGm;MuD;url ]]at; .. rif;wdkUuvJ acG;wdk;ovdk wdk;csifw,fudk; .. wkd;Mu? wdk;Mu/}}
ajymjyD;onfESifh olru wpfzufodkYvSnfh wHjrufvSnf; aejyefonf/
xefvGefu usKdUwmxHkudk wHcg;rMuD;qD qGJac:vmonf/ olwdkY 2 a,muf wHcg;udk wGef;zGifh&ef [efjyif
vkdufMuonf/ wGif vl&dyfwpf&dyfu &dyfueJ a&muf&Sdvmonf/
tzGm;tdkyif jzpfonf/
]]w,f ... jzwfoGm;csif&if taygufao;u jzwfMu}}
olru ajymajymqdkqdkjzifh wHjrufpnf;dk;jzifh wkdufckdufvdkufonf/ touft&G,fESifh rvdkufatmif
jrefqefygbdawmif;/
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]]axmuf ... axmuf .. axmuf}}
wHjrufpnf;dk; tydkif;ykdif; jywfawmufoGm;onf/
tzGm;tdk rsufvHk;0dkif;oGm;um
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xefvGefu jyHK;jy&if; ]]rylygeJY tzGm; .. wkpdrf;zkef;qDrSm tzGm;twGuf wHjrufpnf; aemufwpfvuf
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]]rif; .. rif; wu,f ajymwmaemf}}
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]]at;uG,f ... bkef;MuD;ygap ouf&Snfygap}}

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2008

tcef; (20-C)
pwkw axmifacsmuf
pwkw wHcg;rSmrl wHcg;apmifhu tdyfaysmfaeonf/ onfudk Munfhjcif;tm;jzifh pMum &Jwkduf\ wHcg;
3 wefudk jzwfausmf vmEdkifol rnfrQ &Sdonfudk odEdkifayonf/
wHcg;apmifhudk usKdUwmxHku oGm; EId;vdkufonf/
]]AsKdU .. q&mMuD; .. xygOD;As}}
wHcg;apmifhu vefYEdk;oGm;um atmf[pfvkdufonf/
]]b,folawGvJuG ... 'DrSm vmjyD; qlnH qlnHvkyfaewm}}
csufcsif;yif olu tdajEq,fvkdufjyD; xefvGefwkdYudk jyHK;jyvkdufonf/
usKdUwmxHku ]]usKyfwkdYu wkpdrf;zkef;udk awGUzkdY vmMuwmyJ}}
]]atmf .. {nfhonfawGudk; ... MuGyg .. MuGyg .. vkawGolawGeJY a0;wm MumjyDaygh/ usKyfu {nfh0wfawG

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2008

bmawGvJ rodawmhygbl;Asm}}
]]Munhf&wm wHcg;apmifhu ysif;vGef;vdkY tdyfawmif aysmfaeyHkyJ}}
]][kwfygh/ uJ .. cifAsm;wkdY ocifMuD;eJY awGUcsif&if oGm;ayawmh .. usKyfawmh jyeftdyfvkdufOD;r,f/ atmf ..
usKyftdyfaewm ocifMuD;udk rajymeJYaemf}}
]]rajymygbl;Asm}}
wGif wHcg;apmifhu jyeftdyfawmhonf/ xefvGefESifh usKdUwmxHkwdkY 2 a,mufrSm owdMuD;pGm xm;vsuf
wHcg;udk wGef;zGifhvdkufonf/ jyD;aemuf vSrf;0ifvkdufonf/
kwfueJ rnf;rnf;MuD; wpfcku olwdkY acgif;ay: tkyfusvmonf/
ydkufuGefMuD; wpfvufaywnf;/ xefvGefu usKdYwmxHkudk vufwpfzufjzifh wGef;vTwfvdkufjyD; usefwpf
zufjzifh iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk qGJxkwfum a0SU,rf;vkdufonf/
]]axmuf .. axmuf .. axmuf}} ydkufuGefMuD;rSm tydkif;ydkif;jywfum rnfokdYrQ oHk;r&yJ jzpfoGm;awmhonf/
wHcg;apmifhu ckefxvmjyD;
]]oGm;ygjyDAsm/ usKyf yifyifyef;yef; &ufvkyfxm;wJh ydkufuGefawmh ysufpD;ygjyDAs}}
xefvGefu jyHK; ajymvdkufonf/
]]usKyf tpm;wpfck jyef0,fay;yghr,fAsm}}
wHcg;apmifh\ rsufvHk;rsm; 0if;vufoGm;um
]]rif;wpfu,f ajymwmvm;}}
odkYaomf olu csufcsif;yif acgif;cg,rf;vdkufjyD;
]][ifhtif; rjzpfao;ygbl;/ rif;vdkvlrsKd; aemufwpfa,muf a&mufvm&if tJ'DydkufuGefvJ toHk;rus
jzpfoGm;rSmyJ/ aemufwpfenf;MuHOD;rS/}}
olu xkdifcHkwGif xdkifcsvdkufjyD; pOf;pm;aeawmhonf/
xefvGefu wHcg;twGif; vSrf;0ifvkdufonf/ onfwpfMudrfwGifawmh bmrQ rjzpfawmhacs/

