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What is counselling?
Counselling falls under the umbrella term ‘talking therapies’ and allows people to discuss their problems and
any difficult feelings they encounter in a safe, confidential environment. The term can mean different things to
different people, but in general it is a process people seek when they want to change something in their lives or
simply explore their thoughts and feelings in more depth.
Counselling formats
Face-to-face - This is when you make an appointment with a counsellor to see them in person, usually at their
practice. Face-to-face sessions are one of the more popular therapy formats because they provide an opportunity
for you to react to any emotions that arise there and then.
Individual or group - You may choose to see a counsellor by yourself, or if you prefer you could join a
counselling group with people experiencing similar issues. Going to a group counselling session can be helpful
if you want to discuss your issues with people who are going through similar problems and you may even gain
yourself a support network. Alternatively, you may wish to see a counsellor alone to preserve your privacy and
concentrate on your own feelings.
Telephone counselling - For some, telephone counselling offers a helpful alternative to face-to-face counselling.
This involves talking to your counsellor over the phone instead of in person. This form of counselling can be
particularly useful for those too busy to attend face-to-face sessions, and can be carried out in the comfort of
your own home. This format also tends to be more flexible and can potentially reduce waiting list times.
Online counselling - Some people prefer not to physically speak to a counsellor at all, utilizing technology and
emailing their counsellor instead. This form of counselling allows you to take the time to think through what
you wish to discuss, and many find the act of physically writing their issues down cathartic. Online counselling
also offers you the chance to protect your anonymity.
Types of therapy
Free association
Free association involves you talking about whatever comes into your mind without censoring or editing the
flow of memories/ideas. Your therapist will encourage you to speak freely to help you return to an earlier
emotional state so they can better understand any recurrent patterns of conflict you may be experiencing.
Therapeutic transference
Transference relates to the way you may be transferring thoughts or feelings connected to influential figures in
your life (for example your parents or siblings) onto your therapist. While this may not happen in every case, if
it does your therapist should discuss transference with you to help you gain further insight into the way you deal
with people in your daily life.
Interpretation
A key element of psychoanalytic therapy is interpreting and 'reading between the lines'. While your therapist is
likely to stay relatively quiet and allow you to talk freely, they will occasionally interject with thoughts or
interpretations of the topics you discuss. Your psychoanalyst may also ask you about your dreams; Freud wrote
a lot on the subject of dream analysis and believed that dreams were important resources for understanding the
unconscious.
Humanistic therapies
Humanistic therapies focus on self-development, growth and responsibilities. They seek to help individuals
recognise their strengths, creativity and choice in the 'here and now'.
Gestalt therapy
Gestalt therapy refers to a form of psychotherapy that derives from the gestalt school of thought. It was
developed in the late 1940s by Fritz Perls and is guided by the relational theory principle that every individual is
a whole (mind, body and soul), and that they are best understood in relation to their current situation as he or
she experiences it.
The approach combines this relational theory with present state - focusing strongly on self-awareness and the
'here and now' (what is happening from one moment to the next). In gestalt therapy, self-awareness is key to
personal growth and developing full potential. The approach recognises that sometimes this self-awareness can
become blocked by negative thought patterns and behaviour that can leave people feeling dissatisfied and
unhappy.
It is the aim of a gestalt therapist to promote a non-judgemental self-awareness that enables clients to develop a
unique perspective on life. By helping an individual to become more aware of how they think, feel and act in
the present moment, gestalt therapy provides insight into ways in which he or she can alleviate their current
issues and distress in order to aspire to their maximum potential.
Role-play
Role-play can help individuals to experience different feelings and emotions and better understand how they
present and organise themselves.
The 'open chair' technique
The open chair technique involves two chairs and role-play, and can give rise to emotional scenes. The client
sits opposite an empty chair and must imagine someone (usually himself/herself or parts of him or her) in it.
They then communicate with this imaginary being - asking questions and engaging with what they represent.
Next, they must switch chairs so they are physically sitting in the once empty chair. The conversation continues,
but the client has reversed roles - speaking on behalf of the imagined part of his or her problem. This technique
aims to enable participants to locate a specific feeling or a side of their personalities they had 'disowned' or tried
to ignore. This helps them to accept polarities and acknowledge that conflicts exist in everyone.
Dialogue
A gestalt therapist will need to engage the client in meaningful and authentic dialogue in order to guide them
into a particular way of behaving or thinking. This may move beyond simple discussion to more creative forms
of expression such as dancing, singing or laughing.
Discussing dreams
Dreams play an important role in gestalt therapy, as they can help individuals to understand spontaneous aspects
of themselves. Fritz Perls frequently asked clients to relive his or her dreams by playing different objects and
people in the dream. During this they would be asked questions like: "What are you aware of now?" to sharpen
self-awareness.
Attention to body language
Throughout therapy, a gestalt therapist will concentrate on body language, which is considered a subtle
indicator of intense emotions. When specific body language is noticed, the therapist may ask the client to
exaggerate these movements or behaviours. This is thought to intensify the emotion attached to the behaviour
and highlight an inner meaning. For example, a client may be showing signs of clenched fists or frowning, to
which the therapist may ask something along the lines of: "What are you saying with this movement?"