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Expanding the ABCs of RET

Albert Ellis
The original ABCs of rational-emotive therapy (RET)--where A stands for the Activating events in
people's lives, B for their Beliefs about these events, and C for the emotional and behavioral
Consequences or Concomitants of their Beliefs--have proved very popular and therapeutically
useful since RET was created in 1955. These ABCs have been expanded over the years by Ellis and
other writers on RET.This article presents an up-to-date and more detailed expansion of the ABCs,
with special emphasis on expanding the more common rational Beliefs (rBs) and irrational Beliefs
(iBs)

History of the ABCs of RET Definitions of the ABCs of RET


The ABCs of RET go back to its very begin- Let me start with some definitions involved in
nings in 1955, and I continually used them with the RET outlook on human personality and
my early rational-emotive therapy clients (Ellis, behavior and particularly in its view of emotional
1962). When the Institute for Rational-Emotive disturbance. RET holds that humans are pur-
Therapy in New York founded its psychological poseful, or goal-seeking, creatures (Adler, 1927,
clinic in 1968, cognitive homework forms were 1929; Ellis, 1973) and that they bring to A
printed for its clients, and they added D and E to (Activating events or Activating experiences)
the original ABCs (Ellis, 1968). As explained in general and specific goals (G). Almost always,
Chapter 3 of Humanistic Psychotherapy: The their basic Goals are (1) to stay alive and (2) to
Rational-Emotive Approach (Ellis, 1973), A be reasonably happy and free from pain while
stands for Activating events, Activating experi- alive. Their main subgoals as they strive for
ences, Activities, or Agents that people disturb happiness include: to be happy (a) when alone,
themselves about. B stands for rational Beliefs (b) when associating with other people, (c) when
or realistic Beliefs about the Activating events engaging in intimate relationships with others,
that tend to lead to a C, appropriate Conse- (d) when earning a living, and (e) when engag-
quences or Concomitants. IB stands for irratio- ing in recreational activities (e.g., sports, study,
nal Beliefs about the Activating events and art, music, drama, etc.).
tends to lead to iC, inappropriate Conse-
quences or Concomitants (especially emotional Rational Beliefs (rBs) in RET mean those
disturbances and dysfunctional behaviors). D cognitions, ideas, and philosophies that aid and
stands for Disputing irrational Beliefs--Detect- abet people's fulfilling their basic, or most
ing them, Discriminating them from rational important, Goals.
Beliefs, and Debating them (Phadke, 1982). E
stands for Effective rational Beliefs to replace Irrational Beliefs (iBs) are those cognitions,
people's irrational Beliefs and also for Effective ideas, and philosophies that sabotage and
appropriate emotions and Effective functional block people's fulfilling their basic, or most
behaviors to replace their disturbed emotions important, Goals.
and dysfunctional behaviors.
Nonevaluative observations, descriptions,
The ABCs and the DEs have served RET very and cool cognitions are people's observations
well over the last three decades and have been of what is going on in the world and in their own
copied in hundreds of books and articles and thoughts, feelings, and actions.
used with many thousands of clients. In their
original form, however, they are oversimplified Evaluative assessments, inferences, expec-
and omit salient information about human dis- tations, and conclusions are people's evalua-
turbance and its treatment. Several RET writers tions of what is going on in the world. These
have tried to expand them, with some degree of may be either:
success (Dryden, 1984; Wessler & Wessler, (1) Warm evaluations--involved with people's
1980). Here I shall try to give my own version of desires, wishes, and preferences.
how I think they can be usefully expanded.
Albert Ellis, Ph.D., is executive director of the Institute for (2) Hot evaluations--involved with people's
Rational-Emotive Therapy, 45 East 65th Street, New absolutistic demands, commands, musts, and
York, NY 10021. necessities.