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2008

tcef; (20-i)
wHcg; 3 wef

yOr wHcg;wGifrl wHcg;apmifh r&Sdacs/


armif;uav; wpfvHk;om csxm;onf/
wHcg;MuD;uvnf; [if;vif; zGifhxm;onf/
xefvGefu armif;uav;udk wD;vdkufonf/
cPMumaomtcg ajcoHMum;vdkuf&jyD; vlwpfa,muf ajy;0ifvmonf/
]]a[m .. {nfhonfawGygvm; ... cGifhvTwfygAsm/ usKyfvnf; ysif;vGef;vkdY avQmufoGm;aewm}}
]][kwfygw,f/ usKyfwkdYu wkpdrf;zkef;eJY awGUcsifvdkYyg}}

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2008

]]'gjzihf 0ifoGm;ygAsm}}
a&Sma&SmSLSL ay;oGm;aeojzihf xefvGefwdkY tHhMooGm;onf/
]]usKyfwkdY 0ifoGm;&rSmvm;}}
]][kwfuJh .. 0ifoGm;vdkufyg/ atmf .. 'geJY usKyf avQmufoGm;aewm ocifMuD;udk rajymeJYaemf}}
xdkvlu xefvGefwkdYudk tE&m,fray;ojzihf oufoufomom jzwfausmfvmEdkifonf/
qXr wHcg;ESifh owr wHcg;uvnf; xdkYtwlyif jzpfonf/ wHcg;apmifh tzdk;tdk 2 OD; usm;xdk;aeMu
onf/ olwdkYu tmkHudk tysufrcHEdkifMuyHkjzifh vufa0SU,rf;jyMuonf/
odkYjzifh xefvGefwdkY 2 a,muf pMum&Jwkduf\ {nfhcef;aqmif twGif;odkY a&muf&Sdvmawmhonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (21)
pMumvufeuf

wkpdrf;zkef;
pMumvufeufjzifh odkif;avmuwGif xif&Sm;cJhonf/
olu tvGef azmfa&GpGmjzifh xefvGefESifh usKdYwmxHkudk {nfhcHonf/ odkYaomf csL;zdwkdYudk jyefvTwfay;&ef
udkrl rvkdufavsmacs/
]]pMum&JwkdufrSm pnf;urf;awG &Sdygw,f/ 0ifcsifovkd0if? xGufcsifovdk xGufvkdY r&ygbl;/ cifAsm;&JU
rdwfaqGawGu usKyfwkdY rzdwfac:yJ vmw,f/ jyD;awmh jyefxGufoGm;csifwJh tcsdefrSm rvTwfay;awmh usKyf&JU
vlawGudk wkdufcdkufw,f/ olwdkYukd aemuf 5 ESpf zrf;csKyfxm;r,f}}
]]jcGif;csufr&Sdbl;vm; cifAsm}}
]]jcGif;csufvkdY ac:Ekdifwm wpfckawmh &Sdw,f/ pMumvufeufudk wpfem&Dtxd ckcHEdkif&ifawmh tJonfvl&JU
qEudk pMum&Jwkduf ydkif&Sifu vdkufavsm&ygr,f/ ... 'gayr,fh tJonf pnf;urf;udk b,folrS rjynfhrDcJh

