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Overview
This module explores the process of physical growth and development. Understanding the
physical self requires an analysis of the life span and the physical development that happens in
each stage. Particularly, the physical changes that occur at the start of adolescence result largely
from the secretion of various hormones which virtually affects every aspect of an adolescent’s life,
particularly the way they view themselves (Feldman, 2010). Generally, girls are more dissatisfied
than boys with their physical and dissatisfaction with their appearance reach their peak between
the ages 13 and 15 (Newman & Newman, 2009).
Objectives
At the end of this module, the student is expected to:
1. Identify the stages of life and explain the physical changes that occur during each stage;
2. Recognize the contributions of genetic and environmental factors to the physical development
of the self;
3. Describe the factors that affect body image;
4. Examine the impact of culture on body image and self; and
5. Develop a positive body image.
Discussion
The physical self refers to the body. Both physical extremities and internal organs work
together for the body to perform many of its functions such as breathing, walking, eating, and
sleeping, among others. The body’s ability to perform its functions gradually changes through an
individual’s aging. In general, the body performs least during infancy and old age. Physical
efficiency generally peaks in early adulthood between the ages of twenty and thirty, and then
slowly declines into the middle age. Physical development and growth during childhood continue
at a slow rate compared to the rapid rate of growth in babyhood.
Adolescence begins with the onset of puberty. This stage is characterized by rapid
physical changes that include the maturation of the reproductive system. Each individual goes
through a succession of developmental stages throughout his or her life span. Life span refers to
the development from conception to death. Elizabeth B. Hurlock outlines the stages in the life
span:
1. Prenatal- fertilization to birth
2. Infancy- birth to 2 weeks of life
3. Babyhood- 2 weeks of life to 2nd year
4. Early childhood- 2 to 6 years old
5. Late childhood- 6 to 10 or 12 years old
6. Puberty- 10 or 12 to 14 years old
7. Adolescence- 14 to 18 years old
8. Early adulthood- 18 to 40 years old
9. Middle adulthood- 40 to 60 years old
10. Late adulthood or senescence- 60 to death
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Sex and the physical traits are determined by the combination of chromosomes and genes during
fertilization when the egg and sperm cells unite. Chromosomes are threadlike tissues that carries
the genes, and are usually found in pairs. There are 23 pairs of chromosomes which are classified
as autosomes or trait chromosomes (22 pairs) and gonosomes or sex chromosomes. The sex of the
offspring depends on the pairing of the sex chromosomes (23 rd) from the father and mother. Genes
are the basic carrier of heredity traits and are classified as dominant (Strong genes) and recessive
(weak genes).
Finally, in her work The Wisdom of Your Face, Jean Haner (2008) suggests that people with
oval-shaped faces are generally hospitable and tactful. People with roundshaped faces tend to be
friendly, kindhearted, and selfless. People with square faces tend to be witty, analytical, and great
leaders. People who have heart-shaped faces are perfectionists and tend to be aggressive. Persons
with triangle-shaped faces tend to be creative, artistic, sensitive, and determined. People with
diamond faces are very detailoriented and like to be in control. Haner also suggests that people
with full and thick eyebrows tend to be confident, assertive, and goal-oriented. Persons with large
or highly-defined jaws have strong values and firm beliefs. An earlier study by Squier and Mew
(1981), suggests that persons with long and angular-shaped faces tend to be more responsive,
assertive, and genuine than persons with short and square-shaped faces who tend to be more
restrained, conforming, and shrewd.
BODY IMAGE
Body image refers to how individuals perceive, think, and feel about their body and physical
appearance. Appearance refers to everything about a person that others can observe such as height,
weight, skin color, clothes, and hairstyle. Through appearances, an individual is able to show
others the kind of person he or she is (DeLamater & Mayers, 2012). The age at which puberty
begins has implications for the way adolescents feel about themselves as well as the way others
treat (Feldman,2010). Body image is related to self-esteem which is a person’s overall evaluation
of his or her own worth.
Body image can affect both the adolescent’s physical and psychological wellbeing. Adolescents
worry about different parts of their bodies. Adolescent boys and girls tend to experience negative
self-image because they are in a stage of development that is probably confusing to them.
However, girls are more concerned than boys about their physical appearance and overall body
image. The greatest concern that girls express about their bodies is how they conform to idealized
notions of beauty.
The way adolescents react to their physical appearance depends in part on sociocultural factors.
The emphasis that peers, parents, or the media put on ideal body types which is slim or thin girls
to experience body dissatisfaction (Grabe, Ward, & Hyde, 2008; Dunkley, Wertheim, & Paxton,
2001). For both boys and girls, bullying and peer pressure are associated with greater body
dissatisfaction (Webb & Zimmer-Gembeck, 2014). Television, advertising, music, and movies are
full of women who are thin, thus constructing the notion that the ideal body shape is slim. Some
girls and young women compare themselves to models and actresses in advertisements. The result
is that they try change their physical appearance either through cosmetic surgery, dieting, or
excessive exercise. For girls, in particular, too much concern with thinness and the ideal body
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shape may result in body dissatisfaction. Girls who have higher body dissatisfaction are likely to
experience depression, low-self-esteem, and eating disorders (demello,2014). For example,
anorexia is an eating disorder in which the person refuses to eat for fear of gaining weight which
can result in severe starvation and death. It mostly afflicts females between the ages of 12 and 40,
although men may also develop it. Another disorder is bulimia nervosa in which the person
induces purging after binging on large quantities of food (Feldman, 2010).
Advertisements, magazines, and televisions are filled with good-looking faces which emphasize
the value of physical attractiveness. People tend to be influenced by the beautiful faces and bodies
they see in media in the way they determine what is beautiful and what is not. As long as the
fashion industry dictates what is beautiful, be it for men or women, many people can never be
satisfied with their bodies. They are willing to spend a great deal of money to pay for the physical
attractiveness that they want to achieve. The reality, however, is that beauty standards presented in
media are so unrealistic, that even the most beautiful and handsome supermodels cannot achieve
it.
Some people desperately change their physical appearance through body modification. One form
of body modification is tattooing- which injects ink onto the skin to draw a design. Makeup can
also be permanently tattooed. Body piercing is another type of body modification which lets
people wear jewelry through different piercings in their body such as the ears, nose, and tongue,
among others. Tattooing and piercing have been practiced across the globe since ancient times.
Traditionally, tattooing and piercing were considered signs of one’s strength, bravery, and social
status.
Cosmetic surgery is another form of body modification which surgical and non surgical
procedures to restore, reconstruct, or alter body parts. Examples are breast enhancement, nose lift,
liposuction, and botox. Although tattooing, piercing, and cosmetic surgery have become popular
through time, these forms of body modification involve health risks. In particular, some women
have died from complications of skin whitening treatments, diet pills and cosmetic surgery.
Infection allergies, and other complications can result from the use of unclean and poor quality
equipment.
Different cultures have different definitions and perceptions of beauty. People often say that a
number of Filipinas have won international beauty contests shows that Filipinas are among the
women who are perceived to be most beautiful in the world.
People tend to judge others based on physical appearance. However, physical appearance alone is
not enough to know a person’s true character. It is important to see into a person’s inner thoughts
and feelings- one’s inner self. Above all things physical, it is more important to be beautiful on the
inside.
Here are some ways to improve your body image and inner self:
• Smile a lot.
• Take good care of your health.
• Live a well-balanced life.
• Dress well and be neat.
• Spend some time alone to reflect.
• Be creative and do something new all the time.
• Develop a wholesome attitude toward sex.
• Avoid temptations.