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Activating Events or Activators (A) of Cogni- Bs take many different forms because people
tive, Emotional, and Behavioral Conse- have many kinds of cognitions. In RET, how-
quences (C) ever, we are mainly interested in their rational
The RET theory of personality and personal- Beliefs (rBs), which we hypothesize lead to their
ity disturbances begins with people trying to self-helping behaviors, and in their irrational
fulfill their Goals (Gs) in some kind of environ+ Beliefs (iBs), which we theorize lead to their
ment and encountering a set of Activating self-defeating (and societal-defeating) behav-
events or Activators (As) that tend to help them iors. We can list some of the main (but not only)
achieve or block these Goals. The As they kinds of Bs as follows:
encounter are normally present or current (1) Nonevaluative observations, descriptions,
events or their own thoughts, feelings, or be- and perceptions (cool cognitions). Example: "1
haviors; but they may be imbedded in memories see people are laughing:'
or thoughts (conscious or unconscious) about
past experiences. People are prone to seek out (2) Positive preferential evaluations, infer-
and respond to these As because of (a) their ences, and attributions (warm cognitions). Ex-
biological or genetic predispositions; (to) their amples: "Because I prefer people to like me and
constitutional history; (c) their prior interper- they are l a u g h i n g -
sonal and social learning; and (d) their innately
predisposed and acquired habit patterns (Ellis, (a) "1 see they are laughing with me."
1976, 1979). (b) "1 see they think I am funny."
(c) "1 see that they like me:'
As (Activating events) virtually never exist in a (d) "1 like their laughing with me:'
pure or monolithic state; they almost always (e) "Their liking me has real advantages,
interact with and partly include Bs and Cs. which I love:'
People bring themselves (their goals, thoughts,
desires, and physiological propensities) to As. (3) Negative preferential evaluations, infer-
To some degree, therefore, they are these ences, and attributions (warm cognitions). Ex-
Activating events, and the As (their environ- amples: "Because I prefer people not to dislike
ments) are them. They can only think, emote, me and they are laughing--
and behave in a material milieu--as Heidegger (a)"l see they are laughing at me."
(1962) notes, they can only have their being-in- (b)"l see they think I am stupid:'
the-world; and they almost always exist in and (c) "1 see that they don't like me."
relate to a social context--live with and relate to (d)"l dislike their laughing at me."
other humans. They are never, therefore, pure (e) "Their disliking me has real disadvan-
individuals but are world-centered and social tages, which I abhor."
creatures.
(4) Positive absolutistic evaluations, infer-
ences, and attributions (hot cognitions; irratio-
Beliefs (Bs) About Activating Events (As) nal Beliefs). Examples: "Because people are
According to RET theory, people have almost laughing with me and presumably like me and
innumerable Beliefs (Bs)--cognitions, thoughts, because I must act competently and must win
or ideas--about their Activating events (As); their approval--
and these Bs importantly and directly tend to (a)"l am a great, noble person!" (over-
exert strong influences on their cognitive, emo- generalization)
tional, and behavioral Consequences (Cs). Al- (b)"My life will be completely wonderfult"
though As often seem to directly "cause" or (overgenera/ization)
contribute to Cs, this is rarely true, because Bs (c)"The world is a totally marvelous
normally serve as important mediators between place!" (overgenera/ization)
As and Cs and therefore more directly "cause" (d) "1 am certain they will always laugh with
or "create" Cs (Bard, 1980; Beck, 1976; Ellis, me, and I will therefore always be a
1957, 1958, 1962; Goldfried & Davison, 1976; great person!" (certainty)
Grieger & Boyd, 1980; Grieger & Grieger, 1982; (e) ,'1 deserve to have only fine and wonder-
Guidano & Liotti, 1983; Mahoney, 1974; Mei- ful things happen to me!" (deserving-
chenbaum, 1977; Raimy, 1975; Walen, Di- ness and deification)
Giuseppe, & Wessler, 1980; Wessler & Wessler, (f) "1 deserve to go to heaven and be
1980). People largely bring their Beliefs to A; beatified forever!" (deservingness and
and they prejudicially view or experience As in extreme deification)
the light of these biased Beliefs (expecta-
tions, evaluations) and also in the light of their (5) Negative absolutistic evaluations, infer-
emotional Consequences (Cs) (desires, prefer- ences, and attributions (hot cognitions; irratio-
ences, wishes, motivations, tastes, distur- nal Beliefs). Examples: "Because people are
bances). Therefore, humans virtually never laughing at me and presumably dislike me and
experience A without B and C; but they also because I must act competently and must win
rarely experience B and C without A. their approval--