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

ao;bl;As}}
xefvGefu ajymvdkufonf/
]]udpr&Sdygbl;/ usKyf prf;Munfhcsifw,f/}}
wkpdrf;zkef;u vufckyf wD;vdkufonf/ wpfcPcsif;rSmyif olwkdY a&SUodkY aowmMuD; wpfvHk; a&mufvm
onf/ wkpdrf;zkef;u zGifhvdkufjyD; pMumvufeufudk xkwf,lvkdufonf/ ,if;onf cRefjraeaom acG;oGm;pdyf
rsm;jzifh wefqmqifxm;onf/ oHygwfay;ae&if;rS wkpdrf;zkef;u xyf ajymvkdufonf/
]]tcktcsdeftxd pMumvufeufudk wpfem&D jynfhatmif ckcHEdkifwJhol r&Sdao;bl;aemf}}
xefvGefu wnfjidrfpGmjzifh acgif;jidwfjyvkdufonf/
wkpdrf;zkef;u pMumvufeufudk ajrmufudkifum vufvTwfvkdufonf/ ]&TD;} ueJ atmfjrnfum ajy;xGuf
oGm;awmhonf/
]&TD;} ueJ toHay;vsuf pMumvufeufu xefvGefYqD ajy;0ifvmonf/ xefvGefu ckefa&Smifvkduf
aomfvnf; vHk;0 rvGwfyJ/ &ifywfwGif aoG;pdkYoGm;&onf/ vufeufonf tcef;wGif;wGif a0h0dkufoGm;jyD;
aemufwpfausmh jyefvmjyefonf/ xefvGef ckefvdkuf &jyefonf/ tuFsD vufpwpfzuf jywfygoGm;;onf/
pMumvufeufonf tvGefw&m jrefqefvSonfudk xefvGef odvdkufonf/ oHygwfukefatmif apmifhae
jcif;onf udk,fhaowGif; udk,fwl;&m a&mufrnf[k oHk;oyfvdkufonf/
awG;ae&if;rSmyif ajy;0ifvmjyefonf/
onfwpfMudrfwGifawmh ra&SmifawmhyJ xefvGefu pdwfudk pl;pdkufum iSufcg;a&mif"g;jzifh ckwfcsvdkuf
onf/
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us,favmifaom toHESifhtwl pMumvufeuf Murf;ay:odkY usoGm;onf/ tydkif;tpav;rsm; jzpfoGm;
avjyD/
wkpdrf;zkef; idkifusoGm;onf/ ol\ vufeuf ysufpD;oGm;&onfudk r,HkEkdifatmif jzpfaeonf/
xefvGefu acR;rsm;udk oyfcsvdkufjyD;
]]usKyfrdwfaqGawGudk ac:oGm;vdkY &jyDvm;}}
wkpdrf;zkef;u twefMum pum; rajymEkdifyJ idkifawGaeonf/ jyD;rS tHwif;wif;Mudwfum vufckyf 2
csufwD;vdkufonf/
wkpdrf;zkef;u olwkdYudk jrif;&xm; wpfpD; ay;vkdufojzihf oufawmifhoufom c&D;ESifEdkifcJhMuonf/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

,ckawmh olwdkY tzGJUonf 5 a,muf jyefjzpfoGm;avjyD/ usif;,Hk rygawmhaomfjim; usKdYwmxHk ygvm