• Respect individuality.
• Make friends.
• Face your fears.
• Be independent.
• Accept things as they are.
• Ask and listen. Think positive.
• Pray.
• Count your blessings.
• Be thankful.
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Evaluation
Name: ___________________________________________
Date_________________
Course & Year: __________________________________
Score:_______________
Name: ___________________________________________
Date__________________
Course & Year: __________________________________ Score:_________________
B. The following questionnaire is designed to describe how satisfied you are with
your physical characteristics. Rate each item from 1 (very dissatisfied) to 5
(very satisfied).
9. Cheeks
10. Facial
Expression
11. Skin color
12. Skin
Texture
13. Posture
14. Height
15. Body weight
Name: ___________________________________________
Date__________________ Course & Year: __________________________________
Score:_________________
C. Make a list of the things that make you beautiful as a person. You may start
your statements with prompts such as “I have pretty…”, “My greatest asset is
…”; “I am good at …”, etc.
Inside Outside
Ch apt er
Overview
Understanding and experiencing the self includes discussion of the biological factors of sexual
behaviors that includes the reproductive system and the sex characteristics that differentiate
between man and woman. The reproductive system is a system of sex organs designed for
reproduction and sexual function. It affects not only how individuals view themselves but also
their sexuality and sexual relationships. During adolescence, most young people become involved
in dating and courtship. Through romantic relationships, sexual behaviors are developed. Risk
factors for sexual behaviors such as early pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections are
discussed in this module. Early pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections among youth are
major problems in the Philippines. In this module, a number of strategies are recommended to
prevent these.
Objectives
At the end of the module, the student is expected to:
1. Explain the development of sex characteristics and the human reproductive system;
2. Distinguish between attraction, love, and attachment;
3. Explain sexual orientation
4. Identify the caused and consequences of sexually transmitted infections and early
pregnancy; and
5. Reflect on the importance of contraception and Reproductive Health Law.
Discussion
DEVELOPMENT OF SEX CHARACTERISTICS AND THE HUMAN
REPRODUCTIVE
SYSTEMS
enlargement of buttocks and growth of pubic hair. Onset of menstruation varies among countries
but usually occurs at around 10-12 years of age. Testicular growth, sperm production, appearance
of facial, pubic, and other body hair, and deepening of voice are some of the first signs of puberty
in men.
Primary sex characteristics develop as the embryo grows in the womb as a result of the
chromosomes contained within the embryonic cells as well as hormonal influences. About 5
weeks of pregnancy, two organs, called the gonads, form in the embryo. In men, the gonads
release testosterone that causes the male’s sex organs to develop. During puberty, testosterone and
other androgens stimulate the development of primary and secondary sex characteristics and also
increase one’s sex drive. In women, the ovaries produce estrogen and progesterone as well as
small amount of testosterone. Estrogen promotes female reproductive capacity and secondary sex
characteristics. Progesterone stimulates growth of the female productive organs and prepares the
uterus for pregnancy. Unlike men, however, female sex hormones are not produced consistently.
Their production follows a cyclical pattern, on an approximately 28-day monthly cycle. The
greatest production occurs during the ovulation period, when an egg is released from the ovaries.
Ovulation period can occur 14 days after the beginning of the menstrual period.
The reproductive system is a system of sex organs designed for reproduction and sexual
function. The female reproductive system is composed of the clitoris, the vagina, the uterus, the
fallopian tubes, and the two ovaries. The clitoris which is made of erectile tissue swells with blood
and hardens when woman is sexually aroused. The vagina is a muscular tube that serves as a
receptacle for the penis and carrier of the sperm to the uterus. It is also the birth canal where the
fetus passes out of a mother’s body. The two ovaries produce, store, and release the egg cell during
ovulation. The uterus is a hollow organ where the fertilized embryo grows to become a fetus. The
lower part of the uterus is called the cervix, a passageway between the uterus and the vagina that
expands during childbirth. The fallopian tubes carry the fertilized egg from the ovary to the uterus.
Pregnancy starts from fertilization and end at birth, for an approximate duration
of 260 days.
On the other hand, the male reproductive system includes the penis, the testes, the
scrotum, the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, the vas deferens, and the epididymis. The penis
is the organ through which males urinate and deliver the sperm cells into the vagina during sexual
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intercourse. It is made up of sensitive tissues and nerve endings. When a man is sexually aroused,
it becomes erect and allows for penetration. Before reaching the penis, sperm cells travel through
the prostate gland and seminal vesicles. The testes or testicles located in a loose pouch-like sac of
skin called the scrotum and are responsible for the production of sperm cells and male sex
hormones. The vas deferens transports the sperm-containing fluid called semen. The epididymis is
a set of coiled ducts connected to the vas deferens where the sperm cells are stored. The prostate
gland and seminal vesicles produces semen and nourish the sperm cells. Ejaculation is the release
of sperm cells from the penis. Each ejaculation approximately contains 300- 500 million sperm
cells. Sperm cells can live up to 48 hours inside the uterus.
Human sexual arousal is complex. It may be produced by direct stimulation of the body’s
erogenous zones on the areas of the body that provide pleasure. Erogenous zones are areas of the
body which are highly sensitive and produce sexual responses when stimulated. These include the
genitals, mouth, breasts, ears, anus, and to a lesser degree, the entire surface of the body. One of
the most basic forms of sexual stimulation is masturbation or self-stimulation that causes sexual
pleasure or orgasm. It involves the rubbing or fondling of the genital areas and provides a good
index of sexual desire because it is not constrained by the availability of a partner. Other sexual
activities such as intimate kissing, cuddling, necking, or touching the erogenous zones may be
uniquely important to sexual arousal.
In many species, sexual arousal is closely tied to variations in hormonal levels. In humans,
however, hormones play less of a role. In one sense, the brain is where sexual desire originates and
where sexual behavior is controlled (Atkinson, Atkinson, Smith, Bem, & Nolen-Hoeksema, 2009).
Cognitive factors thus play an important role in sexually aroused by creating or fantasizing erotic
images. In other words, sexual fantasies play a significant role in sexual arousal (Feldman,2010).
Many believe that compared with women, men think about sex more often because they report
more frequent sex fantasies and more frequent feelings of sexual desire. Nevertheless, women tend
to place more emphasis on emotional closeness with a lover than men do. Overall, women and
men have equal potential for sexual arousal and women are no less physically responsive than men
(Peplau, 2003).
Culture also influences the expression of sexual desire. Norms continue to shape sexual activity
along socially acceptable behavior. For instance, masturbation and premarital sex are discouraged
in most cultures. Expression of sexual desire is also influenced by sexual scripts or the stereotyped
patterns of expectations on how people should behave sexually. For example, some people believe
that sex should be done only within marriage. In some cultures, expression of sexual desire and
engaging in premarital sex are taboo for women.
William Masters and Virginia Johnson found that the biological responses of males and females
to sexual stimulation are quite similar. The use the term sexualresponse cycle to describe the
changes that occur in the body as men and women become sexually aroused. They divide the
sexual-response cycle into four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
The excitement phase is the beginning of the sexual arousal and can last from one minute to
several hours. During this phase, pulse rate increases, blood pressure rises, breathing quickens, and
the skin shows a rosy flush particularly on the chest and breast areas. The nipples harden in both
men and women. In men, the penis becomes erect, the skin of the scrotum thickens, and the testes
increase in size. In women, the clitoris swells, the lips of the vagina open and its insides become
wet in preparation for sexual intercourse.
