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 Reasons behind behavior, mental processes or
capacity
PSYCHOLOGY  Analyzing and conducting studies
Psyche – Mind
Logos – Study
Psychology QUESTIONS TO PONDER
 study of the mind. Genetic or environmental factors?
 The scientific study of behavior and mental
processes.  Does a person acquire the risk of high blood
 Behavior – overt behavior pressure or become obese merely because the
 Mental Processes – covert behavior parent developed the same risk? Or it is the poor
Thoughts (cognition) eating habits that cause obesity and the limited
Senses (perception) ability to regulate personal habits that lead to high
Feelings (emotions) blood pressure?
 Is homosexuality a genetic or outside of a person's
control or it is a choice or a behavior influenced by
GOALS PSYCHOLOGY environmental factors?
 Is there a biological reason why girls tend to like
The field of the social sciences that deals with the dolls and dress or why boys tend to like toy car and
description, explanation, prediction and control of behavior guns? Or is this something that children are
(Ciccarelli and Meyer, 2006). nurtured to like by their parents and other social
factors?
 Describe
 Understand
WILLIAM JAMES
 Predict
 Control  American Philosopher and Psychologist
 Known for his Theory of the Self and The Principles
of Psychology
 The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to
choose one thought over another

5 CHARACTERISTICS OF SELF

1. All human thoughts are owned by some personal self.


2. All thoughts are constantly changing or are never static.
3. There is a continuity of thoughts as its focus shifts from
one object to another.
4. Thoughts deal with objects that are different from and
independent of consciousness itself.
5. Consciousness can focus on particular objects and not
others.

PARTS OF SELF
The self is made up of ME self and I self.
ME SELF (Empirical ME) can be considered as a separate
object or the individual that the person refers to when
discussing or describing their personal experiences.
 The gifts were sent to me.
 The person is smiling at me.
I SELF (Pure Ego) the self that knows and recognizes who
they are and what they have done.
WHY SCIENCE?  It is similar to the person’s soul or mind; it
comprises the totality of the person’s identity; it
 Systematic method explains human behavior and
takes into account the past, present and future
mental processes.
selves of the individual.
o I borrowed the book from the library.
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o I won the game flooded with feelings, and have difficulty thinking
o logically and basing their responses on that.
COMPONENTS OF ME SELF  Undifferentiated people have difficulty separating
their own feelings from others.
Material self – things or objects belonging to a person or  They look to family to define how they think about
entities that a person belongs to. issues, feel about people, and interpret their
Ex: person’s body (the core of material self), his family, experiences.
clothes, books and even his money.
  The basic building blocks of a “self” are inborn, but
Social self – refers to who the person is in a particular social an individual’s family relationships during
situation. Changes in behavior usually result from the childhood and adolescence primarily determine
different social situations the person finds himself in. how much “self” he develops.
ex. The person changes how he presents himself when he’s  People with a POORLY DIFFERENTIATED “self”
at home, in school, or with friends.
 depend so heavily on the acceptance and approval
Spiritual self – more concrete or permanent; personality, of others that they either quickly adjust what they
values, morals. think, say, and do to please others or they
Spiritual Self – refers to the self that is more concrete or dogmatically proclaim what others should be like
permanent when compared to the material and social and pressure them to conform.
selves. This self is the most subjective and intimate part of  A person with a WELL-DIFFERENTIATED “self”
the self. It is always engaging in the process of recognizes his realistic dependence on others,
introspection (self-observation) but he can stay calm and clear headed enough in
ex. Aspects like the individual’s personality, values and the face of conflict, criticism, and rejection to
morals that are usually stable and constant. distinguish thinking rooted in a careful assessment
of the facts from thinking clouded by emotionality.
• Selfless
OTHER SELVES IN PSYCHOLOGY
• Confident
GLOBAL SELF – represents the overall value that a person • Supportive
places upon himself.
 This affects how he views and feels about himself.
 The groups of people that he interacts with
CARL ROGERS
everyday of his life strongly influence him.
 Global self is the product of all experiences that he
had in the society which account for the kind of Carl Rogers (1902-1987) American Psychologist
Person-
person he is. Centered Theory
Self-Concept. - It is used to refer to how a person thinks
MURRAY BOWEN about or perceives himself.

DIFFERENTIATED SELF – still affected by the presence of


others but has the ability to separate feelings and
SELF CONCEPT: REAL AND IDEAL SELF
thoughts REAL SELF CONCEPT refers to all information and
Murray Bowen – Family Systems Theory perception the person has about himself; Who am I?
 Differentiation is the process of freeing yourself IDEAL SELF CONCEPT the model version a person has of
from your family's processes to define yourself and himself; borne out of demands and standards of society;
attain self-fulfillment. Who do I want to be?
 This means being able to have different opinions
and values than your family members but being
able to stay emotionally connected to them.
 Agreeing to disagree!

