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You are presented with 12 situations that you are likely to encounter in your
personal or professional lives. Each situation has five possible responses.
Allocate 10 points between each possible response, with the highest number
of points indicating your strongest response. You can allocate the 10 points as
you wish as long as the total for each situation is 10
Example
(If you feel extremely strongly about a particular response you can allocate 10 for one
response and 0 for the others).
You will find that situations 1-6 focus on your individual reactions and feelings
when faced with conflicts, whilst 7-12 concentrate more on how you interact in
a group setting.
This is NOT a test and the questionnaire is helpful to you only in so far as you
accurately represent your characteristic responses. Try not to think too much
about the question. Be wary of answering how you would like to be in an ideal
world as opposed to how you really are!
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SITUATION 1
Upon experiencing strong feelings in a conflict situation you would:
Points
A Enjoy the emotional release and exhilaration
SITUATION 2
Consider the following statements and rate them of how characteristic
they are to your personal beliefs:
(give the highest points to the answer that is closest to what you believe)
Points
A Life is conquered by those who believe in winning
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SITUATION 3
What is the best result you can expect from a conflict?
Points
A Conflict helps people face the fact that one answer is better than
others
SITUATION 4
When you are the person with the greater authority in a conflict you
would:
Points
A Be very clear in expressing your opinions letting the others know
your viewpoint
C Ask to hear the other feelings and seek to find a position both might
be willing to accept
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SITUATION 5
When someone you care for takes an unreasonable position you would:
Points
A Tell them directly that you don’t like what they’re doing
B Let them know casually and subtly that you are not pleased,
perhaps distract with humour or try to avoid a direct clash
SITUATION 6
When you become angry at a friend or a colleague you would:
Points
A Just explode without giving it much thought
D Compensate for your anger by acting the opposite of how you are
feeling
E Remove yourself from the situation
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SITUATION 7
When you find yourself disagreeing with other members of a group on
an important issue you would:
Points
A Stand by your convictions and defend your position
SITUATION 8
When a single group member takes a position in opposition to the rest
of the group you would:
Points
A Point out publicly that the dissenting member is blocking the rest of
the group and move on without them if necessary
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SITUATION 9
When you see a conflict emerging in a group you would:
Points
A Push for a quick decision and ensure the task is completed
SITUATION 10
In handling conflict between your group and another you would:
Points
A Anticipate areas of resistance and prepare responses to objections
prior to open conflict
D Promote harmony or the grounds that the only real result of conflict
is the destruction of friendly relations
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SITUATION 11
In selecting a representative of your group to represent you in
discussions with another group you would choose a person who:
Points
A Has a good knowledge of your position and would press vigorously
for your point of view
SITUATION 12
In your view what is the most likely reason for one group to fail to
co-operate with another?
Points
A Lack of a clearly stated position or failure to back up the group’s
position
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HOW TO SCORE YOUR QUESTIONNAIRE
Fill in the table below using the points you distributed in each situation.
A B C D E
Situation 1
Situation 2
Situation 3
Situation 4
Situation 5
Situation 6
Situation 7
Situation 8
Situation 9
Situation 10
Situation 11
Situation 12
TOTALS
(Should add
up to 120)
A B C D E
EVALUATION
5TH
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The main conflict styles can briefly be described as follows:
1. PROBLEM SOLVER
2. COMPROMISER
3. ACCOMODATOR
4. CONTROLLER
Takes the necessary steps to ensure that his or her personal goals are met,
whatever the cost to the relationship involved. Conflict is involved as a win or
lose proposition, with winning equated with status and competence; this is a
power oriented mode in which you use whatever power seems most
appropriate to win your own position.
5. AVOIDER
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Katz and Lawyer suggest that what determines the style is the level of value
attached to relationships, and the personal goals of the parties concerned; a
high concern for both will result in a collaborator style; a high concern for
relationships but a low concern for personal goals will result in an
accommodator; a high for personal goals but a low concern for relationships
will produce a controller; a low concern for both, an avoider; and a mid-point
for both, a compromiser.
SCORING GRAPH
CONCERN
FOR Compromiser
RELATIONSHIPS
Avoider Controller
(source for this exercise; N Katz and John Lawyer, Communication and
Conflict Resolution Skills, 1985 p 96.)
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