ojzifh jrif;&xm;jzifh oGm;ckduf xefvGef t&ufaomuf&ef tazmf&oGm;onf/
pdwfaysmfojzifhavm? ygykukef;\ aq;pGrf;u xufavm rod/ csL;zduawmh aoG;a&mifvQrf;um ydk
usef;rmvmonf/ wpfcsdefwnf;rSmyif xefvGef uawmh ydk ydefvmavonf/
wpfnwGif csL;zdtaMumif;ESifh pyfvsOf; usKdYwmxHkESifh xefvGef pum;0kdif;zGJU jzpfMuonf/
usKdYwmxHku xefvGefESifh csL;zdudk oabmwlonf/
]]xefvGef/ rif; pdwful;rvGJeJY/ ysHvTm;r,f[m vSw,fqdkayr,fh csL;zdeJY ,SOfvkduf&if vrif;MuD;eJU
ydkpkef;MuL;avmufyJuG}}
xefvGefu jyHK; tomacgif;cgjyvdkufonf/ olYpdwfxJwGif ajymvdkufonfrSmum;
]]usKyfu aovlygAsm}}
tawG;udk,fpDjzifh jidrfoufoGm;onfh tcdkufav;rSmyif va&mifudk wdrfzHk;oGm;onf/
xdkwpfcPwGifyif vl&dyfwpf&dyf zswfueJ ajy;oGm;onfudk usKdYwmxHk awGUvkduf&onf/
olYudk,fol raocsmojzifh wpfzufodkY vSnfhMunfhvkdufonf/
xefvGef r&Sdawmhacs/

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (22)
ysHvTm;r,f

xefvGefum; t&dyfaemufodkY vdkufaeacsjyD/ jrefvGef;vSojzifh rsufajc jywfroGm;ap&ef tm;ukefvkdufae


&onf/ vdkuf&if; ajy;&if;jzihf xdkvlonf rdef;uav; wpfa,muf jzpfrSef; udk,fae[efudk Munfh&if; xefvGef
odvmonf/
odkif;avmuwGif Mu,fysHwpfvHk;? rD;cdk;wef;wpfwef;uJhodkY ajy;vTm;Ekdifaom rdef;uav;rSm wpfa,muf
wnf;om &Sdonf/ olronfum; wpfcsdefu xefvGef toufwpfrQ cspfcJhaom ysHvTm;r,fyif jzpfawmhonf/
vlola0;aom ae&modkY a&mufaomtcg olru &yfvkdufonf/ jyD;aemuf acgif;pGyfudk qGJcRwfvkduf
onf/ aMuGkyfav;vdk vSaom rsufESmav; xGufay:vmonf/ xefvGef ai;Munfhaevkdufonf/
]]rif; .. bmudpvmwmvJ}}
olru olYtar;udk rajzyJ ]]a&Trif;orD;em;u &Sif a&Smifae&if aumif;r,f}}
]]bmjzpfvdkYvJ}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