Forces affecting the person:


1. Togetherness
2. Individuality

Two Major Parts of Bowen’s Theory:


 Differentiation of self is the ability to separate
feelings and thoughts. (rational)
 Undifferentiated people cannot separate feelings
and thoughts; when asked to think, they are
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 Roger's state that there should be congruence • To be considered a well adjusted person,
(sameness, equality) between the real self and the success and failures should be accepted and
ideal self in order for the person to be happy and understood
satisfied with his life. • Can deal with and accept complexities
 If the real self is very different from the ideal self
then the person will experience dissatisfaction D.W WINNICOTT: TRUE OR FALSE SELVES
and may see himself as failure or a loser (Feist &
Feist, 2008) The TRUE SELF in individuals is one in which the self is
seen as creative, spontaneously experiencing each day of
their lives, appreciating being alive, real, integrated, and
THE SELD DISCEPRANCY THEORY
connected to the whole of existence.
Higgins 1987 FALSE SELF may be manifested as a form of defense. It is
dead and empty. It is the mask that hides the true person
 that individuals use internalized standards to for fear of the pain of rejection and failure.
which they compare themselves called self guides  For Winnicott, true and false selves are present in
 Self guides - provides directions for how the all individual.
person should present himself. When the self is  For the two to exist in a healthy individual, they
found to be deviating/diverting from these guides, should be functional for the advantage of both the
the result is self-discrepancy. person himself and his society.
 Emotional discomfort, guilt, indifference  A person that struggles to fit in but still
experiences the feeling of being forced to comply
rather than adapting gracefully to the situation is a
person whose self is maladjusted and unhealthy.

ALBERT BANDURA: SOCIAL COGNITIVE THEORY


THE SELF AS PROACTIVE AND AGENTIC

ALBERT BANDURA: SOCIAL COGNITIVE THEORY

 An individual is seen as proactive and agentic


which means that he has the capacity to exercise
the control over his life.
 Choice
 The Social Cognitive Theory suggested that human
beings are pro-active, self regulating, self-
reflective, and self-organizing.
 People have the ability to influence their own
behavior which may lead to desired outcome.
 The basic principle involved in human learning is
learning through observation. A large portion of
human behavior resulted from modeling in which
the behavior of the model is consciously acquired
for in the mind of the person.

OBSERVATIONAL LERANING
 Learning achieved by watching and imitating the
actions of another.
 Triadic Reciprocal Causation Paradigm
MULTIPLE SELVES THEORY
Multiple selves theory – suggests that there exists in the
individual different aspects of the self; a whole made of
parts; manifest when situation calls for it
Unified self – connected to consciousness, awareness, and
agency
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Self- regulation allows the person to set goals that are
better and higher than the former, challenging his
capabilities and making him a wiser and self-actualized
individual.
o The person engages in self-regulated behavior
when he reactively attempts to minimize the
discrepancies between what he has already
accomplished and what he still wants to achieve.
o After seeing that he is at the right track in achieving
his goal, he will also proactively set new and
higher goals for himself.
Self- regulation allows the person to set goals that are
better and higher than the former, challenging his
capabilities and making him a wiser and self-actualized
o individual.
o The control of oneself by oneself (Bell, 2016)
FACTORS OF HUMAN AGENCY
Agency - refers to the human capability to influence one's
functioning and the course of events by one's actions.
Human agency - is the capacity for human beings to make
choices and to impose those choices on the world
Intentionality – refers to the actions performed by the
person intentionally or with full awareness of his behavior.
It involves planning with awareness of the possible
consequences of actions.
o Outcomes can be positive or negative
o Eg. Kenneth went online to apply for a
passport because he wants to travel
outside his country.
Forethought – refers to the person’s anticipation of likely LESSON 5: THE SELF IN THE WESTERN AND
outcomes of his behavior. This allows him to select from a
EASTERN THOUGHT
repertoire of behaviors and determine which one will most
likely lead to a positive outcome. o The tendency to stress either individuality or more
o Choosing what behavior will give a positive collective response is one of the most widely
outcome distributed traits around the world. Not every
Ex. Kenneth chose an interview date for his culture is at one end or the other end of the
passport application where most likely he will be spectrum, but the majority tend to favor one over
on-leave. the other in an everyday life.
Self-reactiveness – refers to the process in which the o Knowing about the basis of this Collectivism versus
person is motivated and regulates his behavior as he Individualism construct will help you to recognize,
observes his progress in achieving his goals. The goals understand, and anticipate attitudes in different
that the person wants to reach should be clear and types of culture.
specific. It should also be within his ability to achieve.
o The person should be realistic, aware of his WEST EAST
potentials and capabilities to fulfill his goals. NORTH AND SOUTH ASIA
o Eg. Luna creates and sticks to her learning plan so AMERICA
she can apply for a full scholarship and receive latin EUROPE MIDDLE EAST
honors. AUSTRALIA
Self-reflectiveness – refers to the person looking inward NEW ZEALAND
and evaluating his motivations, values, life goals and other
people’s effect on him. WESTERN EASTERN
o An important aspect of self-reflectiveness is self- Strives to find and prove Accepts the truth as given
efficacy - the person’s belief that he is capable of
the truth and is more interested in
behavior that will produce the desired positive finding the balance
results. Christianity, Rational,
o Eg. Kenneth believes that he has to enjoy and Scientific, Logical schools Buddhism, Confucianism,
experience life a little while he is still able and Hinduism, Integral Yoga,
capable.
Islam, Taoism, Zen.
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More focused on the
individual events and the Holistic approach – all Egoistical individualism – the idea that individual
role of the person. events in the universe are freedom is associated with self-interest and self-reliance
interconnected Developmental Individualism – the idea that individual
Searching outside freedom is linked to human flourishing.
yourself through research Searching inside yourself –  He knows that he is the one who will suffer the
and analysis by becoming a part of the most if he wastes his chance to live a life that
universe through he and his family can be proud of.
Your future is unknown, it meditation and right  Something that would define him and inspire
was predetermined by living others that being in the world meant making it
God and is not much better not only for himself but also for others.
influenced by your deeds. Your future is determined
by the past and your deeds THE SELF IN WESTERN THOUGHT
A human being has an today.
individualistic nature and
is an independent part of A human being is an  Ecological self - a broad, expansive sense of self,
the universe and the integral part of the universe related not only to other humans but also to our
society. and the society. home—the living earth—and the nonhuman
others that co-inhabit it.
 Ecological self – sees the self as a process that is
undergoing development.
 Ecopsychologists suggest that–in addition to
needing other people–humans are also hard-
INDIVIDUALISTIC SELF wired to affiliate with other living things and the
 Through the process of introspection and life-like processes (Wilson, 1984).
reflection, man begins to search for clues as to the  Race, gender, social status, education, and culture
probable purpose of his existence and the role he are factors that influence self-development.
plays in the general order of the things of the world.
 As a result of his introspection, he decides that COLLECTIVE SELF
since he has only one life to live and that death is
inevitable, he should make the most of this life he
was given.  The identity of the individual is lost and does NOT
 This is an example of a person manifesting his exist except as a part of the group
individualistic self.  The family and the society control how the group
 He sees himself as being capable of living his own members should think, act and generally conduct
life, doing the things that he would love to do, themselves in society.
making his own mistakes and learning from his  It is observed that strong bonds of unity are
experiences. formed and developed in collectivism.
 He is aware of his rights and the limitations of his  In an extreme sense, all decisions made are group
freedom in the extant society; he sets goals and decisions.
works hard to achieve them.  They are bound by the customs, beliefs and
traditions by the group.
 Some examples of issues decided upon by the
group are gender roles, marriage practices and
patriarchy. In such cases, individual freedom is
sacrificed for the benefit of the group.