In the plateau phase, the changes in the bod continue. In men, the penis becomes more erect, the
circumference of its head increases, and few drops of fluid are released. In women, the outer part
of the vagina swells with the surge of increased amounts of blood to that area, while the clitoris
retracts under the clitoral hood but remains highly sensitive. The outer lips of the vagina become
redder in color. Breathing becomes more rapid, heart rate increases, body temperature rises, and
blood pressure increases during this stage.
During the orgasmic phase, contractions of the muscles in and around the penis stimulate the
release of the semen which contains sperm cells. Men usually achieve one intense orgasm during
sexual intercourse. In women, orgasm involves the contraction of the pelvic muscles that surround
the vaginal walls and can happen multiple times. In the resolution phase, the body turns to its
normal state of orgasm. In men, the erection is lost, the testes decrease in size, and the skin of the
scrotum thins again. In women, the clitoris, and the vagina return to their normal state.
As adolescents grow and mature, the make new patterns of relationships and commitments with
other people. While these new patterns of relationships ma change as they mature, they could form
the foundations on which intimacy during adulthood will be established. During adolescence,
dating and courtship emerge and become increasingly important.
Puberty is an important stage in sexual development. It is the time when many boys and girls first
experience their first sexual attraction. Initial attraction is influenced by social norms, physical
attractiveness, and processes of interpersonal exchange (DeLamater and Myers, 2012). Social
norms influence attraction in several ways such as in determining who are appropriate as lovers
and spouses. Physical attractiveness refers to the degree to which person’s physical traits are
regarded as aesthetically pleasing or beautiful. Social exchange theory proposes that attraction is
the result of an exchange process. People tend to view relationships as the result of the rewards
and costs they entail. As the relationship develops the sharing of activities and information
contributes to increased attraction, liking, trust, and love.
Romantic love includes a complex combination of different emotions such as fear, anger, sexual
desire, joy, and jealousy. Some of these emotions may also be sources of sufferings
(Santrock,2002). In the context of interpersonal relationships, psychologist, Robert Sternberg
suggests that there are three components of love; intimacy, passion, and commitment
(Bauermeister, Johns, Pingel, Eisenberg, Santana, and Zimmerman,2011). The intimacy
component refers to the feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness. The passion
component refers to the decision to love and the commitment to maintain that love. Love is
classified based on the combination of any of these components. Romantic love has strong
components of sexual attraction and infatuation, and is often experienced in the early stage of a
love relationship (Santrock,2002).
Helen Fisher, biological anthropologist and expert in the science of human attraction,
suggests the important ingredients of romantic love; lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust is driven
by the desire for sexual gratification. Attraction is often associated with sexual attraction.
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Attachment occurs when individuals desire to connect with another person intimately. It may also
be called affectionate or companionate love. John Bowlby defines attachment as a strong
affectional tie that binds a person to an intimate companion. Bowlby maintains that the quality of
early parent-child attachment has lasting impact on the kind of relationships people have later in
life, including romantic relationships. In other words, the ability to form stable and close
relationships begin at intimacy, in a child’s earliest experiences with a caregiver who meets his or
her needs.
SEXUAL ORIENTATION
Sexual orientation refers to a person’s sexual identity anchored on what gender they are attracted
to. The most common sexual orientation in which one is sexually attracted to members of the
opposite sex is heterosexuality. Homosexuality, on the other hand, is the orientation of one who is
sexually attracted to the same sex. Homosexual males are referred to as gays, while homosexual
females are referred to as lesbians. Bisexuality is an orientation where one is attracted to both
opposite and same sex.
Theories of the origins of sexual orientation look at both the biological makeup of the individual
and environmental influences on his or her orientation (Rathus, 2017). Some explanations for
homosexuality and bisexuality are biological in nature, suggesting that genetic factors such as
hormones and certain neural systems may also play a role in sexual orientation. Nevertheless,
research studies on the biological causes of homosexuality and bisexuality are not conclusive.
Reinforcement and observational learning might also affect an individual’s sexual orientation.
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are contracted
primarily through sexual contact (vaginal, oral, or anal sex). Many STIs affect the sex organs
themselves while others have broader and more life-threatening effects. Bacterial infections are
treatable with antibiotics, but those caused by viruses are more difficult to treat and are often
incurable such as HIV/AIDS. However, even curable bacterial infections can cause serious health
problems if ignored and left untreated, and some bacterial infections are difficult to detect because
some symptoms are not immediately noticeable. STIs commonly include human
immunodeficiency virus/acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (HIV/AIDS), gonorrhea, syphilis,
chlamydia, genital herpes, and genital warts.
HIV/AIDS infections are caused by direct contact with body fluids such as through blood
transfusion, breast feeding, and sexual intercourse. It attacks the immune system and the infected
person eventually dies. Gonorrhea is caused by gonococcal bacteria which attack the lining of the
mucous membrane such as the mouth, throat, vagina, and urethra. Gonorrhea can be treated by
penicillin or other antibiotics. Syphilis infects the genital areas and other parts of the body
including the brain and can cause paralysis or even death when left untreated. Chlamydia is caused
by the bacterium chlamydia
trachomatis. In men, chlamydia can cause swollen testicles and a burning sensation during
urination. It can result in sterility among women if left untreated because it damages the uterus,
ovaries, and fallopian tubes. Genital herpes can cause itching and tingling sensations, abscesses,
and blisters in the genial area. There is no cure for herpes. Genital warts are caused by the human
papillomavirus and women with human papillomavirus are prone to cervical cancer. Though the
warts can be removed, they may recur.
Anyone who is sexually active is at risk of STIs and STDs and should practice safe sex. However,
it is important to remember that not having sex can be the safest sex method to avoid all forms of
STIs and STDs as well as other problems such as early pregnancy. The consequences of high
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teenage pregnancy in the Philippines remain a major concern. Early pregnancy creates health risks
among young mothers and their babies since female reproductive organs are not yet mature during
adolescence and complications may arise during pregnancy and childbirth.
Over the years, sexual activities have become less restricted. Premarital sex is now more
accepted. Over the past several decades, there has been a gradual trend toward initiating sex at an
earlier age (Atkinson, Atkinson, Smith, Bem, & Nolen-Hoeksema, 2009). Alarmed by the rising
cases of HIV/AIDS and early pregnancy cases among Filipinos, some government officials are
calling for stronger programs of sex education that include information about the different forms
of contraception.
Contraception refers to methods that are used to prevent pregnancy. One common method of
contraception is the use of condoms which can also prevent some STIs. Other common methods of
contraception available in the Philippines include intrauterine device or IUD, a tiny device made
of flexible plastic that is inserted in the uterus to prevent pregnancy; birth control injectibles that
are given every three months to women, oral contraceptive pills which are taken every day; and
withdrawal method.
In the calendar method, the number of days in each menstrual cycle is recorded and the couple
avoids sex during the fertile-period. On the other hand, the cervical mucus method, also called the
Billings ovulation method, is a type of natural family planning method based on careful
observation of mucus patterns during the course of the menstrual cycle. The mucus patterns may
help in determining when a woman is most likely to conceive or not. As pointed out earlier,
however, abstaining from sexual intercourse is the best method in preventing pregnancy and
sexually transmitted infections or diseases.
Studies show that contraceptive use is low particularly among sexually active adolescents. Thus,
the Responsible Parenthood and Reproductive Health Act of 2012, also known as Reproductive
Health Law or RH Law, guarantees universal access to methods of contraception, fertility control,
sexual education, and maternal care. The RH law provides for the “prevention and treatment of
HIV/AIDS and other STIs/STDs,” especially since the number of HIV cases among the youth is
rising. Further, the RH Law aims to keep couples and women especially, well-informed about
Available family planning methods that they can freely use depending on their needs and
beliefs. It also aims to promote awareness among adolescent and youth on sexuality and
reproductive health through proper sex education.
