From the very beginning of my college life, I have been suffering from laziness
and loneliness. I was an introvert since my childhood but was curious over learning things with hardworking nature. slowly my loneliness turned me up into a lazy guy not interested in learning anything.
The fear inside me that has been growing for a long time, that restricted me to talk with new people or to share something with your friends to open up freely. It kept limits to my imaginative power and I tried a lot to get over it and waited for someone, a true friend, who might help me to get over this fear. I kept all my secrets inside me and also feared to share my personal problems with anyone and suffered a lot due to lack of guidance for those problems. I had no idea how to face them and they ruined my childhood. I never understood why I felt like that, everyone around me was free, roaming with friends, enjoying themselves without any worries, but I was more sensitive even towards very small issues and so couldn't get many friends to speak freely. every time when I try to talk with someone or to share anything with someone something inside me resists very hard not to do that and due to lack of confidence over myself and also due to the lack of support I failed many times.
Symptoms : loneliness and fear inside me destroyed my creative which made me always to think about myself and my position in this world, every time I think about it I felt myself like a loser without any talents, not capable of anything. even though I tried hard to gather things which made me feel better and gave me confidence but this fear dominated everything else. Along with the loneliness slowly I was unable to concentrate on things and started neglecting them. along with the fear slowly laziness grown inside me, but no one was out there to help me. Even though in this process of destruction, a major part was mine, but I felt like there was a scarcity of support from outside.
Tools : I was very curious to learn music because I thought it can become a way to build up my self-confidence and also I thought I could find a way through it to communicate with people but I wasn’t able to learn it in school. Now I started learning a musical instrument that truly helped me to make my thoughts positive and enhanced my self-confidence levels. And I started working with a group and helped to conduct some events which helped me a lot to communicate with people, I got some friends who can take care of me, maybe not the best but they will surely help me when I’m in trouble. It also helped me to reduce stage fear, also I found someone with whom I can share my thoughts and I can get guidance in my life.
Conclusion : The reprogramming is still under process, I and think that I can overcome through these viruses soon. I started realizing how things are working and started understanding the situations and understanding how to react according to the situation. I know that still, I can feel the presence of those viruses but I also know that the process of attaining proper functioning of my system is progressing fast.