focus when I am anxious. 2. When I am low spirited, I tend to feel negative about everything. 3. I get pessimistic and easily get suicidal thoughts after going through a rough, stressful day. 4. I have difficulty making decisions and mistrust my judgements. (cognitive difficulties) 5. I tend to get emotional/cry or laugh inappropriately at an uncertain time due to work load/pressure. 6. I tend to break things when I am annoyed or irritated. 7. I tend to stay alone when I go through a tough and stressful day. 8. When I am frazzled due to a lot o pressure, I feel impulsive, pent up and ready to explode. 9. I binge or have a loss of appetite when I am tired. 10. I show lack of initiative-ness and inability to cope when I am overwhelmed with work load. 11. Under stress, I experience dermatological issues. 12. When I am tensed, my hands tremble or sweat.
13. I either tend to sleep too much
or have sleeping difficulties when I am upset. 14. I feel tired for no apparent reason. 15. I get headaches when I am under pressure or burdened with work. Sl.No. Statements Very Often Sometimes Rarely Very Often Rarely (5) (4) (3) (2) (1) 1. The amount of work and responsibilities to attend to makes me stressed out. 2. Persisting family conflicts have a negative impact on me. 3. Examinations overwhelm me. 4. I am conscious about my physical appearance . 5. I find that I do not have time for any interests/hobbies outside work. 6. I am unable to cope with too many unachievable deadlines to meet in school/life. 7. Sitting in traffic annoys me. 8. I tend to give up what I am working on due to incapability of coping with the work load. 9. I am unable to maintain healthy work-life balance. 10. I feel angry because of things that are outside my control. 11. My personal health issues add on to my stress. 12. I do not feel confident about my ability to handle personal problems with certain school/class issues. 13. I tend to isolate myself or find myself unable to socialise when I am anxious or upset. 14. My parents high expectations has got me tensed. 15. I get into negative self-talk due to work pressure.
(Cambridge Studies in Social and Emotional Development) Ofra Mayseless - Parenting Representations - Theory, Research, and Clinical Implications-Cambridge University Press (2006)