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EVALUATION
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Date:______________
Course & Year: __________________________________ Score:____________
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results of the assessment activity. What are your insights and how are you going to
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Overview
A person's tangible possessions like his or her car, house, clothes, even family and friends
make up his or her material self. Regardless of how much or how little a person owns materially,
he or she will always strive to acquire more because material possessions are usually a reflection
of a person's success or failure.
This chapter begins with a description of the material self and the components of the
material self. The motives for acquiring material possessions are explained, as well as the key
roles that media can play in a person's desire to acquire material possessions.
Objectives
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Ch apt er
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Material Self
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Discussion
Material Self
According to William James (1980, p. 291), the self is everything that an individual considers
to be his or hers, not only his or her body and material possessions but also his or her reputation
and beliefs. The self, therefore, is composed of the material self which is the manifestation of one's
identity through his material possessions.
The basic component of the material self includes the body. One of the tasks of adolescents is
to accept and appreciate the physical characteristics of their body. However, few adolescents are
able to do physical appearance. Generally, girls are more concerned about the this successfully.
Adolescents tend to worry about their bodies and appearance of their body than boys. Perceptions
about what makes a body beautiful are usually influenced by the media as shown in television and
the internet.
Another component of the material self is the clothes that people wear. Clothes represent the
self. The style and brand of adolescents. clothes become significant symbols
The clothes they tend to wear are greatly influenced by their peer groups because adolescents
are anxious to conform to what their peer groups find fashionable and attractive.
Apart from clothes, the material component of the self can peer groups find fashionable and
attractive. include one's house, car, pets, and other things that he or she considers as his or her
possession. The material component of the self also includes people an individual has relationships
with such as one's immediate and extended family members as well as close friends with whom
one feels psychologically connected. These people are likely to shape and influence the
development of one's self and identity. Pets could also symbolically define a person's identity. A
person's pet could be an expression of one's social status, pride, and prestige, as in owning a dog or
cat of a very expensive breed.
Regardless of how much or how little material possessions people have, they remain valuable
because these possessions are symbolic of one's social status. Cars, houses, gadgets, and clothes
are to some the most valuable possessions because they are the most visible in the eyes of others.
The more expensive they are, the more other people are impressed. Russell Belk (1988) in his
work Are We What We Own?, suggests that material possessions act as an objective manifestation
of the self. Material possessions can be a reflection of hard work and success. Normally, people
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tend to measure success through the amount of their material possessions. Owning material
possessions becomes a driving force in urging an individual to seek high level of achievement in
order to be able to acquire more possessions.
Defining the self by material possessions can also contribute to a feeling of wellbeing,
including a sense of personal growth and purpose or meaning in life. However, the lack or loss of
material possessions can be disruptive to one's mental health, like people losing, houses and other
possessions because of disasters and calamities. People tend to judge others through their material
possessions. Thus, the greater the material possessions, the more likely one will be accepted and
regarded well by other people. The important point is that these components of the material self
become a significant reference of one's sense of self and identity.
However, the desire for material possessions also have negative effects on one's sense of self
and identity. Materialism refers to giving more importance to material possessions than intangible
values. A materialistic person is one who is excessively concerned with the acquisition of material
possessions. The strong desire for material possessions could lead to psychological dysfunction or
impairment in functioning such as compulsive buying disorder (CBD) which is characterized by
an obsession with shopping and buying behaviors that can cause adverse consequences (e.g.,
debts).
Developmental evidence suggests that identification with material things begins quite early in
life but remains high throughout life as people seek for happiness (Belk, 1988). Nevertheless,
psychologists identify other social and cultural factors that seem to be strongly implicated in the
etiology of materialism. People are exposed to images in television, the internet, and magazines
that brag about the importance of material possessions such as branded clothes, mobile phones,
cars, and the like. Lack or loss of these material possessions Could lead to anxiety, insecurity, and
depression in people who are overly materialistic. Thus, when a person is about to make a
purchase he or she should ask himself or herself a very important question DOI REALLY NEED
THIS?
Consumer Culture
Consumer culture is a social system in which consumption is dominated by the consumption
of commercial products (Arnould, 2010). Consumer culture denotes a social arrangement in which
the relations between lived culture and social resources, and between meaningful ways of life and
the symbolic and material resources on which they depend on, are mediated through markets. The
consumption of market-made commodities and desire-inducing marketing symbols is central to
consumer culture (Arnould & Craig, 2005). A consumerist society is one in which people spend a
great deal of time, money, and energy to "consume" commercial products, goods, and services.
Consumerism is the consumption of material goods and services in excess of one's basic needs.
Consumerism is closely tied to materialism. Both heavily influence the way individuals view the
self. It can be viewed positively and negatively. For instance, people tend to be happier and more
motivated when their wants end needs are met. On the other hand, it encourages people to buy
products and services that they do not really need or afford. The state of needs and wants tends to
be endless, and thus could cause negative effects such as dissatisfaction, unhappiness, and
depression.
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A very wealthy person gave you a debit card and told you to use it as much as you want to
make yourself happy. What are you going to do with your debit card? Make a list of what you
want to have. Write as many as you want.
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B - if item is related with your body
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Modu le
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SPIRITUAL SELF
Overview
Spirituality influences the individual through acts of faith, hope and love. This
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Discussion
The Spiritual Self
The spiritual aspect of the self is the inner essence, the part of the self that connects the
person to the sacred, the supernatural, and the universe. The spiritual self enables the person to
experience a feeling of oneness with a higher being and the universe and gives a deeper purpose or
meaning of one's life. Understanding and nurturing the spiritual self is as important as with the
other aspects of the self. The spiritual self develops through interaction, observation, and imitation.
The family, school, and church play a very important role in a child's spiritual development.
Spirituality begins at an early age but develops throughout life as people continuously interact in
the environment.
Spirituality
The root meaning of spirituality is taken from the Latin word spiritus, meaning breath or life
force. Spirituality can be understood as the search for the sacred, a process through which people
seek to discover, hold on to, and, when necessary, transform whatever they hold sacred in their
lives (Hill & Pargament, 2003). Spirituality generally refers to meaning and purpose in one's life, a
search for could refer to a higher being (Hage, Siegel, Payton, & DeFanti, 2006). The sacred
transcendence could refer to a higher being .
The term "spirituality" originally developed in early Christianity. Christians use the term
"Spirit" to describe the Holy Spirit. In Christian Ethics, Peschke (1994) describes that the
experience of the sacred is characterized by reverence, faith, fear, trust, love, and admiration
which are intimately connected to God. Worship is regarded as an essential act to realize the
ultimate meaning of transcendence and human life. Acts of worship may include prayer, reading
the Bible, attending sacraments, and doing sacrifices. In addition, through acts of faith, hope, and
love, man is able to encounter God and understand God's words of salvation.
Spirituality is connected with religion. Religion is an organized system of ideas about the
spiritual sphere or the supernatural along with associated ceremonial practices by which people try
to interpret and/or influence aspects of the universe otherwise beyond their control. All religions
recognize the importance of spirituality in one's life. One's spirituality may be expressed through
religion and participation in religious rituals and ceremonies (Haviland, Prins, Walrath, &
McBride, 2013). Spirituality and religion fulfill numerous social and psychological needs, such as
the need to explain human sufferings and death. Through the practice of religious activities such as
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prayers, people may find comfort, security, and stability in times of sufferings, loss, insecurities,
and uncertainties.