CONFUCIUS

 Also known as Kong Zhongni; Master Kong’; ‘Great


Sage and Teacher’
 Born in the period of the Zhou dynasty in 551 BCE
in the small state of Lu
 The Zhou dynasty was characterized by political,
social and moral disintegration in China.
 He grew up poor even though he descended from a
TYPES scholarly family
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 Confucius’ family made sure that he received
proper education.
 His experiences in politics made him focus on
social reforms.
 His philosophy came to be known as humanistic
social philosophy.
 He considers the society and its communities as the
main source of values of both human beings and
the society in general.
 Confucianism – is a way of life; concern with
ethical principles
 Life is a blessing and if you work together with your
fellows, you will attain happiness
 Man’s happiness and perfection is achieved in
social life
 Social order (harmony) is patterned to moral
XIAO (FILIALITY)
order 2. Xiao (filiality) – the virtue of reverence and respect for
family.
SELF IN CONFUCIAN THOUGHT  Parents should be revered for the life they had
given. Children should show respect to their
 Ren – human goodness; empathy; co-humanity; parents by exerting efforts to take care of
humaneness themselves.
 the center of the philosophical concept of  Reverence for parents and family is further
Confucianism which can be manifested through: demonstrated by bringing honor to the family,
1. Li (propriety) making something of himself to earn the respect
2. Xiao (filiality) of others.
3. Yi (rightness)  If ever, the person is having difficulty giving his
 It involves feelings and thinking which serves as family the honor that they deserved, he should just
the foundation of all human relationships. do his best to not disgrace the family.
 Ren further signifies the Chinese culture’s  The family is a reflection of the person.
emphasis on feelings (heart) as the most  How the person interacts socially and the values
important instead of the head in human nature. he emulates can all be traced back to his family
environment.
LI (PROPRIETY)  This forms the bases of the person’s moral and
social virtue.
1. Li (propriety) – in order to guide human actions,
rules of propriety should be followed.
 Such rules involve adherence to the rituals of the
community.
 In connection with the Li, Confucius stated “ to
master oneself and return to propriety is humanity”.
 Self-mastery includes self-development and rejects
selfish behavior.
 Self-mastery is characterized by self-control and
the will to redirect impulses and change these to
socially accepted expressions of human nature.
 Confucius believes that everyone has duties and
responsibilities esp. in the five relationships:
• Between father and son
• Ruler and the subject
• Older and younger brothers
• Husband and wife
• Friend and friend

YI (RIGHTNESS)
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3. Yi (rightness)– the right way of behaving. It is


unconditional and absolute.
 Actions must be performed and carried out
because they are the right actions.
 Obedience to parents, for instance is expected of
children because it is morally right and obligatory
to do so.
 Confucius emphasized that actions should be
performed because they are right and NOT for
selfish benefits that they provide.

Li, Xiao and Yi are virtues observed in a person whose


humanity is developed, morally cultivated and aware.

