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PRELIMINARY ACTIVITY List down positive and negative values associated with the

following categories and write down its negative and positive


outcomes on the people of the society.

FAMILY POSITIVE VALUES: Pakikisama (comradeship), utang na loob


(debt of gratitude),respectful ,dignity, love of God, love of the
family, hospitable, Hardworking, love and happiness , honest,
ability to survive ,diligence , Hard work and industriousness.

NEGATIVE VALUES: Irresponsible, Low tempered, worry,


discouragement, rejection, less determination

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Having a positive values in one family has also a
positive outcome to the people in our community. Positive values
also reflect to our behaviors that can also be shown in their actions.
Therefore having good actions in every things that we are doing can
make our community and people in peace and free. It avoids cruelty
and war. It can be a good role model to other families.

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Having this negative values in the family makes their
family in cruelty. It can cause trouble in our community and makes
other people in harm. Having negative values makes people hates or
ignored you. It makes our life less fulfilling and difficult that might
affect the relationship to other people.
POSITIVE VALUES: Honest, determination, respectful,

FRIENDS
optimistic , confidence, Happy, enthusiasm , dependability, reliable

NEGATIVE VALUES: Jealousy , Discouragement, bitterness,


bully, competitiveness

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Having a positive values can have a good and more
friends who will always look for you. You can have more friends who
will not talk to your back. Having a positive values can make you feel
good every day.

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Having this negative values in your friends makes them in
uncomfortable place. It can cause trouble in our community and
makes other people in harm. Having negative values makes people
hates or ignored you. It makes our life less fulfilling and difficult that
might affect the relationship to other people

POSITIVE VALUES: love, happiness, faithful, generous,

MERRIAGE honesty, forgiveness, protective, respect

NEGATIVE VALUES: jealousy

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: A positive value makes your marriage work and
the both partners will never fall out of love for each other.
Their relationship has less chaos and they can live peacefully
and makes their marriage healthy.

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Negative values also have a negative outcome to
their marriage and also to other people. It can make a
possibility to live in cruelty and chaos, they can make their
marriage unhealthy and make other people affect their
relationship to each other.
FINANCIAL
POSITIVE VALUES: economical( matipid) , planning
where to spend money, giving high values in money,
determine to earn money

NEGATIVE VALUES : buying some things that are not


much necessary , spending money in everything

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO


THE PEOPLE : positive outcomes of having a positive
values in your financial can make you worry less because you
can handle and know how to budget financially. Because of
that you can avoid people to affect their relationship to you.

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO


THE PEOPLE: It can makes you problematic and
worried because you can't handle your financial, also have a
possibilities to make you in dept. that makes other people
hates you and make a chaos and unpeaceful society.

SELF
POSITIVE VALUES: patient, lovely, active, positive thinker,
compassion, self-sacrificing , active, generous , courageous ,
reliable, humble, determine, faith, mature, Flexibility,
adaptability, and creativity, Hard work and industriousness.

NEGATIVE VALUES: aimless, nervous, less confident, Bossy,


disobedient, grumpy, short tempered, shy, lazy

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Having positive values can help to cope up the
developmental and fundamental difficulties in life. It can help to
have positive views in life. It can also help to avoid cruelty and
uncomfortable place. Having a positive value has the tendency to
focus on the bright side, expect positive results, and approach
challenges with a positive outlook and most of all it can make
yourself for who you are and what you are.

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Negative values makes you always stress and
unhappy that can make people distance and hate you. You cannot
have a chance to enjoy your life. Negative values can be a
hindrance to have more friends and you cannot determine who
you are and what you are.
BELIEFS
POSITIVE VALUES: Positive thinker, compassionate ,
generous , encouragements, ambitious , exciting in life,
responsible, determine

NEGATIVE VALUES: doubtful, less hope, worthless, failure,


withdrawal( bahalana)

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: Aside from enhancing your skills and personal
resources, there are many other benefits of cultivating a positive
values, including better overall health, better ability to cope with
stress, and greater well-being that can make your beliefs stand
still. You will not get affected to other people who put you down
because you have a positive beliefs in life

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE: It has a possibilities that make your beliefs in life
weaker and it can lose your hope and dreams

CULTURE/ POSITIVE VALUES : responsibility, indulgent, love of culture


and tradition, patronizing , Embrace , humane orientation ,
assertiveness, respect, love of country, flexible, respect for elders,
determine

TRADITION
NEGATIVE VALUES: forgetting our old culture, embracing
other culture than ours, crabmentallity, withdrawal(bahala na),
colonial mentality, Always late(Filipino time), Gaya-
gaya( imitation), Mañana Habit

OUTCOME OF THE POSITIVE VALUES TO THE PEOPLE: It


can turn the world with one unity and peaceful society. We gave
respect to each other and we know what to do good actions for the
sake of other people.

OUTCOME OF THE NEGATIVE VALUES TO THE


PEOPLE :Having this negative values can make our society in
cruelty and chaos. It can cause trouble in our community and
makes other people in harm. Having negative values makes people
hates or ignored you. It makes our life less fulfilling and difficult
that might affect the relationship to other people. And also people
in the world has no unity and diversity to each other.
Self-respect is the most crucial aspect of one’s life. If you do not understand how to appreciate
yourself and your worth, how do you expect others to? Life is too short to maintain toxic relationships. In
order for yours to flourish, you need to work on yourself first. You need to love yourself enough to choose
the ones that make you happy and motivate you to grow. “Respect yourself enough to walk away from
anyone or anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. “You need to reinforce
your positive qualities and actively try to fix your negative qualities. When everything else in the world
fails you, you will always have your self-respect to fall back on. How you feel about yourself affects every
single aspect of your life. If you don’t respect yourself then you won’t take care of yourself the way you
should. By achieving this, you set boundaries for your life and your relationships. This will encourage
people’s deference to you. You cannot allow people to treat you poorly and if they do, you need to
recognize your worth and walk away. Others cannot negatively influence your opinion of yourself; this
will only lead to degradation of your worth. You must love and respect yourself before anyone else can.

