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1. How do the individual’s feelings about socialization differ from your own?

All of us have different feeling in socialization. Some of us do not like socialization, and some of
the people enjoy socializing. In socialization there are types that called introvert and extrovert,
introvert means who likes being alone and extrovert means who likes socializing. I know
someone who likes socializing, and what makes me different from that person is that I am in
the middle, I like being alone and yet I also like socializing in people, depending on the
situation.

2. How does the individual’s concept of self, compare with yours?


I asked a friend of mine about her idea of self, and as I have observed and learned that her idea
of self is somewhat different from mine. For her, the concept of self is an understanding of
yourself that
is based on your thought, body image, and knowing your behavior. For me, the concept of self
is about understanding yourself based on how your experience or your challenges reflect in
you. As I grow older, I have faced a lot of experiences and challenges in my life, and because of
those I learned about myself. I learned about my behavior, attitude, how I act on others, how I
socialize, and who I
really am.

3. To what extent do the individual’s values and attitudes differ from yours?
Some people are not aware about the difference of values and attitude from others, and some
people also cannot accept the deference of their values and attitude from others. It is
important to have awareness about your values and attitude, and based on the challenges that
I have experience, I am now aware about my values and attitude from others. Now I know how
different my values and attitude from others, and the only solution is that to respect and
understand their values and
attitude.

4. Which of your behaviors did the individual have difficulty understanding or accepting?
Which of his or her behaviors did you have difficulty with?
Before I developed myself, I am not aware about my behavior. Someone I know have a
misunderstanding because of my behavior that time. We talked about my behavior, and I
listened, then I realize that I am being selfish. Now that I am aware about that, I want to lose
my selfishness, that is why I change my behavior for good. The behavior that I have difficulty in
that person is that being he’s easily upset of something. It is difficult for me to understand, but I
also manage to understand by talking to that person.

5. Which of the individuals you interacted with did you find most like you? Most unlike you?
Can you identify your points of similarity and difference?
There is a friend I interacted who is most like me, we have the same mood, vibe, habit, and
taste especially when it comes to food. I like this friend because we can easily get along. There
is also a friend of mine I interacted who is most unlike me, the way that person act is quite
different from me. Her likes, vibe, values, and attitude are quite different from mine. But even
though we are not similar I still considered her as a friend because I know every one of us are
different.

6. In what ways did the individual’s nonverbal behavior differ from your own?
The person’s nonverbal behavior is different from mine when we have a different belief and
attitude. We act based in our beliefs and attitude, and that is why we have different nonverbal
behavior.

7. In what ways did the individual’s use of verbal language differ from your own?
The persons verbal language is different from mine when we have a different opinion. She/he
have a different perspective from mine, that is why we have a different opinion in something.

8. In what ways did the individual’s nonverbal behavior differ from your own?
The person’s nonverbal behavior is different from mine when we have a different belief and
attitude. We act based in our beliefs and attitude, and that is why we have different nonverbal
behavior.

9. How did the individual’s treatment of time and space differ from your own?
The individual’s time and space are different from mine depends on how we use it. Some
people are wasting their time and use the space away from people for some reasons. Some
people also think that life is short that is why they should not waste time and enjoy the life. Fe
me, I am one of those people who should not waste time, I use this time to achieve my goal in
life and to live happy, and I use space as my boundary to focus on my goal.

10. In what ways did the individual’s thinking processes differ from yours?
The individual’s thinking processes is different from mine because we have our own
perspective. My perspective is different from a person. For example, when you and your friend
have a misunderstanding, both of you cannot decide who is wrong because you two have a
different perspective. You think that he/she is wrong because s/he said something hurtful, your
friend also think that you are wrong because you did something wrong to her.

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