Subject: my husband is in relationship with another women

that is why I have problem with him .

Respected sir,
I am Arifa Sanjay Singh. I had a love marriage. I know my
husband and in talks with since my school days. We had an
affair in the year 2000. In 2008 we got married according to
hindu Marriage act (Court marriage).after marriage we were
living with our respective parents. Till 2 yrs I was at my
mother’s house as per instructed by my husband.on 25thdec
2010 along with police protection I went to my husband’s
house.on 21st of Jan they had kept my Marriage reception. On
that day also my Husband Sanjay had heavily drunked. My in
laws used to torture me a lot. they used to not allow me to go
any where.entire day they forced me to do household work and
and I used to remain awake till 2 am because my in laws had
fast food chain business. They earn daily 1500 rs. I lived with
my inlaws for 6-8 months. My in laws used to not let me
interact with my parents. My husband used to not take care of
me and in laws used to torture me for doing household work.
One fine my parents vcame to meet me. they asked to
accompany then . but my in laws refused to let me go but after
lot of request they send me to my parental house.after coming
to my parental house I discussed everything with my
parentshow my in laws tortured me. my mother advised to file
case in court of law. On the hearing in court my husband sanjay
asked me to withdraw the case and said we will have a
seperate accommodation and also he will convert to Islam.
After that we did Nikah in Mosque on 11 April at JAma
Masjid Bandra.my husband’s name was changed from Sanjay
Singh to Mohammed. Then on 27thjune 2011 we gave
Reception. Then we purchased a hose on Rent . everything
thing was fine after that. Then on July 2013 I gave birth to a
female child. i used to stay at Bhagat Singh Nagar Goregoan.
We lived there for a duration of 3-5 yrs. wen my child turned
older I got her admitted in a school ion Jogeswari.
There is a small mall at near my husband’s shop. My
husband started having an affair with one female working in
that mall. It is going on since 7-8 months. We started having
misunderstandings n fights after that women came in my
husband’s life.from past 4-5 months he started hitting me and
abusing me and constant kept himself involved in his mobile
phone. He started blackmailing me and threatening me.
On 25thjulyReshma says that she loves sanjay a lot. I
took Reshma in front of my inlaws and my parents. I have in
evidence Sanjay and Reshma’s photo’s ,voice msgs and their
status. I live in a Rented house. Since 1 ½ month he is not living
with me and my daughter anymore.hedosent even bears our
expenses. He is staying with my inlaws. On 28th August my
husband was threatening to kill himself by hanging to death
..when I stopped him he started hitting me. that girl Reshma
threatens me that she do N.C. with the poice station or kill
herself.
Phone nos. of Sanjay Ram ManoharSngh.
Room no. 506, B wing ,Mith Nagar, some Society, A.G. Road
Goregoan west. Mumbai 400062.
Mobile no. 9920408139 sanjay Singh.
ReshmaTiwari
9082203019 Santacruz
ArifaShaikh
9665642956/8108749064.
Sir I am very much harassed because of all the things happened
to me. please give me some solution, I am very much depended
on WOMENS CELL, Mumbai police and sir urself. Please help
me.
 From Jan 2000 our relationship started. Our relationship
lasted only for a month. Thereafter till 6 years we dint pursue
our relationship. Then v became frns to each other. V fought a
lot during this duration. Then v started meeting quite often and
things went further, and then we decided v should marry each
other. But I refused because I was a muslimand he was hindu.
But then due to his constant efforts in making me understand
that it is ok to get married though we belong to different
religion I agreed. Wen I asked him u vl have to turn into a
muslim and do everything as per religion he agreed. And then I
told him till you don’t own a house or take one on rent I wont
come and stay with you.
8 dec 2008 we got married at Bandra Court. And
the same day v took pheras in the temple also and v had to
tender original documents of both of us like Residential proof,
ID proof, my husband’s Voter Id, Driving License , Ration Card,
these all documents were required and v notaried the
documents asi belonged to muslim caste and was converting to
hindu Religion. And on 5th of Dec v Registered our marriage in
which also original documents were required.
Two years later my inlaws came to know about our
marriage. That day I was in my painting classes. On that day ,my
husband had called me and told me that his parents have came
to know about his marriage with me and that you come to my
house and meet my parents. But I visited my inlaws on the next
day and I met his mother, father, brother, his mother’s sister
and his bhabhi and my husband was present at that time. My
inlaws asked why dint you inform us about your marriage which
took place two years back and told me to inform my parents
also.
On 28thdec 2009 my father was going to abroad so I
cannot inform my parents but my inlaws harassed me
telephonically because I dint inform my parents about my
marriage. Every time I tried to speak about my marriage to my
parents something orthe other would go wrong. Once my
inlaws were coming to my house but I stopped them as my
aunt had an unfortunate death.
My inlaws did not trust me and called me to meet
them at Malwani (8). We I went there 8 members from my
inlaw were present. As I went there to meet them they started
abusing me and made me cry. One uncle(jijaji) started
threatening me and said how did you get married without
informing us , we will not let you enter our house and started
pressurizing me to leave my husband. I started crying due to
the constant torture that was inflicted upon me. my husband
was present over there but he did not intervene and let mecry.
