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A few years ago, one of my children became obsessed with roller coasters.
He watched video after video to study them from afar. He designed his own
in computer games. There was just one problem: He was terrified of
actually riding one.
So he did, and then he rode the coaster. And when it was over, he was really
glad he’d tried it. I, meanwhile, was glad that a trick I use often had worked
once again. This skill of picturing our future selves is fundamental for Top highlight
This may be one reason that people under-save for retirement. Or why we
stay up too late — because, as Jerry Seinfeld once observed, a lack of sleep
is “Morning Guy’s problem.” But the same research found that when people
could actually see (simulated) pictures of their aged selves, then they made
better choices.
This suggests the wisdom of really picturing ourselves on the other side of
any hard choice. For instance, you might remember that in the past, you’ve
always felt exhilarated after an invigorating sunrise run. Presumably
“Future You” will feel the same way. Picture yourself on the other side of the
unpleasantly cold moment when you actually have to swing your legs out of
bed and put your feet on the floor. Instead, focus on coming home, rosy-
cheeked and on a runner’s high.
A quick morning email to help you start each day on the right foot. Take a look.
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