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I know what he would say, “Move on. Stop crying over me.” But I couldn’t believe
that I had not thought of him. I felt as though I had betrayed his spirit somehow.
Like his memory was not as important to me now that I had let him slip my mind.
I felt guilty. Guilty that I was not honoring his life by grieving as hard as I once had.
There seemed to be no middle ground. It hurt so badly – then it didn’t – and now I
felt so guilty.
Could a person remember without sadness or
recuperate without guilt? I remember resolving in my
mind that I wanted to climb off this crazy cycle. I wanted
to move on to healthy and ‘normal’ grief. I would like to
share some things that I’ve felt through my journey.
You may still have moments of overwhelming sadness. You may have days that you
don’t think of your loved one. You may have pangs of guilt for not thinking of them
for a period of time. Congratulations!
You are human. This is part of the
grieving process. Don’t get swallowed
up by guilt. Keep telling yourself that
it’s OK to move forward. It doesn’t
mean you have stopped missing your
loved one or loving them any less. It
means that your heart is beginning
to beat again. If you need our help,
we are just a phone call away. Call us
anytime at (269) 441-9300.
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