Spirituality and religion may be a source of love, hope, and affection (Brown & Parrish, 2011).
Frankl's personal experiences in the Nazi concentration camps during World War II led him
to develop the basic tenets of logotherapy, which were tested and found valid even amid all the
dark forces in human existence. Frankl embraced both the bright and dark sides of human
existence and believed that inevitable human suffering could contribute to human achievement and
the search of meaning in life. Logotherapy is the pursuit of human existence as well as on man's
search for such a meaning. According to logotherapy, the striving to find a meaning in one's life is
the primary motivational force in man. In logotherapy, one can discover the meaning of life in
three different ways: by doing a deed, by experiencing a value, and by suffering.
The third way of finding a meaning in life is by suffering. According to Frankl, it is through
sufferings that man encounter the central theme of existentialism: to live is to suffer, to survive is
to find meaning in the suffering. If there is purpose in life at all, there must be a purpose in
suffering and in dying. But no one can tell another what this purpose is. Each one must find out for
himself or herself, and must accept the responsibility that his or her answers prescribe. Ifhe or she
succeeds, he or she will continue to grow in spite of an indignities. Thus, Frankl is fond of quoting
Nietzsche, "He
who has a why to live can bear almost any how."
Frankl further suggests that one should not search for an abstract meaning of life. Everyone
has his or her own specific vocation or mission in life; everyone must carry out a concrete
assignment that demands fulfillment. Ultimately, one should not ask what the meaning his or her
life is, but rather must recognize that it is he or she who is asked. In a word, each individual is
questioned by life; and he or she can only answer to life by answering for his or her own life; to
life he or she can only respond by being responsible.
Spirituality is also associated with animism. Beliefs about the sacred also include the
primitive concept about animism or the belief that creatures, objects, and places possess certain
spirits. Animism is also the belief that things and places are alive and grounded by a supernatural
order. In the Philippines, indigenous peoples are known to practice animism. Some groups, for
example, believe that the spirits of the sun, sky, and moon are their gods and that different deities
exist to protect them and guide them toward a fruitful life. Others believe that spirits inhabit
animals and nature such as trees, rocks, mountains, and bodies of water, among others, and that
respect must be given to them through acts of worship (e.g., offerings, prayers, sacrifices) to
please or appease them. Being linked with folk belief, animism cultivates among people a
consciousness of the environment that they are in, thus making them more mindful of how they act
according to the different things they come in contact with.
EVALUATION
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1. Distinguish the difference between belief in spirits and belief in the Holy Spirit.
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POLITICAL SELF
Overview
The hierarchical structure of the family influences the political self through the
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obligations and expectations associated with one's role as a member of the family and the power
and status related with one's position in the family. An important prelude to the study of political
self is understanding the concept of politics. Hence, this chapter begins with defining politics. It
includes concepts on political community, socialization, social interaction, and citizenship. It also
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development of political self. The chapter ends with descriptions of the theoretical perspectives of
political self.
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Understanding Politics
Kendall (1998) defines politics as a social institution through which power is acquired and
exercised by people and groups. Aristotle's work, Politics, he describes the role that politics and
the political community must play in bringing about the virtuous life in the citizenry. He observes
that "man is by nature a political animal" Politics is an important part of human development
because it promotes ideologies about democracy, citizenship, human rights, freedom, family,
health, and other social issues. Politics exists in all human societies. It serves as the mechanism by
which individuals develop power and understand proper functioning of a democratic society as a
citizen. Citizenship is the most basic identification with the nation. The term denotes the
membership of a citizen in a political society As a citizen, a person enjoys full civil and political
rights, including protection inside and outside the territory of the state.
Stevens, Anglin, and Jussim (2015) cite that in some people, politics is a central component
of their identity. For others, politics may be a more peripheral concern but temporarily becomes a
central one in certain situations. The political community where people belong offers an
opportunity for them to define themselves and provide opportunities to satisfy their needs for
affiliation. The political self organizes one's beliefs, attitudes, and affiliations and aids in the
processing of politically relevant information. People use their political values and belief systems
to define themselves as unique individuals of society.
One important component of political self is identity, the person's understanding of who and
what he or she is. Citizenship becomes a salient basis for political self. The political self is often
defined by citizenship. In her book, Democracy and Citizenship, Ma. Serena Diokno (1997)
mentions that citizenship is the most basic identification with the nation and, as such, is oriented
towards the state and its expressions In law and policy, From the social and psychological
perspectives, the individual's claim to citizenship means that the person relates himself or herself
to a group of others who also see themselves as a citizen of a larger polity. The institutions which
influence the values citizenship are the family, church, school, media, government, and as non-
governmental organizations. As such, the political self is also in part defined by reference to other
members in the political group or community where one belongs.
The value component of identity construction is shaped by societal agencies that enter the life
of the individual from childhood all the way through adulthood (Diokno, 1997). The political self
and identity are developed through socialization, through the ways people learn the knowledge,
norms, values, motives, and roles appropriate to their positions in a group or community. Social
interaction may significantly influence a person's understanding of politics, and perhaps a person's
political actions in the future. Through social interaction, people learn the status, duties, rights, and
power necessary to interact successfully with other people in the group or community. Over time,
individuals internalize the political attitudes, values, and views of others, and incorporate them
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into their political self. Throughout life, as individuals meet new people and join new groups, the
political self is influenced and modified by the opinions, comments, and suggestions of other
people.
This shows that authority is necessary in the development of the political self and identity,
which is established by the father and the mother. Children must be governed; thus, there must be
some form of established status and power in the family. The ordered positions and ascribed roles
in the family prepare children for several and big her roles external to the family, in the context of
being a citizen of the state. Aristotle considers the state as a natural union of families, established
for the common good under a definite government. Thus, the family makes the most contribution
to the child's development of political self.
The first and foremost duty of parents is to educate the children about basic values and
beliefs. The process of learning is imbued with values and beliefs through identification. Morality
underlies political values and beliefs. The family directly and indirectly influences a person's
political attitudes, views, and beliefs. The Philippine Constitution thus recognizes the duty and
responsibility of parents to educate and train their children to become good, useful, and worthy
citizens of the country and to prepare them for future responsibilities.
Equally, the Philippine Constitution recognizes the vital role of schools in inculcating among
the youth the value of patriotism and nationalism and in encouraging their involvement in public
and civic affairs of the country. While parents teach their children basic values and discipline,
schools have the responsibility in the formal education and training of children. One of the
responsibilities of schools is to teach moral, spiritual, and political values that will help the
students to become patriotic and morally upright citizens. The school has a similar structure to the
family, with the teacher acting as the leader of the group. In terms of the functionality of status and
power, students will more likely comply with rules in school because it entails serious and greater
consequences.
The church also helps shape the ideals of citizenship and democracy through their religious
teachings, values, and traditions. Consequently, how the family, school, and church emphasize
moral behaviors may also influence political behaviors and the political *ell. On the other hand,
peers are also important in influencing the Political self. The family and school consist of
members who are different in status and in status. Thus, interaction with peers encompasses and
emphasizes the equal distribution of power, rights, and privileges among members of the group.
Mass media could also be a key source of information on politics, and thus may influence an
individual's political values and beliefs.
According to the social learning theory, a person can acquire learning through observation
and imitation. In imitation, the learner watches the behavior of another person (model) and then
performs the behavior in a similar way. Observation and imitation are important in a process
known as political socialization, the lifelong process by which individuals gain knowledge about
politics. In everyday life, social interaction significantly influences a person's understanding of
politics. Through the process of identification, individuals (especially children and adolescents)
incorporate the characteristics or traits as well as the values, beliefs, and motives of the models
(parents or significant people) they look up to.
