“LIFE MUST GO ON!”. These are the exact encouraging words
that my what-I-so-called “the first woman in my life”, my grandmother, told me about the importance of struggling to endure or surmount any adversities in this specific phase of my earthly existence.
So, basically, my name is John Arden R. Corrales. A 22 year old
stunner. I was raised and born in Sinippil, Reina Mercedes, Isabela on April 20, 1999. My family consists of my grandfather,Hipolito. My grandmother, Magdalena. My older sister, Lorie Anne. My older brother, Kelvin. Most especially my mom and my dad, Loreta Ramos Corrales, a housewife and Jony Corrales, a farrmer. Family is very important and valuable to me and is something that should never be taken for granted. Without my family , a large part of my life and culture would be missing.
When I was 2 years old, my mom and my dad got divorced. I am
not really sure of the reason why. But based on what I remembered, my father was really a hard-drunken person which made my mom to seek for another man who can practically support and suffice her daily needs. Almost everyday, my dad always go home drunk. And they always argue about something I don’t understand simply because I am still young. With this, it resulted to the divorcement of both parties. I can say that growing up without the guidance and presence of your own blood-related is very hard and devastating. Because without them to guide you, you won’t know how to start everything, literally everything. After the separation of my parents, since they already have their own family, they made their decision to give me up to my grandmother. Ever since, my grandmother has been my guidance whenever I needed her,my strength whenever I feel weak, my crying shoulder whenever I weep, and my comfort whenever I am in grief. But everything changed when my grandmother passed away when I was 12 years old, I was brought to a state of ruin and destruction wherein I don’t barely eat everyday. Didn’t have the guts to talk to people that time. Simply put, I was in my darkest times back then. Due to the fact that I was given a sacred gift by our Almighty God, I was able to rise up again from being mentally deranged. When I was back in track again, I did everything for me to go and put myself back to school. But everything won’t just go as planned. Since , nobody was willing to support my school allowances , I was forced to look for a job that can definitely suffice and cover my expenses. With the God-given gift I have, I was able to find a decent job which is to teach a certain instrument that you’re good at, piano and violin. With the minimum wage I’m getting, I was really having a hard time to budget everything So, I was forced to take another job to fully cover my needs. And then decided to to apply in an English online teaching platform. Which is 51talk. There, I found myself growing especially in English Language and learned pedagogical methods in teaching Chinese young learners. Taking that into consideration, I began to realize that LIFE is not just about MONEY. It also brings me to the concept that in order to live a prosperous and happy life, I, Myself should strive and work hard to achieve GOOD-LIFE.
In our present life situation, it is no doubt that many of us lose
hope. Yes , they fail because these people are those who never tried to face problems with courage.They just give up without even trying to face the storms of life. Time may come that I will be tested. Failure comes across my way and then I might fall, I always remember what Marilyn Vos Salvant said, “Being defeated is only temporary condition, giving up is what makes it permanent.” Our failure can only be called failure if we give up. To be able to stand again, we should try and try and even if we always fall, at least we almost succeed and had it all. :)
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