THE FREEDOM OF TRUE HAPPINESS

When can we say if we are living with true happiness? Is it what we feel or what we see?
Happiness is an overwhelming emotion that can be widespread through various ways.
Happiness may commence through spending time with family or going to the mall with friends.
There are even instances wherein happiness becomes ourselves for want or pleasure. Killing
your enemies may be one of the reasons why you are happy. Wanting things from others with
greed also makes one happy. Good or bad may result complete happiness. Is it really true
happiness? If happiness is widespread, why are there times we are happy and the others don't
seem to be happy at all?
"Happiness is a choice", one of the famous quotes about happiness, delineates that it is
through the responsibility of the person that results to his or her own happiness. This happiness
seems to be out of hand sometimes since we are given the freedom to be happy and to choose
who and how are we going to be happy. What is freedom? Freedom is a huge debt of choices
given by the human mind. Every debt has its own consequences, whether bad or good. Are we
really free? According to morality, when we say free, we are to do something without harming
anyone. Freedom is the result of the true personality that still instills you even before. Showing
your freedom is a sign of being brave. Hence, you come up with the result of being happy. There
are times that we become happy when we hurt someone because of something. Example, in
love, if you would want to revenge your mate from creating a third party; you would come up with
the decision to separate with him or her. You have hurt the feelings of your mate and your
feelings but you would think it is the best way there is. You had the freedom to decide about it.
Every decision should make your outcome as happy as you would expect even if it hurts.
Happiness can hurt you. Any decision that comes out of your freedom which will make you
happy is, indeed, need of acceptance. How do we imply true happiness? True happiness is
when you are free to decide on things that would best benefit another instead of hurting towards
another. When we use our own happiness; we are not engaging our true happiness. In addition,
it violates the purpose of freedom. Hence, everything become useless.
Even though we came to past wherein we are in the state of our own happiness. True
happiness is what we see and not what we feel. When we feel things, we are in big chance of
being selfish. When we see things, we disregard what we want and be truly happy. We are given
the chance to decide of our own happiness. Every happiness should not only be for you but also
for others as well.