"Understanding The Self"

Activity 4

Name: Angelica G. Villanueva Date: September 16, 2019

Course/Year/Section: BAMM-1A Instructorr: Mrs. Crozette P. Coronel

Some people, it's easy for them to jugded not just jugde but not a good judgement. To gave a judgement
to one person. Even they don't know that person and without knowing what they've going through. But,
I can't blame them, because that's one of our characters. Yes, we have all different perspective in life. But
do you think it is right to say that one person is not true to herself/himself, is that because his/her
personality doesn't meet your expectation or your perspective? For me, it's a big big no.... Because we all
have a different perception in everything and we all have bad attitude and sometimes they just mis-
interpret one person.

In some many cases there a lot of people that mis-interpret me, my personality, my character and traits.
Like they say I'm rude, not friendly, unfit to reach out to others, and above all they think I'm useless. But,
sorry they are all wrong. Some says, sometimes I'm very quiet, shy and rugged. This sayings are true it
comes of my personality. There's a times that I'm so quiet, I am very shy and there are situations that
would upset me.

I am a type of person, who sometimes wants to be alone. The type who doesn't want to talk--Because
sometimes I just wanted to be quiet in my world, sometimes wherever I go I walk by myself. Because I'm
used to being alone sometimes. That's why I learned to be an independent person. If other's say I'm not
friendly, it's because I'm the type of person who's really shy--especially when I see you. You have to show
up for me just a smile or say hi. Expect me to talk to you first. It just that I don't want to be embarrassed
'that when I smile or talk to you, you have no response to me'. But the truth is I have a lots of friends and
close inside and outside of campus. Because I know how to adapt in any situation, but If I know that you
want to influence in wrong doing and it would affect me and you. I am not going to adapt with you. And
once I became comfortable with you, I will show you all, how crazy I am, And all I show in you it's all
true, that is my character and personality. And if it does'nt meet the perception of others, I don't blame
them, the important is I know to myself who's really me.

I'm also the type of person who's nature is kind, helpful to others and to friends, lover, I'm also a kind of
that I will always remember you. And you can count on me 'na maaasahan mo ko'. This traits never
erased in me, because when I was a child, I've learned it and I acquired it to my surroundings. That until
now it always in me. On the other hand, there's a times that I became 'masungit' but in a right place.
Some because of the surroundings, lot of needs to do, especially if my surroundings are so noisy. I just
don't like too noisy. It is natural in us to be like that. But, that's not mean na 'masungit ako kasi masungit
lang talaga ko'. It's all have reason behind. It depends on the people if they see it as a negative attitude,
because they just base on what they see without analysing the situation. And this is wrong, just why they
mis-interpret also one person.

In many situation, I'm a person who afraid and doesn't want to hurt the feelings of others, in any words I
will say, any wrong act I will do. It's okay for me if I'm the one who will be hurt, because if I'll be the
reason I will always remember it and it will remain in my head. Even if it's small or big thing. It's been a
big deal to me.

And because I don't want them to feel what I felt when I'm in that situation. Cause I know how it hurts---
that sometimes instead of helping to build one's self confidence, nababawasan pa. And worst, that's why
some people wanted to be alone or it's better for them to be lonely, it is because also the way on how
they will be treated by the others. Also, because there's a type of person like me---that they will not say
to you na 'nasasaktan na siya' because like me "I'm easy tempered, but once it below in the belt I will say
it to you." but I will not going to do what you do. Or sometimes, I will just be too quiet and will not talk
to you all day. Until, you will realize what wrong did you do.

I'm not also the kind of person who is 'nagtatanim ng sama ng loob sa isang tao' I easily forgiven anyone,
but if the things you do is too harsh. Yes I will forgive you, but doesn't mean our closeness will be still the
same either. Ofcourse if I hurt too much, and 'natapakan mo pagkatao ko.'

Lastly, I'm the kind of person that gives effort in every thing I do, and to some people that became part
of my life--like doing doodle, long letters, explosion box. Even you did not do an effort. It's okay for me,
because I don't wish any return. As long as you're important to me, even I'm not. I will do some efforts
just for you. Because I know how to value person, and if I know that some people don't know their
value. I will be the one to show up in you that you are so especial, especially if you are so kind to me, and
if I want to you stay and be part of my journey forever. That whatever happens, our friendship will be
stay the same. And nothing will changed. That's how I value especial people in my life.

Any efforts, for me is a big effort. This shows how especial a person for you is.
There's saying that "Not all you see is true, and not all you didn't see is not true. It's really true. It just like
a person that always show to you that he/she so kind, but never show in you some of his/her bad
attitude.This come up with "Not all you see is true". Because we all have bad attitude not only a good
attitude. And not because a person says he/she is kind, doesn't mean he/she not doing good things. And
this come up with "Not all you didn't see is not true. Because there's some people don't see some
people doing good things, they only see their bad side.