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(a) "1 am an incompetent, rotten personl" will make me lose my job and lose all my
(overgeneralization) friends:' (catastrophizing; magnification)
(b)"My life will be completely miserable!" (h) "When I act well and get them to laugh
(overgenera/ization) with me, that only shows that I can
(c) "The world is a totally crummy place/" occasionally do well; but that is unim-
(overgeneralization) portant compared with my great faults
(d) "1 am certain they will always laugh at and stupidities:' (minimization; focusing
me, and I will therefore always be a on the negative)
rotten personl" (certainty) (i) "1 strongly feel that I am despicable and
(e) "1 deserve to have only bad and grim unlovable; and because my feeling is so
things happen to meY' (deservingness strong and consistent, this proves that I
and damnation) really am despicable and unlovable."
(f) "1 deserve to roast in hell for eternity!" (emotional reasoning; circular reasoning;
(deservingness and extreme damnation) non sequitur)
(j) "1 am a loser and a failure." (labeling;
(6) Common cognitive derivatives of negative overgeneralization)
absolutistic evaluations (additional hot cogni- (k) "They could only be laughing because
tions and irrational Beliefs). Disturbed ideas: of some foolish thing I have done and
"Because I must act competently and must win could not possibly be laughing for any
people's approval, and because their laughing other reason:' (personalizing; non sequi-
at me shows I have acted incompetently and/or tur; overgeneralization)
have lost their approval- (I) "When I somehow get them to stop
(a) "This is awful, horrible, and terrible/" laughing at me or to laugh with me and
(awfulizing, catastrophizing) like me, I am really a phony who is
(b) "1 can't bear it, can't stand it/" (I-can't- acting better than I am and will soon fall
stand-it-itis, discomfort anxie~ low frus- on my face and show them what a
tration tolerance) despicable phony I am." (phonyism; all-
(c) "1 am a thoroughly incompetent inferior or-nothing thinking; overgeneralization)
and worthless person!" (self-downing, People can learn absolutistic evaluations,
feelings of inadequacy) inferences, and conclusions (hot cognitions and
(d) "1 can't change and become competent irrational Beliefs) from their parents, teachers,
and lovable!" (hopelessness) and others--for example, "1 must have good
(e)"l deserve misery and punishment and luck, but now that I have broken this mirror, fate
will continue to bring it on myselfi" will bring me bad luck and that will be terrible!"
(damnation) But they probably learn these irrational Beliefs
(7) Other common cognitive derivatives of easily, and they rigidly retain them because they
negative absolutistic evaluations (additional ir- are born with a strong tendency to think irratio-
rational Beliefs). Logical errors and unrealistic nally. More important, people often learn family
inferences: "Because I must act competently and cultural rational standards--for example,
and must win people's approval, and because "It is preferable for me to treat others consider-
their laughing at me shows that I have acted ately"--and then overgeneralize, exaggerate,
incompetently and/or have lost their approval-- and turn these into irrational Beliefs--for exam-
ple, "Because it is preferable for me to treat
(a)"l will always act incompetently and others considerately I have to do so at all times
have significant people disapprove of or else I am a totally unlovable, worthless
me:' (overgenera/ization) person/" Even if all humans were reared utterly
(b) "I'm a total failure and completely unlov- rationally, RET hypothesizes that virtually all of
able:' (overgeneralization; all-or-nothing them would often take their learned standards
thinking) and rational preferences and irrationally esca-
(c) "They know that I am no good and will late them into absolutistic demands on them-
always be incompetent:' (non sequitur; selves, on others, and on the universe in which
jumping to conclusions; mind reading) they live (Dryden, 1984; Ellis, 1958, 1962, 1971,
(d) "They will keep laughing at me and will 1973, 1976, in press; Ellis & Grieger, 1977; Ellis
always despise me." (non sequitur; & Whitely, 1979).
jumping to conclusions; fortune telling)
(e) "They only despise me and see nothing Consequences (Cs) of Activating Events (As)
good in me." (focusing on the negative; and Beliefs (Bs) About As
overgeneralization)
(f) "When they laugh with me and see me Cs (cognitive, affective, and behavioral Con-
favorably that is because they are in a sequences) follow from the interaction of As and
good mood and do not see that I am Bs. We can say, mathematically, that A x B ---
fooling them:' (disqualifying the posi~ve; C; but this formula may actually be too simple
non sequitur) and we may require a more complex one to ex-
(g) "Their laughing at me and disliking me press the relationship adequately. C is almost