]]&Sif&ifqdkif&rSm rkefwdkif; jzpfaevdkY}}


]]atmf .. udk,fhudk oem;vdkY rif;u vmjyD; owday;wmudk; ... tif; .. Munfh&wm 'DudprSm rif;a,mufsm;
ywfoufaejyDeJYwlw,f}}
]]&Sif rceJYygeJY}}
]]aumif;ygjyD/ 'gqdkvnf; rceJYawmhygbl;/ 'gayr,fh wpfck ar;prf;yg&ap/ udk,f aoovm; &Sifovm;
rodcifrSm bmjzpfvkdY rif;u wef,dkY[kefeJY vufxyfvdkuf&ovJ}}
ysHvTm;r,fu oufjyif;cs&if; ]]&Sifuawmh uRefrudk tjypfjrifrSmyJaemf/ ... uRefru &Sifhtay:rSm opm
rapmifhbl;vdkY xifrSmyJ/ wu,fawmh ...}}
olru ajym&if;jzihf toHwdrf0ifoGm;onf/
]]rajymrqkdeJY &Sifu ajrmife,fpyfudk oGm;cJhw,f/ jyD;awmh tqdyfrdjyD; aojyDwJh/ 'Dawmh &SifESdrfeif;xm;wJh
'kpdkufaumifawGu acgif;axmifvmwmaygh ... tJonf tcsdefrSm olwdkYu b,folYudkjyefjyD; vufpm;acsr,f
xifovJ/ ...}}
olru tHudk wif;wif;MudwfjyD; qufajymonf/ ]]tJonftcsdefrSm uRefrab;rSm rm;rm;&yfjyD;awmh
umuG,fay;wm wpfa,mufyJ &Sdw,f/ olu olY&JU rdwfaqGawGudk qefYusifjyD;awmh &yfay;cJhwm ... tJonf
awmh ...}}
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olYpdwfxJrSrl ]wef,dkY[kef .. rif;u odyfvnfwJhaumif/ ig ajrmife,fudk oGm;oGm;csif; aemufa,mifcH
vkdufcJhw,f/ tqdyfrdwmeJY csufcsif;yJ odkif;avmuxJudk igaojyDqdkjyD; owif;vTifhvdkufw,f/ odyfvnfwJh
aumif/ ajrGbk&if&JU tqdyfudk rdwJhvluvJ rao&ifawmif odkif;avmuxJ jyefjyD;awmh 0ifvmrSm r[kwfbl;
av/ wpfcsdefwnf;rSm vlrdkufawGudk wpfzufvSnfheJY wdkufay;/ jyD;rS jyefu,f/ ysHvTm;r,fudk t,HkoGif; ...}}
xefvGefu jrdKodyfvsuf ]]aumif;ygjyD/ tck rif;a,mufsm;qDudk jyefoGm;ygawmh ... olpdwfylaeOD;r,f}}
ysHvTm;r,fu ajcwpfcsufaqmihfum ]]bmvJ &Sifu uRefrajymwm r,Hkbl;ayghav}}
]],HkEdkifp&m taMumif;r&Sdbl;uG/ wef,dkY[kefudk igu taMumif;od/ 'Daumif b,favmuf aumufuspf
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]]&Sif;av .. tJ .. b,fjzpfrvJ ... awGUrdvdkufwmeJY &SifwkdY 2 a,muf owfMurSmaygh}}
]]bmvJ rif;a,mufsm; aooGm;rSmpdk;vdkYvm; .. pdwfcsyg/ rif;a,mufsm;udk igrowfbl;}}
]]tJ'gqkd&if reufjzef nae jrdKUxJu pm;aomufqdkifudk vmcJhrvm;/ olYudk uRefr wpfzufvSnfheJY vTwf
vkdufr,f/ &SifwkdY 2 a,muf rsufESmcsif;qdkif awGUjyD; ar;Munfh/ uRefr acsmif;jyD; em;axmifaer,f/ 'gayr,fh
&Sifhuwdudk rarhygeJY/ &SifolYudk rowf&bl;aemf}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (23)
"g;rif;om; wef,dkY[kef
aemufwpfaeY nae/
xefvGef wpfa,muf pm;aomufqkdifa&SU arSmif&dyf wpfae&mwGif &yfapmifhaeonf/ ol ae&mokdY
vmrnfhtaMumif;udk usKdYwmxHrSvGJ rnfolrQ rod/
rMumygacs/ wef,dkY[kef avQmuf0ifoGm;onf/ olu rif;om;wpfyg;ES,f awmufajymifvGef;aeonf/
xefvGefum; olawmif;pm;uJhodkY pkwfcsmaeonf/ wef,dkY[kefum; xefvGefudk rjrifyJ wpfa,mufwnf;
pm;p&mrsm;udk rSmaeonf/
xefvGefu qkdifxJ 0ifoGm;um tedrfhtjrifh twuftus r&Sdaom avoHjzifh ar;vkdufonf/
]]'Dpm;yGJrSm usKyfxkdifvdkY&rvm;}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

wef,dkY[kefu t&ufwpfcGufudk aomuf&if; r&[laom trlt&mjzifh vufa0SU,rf;jyonf/


odkYaomf csufcsif;yif olu rSwfrdoGm;[efjzifh aomufvufp t&ufyef;uefudk csum jyL;Munfhonf/
wapo&Judk awGUonfhtvm;yif/
]]rif;u bmvkyfcsifvdkYvJ}}
]]pm&if;&Sif;zdkY}}
]][m; [m; MudKufjyDa[h/ 'DrSm &Sif;rvm; jrdKUjyif ocFsKdif;rSm &Sif;rvm;}}
]]vl&Sif;wJhae&m oGm;Muwmaygh}}
wef,dkY[kefu aiGwHk; wpfwHk;udk pm;yGJay: [efygyg ypfwifvkdufum vTm;ueJ qkdifxJrS xGufoGm;onf/
xefvGef aemufrS vdkufoGm;onf/ olwkdYaemufodkY ysHvTm;r,f vdkufvmrnfudk tvdkvdk odaeonf/