In today’s world when everything is losing its meaning, we need to realize the importance of family
more than ever. While the world is becoming more modern and advanced, the meaning of family and what
stands for remains the same. It does not matter what kind of family one belongs to. It is all equal as long as
there are caring and acceptance. You may be from a joint family or , nuclear family, it is all the same. The
relationships we have with our members make our family strong. We all have unique relations with each
family member. In addition to other things, a family is the strongest unit in one’s life. Things that
strengthens the family is made strong through a number of factors. The most important one is of course
love. You instantly think of unconditional love when you think of family. It is the first source of love you
receive in your life It teaches you the meaning of love which you carry on forever in your heart. Secondly,
we see that loyalty strengthens a family. When you have a family, you are devoted to them. You stick by
them through the hard times and celebrate in their happy times. A family always supports and backs each
other. They stand up for each other in front of a third party trying to harm them proving their loyalty.
Most importantly, the things one learns from their family brings them closer. For instance, we learn how
to deal with the world through our family first. They are our first school and this teaching strengthens the
bond. It gives us reason to stand by each other as we share the same values.
Having a relationship is a very important thing to have in life. To survive and stay happy we need
to get connected with the people around us. To love and to be loved is the best feeling in the world. The
feeling of this love is from the people whose very close to us. Family, friends, classmates, neighbors and
etc. we must value every kind of relationship we have to them. By valuing them there are still a simple
way to show to them. Show love and respect to them. Always trust them and have a good communication
to show to them that we valued them. Have a good and healthy communication to tell your problems and
secrets makes a strong relationship to each other and in that situation we still show that everything that
you do signs of valuing your relationship to each other. The more positive your relationships are, the
happier your life is. And that’s why you should value your relationships with the people that mean the
most to you.

YES.

The most painful experience that I have felt of being neglected is when my ex-boyfriend leaves me
for another woman and I beg him to stay with me. Pleasing him to not just leave me and do everything
for him but at the end I am still rejected and ignored. We have been for years and do everything for him
and there are times that I give full efforts and sacrifices for him but he still leave me and not see and felt
my worth and he easily neglected me, and even he still not valued a girl like me who's willing to do
everything for his happiness. And now it makes me realized that there are still people who still not worth
it for us, never get affected for what they did but instead wait for the times that someday they will realize
that the girl he neglected, ignored and rejected is a very valuable and precious now. I have learned my
lesson that not everyone is worth fighting for. Today, I am looking forward for the better me and loving
my self-seeing that I am happy for what I have today.

I prefer the spiritual value rather than material, because I believe in my own perspective in life that
inner beauty is most important than outer beauty. In spiritual value we can feel the beauty and love on it.
These spiritual values are also human values and are the fundamental roots of a healthy, vibrant, and viable
work career. We can feel the values of truth, righteousness, peace, love and non-violence in it. For myself I
give more value and importance to attitude than the outer beauty and material things that is why I prefer
spiritual value because this is the value that I possessed.
In my own opinion, the more dominant in our society is the spiritual value, because spiritual values
are the integrative values of human soul consisting of altruistic, humanistic, personal, divine, to spiritual
growth of personality such as Truthfulness, Kindness, Repentance, Reliance on God, Modesty, Unity, and
Charity, and Love. When our society possessed spiritual value we can have a peaceful and all the people
have unity in the community. We can prevent chaos and conflicts but instead we can love each other and
help one another.

Heal the world


Make it a better place We could fly so high
For you and for me Let our spirits never die
And the entire human race In my heart I feel you are all my
There are people dying brothers
If you care enough for the living Create a world with no fear
Make a better place for you and for me Together we cry happy tears
And the dream we were conceived in See the nations turn their swords into
Will reveal a joyful face plowshares
And the world we once believed in We could really get there
Will shine again in grace If you cared enough for the living
Then why do we keep strangling life Make a little space
Wound this earth, crucify its soul To make a better place
Though it's plain to see
This world is heavenly
Be god's glow
This lyrics of the song Heal the World by Michael Jackson relate to my physical,
mental and emotional breakdown of today. I am always thinking about the problems
that we are now facing today. This song is also my hope and my stress reliever specially
that we are now in amidst of this pandemic. Many people are dying not just in terms of
the health but also dying in hunger, poverty and facing financial and emotional
problems. Relating this song to my feelings not just for today but everyday, every
minutes I am hoping that there will be a tomorrow that everything will be fine and
back to normal, so that I can go home to my mother and hug her tightly. I am always
praying everyday to God to Heal our world so that we can be free from this virus. No
more people dying from this deadly virus and no more people facing challenges because
of this Covid-19 pandemic. This lyrics are so connected to my heart and emotion seeing
everything in the new normal way. Especially this educational system that everyone
have difficulties in different reasons . A student like me that wishing that someday
everything will be okay and never lose hope to face this challenges because soon we will
overcome it together.

THANK YOU

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