Virtuous people, according to Confucianism, result in a


well-rounded, civilized, humane society.
 In contemporary society, both the individualistic
and collective self may exist in a single individual
through:
1. Result of influences and intermarriages between
people of the East and the West.
2. Sharing of knowledge and the influx of information
from mass media and social media.
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Ten to twelve years of age, puberty begins and
they are now in the adolescent period up to 18 to
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The age bracket of adolescence, however, may
Lesson 1: THE PHYSICAL SELF: The self as vary across different groups.
Impacted by the body
WORLD HEALTH ORGANIZATION
SELF UNDERSTANDING Describes adolescents as young people whose age
ranges from 10-19 yrs. and are often thought of
Self-understanding - the individual’s cognitive as a healthy group.
representation of the self which consists of the According to healthy children.org, adolescence is
substance and the content of self-conceptions. divided into 3 periods:
 The development of self-understanding in 1. early adolescence (11-14y/o)
adolescence can be described from 2. middle adolescence (15-17 y/o)
SIMPLE to PERPLEX and involves a 3. late adolescence (18-21 y/o)
number of aspects of the self.
 Self-understanding – starts at 4-7 years PHILIPPINES
old (early childhood); mostly differentiate
the self by physical characteristics then Youth in Nation-Building Act (1994) defined
later on using psychological constructs (I youth according to ages which cover 15-30 yrs.
am not scared, I am happy) This age range was created by the National Youth
 At 8-11 years, self-understanding becomes Commission.
more complex
Describing themselves: PUBERTY
 as part of a group (I’m a Girl scout,
Catholic) Puberty is a brain-neuroendocrine process
 using psychological traits (I’m popular, occurring primarily in early adolescence that
nice, smart) triggers the rapid physical changes that occur in
 Increasing social comparison the adolescent stage of human development.
NOT the same as adolescence because puberty
ends prior to the end of adolescent period.
GROWING UP the most essential marker of the beginning of
As children advance in age, their interests change adolescence.
and with these come changes in their bodies. An Pituitary gland – master endocrine gland that
obvious change in teenagers are the changes in controls growth and regulates the functions of all
their physical selves. other endocrine glands, including the gonads
 ovaries for girls
Physical Self - refers to the concrete dimensions  testes for boys
of the body, it is the tangible aspect of the person The changes that are experienced during puberty
which can be directly observed and examined. are different for boys and girls.
Physical characteristics are the defining traits or  Male sex-glalnd that produces sperm in
features of the person’s body and it can easily be the form of spermatozoa is called; Testis.
distinguished with the naked eye.  Female sex-gland; ovaries.
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 Primary sexual changes – changes in the
reproductive organs that prepare both
boys and girls for procreation.

Primary and Secondary Sex Characteristics

 Girls reached puberty earlier than boys


and experience menarche (her first
menstrual flow).

It is to be remembered that although human


development is a progressive process,
variations occur because of individual
differences in such factors as health, nurture
and heredity. (Santrock, 2016)

BODY IMAGE

Body image – refers to the way one sees


himself/herself or the way he/she imagines how
he/she looks.
 Boys, two to three years later, experience  In general, girls are less happy with their
spermarche or semenarche (his first body images than boys throughout
ejaculation or nocturnal emission or wet puberty.
dreams).  Recent research revealed that adolescents
 Chemical substances (hormones) with the most positive body images are
secreted by the gonads (sex glands) are engaged in health enhancing behaviour
distributed by the blood stream such as a balanced diet and exercising
throughout the body. regularly.
 Girls – Estrogen; promote physical  A healthy body image is made up of
changes such as increase in height, positive thoughts, feelings and acceptance
widening of the hips and increase in fatty of one’s body and over-all physical
tissues in the breast of girls. appearance.
 Boys - Androgen and Testosterone;  Adolescents with poor body images have
responsible for the boy’s growth of facial negative thoughts and feelings about their
and body hair, muscles and changes in the appearance which can either be true or
voice. not.
 Secondary sexual changes – rapid Imaginary audience – refers to an
changes which are physical changes that egocentric state where the individual
distinguish boys from girls. imagines and believes that many people are
actively listening to or watching him or her
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 In social psychology, this phenomenon is Self – Perception Theory – observing our own
called spotlight effect. behavior
Attachment – Bowlby; Interaction with others,
Spotlight effect – refers to the belief that others audiences; mirror;
are paying more attention to the person’s
appearance and behaviour than they really are. 1. Personal Factors
 People esp. adolescents sometimes tend to a. Introspection and self- reflection
overestimate the extent to which others Introspection – the process by which one
notice them or their bodies (Myer, 2015) observes and examines one’s internal state
(mental and emotional) after behaving in a
ADOLESCENT’S BODY IMAGE INCLUDES: certain way. (Hewstone).
 Studies, however, show that introspection
1. Perception of their physical self when they is limited because people are commonly
look in the mirror. motivated to keep unwanted thoughts and
2. Feelings of like or dislike about the experiences out of memory and
physical self that they see. consciousness.
3. Their thoughts and how they relate to b. Self – Perception Theory – Bem (1972) self-
their physical self. perception theory explains that since one’s
4. Perception of how other people view them internal state is difficult to interpret, people can
physically. infer their inner states by observing their own
behavior.
EFFECTS ON BODY IMAGE c. Self – Concept – is a cognitive representation of
self-knowledge which includes the sum total of
1. High self esteem all beliefs that people have about themselves.
2. Often spend more time taking care of their  It is a collection of all individual
appearance. experiences involving one’s
3. The attention that he gets for his physical characteristics, social roles, values, goals
beauty elevates the level of his self-esteem. and fears. Thus, it pertains to all
characteristics the person enumerates
when asked to describe who he is.
FACTORS THAT AFFECT PERCEPTION ON
Physical self–concept is the individual’s
PHYSICAL SELF
perception or description of his physical self,
including his physical appearance.
Personal • Introspection and self- reflection
• Self – Perception Theory
d. Personal identity – the concept of a person has
• Self-concept about himself that develops over the years
Factors • Personal identity
including aspects of his life that he was born into
like family, nationality, gender, physical traits, the
• Attachment Process and Social Appraisal choices he makes (e.g. what he does for a living,
Social • Maintaining, Regulating and Expanding the Self
in Interpersonal Relationships
who his friends are and what he believes in.
• The Looking-glass Self Theory
Factors • Social comparison - upward and downward
2. Social Factors
• Collective Identity
a. Attachment Process and Social Appraisal
According to Bowlby (1969), people learn about
When we look inward and reflect, it somehow their value and lovability when they
affect how we perceive ourselves; observing experiences how their mothers or caregivers care
ourselves; self-concept - sum total a person has for them and respond to their needs.
about himself
Personal identity – the you over the years;
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• Caregiving that is consistent and himself to one who is a body builder to
appropriately responds to the infant’s inspire him to do workouts to get the abs
needs promote positive self-concept; that he desires
whereas caregiving that is neglectful and • 2. Downward social comparison –
unresponsive creates a negative self- happens when an individual compares
concept believing that they are not himself to someone who is in a worse
worthy and that others cannot be trusted. situation than he is especially when he is
This is developed prior to achieving self- feeling so low. This may make himself feel
awareness. better knowing that he is more fortunate
than this person.
b. Maintaining, Regulating and Expanding the • Facebook is the biggest venue of
Self in Interpersonal Relationships – The sense social comparison.
of self is continuously shaped through ongoing • For a person to have a healthy self-
interaction with others or with significant image, it is important to never
relationship partners. They act as “private compare oneself to others. Rather
audiences” with whom people carry an internal one should set realistic standards
dialogue. Oftentimes, however, people are not for himself.
aware that they are being influenced by these e. Social Identity Theory (Collective Identity)
private audiences. formulated by Tajfel and Turner in 1979 which
provides a framework about how people achieve
c. The Looking-glass Self Theory – The view of understanding about themselves by being a
oneself comes from a compilation of personal member of their group. People need positive
qualities and impressions of how others perceive social identity that is why they connect to a wider
the individual. social network.
• In looking glass self, the self-image is • This idea assumes that as a member of the
shaped and reflected from the social group they will not be discriminated by an
world. Other people’s reaction would out-group.
serve as a mirror in which people see • It will enhance their self-esteem because
themselves particularly the way in which they feel secured with the shield of the
they are perceived and judges by others. group membership where they belong.
SELF IDENTITY
d. Social comparison – Hewstone et.al (2015) The person that someone Is who a person believes she
cited the work of Leon Festinger in 1954 truly is or the entire person or he is, representing a
introduced another way of understanding oneself of the individual. synthesis and integration of
self-understanding
by comparing one’s traits, abilities or opinions to (Santrock, 2014)
that of others. The total The traits and
characteristics/qualities of a characteristics, social
person both known and relations, roles and social
unknown to others but group memberships that
known to oneself. define who one is.
A way of making sense of some
aspect or part of self-concept
TYPES OF COMPARISON (Leary and Tangney, 2012)