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always significantly affected or influenced but A, B, and C, then, are all closely related and
not exactly "caused" by A--because humans none of them tends to exist without the other
naturally to some degree react to stimuli in their two. Another way of stating this is to say--as
environments. Moreover, when A is powerful some psychologists, have recently clearly
(e.g., a set of starvation conditions or an earth- stated--that environments only exist for hu-
quake) it tends to affect C profoundly. mans (and are quite different for certain other
animals) and humans only exist in certain kinds
When C consists of emotional disturbance of environments (e.g., where temperatures are
(e.g., severe feelings of anxiety, depression, not too hot or too cold) and are part of their
hostility, self-deprecation, and self-pity), B usu- environment. Similarly, individuals usually exist
ally (not always) mainly or more directly creates in a society (rarely as hermits) and societies are
or "causes" C. Even emotional disturbance, only composed of humans (and are quite differ-
however, may at times stem from powerful As-- ent when composed, say, of ants or birds). As
for example, from environmental disasters such the systems theory devotees point out, individ-
as floods or wars. Emotional disturbance may ual family members exist in a family system and
also follow from factors in the organism--for ex- change as this system changes. But RET also
ample, hormonal or disease factors--that are points out that the family system is composed of
somewhat independent of yet may actually individuals and may considerably change as
"cause" Consequences (Cs). one or more of the individual family members
When strong or unusual As significantly con- change. In all these instances interaction is a
tribute to or "cause" Cs, or when physiological key, probably an essential, concept for under-
factors "create" Cs, they are usually accompa- standing and effectively helping people to
nied by contributory Bs, too. Thus, if people are change.
caught in an earthquake or if they experience Similarly with cognition, emotion, and behav-
powerful hormonal changes and they "there- ior. Thinking--as I pointed out in 1956 (Ellis,
fore" become depressed, their As and their 1958, 1962) importantly includes feeling and
physiological processes probably are strongly behaving. We largely think because we desire
influencing them to create irrational Beliefs (a feeling) to survive (a behavior) and to be
(iBs), such as, "This earthquake shouldn't have happy (a feeling). Emoting significantly includes
occurred! Isn't it awful/I can't stand it." These thinking and behaving. We desire because we
iBs, in turn, add to or help create their feelings evaluate something as "good" or "beneficial"
of depression at C. and, as we desire it, we move toward rather
Cs (thoughts, feelings, and behavioral Conse- than away from it (act on it). Behaving to some
quences) that result from As and Bs are virtually degree usually involves thinking and emoting.
never pure or monolithic but also partially in- We perform an act because we think it is advisa-
clude and inevitably interact with A and B. Thus, ble for us to do it and because we concomitantly
if A is an obnoxious event (e.g., a job refusal) feel like doing it. Occasionally, as certain mysti-
and B is, first, a rational Belief (e.g., "1 hope I cal-minded people claim, there may be 100%
don't get rejected for this job") as well as, sec- pure thoughts, emotions, or behaviors, which
ond, an irrational Belief (e.g., "1 must have this have no admixture of the other two processes. If
job! I'm no good if I don't get it"), C tends to be, so, they seem to be exceptionally rare. Even
first, healthy feelings of frustration and disap- when they occasionally appear to occur--as
pointment and, second, unhealthy feelings of when a person is tapped below the knee and
severe anxiety, inadequacy, and depression. gives a knee-jerk response without any appar-
ent concomitant thought or feeling--the original
So A x B = C. But people also bring feelings response (the knee jerk) seems to be immedi-
(as well as hopes, goals, and purposes) to A. ately followed by a thought ("Look at that! My
They wouldn't apply for a job unless they de- knee jerkedV') and a feeling ("Isn't that nice
sired or favorably evaluated it. Their A therefore that my nerves function wellt"). So pure cogni-
partially includes their C. The two, from the be- tions, emotions, and behaviors may exist, but
ginning, are related rather than completely dis- rarely during normal waking (or conscious)
parate. states; and even when they do they are quickly
followed by related cognitive-affective-behav-
At the same time, people's Beliefs (Bs) also ioral states (Schwartz, 1982).
partly or intrinsically relate to and include their
As and their Cs. Thus, if they tell themselves, at Humans uniquely are involved in cognitive
B, "1 want to get a good job;' they partly create processes, and these often instigate, change,
the Activating event at A (going for a job inter- and combine with their emotive and behaviora,
view), and they partly create their emotional and reactions. When people feel and behave, they
behavioral Consequence at C (feeling disap- almost always have some thoughts about their
pointed or depressed when they encounter a feelings and actions; and these thoughts lead
job rejection). Without their evaluating a job as them to have other feelings and behaviors.
good they would not try for it nor have any par- Thus, when they feel sad about, say, the loss of
ticular feeling about being rejected. a loved one, they usually see or observe that

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