jrdKUjyif ocFsKdif;
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]]rif;ao&awmhr,f xefvGef}}
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wef,dkY[kef\ rsufESm rnf;arSmifoGm;onf/
]]xGD .. igu aorSm r[kwfbl;uG? rif;vdk it r[kwfbl;}}
]]rif;u awmfawmf &ufpufwJhvlyJ wef,dkY[kef}}
]]rif;u bmudkMunhfjyD;awmh ajymwmvJ}}
]]ig ajrmife,fpyfrSm tqdyfrdrdcsif; odkif;avmuxJrSm iSufcg;a&mif"g; r&Sdawmhbl;vdkY owif;jyefYoGm;
w,f/ 'g[m wpfa,mufa,mufu vkyfMuHw,fqdkwm &Sif;ygw,f/ aemufjyD;awmh oJuEm& 0HykavG 3
aumif ighudkvmjyD; vkyfMuHwm&,f aygif;vkduf&if w&m;cH[m rif;yJ jzpf&r,f}}
]][m;[m; ... xefvGef ... rif;awG;wm rSefygw,f/ 'gayr,fh rif;aemufusoGm;jyD ... rif;[m
ajrmife,fpyfudk b,folYudkrS taMumif;rMum;yJ oGm;cJhw,f/ tqdyfrdw,f/ igu 'DtcGifhta&;udk b,fvuf

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

vGwfcHrvJ/ rif; tqdyfrdw,fvkdY Mum;wmeJY odkif;avmuxJrSm rif;aojyD;qdkjyD; owif;vTifhvkduf w,f/


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vHSwdk wpfacsmif;jzihf wkdufckdufvdkufonf/ olwkdY 3 a,mufonf vsifjrefpGmyif jydKifwl wkdufppfqifMujcif;


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olYtpfudk\ tavmif;udk ayGU,l&if; xGufcGmoGm;awmhonf/

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xefvGefu ajymvkdufonf/
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2008

0ifvmolrSm ysHvTm;r,fyif jzpfawmhonf/


wef,dkY[kefrSm rsuf&nfaygufMuD;rsm; usvmjyD;
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&ef rarQmfvifhEdkifrSef; odaomfvnf; orm;awmfxHokdY ac:aqmifoGm;vkdonf/ odkY&mwGif olr\ vif
a,mufsm; wef,dkY[kef &Sdaeonf r[kwfygvm;/
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xefvGef\ rsufESm&dyfudk Munfhum usKdYwmxHk bmrQ rar;acs/
olwdkY 2 a,muf wdwfqdwfpGm jyefcJhMuonf/

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2008

tcef; (24)
aysmufaomol jyefa&mufvmjcif;

a&SUquf&rnfh c&D;pOfESifh ywfouf tMudwfte,f wkdifyifaqG;aEG;jyD;aemuf a&vrf;jzifh oGm;ra,mif


jyum jrif;&xm;jzihf wdwfwdwfuav; oGm;Mu&ef oabmwlvkdufMuonf/
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xkdtcsdefwGif rarQmfvifhol wpfa,muf a&mufvmonf/
wef,dkY[kef/
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wef,dkY[kefu vuf0g;umjy&if;
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csifw,f ... a&Trif;orD;udk igh toufeJYvJjyD; umuG,fay;r,f/}}

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2008

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]]cdkif;Munfhyg/ igao&if aooGm;ygap .. vkyfyghr,f}}
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yif avSMuD; xGufoGm;awmhonf/
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odkY&mwGif tE&m,fum; rukefao;acs/ ,ckrS ydkyif aMumufrufzG,f aumif;vmawmhonf/
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]]usif;,Hk}}
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axmuf&ef owif;pHkprf; aeaMumif;yif jzpfawmhonf/
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2008

xefvGefu ar;vkdufonf/
]]tJonfrSm b,folawG apmifhaevJ}}
usif;,Hku vuf 3 acsmif;axmifjy&if; ]]vl 3 a,mufyg/ rdk;ajrpGrf;tm;&Sif xdpGrf;? Mu,fwHcGef
tzdk;tdkeJY usm;ajconf; eDcGrf;}}
xdk 3 a,mufum; teufa&mif odkif;avmu\ t"dywdrsm;yifwnf;/
xefvGef oufjyif;csvdkufonf/