TYPES OF COMPARISON:
1. Upward social comparison – happens
THE IMPACT OF CULTURE ON BODY IMAGE
when an individual compares himself to
AND SELF ESTEEM: THE IMPORTANCE OF
others who are better than him.
BEAUTY
• Example: An adolescent male who values a
well-built, muscled physique compares
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Culture – a social system that is characterized by Dark-skinned Filipinos tend to have a
the shared meanings that are attributed to negative body image. They feel ashamed
people and events by its members (Hewstone, and embarrassed of their bodies because
2015) they think they’re valued less compared to
those with lighter skin.
BEAUTY AS PERCEIVED BY THE WORLD  This proves the importance of visibility
and representation in mass media.
• Beauty – the quality of being physically  The message that society gives is that flat
attractive or the qualities in a person or a noses and dark complexions do not define
thing that give pleasure to the senses of beauty.
mind (Merriam and Webster).  Eurocentrism and colorism indeed have
• Young adolescents are forced to adhere to significant effects on the body image and
society’s definition of beauty lest they may identities of the common Filipino.
be labelled ugly or (pangit).
• For young adolescent who is awkwardly
experiencing physical changes, who is SELF-ESTEEM AND THE IDEAL BODY IMAGE
inexperienced and innocent of the
complexities of the world, BEAUTY is what
social media dictates, what fashion Self-esteem – the overall evaluation that a person
models look like, and how his/her has of himself which can be positive or negative,
celebrity dresses and behaves. high or low (Hewstone et.al, 2015)
It is a measure of the person’s self-worth based
THE FILIPINO CONCEPT OF BEAUTY on some personal or social standard.

