The Sexual Self

By: *Ethel Magalona MAP, LPT,

*Elline Regina M. Cruz, MAEd, LPT *Evelyn Sadsad, PhD
*Michelle Chan Lauigan, RPm, MAGC
Learning Outcome
At the end of this lesson, the learner is
expected to:
 1. Distinguish the difference between sex and gender.
 2. Cite the consequences of uncontrolled sexuality.
 3. Practice the ways to prevent the spread of STDs.
The effort to understand the ‘self’ demands a
comprehension of the varied components that
make up the identity of the individual.
The different aspects involving the physical,
moral, emotional constructs of identity are
not enough to explain the nature of the ‘self’
until we include the sexuality of the person.
Sexual identity determines the sexual concept of
the individual. Such can actually evolve during
an individual’s lifetime as a result of experiences
whether it is internal or external.
The decision to express one’s sexuality will
determine one’s identity as faced with the future
challenges of life.
The Development of Gender Identity
Relevant to the acquisition of identity is the
development of a gender identity. This refers
primarily to one’s decision to be masculine,
feminine or both.
Gender should be discriminated from one’s ‘sex’ as
the first is a choice of orientation while the latter is an
endowment from birth.
Gender identity pertains to the decision of an
individual on how the individual wanted to be
treated and viewed by the significant others as
feminine or a masculine individual or a
combination of both.
Remarkably as ‘sex’ and ‘gender’ is often
used interchangeably, each actually has its
own unique nature.
Sex is basically a biological characteristic
based on the chromosomes of a female
which is ‘XX’ and the male chromosomes
which is scientifically termed as ‘XY’.
Gender on the other hand, which is a
sociological concept largely pertains to the
femininity or the masculinity of the individual
as it connotes certain social roles and cultural
expectations determined by social norms.
Sexuality without Responsibility
The expression of human sexuality is a natural
process. As stated by Abraham Maslow in his
hierarchy of human needs, sex is a basic need.
This urge has to be addressed in a rightful manner
to prevent aggravating the plight of humanity at this
point in time.
The unmonitored expression of this drive can
result to the consequences that can further
destroy the life and dignity of every human
person with the possible proliferation of sexually
transmitted diseases due to promiscuity.
Sexually Transmitted diseases or STDs according to
medical sources are communicable diseases that
may be transmitted from one partner to another
either through sexual activity or unhygienic practices.
STDs which are usually caused by bacteria, yeast and
parasites can be cured by antibiotics and some other
forms of medications. However those STDS caused
by viruses, as of this time, has not found any cure yet.
Preventing Sexually Transmitted
Diseases (STDs)
Avoiding unregulated sexual contact and
preventing the practice of promiscuity is the
best way to prevent STDs.
However, deciding to prevent STDs can be carried
out by adopting the practices and habits below if one
is sexually active:
 1. Keep a Monogamous Relationship
 2. Practice Abstinence
 3. Be Committed
 4. Use Caution
 5. Undergo Regular Medical Checkups
 6. Be Knowledgeable about the Causes, Effects and Prevention
of STDs
End