I felt hurt when Stop!

you laughed at me. I

want to be treated
with kindness.

I'msorry.
really
 I felt hurt when Stop!
you laughed at me. I
want to be treated
with kindness.

I'msorry.
really
 TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS, I can...
FLIP A COIN OR DO
GET CALM FIRST ROCK-PAPER-SCISSORS ASK FOR HELP

FIND A WIN-WIN IGNORE WHAT'S PUT MYSELF IN THE

SOLUTION ANNOYING ME OTHER PERSON'S SHOES

TALK IT OUT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE SAY WORDS THAT

USE I-MESSAGES PLAY ANOTHER GAME MEAN "NO"
I felt hurt when
you laughed at me. I Stop!
want to be treated
with kindness.

LISTEN TO THE SHARE OR TAKE TURNS APOLOGIZE

OTHER PERSON
I'msorry.
really
To be a PEACEFUL PROBLEM SOLVER,
FLIP A COIN OR DO
I can...
GET CALM FIRST ROCK-PAPER-SCISSORS ASK FOR HELP

FIND A WIN-WIN IGNORE WHAT'S PUT MYSELF IN THE

SOLUTION ANNOYING ME OTHER PERSON'S SHOES

TALK IT OUT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE SAY WORDS THAT

USE I-MESSAGES PLAY ANOTHER GAME MEAN "NO"
I felt hurt when
you laughed at me. I Stop!
want to be treated
with kindness.

LISTEN TO THE SHARE OR TAKE TURNS APOLOGIZE

OTHER PERSON
I'msorry.
really
 TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS, I can...
FLIP A COIN OR DO
GET CALM FIRST ROCK-PAPER-SCISSORS ASK FOR HELP

FIND A WIN-WIN IGNORE WHAT'S PUT MYSELF IN THE

SOLUTION ANNOYING ME OTHER PERSON'S SHOES

TALK IT OUT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE SAY WORDS THAT

USE I-MESSAGES PLAY ANOTHER GAME MEAN "NO"
I felt hurt when
you laughed at me. I Stop!
want to be treated
with kindness.

LISTEN TO THE SHARE OR TAKE TURNS APOLOGIZE

OTHER PERSON
I'msorry.
really
To be a PEACEFUL PROBLEM SOLVER,
FLIP A COIN OR DO I can...
GET CALM FIRST ROCK-PAPER-SCISSORS ASK FOR HELP

FIND A WIN-WIN IGNORE WHAT'S PUT MYSELF IN THE

SOLUTION ANNOYING ME OTHER PERSON'S SHOES

TALK IT OUT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE SAY WORDS THAT

USE I-MESSAGES PLAY ANOTHER GAME MEAN "NO"
I felt hurt when
you laughed at me. I Stop!
want to be treated
with kindness.

LISTEN TO THE SHARE OR TAKE TURNS APOLOGIZE

OTHER PERSON
I'msorry.
really
To be a PEACEFUL PROBLEM SOLVER,
I can...
Get Calm Do Rock-Paper
-Scissors
First or Flip a Coin

Find a Ignore
Win-Win What's
Solution Annoying Me

I felt hurt when

you laughed at me. I
want to be treated
Talk It Out with kindness.
Do
and Use Something
I-Messages Else

Listen to Share or
the Other Take
Person Turns
Stop!
Put Myself Say Words
in the That Mean
Other Person's "NO"
Shoes
I'msorry.
really

Ask
for Help Apologize
TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS, I can...
Get Calm Do Rock-Paper
-Scissors
First or Flip a Coin

Find a Ignore
Win-Win What's
Solution Annoying Me

I felt hurt when

you laughed at me. I
want to be treated
Talk It Out with kindness.
Do
and Use Something
I-Messages Else

Listen to Share or
the Other Take
Person Turns
Stop!
Put Myself Say Words
in the That Mean
Other Person's "NO"
Shoes
I'msorry.
really