EUROCENTRISM – a tendency to interpret the


world in terms of European or Anglo-American
values and experiences. Filipinos with
eurocentric features are seen everywhere in
media. With their fair skin and tall noses.
(https://www.merriam-
ASPECTS OF CULTURE THAT MAY LED TO
webster.com/dictionary/Eurocentic)
AFOREMENTIONED MISCONCEPTIONS
The Filipino culture has been whitewashed so 1. Society’s ideals of the perfect physical
much that it is as if their heritage and identities form.
don’t matter at all in the global schema. 2. Images of perfection adolescents see in all
types of media (i.e. print, television, film
COLORISM – the prejudicial or preferential and internet).
treatment of same-race people based solely on • Mass media is a powerful tool that
the color of their skin (https://www.merriam- reinforces cultural beliefs and values.
webster.com/dictionary/Eurocentic) 3. Since a standard has been set by society and
reinforced by mass media, any characteristic
 Although associated with cleanliness, that does not conform to the standard is
being fair-skinned gives the impression of labelled as ugly.
beauty, health and wealth. Skin color, not
to the combination of an individual’s  Knowing that adolescence is the
physical features, presently determines period where self-identity is formed,
one’s level of attractiveness. it is important for adults in the
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environment to listen to this young • While gender identity is a category of
people and provide proper guidance social identity that refers to an
and support. individual's identification as male, female
 The adolescent should not be afraid to or some category other than male or
talk and disclose confusing aspects of female.
his physical development to his • It is a person's subjective sense of being a
significant others. It is from significant man or woman
people, particularly those closest to • Masculine are qualities and behaviors
him that he becomes aware of the judged by a particular culture to be ideally
things in life that really matter. associated with men and boys
• Feminine are qualities and behaviors
judged by a particular culture to be ideally
PART 2: LESSON 2: THE SEXUAL SELF associated with women and girls.
• Androgyny are people who have both
CLARIFYING SEXUAL TERMINOLOGIES masculine and feminine traits, feelings and
qualities.
• Sex is derived from the Latin word secare • Asexuals are people who do not
which means 'to divide' while the word experience sexual drives or attraction to
sexuality means 'to unite,‘ either sex
• term used if referring to biological; • Hypersexual are persons with an
sexual activity or to being excessive interest in sex to the point
biologically male or female where it can cause problems in one's life.
• Sexuality – biological,
psychological/psychosexual, social and
moral totality Perspective of Human Sexuality
• Sexual selfhood is defined how one
thinks about himself or self as sexual
individual.
• Sexual identity includes sexual Sociobiological/
orientation (either homosexual or Historical Biological
Evolutionary
heterosexual), his ability to manage sexual
feelings (such as sexual arousal and
attraction, activities, interest and style of
behaviour) and his capacity to regulate his Psychological Religious
sexual behaviour to avoid undesirable
consequences.
• Gender refers to the characteristics of
people as males or females. 1. HISTORICAL
• Gender role is a set of expectations that
prescribes how females and males should Historical. In ancient Greece,
think, act and feel refers to • Male - dominant role
• Gender assignment (natal gender) refers • Penis - male symbol of fertility
to the initial assignment as male or female • Male body was greatly admired.
which usually occurs at birth. • Wives are considered as objects to be
• Gender reassignment denotes an official possessed.
and usually legal change of gender. • No legal and political rights.
• existing sexual characteristics are • The woman (gyne) only function is to
altered bear a child.
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The Middle Ages (476-1450). The church
decreed that all sexual acts that do not lead to
procreation were considered evil.
• Women were labeled as temptress (Eve)
or woman of virtue (Virgin Mary)
Protestant Reformation of the 16th century
(1483-1546) Martin Luther, John Calvin, and
other Protestant leaders initiated a movement
against the corruption of Roman Catholic Church.
• They believe that sexuality is natural part
of life and that priests should be able to Primary and Secondary Sex Characteristics

marry and have families.


17th and 18th century The Puritans (a group of DEOXYRIBUNUCLEIC ACID
people who were discontented with the Church of • A molecular structure that contains coded
England rallied for religious, moral, and societal genetic information.
reformation.) • DNA is a long, ladder-like chain of pairs of
• They had positive views on marital sex, chemical molecules.
and approve sex out of marriage.
Victorian Era (1837-1901) Homosexuality
and prostitution were rampant and
considered to be threats to social order. CHROMOSOMES
• The Psychoanalytic Theory became Thread-like “colored bodies” in the
popular (they become more comfortable nucleus of each cell that are made
discussing breasts and buttocks). up of DNA
In humans, each cell normally
Victorian Era (1837-1901) contains 23 pairs of chromosomes,
Beliefs: for a total of 46
• Sex for women was just a marital duty
• Ejaculating more than once would greatly
weaken a man, therefore masturbation
leads to blindness, insanity, and death.
• Through the years and in the 20th
century, interest in sexuality became
more evident and accepted in the society.
• This is the period of controlled and natural
contraception, increase STI, and the rise of
feminism.

BIOLOGICAL
3. Sociobiological/Evolutionary Natural
2. Biological The function of reproductive selection
system is essential to the understanding of
sexuality - is a process by which organisms are best
suited to their environment are most
likely to survive.
4. Psychological
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- According to Freud, human beings are faced with
two forces (sex instinct, libido) and
(death/aggressive instinct) Sternberg’s Triangular
John Lee’s Love Styles Three Phases of Love
• To Freud, anything that gives pleasure is Theory of Love

sex. • Intimacy • Eros • Lust


• Commitment • Agape • Attraction
Psychosexual Stage of Development: • Passion • Storge • Attachment
• Ludus
Oral stage • Combination of the 3 • Mania
Anal Stage creates 7 kinds of love • Pragma

Phallic stage
Latency stage
Genital stage

Erogenous zones
- areas of the body that produce pleasure and
provoke erotic desire.

