The writer responds to a magazine's request for views on friendship. They say that for a long time they did not consider their sister a friend, but now realize she filled that role. They believe it is hard to maintain long-lasting bonds today due to issues like dishonesty on social media and difficulty staying in contact geographically. However, time and distance will not ruin true friendships, and instead help reveal who is committed to maintaining the relationship.
The writer responds to a magazine's request for views on friendship. They say that for a long time they did not consider their sister a friend, but now realize she filled that role. They believe it is hard to maintain long-lasting bonds today due to issues like dishonesty on social media and difficulty staying in contact geographically. However, time and distance will not ruin true friendships, and instead help reveal who is committed to maintaining the relationship.
The writer responds to a magazine's request for views on friendship. They say that for a long time they did not consider their sister a friend, but now realize she filled that role. They believe it is hard to maintain long-lasting bonds today due to issues like dishonesty on social media and difficulty staying in contact geographically. However, time and distance will not ruin true friendships, and instead help reveal who is committed to maintaining the relationship.
I read the announcement which appeared in yesterday’s magazine asking readers to share their view of friendship. I am very pleased with the involvement of the public and will gladly participate with my opinion. Personally, I cannot say I have many friends. There was even a period of my lifetime in which I gave up trying to find someone and call them my best friend. Not until I considered it enough did I realise that my own sister had been filling that space for all this time. We have always been very close to each other, enjoyed doing almost the same things and so on. Now we both have learned that friendship happens when you feel comfortable around someone, and just because you are blood-related does not mean you are not comrades. In today’s world though, I believe it has become hard to maintain long-lasting bonds, especially because of the fact that people cannot tell someone’s real intentions. Dishonesty is something which has increased alongside the popularity of social media, and since friends do not always remain at the same place, losing contact is always a possibility. Social networking sites have prevented this from happening in most cases. However, I think there is also a high likelihood of crossing paths with online thieves, who are prone to steal people’s identities and accidentally mess any kind of relationship. To my mind, time too can be detrimental to friendships. People always change with the passing years, but neither time or distance will ruin what true friends have. To put it simply, I guess both these things help us discover whether someone is actually willing to maintain the bond. If they end up turning their back on you, that action speaks for itself. Your faithfully, Rosina Ojeda.
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