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2008

tcef; (25)
MuufzMuD;ESifh t&uform;

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pl;&Saom toHwpfcku eHeufcif;udk xkd;azmuf xGufay:vmonf/ MuufwGefoHESifh rwlaom
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vlwpfa,mufu &yfapmifhaeonfudk awGUvdkuf&onf/
MuufzMuD;
qHyifrsm;udk MuuftarmufozG,f axmifaeatmif jyKvkyfxm;aom vlwpfa,muf ...
xefvGefu ajy;oGm;um &ifqdkifvdkufonf/ usKdUwmxHku ajy;vdkufvmonf/ odkY&mwGif olu aemuf
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xyfrHxGufay:vmawmhonf/
xefvGefu jyHK;um ajymvdkufonf/

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2008

]]onfvlawGavmufeJY usKyfudk &ifqdkif&Jw,faygh}}


MuufzMuD;u &,fvkduf&if;
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Mum;vdkuf&onf/
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pdwfoabmudk aumif;pGm em;vnfxm;ol jzpfonfhtwkdif; aemufvSnfhajy;awmhonf/
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onf/ atmfoHrsm;ESifh twl MuufzMuD;\ vlrsm; vJusoGm;awmhonf/
MuufzMuD;\ aemufausmrS iSufcg;a&mif"g;udk qGJEkwfum jrif;vSnf;qDodkY tajy;jyefvmcJhonf/
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rarQmfvifhaom vlwpfa,mufudk awGUvkduf&onf/
]wef,dkY[kef} xefvGef EIwfrS a&&Gwfvkdufrdonf/
]]xefvGef ... olu t&uform;udk owfypfvkdufw,f}} orm;awmfMuD;ESifh txdef;awmfMuD;wdkUu ajym
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]]rif;bmvmvkyfwmvJ}}
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]]rif; ... vSnf;aemufu jrif;eJY vkdufcJhaygh}}
odkYjzifh wef,dkY[kefonfvnf; olwkdYESifhtwl ygvmawmhonf/

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2008

tcef; (26)
c&D;vrf;qHk;

wa&GUa&GUjzifh olwkdYonf wdAufe,fESifh eD;pyfvmacsjyD/ csL;zdrSm olYcrnf;awmfESifh awGU&rnfhtwGuf


aysmfaeonf/
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xefvGefu ar;vdkufonf/
]]txdef;awmfMuD; ... wdAufeef;wGif;u qdkwmudk jrifwmeJY vlawG odavmufr,fh txdrf;trSwfrsKd;
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txdef;awmfMuD;u ysmysmovJjzifh ]]ygygw,f ... a[monf wHqdyfjym;udk jyvdkuf&if rif;orD;av;&JU
vlrSef; odEdkifygw,f/}}

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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

xefvGefu xdkwHqdyfjym;udk vSrf;,lvdkuf&if;


]]usif;,Hk .. onfwpfMudrfawmh cifAsm;udk tm;udk;&rSmyJ ...}}
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tcef; (27)
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2008

vG,fvG,feJY tEdkif&r,f xifovm;/ aovkajrmyg; wkdufcdkuf&vdrhfr,f/ 'DjyefvmEdkif&if uHaumif;yJ/


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u aMumufvGef; ESvHk;aoG; &yfoGm;Ekdifayonf/

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tcef; (28)
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2008

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2008

tcef; (29)
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2008

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2008

ol\ vuf0g;ESpfzufvHk; eD&Jae\/


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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

tcef; (30)
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aea&mifjcnfu tcef;wGif; xdk;0ifaeonf/


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ao&Gmjyef "g;orm;\ vGrf;0dnmOf

2008

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2008

usKdYwmxHku wkef,ifpGmjzifh
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