5. Religious
Judaism - they hold a positive and natural look
toward marital sex which they consider as
blessed by God and pleasurable.
Muslim - men are allowed to have up to four
wives, but Muslim women can only have one
husband.
Taoism - Sex is not only natural and healthy, but
a sacred union to balance male and female energy. STERNBERG’S TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
Hinduism - sexuality is seen as spiritual force
Roman Catholic Church - Marriage is purely for 1. Intimacy. Desire to give and receive
intercourse and procreation. emotional closeness, supports caring and
• Pope John Paul II confirmed the sharing.
idea that married couples should 2. Passion. Hot component of love; intensely
engage in intercourse only for the romantic or sexual desire for another
purpose of procreation as 1995 in person usually accompanied by physical
the Evangelicum Vitae. attraction and physiological arousal.
3. Commitment. Cold component of love. It
THE CHEMISTRY OF LUST, LOVE AND is the decision to maintain the
ATTACHMENT relationship through good times and bad
times.
• Attraction is a characteristic that causes Several types of love based on the above
pleasure or interest by appealing to a components:
person's desires or tastes, and causes one 1. Liking (intimacy). Involves emotional
to be drawn to the other. intimacy and has no passionate intention
• Culture based for long-term commitment; friendly
relationship.
2. Infatuation (passion). Associated with a
high degree of physiological arousal;
Usually called "love at first sight”
3. Empty love (commitment). This involves
only commitment. A relationship with no
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intimacy and passion. Couples only stay 3. Storge - This is love-related friendship
together for their children or other and based on nonsexual affection. Storgic
important reasons. lovers don't suddenly fall in love with an
4. Romantic love (passion and intimacy). idealized lover.
present during the first phase of a 4. Ludus - For ludic lovers, love is just a
relationship characterized by emotional game, something for fun or entertainment.
intensity and sexual excitement.5 5. Mania - This is characterized by an intense
5. Companionate love (intimacy and feeling which may lead to obsessive and
commitment) experienced in long deeply possessive love towards the loved one.
committed friendship or marriage where 6. Pragma - This is a practical and business-
passion has faded. It is more durable than like love. Love is based on what is
romantic love and may grow over time. appropriate.
6. Fatuous love (passion and
commitment). experienced by couple
who spent a short time in courtship and
suddenly decided to get married.
7. Consummate love (passion, intimacy
and commitment) There exists a healthy THREE PHASES OF ROMANTIC LOVE
balance of passion, intimacy and
commitment shared by couples
considered to be ideal for each other.

JOHN LEE'S LOVE STYLES

1. Eros - Love is based on strong sexual and


emotional component. This type of love
creates initial excitement of a new Hormones that are high when we are in love
relationship. Oxytocin and vasopressin - important in trust,
• Kilig; spark empathy, and close relationship.
2. Agape - This is altruistic and selfless love. Kilig
The person shows his love without 1. Dopamine (DA) and Norepinephrine
expecting to receive the same in return. (NE) are neurotransmitters that are
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involved in mood, motivation, attention 2. Solitary behaviour is self-masturbation
and excitement; same hormone involved or self-stimulation with the intention of
in addiction causing sexual arousal, a feeling of
2. Serotonin is a neurotransmitter that has pleasure and often results in orgasm.
been associated with mood, obsession, sex 3. Masturbation is treated differently in
and sleep; happy hormone different cultures.
3. Phenylethylamine (PEA) is a 4. Society's response to it may vary
neurochemical that can increase the levels depending on the age or sex of the
of DA and NE especially in the pathways participant, and where or when it occurs.
involving mood and pleasure; love drug 5. If masturbation begins to interfere with
4. Oxytocin and vasopressin your life such as frequently missing work
neuropeptides released from the pituitary. or social engagements - then it is a sign
It is also important in trust, empathy, and that a person has a problem.
close relationship. 6. Sexual orientation is a person's
5. Endorphins were named for predisposition or inclination regarding
"endogenous morphine," the body's sexual behavior, emotional attachment or
natural opiates, similar to the man-made physical attraction to one or both sexes.
drugs morphine or heroin. 7. The phrase 'sexual orientation' is
preferred over 'sexual preference' which
Masters and Johnson’s Phases of Sexual implies a conscious or deliberate choice of
response a sexual partner.

TYPES OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION

1. Homosexual refers to a person whose


sexual orientation is toward another of the
same sex. For example, lesbian and gay
Plateau Resolution
• 1st level • 3rd level 2. Heterosexual is a person whose sexual
• initial signs of
sexual arousal
• 2nd level • climax and
release
• 4th level orientation is toward others of the
• physical • Return to lower
arousal levels opposite sex.
intensifies
Excitement Orgasm 3. Bisexual is a person who may be sexually
oriented to both men and women.
4. Pansexual is a new sexual orientation of
persons who are sexually attracted to
persons regardless of their sex or gender.
1. "pan" is a Greek word for "all or
every.”
2. they may also be attracted to
DIVERSITY OF SEXUAL BEHAVIOR transgender, transsexuals,
androgynous and other gender
• Human sexual behaviour is any activity, categories .
solitary, by pair or by group which induces 5. The transgender according to DSM
sexual arousal. (2013), refers to the broad spectrum of
1. Sociosexual behaviour is sexual individuals who transiently or persistently
behaviour involving more than one identify with a gender different from
person. It is generally expressed in their natal gender.
heterosexual and homosexual behavior. 6. Transsexual denotes an individual who
• orgy seeks, or has undergone, a social
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transition from male to female or female
to male, which in many, but not all, cases
also involve a somatic transition by cross-
sex hormone and genital surgery (sex
reassignment surgery).
7. In the clinical viewpoint, a person is
suffering from gender dysphoria if there
is a clinically significant distress that may
accompany the incongruence between
one's expressed gender or gender identity
and one's assigned gender.

METHODS OF CONTRACEPTION
HORMONE METHODS

1. Hormonal method of contraception


Hormonal method
of contraception
Barrier Methods Behavioral Methods (prevents the release of an egg or ovulation)
•Oral contraceptives •Diaphragm •Rhythm or
a. Oral contraceptives (Pills) – These are daily
(Pills) •Cervical Caps Calendar Method oral contraceptives. Some contain estrogen
•The patch •Male and Female •Abstinence or
•The ring Condoms or celibacy and progestogen;
•Implants spermicides •Outercourse • 99% effective
•Injectable •Withdrawal
b. The patch - it is a small patch you stick on to
the skin that releases estrogen and
progestogen. 99% effective
c. The ring - The contraceptive vaginal ring is a
small plastic ring a woman inserts into her
vagina every month and releases hormones
to stop ovulation. 99% effective
d. Implants - The contraceptive implant is a
small flexible rod that is placed under the
skin of the upper arm by a health
professional and releases progestogen to
stop ovulation.
e. Injectable - The contraceptive injection
which is a long-acting reversible
contraception. 99% effective