My husband asked me to leave their house when he saw me
crying and did not speak to me for two days.
 My aunt used to call me and pressurize me to come in
their house or leave my husband, after thinking for a llong time
I decided I vl go to my matrimonial house. I decided I vl go the
matrimonial house by November. But after much delay on
28thdec 2010 I left my parental house and went to my
matrimonial house as my aunt had called me and shouted at
me and used filthiest language. And at 9’0clock the same day I
reached my husband’s home and when entre family gathered v
went to goregoan police station.Police asked me where do I
stay and informed me to register FIR at the police station
nearby my residence. After that police called my parents and
informed them about my marriage.
We started residing at Dhanu , my husband’s aunt
house, but there also my husband’s behavior was not good .
hecontinuouisly consumed liquor and when I asked to stop he
started fighting with me. we stop talking to each other for two
days. We resided at dhanu for 2 weeks. We only went to the
beach in this two weeks. My inlaws said y did I marry such a guy
when I knew about his eating and drinking habits.
On Sunday we came back to our goregoan residence.
And next day my parents, sister and maternal aunt came to
meet me for the first time after my marriage. We used to get
up at around 1 or 2 ‘o clock in the morning and go downstairs
And again at 6’oclock we used to go down again and used to
come back around 1 am in the night wen our business of
fastfood chain used to closedown. The same routine continued
my husband use to drink and fight with me on flimsy grounds.
He called up my mother on every occasion that I cried and
harassed me.it happened twice.
On 21st jan our reception was organized and that day too
my husband was drunk. My inlaws also used to drink. When
everything was going fine when I asked him to convert to islam
and do nikah with him he denied it. When I question my
husband that you don’t talk with me and you don’t take proper
care of me , on that he said me what should I talk with you.he
used to take all my talks lightly and never took me seriously. My
husband used to have objection when my mother used to call
me. One day I suddenly got ill , but my husband did not pay any
attention towards me and did not take me to the doctor. My
husband’s aunt (maasi) would ask me to join her and force me
to adjust myself in her community. My husband’s aunt used to
tell that how u vl have to live according to our lifestyle and
adjust to what we say. We have spend so much for your
marriage so you will have to live as per our dierections and like
our daughter in law and used to not let my parents to come
and meet. And when I questioned about my husband’s drinking
habit she said what is new in that all the members in the home
drink. My husband had hit my three nights before we came to
our house and used to disallow me to talk with my parents.
When my mother got to know my sufferings , she came to take
me but my inlaws and my husband did not allow me to go along
with my mother. On 13th feb they allowed me to go to my
parent’s house when I forced him. On 9th feb we had a meeting
at my in laws house where I was asked to tell what is the
problem I am facing. I said about my husband’s drinking habits
and that he dose’nt take care of me, even on petty issues he
used to call my parents and harass them. On my family’s
persistence my husband did not consume liquor for two days.
And his aunt (masi) and uncle( jijaji) started for asking
Rs.50,000/- for their expenses. After all this ups and downs I
went to my house.
1) I had made an application on women’s cell and they had
called me on 13/09/2018. Myself , my husband and
Reshma was also called for giving statement and there
Reshma confirmed that there is nothing between Reshnma
and my husband.
2) My husband had said that he will take me back to my
matrimonial home , but he did not take me and 5 months
have already been passed that I am staying in my parents
house.
3) When I went to my matrimonial home , I got to kno that
Reshma and my husband’s affair is still going on. Then on
09/12/2018 we came face to face. After I lodged complaint
with goregoan police station , reshma did not come to p.s.
and said I and sanjay are not having any affair. But I have
all the proofs like voice msgs where Reshma has agreed
about having affair with sanjay and that she loves him very
much and both of them are constantly in touch with each
other via mobile. On 6/12/2018 was my anniversary and
we celebrated it, but suddenly at 6 am in the morning
Reshma called up my husband and he left me and my
daughter alone to meet Reshma. And that time I was in my
matrimonial home.
4) On 15/12/2018 I got a call from my inlaws(bhabhi) that my
husband has consumed phenoyl after having a fight with
 Reshma. I immediately went to my matrimonial house at
11.30 pm on that night.
5) On 16/12/2018 I received one fake call in the name of
police officer Manali Sonawane who was so called
Reshma’s friend.
6) To be on a safer side I took anticipatory bail for my
husband Sanjay.
7) From 17th onwards i lived at my matrimonial home and we
lived happily.
8) On 22/12/2018 sanjay after consuming liquor went to
Reshma’s house with a bottle of phenoyl and threatened
her that he will drink phenoyl and die. I have his voice
recording. He was brought at meetha nagar. I called my
parents at meetha nagar and my mother in law called all
my inlaws at meetha nagar. After that we all went to
goregoan police station as mother in law had lodged a
complaint against me , my husband and Reshma.
9) On 23/12/2018 my in laws started demanding 50,000/- rs
from me and my mangalsutra ,and whatever expenses
they had to bear like advocate fees they started
demanding from me. I have voice msg as proof.
10) On 1/12/2018 I took my entire household and kept at
Malad Maloni . now they are asking me to empty the
house.
11) My parents were supporting me completely. I have all
voice recordings.