Another theory in political self is the cognitive theory which suggests that the mental
activities (e.g., knowledge, perceptions, ideas) of individuals are important determinants of
behavior (e.g., political attitudes). For example, individuals interpret the meaning of politics and
then choose and decide the actions they will make.
The theory of symbolic interaction suggests that behaviors are products of communication,
meaning, and symbols. People give meanings to symbols and they express these meanings through
language and communication. For example, children develop political attitudes according to the
symbols and meanings that their parents communicate to them. Based on the symbols and
meanings that people ascribe to objects (e.g., politics, human rights, freedom) people can
formulate plans of action (e.g., election, demonstrations rally).
This recognizes the importance of the theory of political participation in political self.
Political participation can be defined s citizen's actions or activities anchored in politics. Thus, any
activity concerning the government or governance of the state is an example of political
participation. The extent and scope of political participation may be an important criteria for
assessing the value or quality of symbols and meanings that people ascribe to politics.
Nonetheless, in order for political participation to work in a society, a covenant of mutual trust and
respect among members of the society must exist. To sustain this covenant, there must be an open
flow of communication and feedback from the members. All members must also commit to and
take responsibility for fostering and maintaining an environment in which political participation
can occur. For instance, ordinary Filipino citizens must be allowed to take part in the policy and
decision-making process regarding the administration of the country which is in accordance to the
democratic nature of the Philippine society.
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5. The lives of national heroes are great sources of inspiration. Choose one Filipino hero.
Identify his or her courageous and heroic acts which make him or her worthy of respect
and emulation. Identify your characteristics which are similar to the hero you have chosen
and the things that you can do for the country.
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DIGITAL SELF
Overview
This chapter explains the concept of digital self and the importance of digital
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technology in human activities. It also presents the implications of and the ethical issues involved
in sharing personal information especially in social networks.
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Digital Self
Among the Filipino youth, the use of digital technology has now become part of the self-the
digital self. The digital self is the aspect of the self that is expressed or shared with others through
online interactions on the internet, specifically in social networking sites. On such sites, users
normally disclose personal information such as their name, age, birthdate, address, and contact
details. Some users also provide very personal information about themselves such as their likes
and dislikes, hobbies, favorite food, favorite movies, places they have visited, relationship status,
thoughts and feelings, and important events in their lives. This sharing of personal information on
social networking sites may be related to the strong desire of adolescents for social approval and
acceptance. Similar can be said about adults.
Nevertheless, the desire to create positive impressions and to be "liked" by others may lead to
consequences that can be risky to one's security and mental health, such as identity theft, cyber
bullying, gossiping as well as anxiety and depression. Thus, individuals should be very careful
with what they post or share on social networking sites. People should still be mindful of their
privacy using social networking sites.
information is now becoming available. The Psychological Association of the Philippines (PAP),
for example, provides scientific knowledge on the application of psychological theories, concepts,
and principles on gender identity and sexual orientation to benefit society and improve the lives of
the members of the LGBTQ+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, +) community. In the
PAP website, online resources and publications on LGBTQ+ issues, resources, and information
addresses bias and discrimination issues. With the increasing urgency to uphold human rights and
to protect the dignity and equality of all persons of various sexual orientations, a measure
prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity or expression is
developed. In particular, the Anti-Discrimination Act aims to protect the rights and welfare of the
LGBTQ+ people in the Philippines. The act recognizes the important role of telecommunications
and social media in protecting, particularly, the LGBTQ+ people from discriminatory acts.
Reached an impressive level. These technologies improve not only very common areas of
people's daily life, but also areas of education, health and production industries (Mishra, Misra,
Muellerr, Perez, Bhatia, & Wang, 2014).
Forms of technology such as digital technology include all types of electronic equipment and
applications that use information in the form of numeric codes. Digital technology includes the use
of devices that process and use digital information such as computers and mobile phones. Digital
technology has enabled volumes of information to be compressed in compact storage devices, so
as to be easily contained and delivered, minimizing the time it takes for data to be transmitted.
Digital technology has immensely changed the pattern of working as well as the learning of new
concepts, including communication. Innovations in mobile phones, for example, resulted in the
widespread use of the internet and social networking.
Iqbal, Khan, & Malik (2017) suggest that mobile phones are ever more becoming a very
valuable part of the daily life of today's youth. They allow the users to keep in touch, connect with
people, d be updated on the activities and whereabouts of others. However, use of digital
technology and online interactions limit face-to-face interaction with others and has drawn people
away from meaningful and intimate communication with families and friends. Hence, the growing
use of the internet and social networking sites changes the social behaviors of individuals,
families, and societies as a whole.
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Hechanova and Ortega-Go find that the use of internet has both positive and negative
outcomes. In their study, the use of internet can improve one's relationships through easier ways of
communicating. Social networking can be an important facility for debates on current issues in the
country such as political issues. It can also be a facility to express the opinions, needs, and
concerns of people. However, it is also through social networking that identity theft, false
information, and fake news are able to circulate. Thus, the church, schools, and the government
exert efforts to prevent and effectively manage the spread of identity theft, false information, and
fake news in the country.
Most users of social networking sites prefer to be: may and sometimes use false names.
Privacy and confidentiality should be a major concern, especially for adolescents who may not be
entirely aware of the consequences of sharing private information online, for anyone to see. They
usually post pictures and videos of themselves, their friends, and family. Thus, adolescents are
particularly susceptible to cyberbullying, gossips, and stalking. For this reason, the government
together with academic and even religious institution in the Philippines make efforts to prevent
and effectively manage the spread of identity theft, false information, and fake news in the
country.
It is the policy of the State to protect the fundamental human right of privacy, of
communication while ensuring free flow of information to promote innovation and growth.
The State recognizes the vital role of information and communications technology in nation-
building and its inherent obligation to ensure that personal information in information and
communications systems in the government and in the private sector are secured and
protected. Personal information in this context refers to any information, whether recorded in
a material form or not, from which the identity of an individual is apparent or can be
reasonably and directly ascertained by the entity holding the information, or when put
together with other information would directly and certainly identify an individual.
EVALUATION
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1. What are the basic ethical issues to consider when sharing personal information in social
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4. Make a slogan or poster about becoming a responsible Internet user. Use coloring materials to
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Overview
According to neuroscientists, learning new knowledge and skills everyday keeps the
structures of the brain changing and increases its ability to learn. This chapter discusses theories
Objectives
and concepts that explain the nature and dimensions of learning. Metacognition and self-regulated
learning are also discussed along with suggestions and strategies on how to improve learning and
become a better student.
1. Explain learning and how it works in humans; 2. Identify the parts of the brain involved in
learning describe the importance of neuroplasticity and its implications on learning;
3. Discuss the influence of metacognition and self- regulation in learning; and
4. Choose and apply strategies to improve learning,
Discussion
LEARNING
Humans have the capacity to learn new skills and adapt to new environments.
Development and learning are powerful agents of change throughout one's life that induce
structural and functional plasticity in the neutral systems of the brain (Galvan, 2010).
The process of neuroplasticity is the ability of the brain to change throughout one's life. It
involves the addition of new neurons, new interconnections between neurons, and the
reorganization of information processing areas. The ability of the brain to change happens in two
ways, it could be through an increase in the number of synapses between neurons or a change in
the function and structure of the neurons.
