receive ideas ,opinions etc. to others through two different forms of communication: • Verbal • Non verbal Verbal Communication • It means communicating with words, written or spoken. • It is communication in which we use words or symbols to express our ideas. • Oral (Spoken) • Written Oral Communication Benefits: Immediate feedback Short sentences / words Focus on personal relation Precise time & positive result Demerits: Less detail Not suitable for technical information Written communication Benefits: Longer sentence /words Focus on detail Accurate figures Permanent record / documentation Demerits: Delay in feedback /actions Time consuming Non-Verbal communication • The communication does not involve words is called non-verbal communication . It runs side by side with verbal communication. • According to Albert ,out of total impact of message ,spoken or written words is 7 % ,and vocal impact i.e. of pitch ,volume ,speed and extra sound is 38 % and purely non-verbal impact i.e. of facial expressions ,gestures etc. is 55%. • Nonverbal communication skills are essential and can make it easier to convey your point and to read what others are trying to tell you. Some people seem to come by these skills quite naturally, but anyone can improve their nonverbal skills with practice. Non-Verbal communication Components of Non-Verbal communication Nonverbal signals include i. Facial expressions ii. Postures ,gestures ,movements iii. Vocal Characteristics/Voice and sound iv. Personal appearance v. Smell and touch vi. Time and space Facial expressions Your face is the primary vehicle for expressing your emotions; it reveals both the type and the intensity of your feelings. Your eyes are especially effective for indicating attention and interest, influencing others, regulating interaction, and establishing dominance. Facial expressions • Its reveal one’s hidden emotions like anger ,confusion, enthusiasm, love ,surprise, uncertainty ,fear ,joy ,respect etc. • Eyes plays most important role in the facial expressions. • Direct eye contact conveys confident • Lowered eyes conveys shyness and dishonesty. • A tongue pressed between teeth may indicate that sender has committed has mistake or is sorry. Postures ,gestures ,movements The way you position and move your body expresses both specific and general messages, some voluntary and some involuntary. Many gestures—a wave of the hand, for example—have specific and intentional meanings. Other types of body movement are unintentional and express more general messages. Slouching, leaning forward, fidgeting (small movements, especially of the hands and feet, through nervousness), and walking briskly are all unconscious signals that can reveal whether you feel confident or nervous, friendly or hostile, assertive or passive, powerful or powerless. Postures ,gestures ,movements • Actions speak louder than words. • A posture is a way a person carries himself. He consciously or unconsciously chooses to stand ,sit ,shift to express his interest in matter of discussion. • Gestures are movement of hands ,arms ,shoulders and head ,which describe or emphasize something.( traffic direction by a warden) • Posture is the way you position your body or arrange your limbs. So stand up straight, put your shoulders back, and lift that chin up. Postures ,gestures ,movements Vocal characteristics./Voice and sounds (paralanguage) Voice carries both intentional and unintentional messages. A speaker can intentionally control pitch, speed, and stress to convey a specific message. For instance, compare What “ are you doing?” and “What you are doing?” Unintentional vocal characteristics can convey happiness, surprise, fear, and other emotions (for example, fear often increases the pitch and the pace of your speaking voice). Voice and sounds (paralanguage) • The quality ,voice, volume ,speed and pitch of the voice and the sound of coughing ,sneezing etc. convey some meanings . • The variations in volume ,tone convey to the listener inside feelings and emotions of the speaker . • Loud voice indicate anger and urgency. • Fast voice indicate nervousness. • Soft voice indicate calming. • Sudden change may sound artificial or dramatic. Appearance People respond to others on the basis of their physical appearance, sometimes fairly and other times unfairly. Although an individual’s body type and facial features impose limitations, you can control grooming, clothing, accessories and hairstyle. If your goal is to make a good impression, adopt the style of the people you want to impress. Movements involve the feet and legs . It show your confidence and interest . Appearance • It conveys nonverbal impressions that affect receivers attitudes toward the verbal message even before they read or hear them • Following are include in this: Effect on Written message (Size, color, weight, postage, title page, envelops, neatness and format) may impress the receiver as “important,” “routine,” or “Junk” mail, Telegram, Mailgrams, Express Mail, and private courier mail also have distinctive envelopes that signal urgency and importance. Effect on Oral message (Personal appearances; clothing, hairstyles, neatness, jewelry, cosmetic, surroundings; room size, furnishings) Effect appearance on written messages • The colour, size ,quality of the envelop , the choice of paper and medium of communication send very strong signals to the receiver. • And then length of the message ,its format . • Finally language , spelling ,grammar etc. gives some extra message and impress the receiver. Effect appearance on oral messages • Oral messages affected by two elements which can be studied under the following: Personal appearance Appearance of surroundings Personal appearance
• Includes clothing ,hairstyle ,neatness,
jewelry etc. • These things convey a strong impression regarding occupation ,nationality ,social and economic level. Appearance of surroundings
• Include location ,room size ,furniture ,wall
decoration , lighting ,windows etc. • They show taste ,habits etc. of a particular thing. Smell and Touch Touch is an important way to convey warmth, comfort, and reassurance—as well as control. Touch is so powerful, in fact, that it is governed by cultural customs that establish who can touch whom and how in various circumstances. In the United States and Great Britain, for instance, people usually touch less frequently than people in France or Costa Rica do. Even within each culture’s norms, however, individual attitudes toward touch vary widely. A manager might be comfortable using hugs to express support or congratulations, but his or her subordinates could interpret those hugs as a show of dominance or sexual interest. Touch is a complex subject. The best advice: When in doubt, don’t touch. Smell and Touch • Fragrance and smell carried by the speaker on his body ,speak of his taste and habits which ultimately cause the affect the receiver /audience. • And touch of the person can convey warmth ,friendship ,anger ,love etc. • Put a person on back show on encouragement. • Shake hand to be social and polite. Smell and Touch Like touch, time and space can be used to assert authority, imply intimacy, and send other nonverbal messages. For instance, some people try to demonstrate their own importance or disregard for others by making other people wait; others show respect by being on time. Similarly, taking care not to invade private space, such as standing too close when talking, is a way to show respect for others. Keep in mind that expectations regarding both time and space vary by culture. Improving Nonverbal Communication Skills Time • The time spent in waiting may have a bad effect on person waiting . Also time spent in meeting indicates degree of relationship between speaker and listener. • Concepts of time and space are culture specific. Effective communicator adapt to senders and receivers expectations • Examples Americans and Germans are quite punctual. Middle eastern business people think little of arising after an agreed upon time. If you arrived on time for a meeting in Portugal, you host might wonder why you came so early. Space • Means distance between two persons. • In the Unite d States, the need for personal space in a two person conversation is about 18 inches Sign language • Every sign is symbol and everything around us has a symbolic meaning . Visual symbols: include pictures ,cartoons ,paintings ,maps etc. Audio symbols: include horns ,doorbells ,alarms etc. How Silence, Time and Space Communicate • Silence, time and space can communicate more than you may think even causing hard feelings, loss of business, and profits. Silence • When we make a request or ask a question , we expect the receiver to give a reply ,if he /she is silent for a considerable time ,we may develop a feeling of irritation ,assume other one is confused. THANKS
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