Ask
for Help Apologize
To be a PEACEFUL PROBLEM SOLVER,
I can...
Get Calm Do Rock-Paper
-Scissors
First or Flip a Coin

Find a Ignore
Win-Win What's
Solution Annoying Me

I felt hurt when

you laughed at me. I
want to be treated

Talk It Out
with kindness.
Do
and Use Something
I-Messages Else

Listen to Share or
the Other Take
Person Turns

Stop!
Put Myself Say Words
in the That Mean
Other Person's "NO"
Shoes
I'msorry.
really

Ask
for Help Apologize
TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS, I can...
Get Calm Do Rock-Paper
-Scissors
First or Flip a Coin

Find a Ignore
Win-Win What's
Solution Annoying Me

I felt hurt when

you laughed at me. I
want to be treated

Talk It Out
with kindness.
Do
and Use Something
I-Messages Else

Listen to Share or
the Other Take
Person Turns

Stop!
Put Myself Say Words
in the That Mean
Other Person's "NO"
Shoes
I'msorry.
really

Ask
for Help Apologize
 CONFLICT MA P
RESOLUTION Some Ways to Get Calm:
Do A Breathing
1. GET Calm FIRST Exercise
Like Hot Cocoa
1.. 2. .3. .4. .
Get a Drink
of Water

Place Hands
Count to 20 Over Your Heart
& Belly and Breathe
2.FIGURE OUT IF THIS IS A small problem OR BIG PROBLEM
Small problems Big problems Do you feel scared, in danger, or unsafe?
are things you might are when things are
feel disappointed, unsafe or dangerous
annoyed or frustrated and you or someone NO YES
with. You can usually
handle a small else feels scared.
Ask an adult for
If
problem on your help for big NO, If yes,
own. problems. then then
3. TRY A Peaceful PROBLEM SOLVING TRICK Ask for
like the ones listed below........ help

Find a WIN - W I N Flip a Coin or Do Ignore what's

SOLUTION ROCK-PAPER- SCISSORS
Annoying You
I felt hurt when
you laughed at me. I
want to be treated
Stop!
with kindness.

TALK iT OUT and DO SOMETHING ELSE Say Words that

Use i-messages Mean no
I felt ______ I'msorry.
really
when ______.
I would like ______.

Also Make Sure To:

Listen to Put yourself in the
each other. other person's shoes.
Share or ApOLoGIZE
I was wrong when I ______.
Take Turns I am really sorry. I wil try to
make it better by ______.
I hope you can forgive me.
CONFLICT MAP
RESOLUTION Some Ways to Get Calm:
Do A Breathing
1. GET Calm FIRST Exercise
Like Hot Cocoa
1.. 2. .3. .4. .
Get a Drink
of Water

Place Hands
Count to 20 Over Your Heart
& Belly and Breathe
2.FIGURE OUT IF THIS IS A small problem OR BIG PROBLEM
Small problems Big problems Do you feel scared, in danger, or unsafe?
are things you might are when things are
feel disappointed, unsafe or dangerous
annoyed or frustrated and you or someone If NO YES
with. You can usually else feels scared.
handle a small Ask an adult for NO,
problem on your help for big then If yes,
own. problems.
then
3. TRY A Peaceful PROBLEM SOLVING TRICK Ask for
like the ones listed below........ help

Find a WIN - W I N Flip a Coin or Do Ignore what's

SOLUTION ROCK-PAPER- SCISSORS
Annoying You
I felt hurt when Stop!
you laughed at me. I
want to be treated
with kindness.

TALK iT OUT and DO SOMETHING ELSE Say Words that

Use i-messages Mean no
I felt ______ I'msorry.
really
when ______.
I would like ______.

Also Make Sure To:

Listen to Put yourself in the
each other. other person's shoes.
Share or ApOLoGIZE
I was wrong when I ______.
Take Turns I am really sorry. I wil try to
make it better by ______.
I hope you can forgive me.