● To Flirt: To play at love (no serious intentions, playfulness)

● Flirting is an attitude first and for most.

● First technique: PUSH-PULL: giving a positive followed by a negative statement and
vice versa, if what you said is neutral go either way.
● Things to keep in mind: say the first thing that comes to your mind and don't plan ahead
● You'll you're good at this when you can push-pull someone indefinitely.
● Exercise: (with partner or youtube or whatever) do as many push-pulls as you can
without planning ahead, let it be spontaneous and FUN
● Second Technique: Mini cold read (exaggeration as humor) the basic format is: You're
so X you're just like Y
● You need to find the first unusual thing about a person (a look, a gesture, appearance
etc...) and think if this is true what else is true
● Exaggeration is key here, think of a little twist, you have to make it a bit silly and fun.
● You're taking the girl into a fantasy world where everything is possible.
● Exercise: Same as the first one, follow the format and don't think ahead.
● Third Technique: The future adventure projection, if thi
● Role-playing: pretending to be a movie characters and saying sexual things as if it's
that movie character is saying not you, also you can get the girl to say some sexual
things and escalate through the role play. (try tyler durden and marla singer)
● A format for that If i were/if you were (something fictional), i would be/you would be
(doing something) ... make it sexual
● The question/Tease : Do it for any question even the get to know you ones and don't
just tease but also don't always be pleasant
● Try to make as sexual as possible and/or go off on a more sexual tangent.
● Sexual Topics: Start with topics that aren't inherently sexual but just hint at it and show
that you are cool person who won't judge her and escalate from there until you're
actually talking about sexual things, these can also used to dhv through storytelling.
Traveling alone, spontaneous and crazy things, partying and staying out late, weed and
alcohol (drugs even), tattoos and piercings, getting in trouble, relationships, kissing,
skinny dipping, getting naked all the way to masturbation and orgies etc...
● The question game: ask something and answer honestly.
● quotes "s.o said about sex".
● Words that sex: these are words that have a sexual nature to them, also swear when
you feel like it.
● Trouble, devious, feisty, sensual, edgy, dangerous, crazy, malicious, quirky, sexy, hot, insane,
naughty, sassy, ravenous, voracious, satirical, satiating, mischievous, salacious, raunchy,
titillating, scintillating, galvanizing exasperating, tease, Joshing, dazzling, ferocious, devilish,
sadistic, wicked, sinful, villainous, turbulent, strange