Neurons are the basic building blocks of the nervous system that transmit impulses or
messages. Every neuron is made up of a cell body (soma), dendrites, and an axon. Neurons vary
according to their functions and locations. The impulses that travel along neurons are
electrochemical in nature. A neuron transmits impulses or messages to another neuron through a
junction called synapse. Neurons are not totally connected and are separated by a small gap
separates neurons. Neurotransmitters are the electrochemicals that connect and allow the
transmission of impulses from one neuron to another. Several neurotransmitters such as
acetylcholine, glutamate, dopamine, and norepinephrine are associated with memory and learning.
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The process of neuroplasticity, or changes in the structure and functions of the neurons in
the brain, usually happens in the cerebral cortex which is the wrinkled layer of the brain. The
cerebral cortex is packed with neurons and is responsible for the most sophisticated information
processing in the brain. The cortex is divided into four lobes: the frontal, parietal, temporal, and
occipital. Each lobe is responsible for processing the different types of sensory information. The
cerebral cortex plays a key role in human learning, thought, memory, and language (Rathus,
2017). Although the brain continues to grow and develop throughout one's life the overall number
of neurons and synapses declines with age. Thus, Dr. Michael Merzenich, a leader in the field of
neuroplasticity research, suggests that learning new knowledge and skills everyday keeps the
structures of the brain in constant change which increases its ability to learn.
Metacognition is the awareness of one's thinking and the strategies one uses to learn.
Metacognition is simply defined as cognition about cognition or thinking about thinking.
Psychologist John Flavell (Lai, 2011) identifies two components of metacognition: metacognitive
knowledge and metacognitive regulation. Metacognitive knowledge includes knowledge of one's
own cognitive abilities, knowledge of cognitive tasks, and knowledge of the strategies to complete
the cognitive tasks. Metacognitive regulation refers to how an individual monitors and controls his
or her cognitive processes.
Zimmerman (2002) defines self-regulated learning (SRL) as the process in which students
systematically direct their thoughts, feelings, and actions toward the attainment of their academic
goals. It is a process of taking control of and evaluating one's own learning and behavior. It is a
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self-directed process through which students transform their mental abilities intoacademic skills. It
is also a cyclical process in which the student plans for a task, monitors his or her performance,
and reflects on the outcome. The cycle is then repeated as the student uses his or her reflections to
adjust and prepare for the next task. Thus, students practice their self-regulation learning by setting
goals, selecting and using strategies, monitoring their performance, and reflecting on their learning
outcomes (Zimmerman, 2008). Consequently, the three essential components of selfregulated
learning are planning, problem solving, and self-evaluation. Planning increases efficiency, control,
and motivation. Problem solving allows students to learn to think and look for solutions when
faced with adversities. Self-evaluation increases self-awareness that leads to the better
understanding of one's own emotions, strengths, and weaknesses.
Set your short-term and long-term academic goals in your studies. Identify the negative
outcomes if you don't achieve your goals as well as the positive outcomes when you achieve
them.
Make a self-help plan to achieve your academic goals. Think and select strategies to achieve
your goals such as staying focused, avoiding distractions, and developing skills to manage
your time efficiently.
Monitor your academic performance and progress. Use a chart to monitor your work
outcomes. When faced with difficult tasks, seek social support when you need it. Look for
inspiration to keep you motivated in achieving your academic goals. When confronted with
difficulties, always think and keep working toward your goals and the future.
Reflect on what you have learned and accomplished. Reflection helps you develop your
strengths and overcome your weaknesses.
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EVALUATION
Name: ___________________________________________
Date:______________
Course & Year: __________________________________
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A. True or False. Write T on the blank if the statement is true and write F if it is false. No
Erasure
B. As adolescents enhance their self-understanding, they become more aware of their own
strengths, weaknesses, learning and behavior. Your journey toward selfunderstanding may begin
with your answers to the following:
1. My goals
Short-term Goals Long-term Goals
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3. Special abilities and skills I have that can help me achieve my goals
Chapter
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SETTING GOALS FOR SUCCESS
Overview
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the outcome of hard work and determination that must be shaped over a long process,
Abraham Maslow and others have pioneered studies on needs, goals, and motivation. This chapter
lays down the theories that have been useful in helping people understand their goals and
motivations as well as the needs and challenges that they face in their life journey to success.
Objectives
Discussion
GOALS
Motivation directs a person's behavior toward a particular goal. A goal is the object toward
which the behavior is directed, usually within a specified period of time. Within the context of
industrial/organizational psychology, goal is defined simply as what the individual is consciously
trying to do. For Edwin Locke and Gary Latham (2006), goals direct attention, effort, and actions.
Goals motivate people to develop strategies that will enable them to perform better.
Accomplishing the goal can lead to satisfaction and higher motivation, or frustration and lower
motivation if the goal is not accomplished. Goals can be classified into two categories: short-term
goals and longterm goals. Generally, short-term goals are those that can be achieved in a day,
week, or year while long-term goals are usually achieved over a year or more.
Values give direction to behavior. Values are those which thepersonconsiders personally
important and worthy. They could be the basis for what is desirable, correct, and good. Individuals
act in ways that allow them to express their important values and attain the goals underlying them
(Sagiv, Roccas, Cieciuch, & Schwartz, 2017).
Needs also activate and direct behavior. Motivation is usually aroused by a need for or
lack of something that may propel a person to act. According to drive-reduction theory, humans
are motivated to satisfy needs in order to maintain homeostasis or internal equilibrium (Atkinson,
Atkinson, Smith, Bem, & Nolen- Hoeksema, 2000). Unmet needs will cause a state of bodily
tension and, consequently, homeostasis is disturbed. There are two classifications of needs:
physiological and psychological needs. Physiological needs are innate needs of the body such as
food, water, air, sleep, and sex. Psychological needs arise from relationship with other people such
as affiliation, achievement, altruism, esteem, and status.
The theory of psychologist Abraham Maslow suggests how needs motivate behavior.
Maslow developed the theory of hierarchy of needs presented in the shape of a pyramid with the
biological or physiological needs at the bottom and the need for selfactualization at the top. Once
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the biological needs are satisfied, safety or security needs become important, such as the need to
be safe from danger, illness, and threat. Once these needs are met, individuals may be able to
achieve love and fulfill the need for belonging. Eventually, individuals can achieve self esteem and
realize self-actualization. Self-esteem includes being accepted, respected, and valued by others.
Self-actualization
refers to self satisfy the need for self-actualization by striving to get a hi gh grade and
becoming a better student.
The motivational impact of goals may be affected by moderators such as selfefficacy and
mindset. Psychologist Albert Bandura defines self-efficacy as the person's belief that he/she can
successfully perform behaviors that will produce desired effects (Engler, 2012). Self-efficacy
entails judgment of personal capacity. It plays a central role in people's thoughts, motivations, and
actions. Bandura suggests that efficacy beliefs influence students' academic performance.
According to Psychologist Carol Dweck (2008), there are two categories of mindset-fix
mindset and growth mindset. People with fixed mindset believe that their basic qualities, like their
intelligence or talents, are simply fixed traits. Students of fixed mindset worry about making
mistakes. Those with growth mindset, in turn, believe that their most basic abilities can be
developed through dedication and hard work. Students with a growth mindset understand that
mistakes and effort are critical to learning. They welcome challenges and seek critical feedback to
help them learn. They embrace learning, mistakes, and effort ina way that promotes their
achievement . Research has shown that mindset is related to student's self - confidence and
motivation.
GOAL SETTING
Rules of Goal-Setting
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Set goals that motivate you. When you set your goals, it is important that they are personally
important to you.
