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THE APPROACH

Opener Compilation + Bad Opens


Overall Strategy
Evolutionary Psych Primer
Opener Sets Tone
Pre-Open
Social Proof
Fun
No Choding Over
Mindset
Blank/Clear
Talkative
Aroused
+20% I’m the Shit
Appearance Of Spontaneity
Go Immediately
I’ve Never Done This Before But I’m Perfect At It
Venues
Set Types
Angles
(Bad Angles)
Approach Like You Already
Know Them
(Date Approaches)
THE OPEN
Tonality
TR, NR, BR
Opener + Next 20 Seconds
(Premature Ejeculation)
Direct Vs Indirect
The Gradient
(Opening With A Close)
Frame vs Words
(Bad Frames)
Good Student Infield
Guessing The Blueprint
Venue + Girl
Opener List/Creator
You’re cute who are you. (various degrees)
Hi, I’m (NAME)
I need your opinion on x… story
Question… direct
You look like trouble, You seem x but also y (push pull)
You seem very, or You’re so
“yuck” , “ew”
Physical openers + plant and stare
Non verbal gesture opners
BEST: Whatever Comes Spontaneously
Persistence
Entitlement
Cycling the Opener
(Recoveries)
Short Compilation
HOOK
The Process For HER
F-ocus
R-elevance
E-motion
D-ecision
The Process For YOU
F-ocus
A-rrogance
M-aintain
E-scalate
Techniques:

Illusory Feedback, Tense Silence (Ryan Gosling


Method), Open Loops, Multiple Threads
Shit Test Passing
Ignore, Agree And Exaggerate, Misinterpret
(Examples)
ATTRACTION
The Conversation Funnel
(Quick Instant Dates)
Straight Line Persuasion
(Putting It All Together)
APPROACH ANXIETY
Chemical In Body
Threat to Ego/Identity
Solutions
1. Build Chemical Tolerance
2. Change Frame, So No Chemicals Created
Action Solution
Gun To The Head Technique
Philosophy Solution
Never Reject Yourself - Assign Pain There

Bad Approach = Victory


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