BARRIER METHODS
2. Barrier Methods - (methods that physically
or chemically block the sperm from reaching
an egg and provide a barrier between direct
skin to skin contacts)
a) Diaphragm - It is a soft dome made of latex
or silicone and is used with spermicide. It is
put into the vagina to cover the cervix and is
92-96% effective
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b) Cervical Caps - similar to the diaphragm, 5. Intrauterine Device (IUD) –
though they are generally always made of It is a small device that is placed in the uterus
silicone. They are put into the vagina to by a doctor to prevent pregnancy.
cover the cervix and are 92-96% effective 6. Emergency Contraception (EC) –
c. Male and Female Condoms or spermicides It is a measure that protects against
— Male condom is made up of thin latex put pregnancy after unprotected sex has already
over the penis to stop the sperm from occurred.
entering vagina. 98% effective
• The female condom is made of thin Human Immunodeficiency Virus
polyurethane that loosely lines the
vagina and stops sperm from Cross species transmission - humans contracted
HIV from chimpanzees, probably by butchering
entering. 95% effective
them for bush meat; Chimps were infected by
eating infected monkeys; - Lovgren, 2003
BEHAVIORAL METHODS
Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome
3. Behavioral Methods
a. Rhythm or Calendar Method — It is a Immune System - Body’s system of defense
way to determine a woman’s most fertile Soldiers of the body
and infertile times by charting the
menstrual cycle. It is also known as natural How does the HIV affect the body?
family planning or fertility awareness.
b. Abstinence or celibacy — It refers to the HIV attacks the T-Cells or CD4 cells.
avoidance of sexual intercourse. Immune cells are slowly destroyed,
c. Outercourse — It is a sexual activity that weakening the immune system.
does not include the insertion of the penis Person living with HIV is more likely to
into the vagina. contract other infections and cancers.
d. Withdrawal (Latin — coitus interruptus)
— It happens when a man removes his
penis from the vagina and ejaculates
outside of the woman's body.

STERILIZATION

4. Sterilization (procedures that make an


individual permanently incapable of
conceiving or fertilizing a partner)
a. Tubal ligation I sterilization —It is the
surgery for woman in which fallopian
HIV has no cure,
tubes are tied to prevent eggs from
but there’s a treatment!
travelling to the uterus so a woman cannot
get pregnant.
Antiretroviral Therapy
b. Vasectomy — It is an operation in which
the surgeon makes a small cut in the upper
Combination of antiretroviral drugs (ARV)
part of the scrotum then ties or blocks the
to maximally suppress the HIV virus and
vas deferens. Men can still have orgasm or
stop the progression of HIV disease.
ejaculation after the operation.
Prevents the onward transmission of HIV
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Used to be called Sexually Transmitted
Disease (STD)
Transmitted primarily through sexual
contact, but may also be transmitted
through non-sexual means
here are at least two reasons people think
they are different: Curability: Some people
use the term STD to refer to illnesses that
can't be cured (like genital warts)
and STI to refer to illnesses that can be
cured (like Chlamydia).
FALSE ACCUSATIONS Sexually transmitted infections (also
known as STIs, or STDs for ‘sexually
You can get an HIV infection through kissing? transmitted diseases,’ or VD for ‘venereal
You can get an HIV infection from insect bites diseases’) are infections that are
Only homosexuals spread HIV. commonly/have a high probability of
being spread from person to person
through sexual contact.The term STI is
broader and more encompassing because
some infections are curable and may not
cause any symptoms. If the infection
results in altering the typical function of
the body, it is then called a disease. So
that’s why you may hear people say STIs –
it’s technically more accurate and also
reminds people that there are often no
4 Body Fluids That Can Transmit HIV symptoms so it’s important to get tested.

Bacteria
Syphilis
Gonorrhea
Chlamydia.
Viral
Genital warts
3 Modes of HIV Transmission Genital herpes
Genital molluscum
- Infected Blood and Blood Products HIV
- From Infected Mother-to-Child Hepatitis B
Transmission
- Unprotected Penetrative Sex with an Molluscum contagiosum (MC),
Infected Partner sometimes called water warts, is a viral
infection of the skin and occasionally of the
4 Conditions of HIV Transmission ESSE mucous membranes. ... The virus that
causes molluscum contagiosum is
Sexually Transmitted Infection spread from person to person by touching
the affected skin.
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hep·a·ti·tis B a severe form of viral
hepatitis transmitted in infected blood,
causing fever, debility, and jaundice

Protozoa
en.wikipedia.org
Plural protozoans or protozoa. Any of a large
group of one-celled organisms (called protists)
that live in water or as parasites.
Many protozoans move about by means of
appendages known as cilia or
flagella.Protozoans include the amoebas,
flagellates, foraminiferans, and ciliate

Trichomonas

Fungal

Candidiasis

Skin Parasites
Pubic Lice
Scabies - scabies a contagious skin
disease marked by itching and
small raised red spots, caused by
the itch mite

Common Signs & Symptoms of STIs

- Painful Urination
- Severe Itchiness
- Yellowish/ abnormal Discharge
- Pain During Sex
- Genital Ulcerations
- Abdominal Pain

ABC’s of HIV Prevention


A - Abstinence
B - Be Mutually Faithful
C - Correct and Consistent Use of Condoms
D - Don’t do drugs
E - Educate yourself

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