“We are not our bodies, our possessions, or our career.

Who we are is Divine Love and

that is Infinite.” Dr. Wayne W. Dyer (1940-2015)

There are people in this world who can touch our hearts in really profound and
meaningful ways, and that’s exactly the impact Wayne Dyer had on me.

Wayne W. Dyer, you were one of the most beautiful, humble and authentic
people who ever walked on this Earth. And I learned so much from you. You
taught me how to be humble, how to live in love and truth, and how to always
honor who I truly am underneath it all. You taught me how to be better than I
used to be and I will always be thankful for this. Thank you for sharing your
love, your knowledge, and your wisdom with all of us.

The world was, is, and will be a better place just because you have lived. You
will be greatly missed.

15 LIFE CHANGING LESSONS TO

LEARN FROM WAYNE DYER
1. Cooperation is healthier than competition
Work on improving your own person and be so busy doing so that you don’t
have time to compare and compete with others. We are all in this together and
this sense of separation will only weaken us, creating more pain and suffering.

“If you’re always in a hurry, always trying to get ahead of the other guy, or
someone else’s performance is what motivates you, then that person is in
control of you.” ~ Wayne Dyer

2. If you love people you don’t try to change them

When you love somebody you love them for what they are not for what you
want them to be, without imposing your will and without constantly trying to
change them.

“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what
they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.” ~
Wayne Dyer

3. Ignorance is not bliss

Allow yourself to expand your mind a little more day by day, give up labels
and you will be happier. If you constantly say NO to “strange” ideas, things,
events, people, how can you expect to progress through life? Try new things,
if it makes your life better, stick to it and if it doesn’t, let it go. It’s that simple.

“The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know
anything about.” ~ Wayne Dyer
4. You are not a victim of the world
When you affirm things like, You make me mad, this situation is upsetting me,
I can’t believe you are treating me this way, etc., you start playing the victim
game. Take responsibility for your own thoughts, your own feelings, and
actions and by doing so you will no longer give your power away to forces
outside yourself. When something negative comes your way, you will pause
and instead of reacting, you will RESPOND, to everything and everyone. You
will no longer be a victim, but rather a person who is aware of his/her
inner strength and power.

“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” ~ Wayne Dyer

5. You find yourself in solitude

If you are comfortable in your own skin and really love your own person, you
will not be afraid to spend time alone. You will enjoy the time you spend alone
as much as you do when you are surrounded by people you dearly love.

“You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.” ~ Wayne Dyer

6. Rejection makes you stronger

If you trust and listen to your own heart and intuition, you will always know
where to go and what to do with your life. No matter how many doors close in
your face, you will not give up and you will allow rejection to make you
stronger and better, not bitter.

“Be grateful to all those people who told you no. It’s because of them that you
managed to do it all yourself.” ~Wayne Dyer

7. Self-worth cannot be verified by others

If you constantly seek outside yourself for approval and validation, you will
never be happy. We are all different and we all perceive things
in different ways but your reputation is not something you can really control.
Your reputation is not really in your hands, so stop trying to please everyone
around you and start pleasing your SELF. You are the person who matters the
most and if you yourself are not happy with who you are, chances are others
will not be happy with you either!
“Self-worth cannot be verified by others. You are worthy because you say it is
so. If you depend on others for your value it is other-worth.” ~ Wayne Dyer

8. You don’t attract what you want in your life, you attract
what you are
People often think if they focus long enough on something they want, with the
Law of Attraction and everything, they will get whatever they want in life, but
that’s not how things work. If you purify your mind and heart, you will attract
many beautiful things into your life, and abundance will not be something you
will have to chase because it will chase you. On the other hand, if your mind
and heart are full of negativity, negativity in all forms will show up in your life.

”If you’re obsessed with defeating the other guy and winning at all costs, then
you’re guaranteed to attract the vibrational equivalent of this thinking into your
life- even if you do yoga and stand on your head chanting mantras
everyday.” ~ Wayne Dyer

9. There are no limits to what you can achieve – you

are a no-limit person
There are no limits to what you can achieve, only those you choose to impose
on yourself.

“When you argue for your limitations, all you get are your
limitations.” ~ Wayne Dyer

10. “Heaven on earth” is a choice you must make, not a place

you must find
Focus on the BAD and that’s all you will see and attract into your life; focus on
the GOOD and that’s all you will see and attract into your life.

“Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world.
Same world.” ~ Wayne Dyer

11. No need to stress over everything

Believe it or not, there is an invisible force who created the whole world, the
whole Universe and this force become available to us the moment we stop
trying to do it all by ourselves, the moment we decide to allow events to take
their natural course and just go with the FLOW.

“Good morning, this is God. I will be handling all of your problems today. I will
not need your help. So have a miraculous day.” ~ Wayne Dyer

12. All that you need is already within you

In this moment you have it all, right NOW and right here, there is nothing
lacking. Take time to be quiet at least 5 minutes per day and in time you will
discover that you do have access to HAPPINESS, PEACE, ABUNDANCE and
all that is good at all times.

“You have everything you need for complete peace and total happiness right
now.” ~ Wayne Dyer
13. There is no end to personal growth
Personal growth doesn’t end when you finish school. The moment
you’ve stopped growing you can say that you’ve stopped living.

Individuals who use self-labels are stating, “I’m a finished product in this area,
and I’m never going to be any different.” If you’re a finished product all tied up
and put away, you’ve stopped growing. ~ Wayne Dyer

14. Be realistic, expect miracles

There is a great power in the Universe, the Source of it all, and this power
makes itself available to you the moment you align with who you really
are deep down inside, creating miracles for you and those you love.

“Once you believe in yourself and see your soul as divine and precious, you’ll
automatically be converted to a being who can create miracles.” ~ Wayne
Dyer

15. Follow your heart and you will be successful

This is such a powerful truth that only a few of us get to live and discover.
When you get your life on purpose, when you focus on giving the best of
yourself to the world, abundance will flow freely into your life and you
will discover happiness you never thought could be yours.
“Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your
life.” ~ Wayne Dyer

~love, Luminita 

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