Set SMART goals. Your goals must be clear and well defined so that you can measure the
degree of your success. Be sure that your goals are attainable and personally relevant to you.
Your goals must also have a time frame.
Write your life goals. Make a chart and write a list of all the goals you want to achieve.
Prioritize the items on the list, discard those unimportant, and make space for all the
important and urgent activities you want to do such as studying your lessons.
Develop an action plan for your future. Write the steps to attain your life goals.
Start working toward your life goals.
EVALUATION
2. Maslow suggests that people have a hierarchy of needs, the lowest is the need for
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Chapter
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Taking Charge of One’s health
Write an essay guided by the following question. Do you think it is possible to achieve self-
actualization? Cite the relationships of the needs according to Abraham Maslow. How do they
affect each other? Give an example for each need and relate it to your own experiences. Describe
the effects of each need on you and your behavior.
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______________ Stress has ill- effects on health. People sometimes use unconsciousness
strategies called defense mechanism in order to cope with stress. Nonetheless, psychologist
suggest that people must lean positive ways to manage stress. Some suggestions to manage stress
Objectives
include social support, self -care , and compassion. This chapter defines stress and presents the
factors that cause stress. Theories that attempt to explain stress include Han Selye’s General
Adaptation Syndrome and Richard Lazarus’s Cognitive Theory of Stress.
Discussion
STRESS DEFINED
Stress refers to events that are perceived as challenging, damaging, or threatening to one’s
physical or psychological well-being. These events are referred to as stressors and the way people
respond to them is called stress response ( Nolen-Hoeksema, Fredrickson, lofts, & Wagenaar,
2009), Stress is experienced by all people but in different degrees from mild to severe, depending
on how people interpret the situations. Every day people encounter stressors , eustress: and
distress. Eustress occurs when prople experience positive events but requires them to adjust.
Distress occurs when people experience negative events and make a great deal of demands on
them.
Then people experience urgent demand as when targeting a deadline such as submission of
school project, they are likely to experience pressure. Another factor that causes stress is
frustration, especially when one is thwarted or prevented from satisfying a need or achieving his or
her goal. For instance, a student will feel frustrated if he or she fails a major examination, loses a
mobile phone ,o or is scolded by a teachers, A student wanting to study but lacks she financial
means or is physically disabled would find it difficult to attain the goal . Conflict is another factor
of stress.
Conflict occurs when a person needs to choose between two or many options. There are four
types of conflict: approach-approach, avoidance –avoidance, approach- avoidance, and multiple
conflicts. Approach-approach conflict occurs when a person needs to choose between two options
that are both attractive. Avoidance –avoidance conflict occurs when a person chooses between
options that he or she finds both unpleasant. Approach –avoidance conflict occurs when a person
needs to choose between options that have both positive and negative consequences. Multiple
conflict occurs when there are more than two options. Students usually experience multiple
conflict during examination period.
In order to deal with frustrations, conflicts, and stress, people sometimes use unconscious
strategies called defense mechanism. To cope with the pain and deal with anxiety. Beatnik
reaction is a defense mechanism in which the person exhibits behaviors that stand apart from the
standards of society and avoids most responsibilities of a good citizen. Beatnik reaction includes
smoking, drug, use, early sex, and dropping out of school. Anyone who is frustrated may also act
aggressively such as destroying things or human another person . This strategy is called
displacement . Another example of defense mechanism is compensation in which a person makes
up for covers up his or her weak areas by being superior in other areas.
to release hormones that help the body to adapt and fight off the harmful effects of stress.. The
body can eventually suffer fatigue if stress continues. If the stress is not properly dealt with , the
person will experience exhaustion in which the body may suffer psychosomatic illness , including
colds, flu, allergies. Headache, muscle pain, as well as those that may irreversible damages to
one’s health such as heart disease, ulcer , diabetes, stroke. Cancer or death.
Cognitive psychologist Richard Lazarus( Ciccarel & White, 2012) has developed a
cognitive view of stress . In his theory , he suggest that the way people think about and appraise a
stressor is a major factor in how stressful that two –step process in appraising the degree of threat
or harm of a stressor and how one should react to that stressor ; primary appraisal and secondary
appraisal . in primary appraisal . the individual appraises the severity of the stressors and
classifies it as threat , a challenge , or harm or loss. If the stressor is seen as a challenge (e.g, quix,
exam), the individual may perceive it as less stressful and more likely to cope well . However, if
he stressor is seen as a threat , negative emotions may ensue . More common emotional reactions
to stress include anxiety, anger, aggression, apathy., depression, and psychological impairment.
In the cultural perspective, a person from one culture who must live in another culture may
experience a great deal of stress (Ciccareli & White, 2012). For example , one primary source of
stress imposed on immigrant Filipino workers in other countries is the need to adapt anew culture
. Acculturation is the process of adaptation by which immigrants, native groups, and ethnic
minority groups adjust to the new culture making behavioural and attitudinal changes.
Acculturative stress refers to the feelings of tension and anxiety that the accompany efforts to
adapt to the orientation and values of dominant culture ( Nevid & Rtahus, 2003). Perhaps the
greatest stress is when migrant Filipino workers experience discrimination, stereotyping , and
prejudice because of racism and anti-immigrant attitudes.
entails self- kindness when confronted with life difficulties rather than being angry. Self –
compassion people accept the mistakes and failures are apart of being a human and common to
all. They are more likely to be mindful or aware of their painful thoughts and feelings . Self –
Compassion has shown to reduce anxiety, stress, exhaustion , and depression (Neff, 2012)
Stress has effects on health. For this reason, people must learn ways to mange stress with self
–compassion. Stress management is the ability to control stress and develop the skills to prevent
the harmful effects of stress. Particularly, students who are able to manage stress carefully are
more likely to develop physical and emotional well-being . They are also able to perform better
in school. Below are some suggestions to manage stress and practice self- compassion:
• When you are stressed, find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed
yourself . Sit back straight. Close your eyes, and begin the process of calming
yourself by paying attention to your breathing. Inhale through the nose. Exhale
through the mouth. as you inhale , say to your self – relax. As you exhale , imagine
yourself releasing out all the tensions. Do this exercise three times.. Make this
breathing exercise regularly. It will help you to relax.
• Pray or meditate .Make it apart of your daily life. It provides power and energy for
living.
• Read spiritual materials such as the Bible, self- help books, or magazine, that will
make you relax and guide you throughout your life.
• Be mindful of your thoughts and feelings. Keep a dairy or journal where you can
write down and process your thoughts and feelings.
• Develop a sense of humor .Think positive and find reasons to smile and be happy.
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EVALUATION
Name: ___________________________________________
Date:______________ Course & Year: __________________________________
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A. Identification
1._____________________refers to experiencing events tha endanger or threaten the
psychological and physiological well-being of a person.
6.The General Adaptation Syndrome has tree stages: alarm,_________________, and exhaustion.
B. Stress Test. The test is designed to help recognize the symptoms of stress and discovery
your stress level. Indicate your responses by checking the appropriate column that
corresponds to your choice using the following scale.
Rating Description
1.Headache
4.Excessive perspiration
5.Nausea or dizziness
8.Diarrhea or constipation
11.Loss of appetite
C. Develop your own self –Care plan. A self –care plan can help you mange your stress,
enhance your health and well-being, and improve your academic performance. In your
self –care lan, include the things you need to do and need to avoid. Specifically. make
your self-care plan on the following six dimensions.
Physical Cognitive
Emotional Social
Moral Spiritual
D.. Essay. Write an essay on the three important things you discovered about yourself and learned
from each self- assessment activity. What are your insights on the results of the activities?
My Reflection
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